Rahul says: September 22, 2015 at 1:19 pm
Hi, I am a Hindu in love with a Christian girl(Jacobite). She feels that if we get married without me converting, the church will not allow her to do the last rites of her parents as she will get excommunicated. I am not interested to convert and nor do I expect her to. My question is that if we get married as per the special marriage act in india, will the church excommunicate her? Will that not be unlawful for the church to stop the daughter from doing last rites. Please share your feedback. Thanks -Rahul
Admin says:
Rahul,
Being a Hindu, you will not believe how much control religious leaders have on these Christians and Muslims. They are hooked (like a fish) by this Judgment Day (a bait) theory. They will do any thing to secure their good position in Heaven. Believe us, you have a big trouble waiting for you if you don’t convert. Every day she sees you, she thinks you as a sinner. She will not rest till you wash out that sin.
As per Christianity, all human beings are born sinner. This original sin can be washed away only by baptism. In this theory, Mahatma Gandhi, your parents and you are all sinners. Tell her that you are not a sinner and there is no need to wash your sin!
You asked, “will the church excommunicate her?”, answer is yes.
You asked, “Will that not be unlawful for the church to stop the daughter from doing last rites”, no, there is nothing illegal. The church is an independent entity and they could run it as they wish (as per their faith).
Now is the time to educate her. We have written a lot and read (below) it all to educate her. Tell her that believing in this sin business and Judgment Day is sin. Tell her that there are 36,000 Christian denominations and you will find a different church (at a right price) to perform the final rites.
Learn the art of negotiation. There is no end to her expectations. Put a dead stop on it. Tell her, “I am not interested to convert” and further our children will also not convert (most important). Take it or leave it. Stop calling her for 3 months. You will realize that, all of a sudden, she will soften and get ready to do any thing you ask. Try!
Don’t be fool by her church! -Admin
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Hi Admin,
I am a hindu guy and loving a christian girl (Pentcostal).
i am going to church for more than a year and planning to be baptized.
Her parents have accepted our love and my parents are not.
so, i want to know, is there any AG churches in bangalore giving marriage without bridegroom’s parents?
Please inbox me with the details, if any.
Thanks in Advance.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10776
Hi ,
I am a Hindu guy in love with Christian girl for last 2 years. Her parents are accepted for our love but my parents are not accepting the love. She is willing to convert as Hindu and do the marriage as Hindu spritual and also she promises that she won’t go to church after marrying me. In spite of all these promises my parents are not accepting our love . I am not interested doing marriage without my parents acceptance and she also has the same view. I dont know how to convince my parents. Please give me some tips to convince them.
Thanks in advance .
Gokul,
This is certainly difficult situation. Every parents wants a new person on their life of their choice. Even you are in love with another Hindu, your parents would act the same. So you will have to go against your parents wishes on a short run with the hope of you will make up later on.
After marriage, can you live in your own house\flat for a short while? Ask your parents for what are their most concerns with the girl, let us know.