A Suffering Hindu Woman says: August 8, 2014 at 11:51 am
Hi, I would not advice marrying a Muslim guy. I married one and now waiting to get divorced.
He was perfect before marriage. We discussed everything before marriage, from our life to children; so that there is nothing that is disagreeable. But after marriage, I discovered what my husband really is. It was as if I knew a totally different person before marriage. He never said a mean thing to me before n after marriage started beating me. He is educated, works in a MNC in top position. He is the funniest guy to all that know him, but all that is a mask. Inside, he disrespects women, has fanatic ideas and is so narrow minded it’s unbelievable.
I have known him for 7 years and we dated for 4 yrs bfr marriage still he never took off his mask, it’s only after marriage tht he showed his true colors. They don’t think like us. Wife beating is normal, even Quran says it’s ok.
Please think before u take the step of marrying a Muslim guy. Lot of people told me Muslims are this way but I never believed bfr marriage, cos I thought na he is not like this but I was wrong. And I hv suffered a lot, still suffering, I was beaten, starved, forced to pray namaz n keep rozas, and made to live in horrible living conditions.
I come from a good family n I still bore it all, thinking that I married him after so much struggle to convince my parents. I also bore it because he always promised that he will not hit me again but he continued to. Today he refuses to divorce me and calls me back saying that he wouldn’t hit me. I have nothing and it hurts so much because I loved him so much.
I gave up everything for him, my career, family, religion, name, friends, likes and still in return I didn’t even get basic respect. -A suffering Hindu Woman
Admin says:
Sorry to hear of your story. We feel like crying. Unfortunately, you are not alone. We have seen many similar stories, however it is difficult for us to educate those Hindu girls who are love-love-blinded. We thank you for speaking out. Please become a regular consultant on this web site to educate others.
Never think that he will change. For Muslims, the AFTER life is more important than THIS life. Probably he cannot understand – why you now have a golden opportunity to become a true Muslim and go to heaven in AFTER life – but you are not accepting Islam? That supremacist exclusivist ideology is making him angry on you.
You deserve something better in THIS life and thus divorce him and put a stop loss to your THIS life.
We hope you do not have any child by this marriage. Get out of this relationship ASAP. You are young and will get over this issue in a few years. Get a job and be financially independent. Keep in touch with us right here. -Admin
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What Koran says, are nothing to do in the real life. In the real life, muslim females are the most sufferers, humilated, discriminated and subject to various attrocities.
Mohammad was nothing but a rapist who did not even spare 9 year old girl to rape in the name of marriage.
U dont have any guts to tel ur name. ,
did u have any proof. .tel me. ,
If u dont have any real proof then al goes to ur religion which u hav told now. . .
u dont hav any rights to tel like this kind of words. . .
Islam never thought us to force it or to beat wife always. .
tell me clearly where it is mensioned in Quran. .dont blame to anything or religion before knowing it. .
by todays world some . .(see clearly iam saying some nt to all).muslim brothers r doing irritative things. .so its not a fault of religion, its a fault of themself who is doing a rubbish things
Islam is always truth and clean religion for all mankind
Go on, say your muslim brothers do not marry children as young as eight, say muslim brothers never opt for more than one wife, say rape does not exist in Saudi Arabia where the victims get prison sentence and floggings and say your muslim brothers respect all religions- when you’ve decided to close your mind and eye- no one can help you.
Only muslims have the heart and mind to classify all the immoral, obnoxious activities as ‘best morals’.
Suffering woman,
You were trapped as part of love jihad exclusively for sex and multiplication of muslim population.
There are several foolish girls who become soft targets from islamic criminals. Now repent whole life.
Really it is a lesson for foolish girls like you.
hi
its not good words from your side … instead of consoling you are critisizing her not good altitude
Nusrat,
You have made an excellent point. People don’t realize the pain and suffering what this lady is going through. On one side she marreid against wishes and warnings of all and now she has to hear that “we told you so” and now suffer on your own!
Every one makes a mistake in life. Some make a mistake in relationships and others relating to money, health or other points. After the mistake is already made, now this Hindu girl should be given comfort and guidance for how to deal with issues on hands.
Dear Hindu girl,
We hope you keep in touch with us. We care for you. We may not understand your pain and sufferings (probably Nusrat will understand it better) but certainly would like to help you however way possible. Don’t put yourself down. There is nothing wrong with you. Have courage. Critically think through and make a logical and rational decision. You are young and will get over all issues at hands in a short time. We will wait to hear from you right here. Best wishes.
Nusrat didi…i am in class 12th ri8 now an i am very fasinated to hear about your story…i want to knw more and I also wanted to consult you about these situations coz i dont want to loose someone i love just coz of sm religious diffrence…..
Plz contact me on valreznov@gmai.com
What is her religion?
Iam lucky in this matters , my in-laws are a little bit over stretched when it comes to islam … my husband is fine ,he is still same like he was before marriage
Your husband will be fine as long as you suppress your wish to visit a temple.
Dear readers,
This is a lesson for hindu girls who believe muslim guys and after marriage their monstrous face appears. It is rightly said that islam is a criminal ideology not a religion.
All sorts of attrocities are committed on women in the name of islam and males enjoy all sorts priveliges.