MG says: February 5, 2014 at 4:49 am
Funny you (Admin) mentioned UK, now I am a catholic and my girlfriend is muslim, both of us were born and raised here and we’re both Asians, we got together 6 years ago and at the point it was agreed that she didn’t have an issue with the religion, I have met her brothers who did want me to convert if I wanted to marry her but i refused, told them this is the 21st century and not some medieval period, now ever since then she has been getting beaten up regularly by her mum and she refuses to call the police because of family honour, to me it was like stop saying that! Anyways its come down to her getting a proposal and she told me last month that she refuses to leave home/get beaten up anymore simply cos I havent converted which i felt was foolish.
I felt robbed of my last 6 years this was the person I gave a big chunk of my life, we’re not teenagers we’re in our 30′s and still I feel that fear is instilled in her and I can confirm that she is absolutely terrified of her mum, even I am afraid to talk to her mum simply because I dont want her beaten up so its like what do I do now, thing is whether the muslim community lives in the UK or the US or India they way of thinking is backwards. The only thing they have against me is the fact that Im a catholic nothing else! The mind boggles! -MG
Admin says:
Dear MG,
We feel your pain. Yes, it is sad that you end up wasting precious 6 years of your life. Unfortunately, we are still living in the medieval period, even after education or moving to UK.
On one side she told you earlier “she didn’t have an issue with the religion”, however now she is telling you that “beaten up … simply cos I haven’t converted.” She is not foolish but is a love-proselytizer love-Jihadi. Alternatively, she is so weak minded that she has no courage fighting injustice in her home. Why will you wish to marry such person any ways?
Give her this post’s URL (https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7610) and ask her to read it herself for what others think of her and her elite society. Hopefully, others may be able to give her strength to get over current brutality at home.
It is sad that you did not come to this site 6 years before, otherwise we would have told you that this day would come without doubt. Nothing has changed from the medieval period!
We hope you will join this site educating other youths just like you. Together, we could make some difference. -Admin
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Thanks for your reply admin whilst I do agree with the fact that she is of weak mind I am not I just dont feel its right converting for the sake of it,you can fool anyone but you can’t fool urselves thats what my elders taught me. I can understand everything except this violence why do these people resort to violence for everything,some may say the women are timid in thier religion and I would beg to differ! Her mom is one of the most adamant bigot who I have ever come across, I just want to know what can be done to salvage this and if it can is it worth it? Thanks again
MG,
If you really care for her and has strength to do that is right, we will work with you. Answer to your question what what can be done is EDUCATION. Ask her to come to this site to get educated for who is God what are all these man-made religions? Is she communicating with you by e-mail/web?
Remind her that her other option is to marry a guy who performs namaz in a mosque five times a day and probably from Pakistan or some middle Eastern countries, is she ready for it? Considering she is an adult and lives in UK, it will be lots easy. Is she working outside home? If not, help her find a job and be financially independent. We hope to work with you. Get back to us.