Rahul says: August 7, 2015 at 11:56 pm
hello everyone please help me…I am a Hindu boy and I have a Muslim gf we are in relationship since last 4 years we are too young to marriage.my gf thinks we don’t have a future so we should leave each other. we both love each other so much she thinks if we will stay toegther my life will destroy. I want to spend my whole life with her she wants too.
it’s a family problem my family will accept her as muslim but her family will not yes I dont want her to convert her religion please help me how to convience her family she doesn’t want to hurt her family we both cry alot we both want to live with each other forever….what if we both convert to Christian so that we can marry
help me please me nahi chata wo apni family ke against jaye main use jane bhi nhI dunga me chata hun uske gharwale man jaye please help me to convince her family -Rahul
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Converting to Islam from Hinduism is the equivalent of a bird flying freely to being caged- and that too in the rusted and filthy cage. Go ahead and convert- only then you’ll understand how broad-minded your community was and the insane level of intolerance of your adopted community. Well, by that time you would have been sucked well into the cult and you’ll also become one of the rioters on the street chanting slogans against your own motherland.
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dear rahul, it is nt possible to marry a muslim girl without u cnvrting into muslim. .otherwise her family vl gt hurt and vl get shame frm deir muslim society.
I was in ur same situation few months ago, my gf is also muslim, we wanted to get married keeping aside rlgn, bt hr family insisted, then few months passee nothing really progressed, i posted 2 times in this forum, then i decided to solve my prblm by concentrating on the issues that came betwn us, so i decided to study islam as i didn’t wanted my gf to hurt her faith or hr family for our love, so aftr going through islam it convncd me n i hv cnvrtd to islam which made our marriage very easy, next sunday i.e. 16th august is our marriage day.
Otherwise u hv to elope ur gf frm hr parents, as there is no other option.
Rahul,
We hope you are not a weak minded like Akash. He would not have converted but he converted out of pressure.
Is this logical when one set of parents get religious fanatic and you reward them by converting? Should this World reward to most religious fanatics (like ISIS and Bin Laden)? Is it not a time to stand up and say enough is enough? Who will teach Muslims to be moderate? We hope you are the one. Because your parents are open minded and considerate, is it logical that you throw dirt in their eyes by converting? Why your parents don’t have heart and prestige in their society but only Muslim parents have prestige?
//We hope you are not a weak minded like Akash. He would not have converted but he converted out of pressure.//
Admin says akash is weak mind..
Read here about akash..is he converted by heart of by pressure
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8853&cpage=1#comment-357008
now u only decide.. admin or akash
LOL 🙂 Admin, so Akash is weak minded as he converted to islam while Shakira Khan became Hindu from muslim and you didn`t call her weak minded, why?
Clear double standard from Admin`s side
rahul
the problem not in her family
you had been awaring that she is muslim for 4 years
and that your marriage is sin in islam for 4 years
and the side to be against his religion is her not you for 4 yaers
that is the side to sacrifice is her not you for 4 years
after all this long time …..just now you come and say their family will not accept !!!!!!!!
do not tell me that you did not know all these truths..for 4 years
why did you let this relation to be deeper and deeper ..
you do not to convert to islam ..ok …simple ..leave her
it is not the end of the world
also it is her mistake to let such relation to start …to continue ..to last 4 years
…and she knew already ..what it means
Good points.
If religion is important for any one of couple in interfaith love, they have think of religion on the first day, not after 4 years. Actually we have created this site to make all youths realize that interfaith marriage problems are real, do not underestimate it.
dear ahmad noor,
I knew it from the beginning I don’t care about religion she doesn’t too but now these days she is getting depressed about our relationship she wants me but she doesn’t wanna hurt her family we both need help
Rahul,
Learn the art of negotiation. If you get loose, she will (love) pressure you to convert. However, if you are firm, she will ultimately realize truth and will settle for what you are. Stay what you are and let her be what she is. After marriage, you give extra love to her parents and they will ultimately start loving (even as a Hindu) you.
Don’t convert a rose to carnation. If she wants a carnation, ask her to go to a Mosque and find a Muslim who is performing namaz five times a day. Simple! Stay firm.
Admin, again partiaility, what you gain by being so unjust? You included ‘koran on hindus’ , why not ‘vedas/gitas on muslims’?
I leave it to readers.
This Hindu believes “my family will accept her as muslim”, so what is wrong with it? Why you want them to teach something worst?
Admin, will Rahul`s family agree to this https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10068
Hi Rahul, can you answer this valid question?
dear mac,
we both respect all religions we will manage these things this is not a big thing we know if we maary each other we have to sacrifice everything these things are not important so much
and about my family they will be happy to know that I am happy they really don’t care about these things they will bless us I have my family support that’s why I am too confident
Islam is very restrictive religion. There is very limited freedom like you will find in Hinduism. There Mullahs has so much power and will not let you live as what you are. Keep off from them.
Rahul,
Yours is a typical question at this site. There are some 400+ youths just like you.
Since you said you are young, told to two sets of parents and in relationship for 4 long years, we assume you are somewhere in the West. If this is true, this is good news. Now you need is 1) patience and 2) education.
On 1), you said you are young. So what is a rush to get married now? Enjoy the relationship as you have for past 4 years and continue for additional 4 years. Once you are done with your education and both are financially independent, you are king/queen to decide for your lives.
On 2) Read all that is recommended above. Best way to learn is to teach. For next month, come to this site and comment on each and every Hindu-Muslim lover’s case. While helping them, you will realize what is right and wrong for the path you are taking. It’s all free and you could do it from your living room. Does it make sense? Keep in touch!
dear admin,
thanks for your advice
but can you help me how to convience her parents
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