ayesha sana says: June 20, 2013 at 3:40 am
I’m very happy to read this (90% Muslim girls are marrying Christian, Hindus, Buddhist). This is the kind of info that desires to be granted and not the accidental misinformation that is at the other blogs. realize your sharing this best doc. Carry on..!!! -Ayesha Sana
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Ayesha Sana is a Pakistani actress who has appeared in film, television, and theatre performances. She graduated from Convent of Jesus and Mary in Karachi and attended Kinnaird College in Lahore, where she studied law. She went on to get an external law degree at the University of London. Sana is a single mother and has one son, named Ahad. She once hosted a Television show called Lines of Style!. In 2006, she became the host, and member of the board of executives, for the most popular PTV Show Meena Bazaar from PTV Center Lahore. In 2012, Aysha Sana exposed her second marriage with MD PTV Yousuf Baig Mirza a media tycon and friend of Asif Ali Zardari President of Pakistan. She claimed to have a son named Mohammad Mustafa Mirza, from Yousuf. She further added that yousuf sent me paper of divorce. Divorce has become effective in on 5th of July 2012. Yosuf is living with his divorced wife illegally she informed media. In this regard she showed some evident document regarding her marriage and divorce between yousuf’s divorce to his first wife Jamela. Yousuf Baig Mirza cut off Aysha from PTV.
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IN OUR TEXTS, IT IS WRITTEN THAT THERE ARE MAINLY THREE GODS (BRAHMA,VISHNU & MAHESH) WHO ARE FORMED FROM ONE GOD(ADI SHAKTI).IF THERE ARE GODS, THERE ARE DEMONS AS WELL. GOD IS SHUBH, AND DEMONS ARE ASHUB. WE OFFER FRUITS, NAIBENDYAM TO GODS TO GET THEIR BLESSINGS.AS DEMONS DO NOT HAVE ANYONE TO WORSHIP THEY ALSO WORSHIP GODS LIKE KALI, KALBHAIRABI, AND RUDRA RUP OF LORD SHIVA ETC. WHEREAS WE WORSHIP SOUMYA RUP OF LORD SHIVA. THEY NEVER WORSHIP SOUMYA (MANGALMURTI RUP) OF GODS, THEY ALWAYS WORSHIP RUDRA OR BHAYANAK MURTI OR RUP OF GOD. THAT’S WHY THEY OFFER THEM BLOOD, HEADS OF ANIMALS OR MAN, OR CHILD’S HEAD ETC, IN ORDER TO AQUIRE ENERGY FROM THEM SO THAT THEY MAY CARRY ON THEIR MISSION OF KILLING PEOPLE AND CREATE HAVOC IN THE SOCIETY. BUT AS EVERYTHING HAS AN END, THEY WILL ALSO MEET THEIR END ONCE LORD SHIVA GETS ANGRY AND CRUSHES THEM (AS HE IS THE DESTROYER-THE NATARAJA). THEIR MAIN ENEMY IS LORD VISHNU. SO THEY NEVER WORSHIP LORD VISHNU. SO IT IS WRITTEN IN BAHVAT GEETA THAT WHENEVER THERE WILL BE EVIL FORCES ON THE RISE LORD VISHNU HIMSELF SHALL TAKE BIRTH. AND LORD’S INTERNAL FORM IS VISHNU AND EXTERNAL FORM IS SHIVA. THEY ARE ONE AND THE SAME. SO YOU CAN SEE THESE HAVE BEEN THERE MANY YEARS BEFORE ALSO, AND NOW AT THE PRESENT AGE ALSO THIS IS HAPPENING. NOW THE QUESTION IS WHY DEMONS ARE THERE WHEN THEY CAN BE EASILY KILLED BY LORD SHIVA HIMSELF? THEY ARE THERE BECAUSE THERE NEEDS TO BE A BALANCE IN THE SOCIETY, WHENEVER EVILS RISES BECAUSE OF THE DEMONIC ACTIVITIES LORD SHIVA ACTS AND FINISHES THEM OFF. THE PRESENT DAYS DEMONS ARE NOTHING BUT DESENDANTS OF KANSA, RAVANA, HIRANKASHYAPS, TRIPURASUR, BHASMASUR ETC IN THEIR MODERN FORM. THAT’S WHY LORD KALKI SHALL APPEAR AND ESTABLISH THE LAW OF DHARMA. AND IN THIS AGE THESE DEMONS SHALL AQUIRE GREAT POWERS, BUT ONLY TO GET ROTTEN IN HELL LATER. ALTHOUGH SOUNDS POURANIC /PURANIC -BUT THIS IS TRUE…..
Mohammad was the false prophet. It will be more better to say that he was sex lover of child(teenager). We follower of Islam are living in dark and come forward to change the bad history of Mohammad era. It will be the only solution to become the real son of Allah. Allah is only great and not Mohammad.
hassena
ok what force you to stay in dark ….you can go to the lightened side in india ..open sex ..open relations …homosexuality ..drugs corruptions drink wine lying cheating >>you can even leave islam to any other religion no one will follow you and kill you ..for us we are not honored to see such muslim girl among us
Dear sisters,
The day of the FGM(Female genital mutiliation) is considered an important event but it is kept secret from the pre-menarche child, and then sprung upon her once the necessary preparations have been made. Senior female members of the community, relatives, traditional birth attendants (TBA’s) or occasionally healthcare workers may be called upon to carry out the procedure.
No anesthesia is used while this very sensitive part of the female body is being brutally cut and manipulated, except when the operation is being performed by a health professional who has access to anesthetics and who the required knowledge in their use.
The age at which female genital mutilation is performed varies from country to country and according to the type of mutilation being done. The SUNNA is generally the type that is performed at a very young age and may be carried out soon after birth, during the first week of life or at any time before the Menarche. In the case of EXCICION and INFIBULATION when more tissues are to be removed which entail more manipulations, the child is allowed to grow older so that the tissues intended for excision are also given a chance to grow. This gives the operator a better pinch or grip. According to the findings of our survey, it was found that the usual age when Excision and Infibulations are performed is between seven and nine years of age.
Instruments and Methods
The Instruments
•Any sharp cutting instrument such as a knife, broken glass, razor blade will do, or the operator may have somehow acquired medical instruments like a scalpel, forceps or scissors.
•The instruments may be new or may have already been used for other purposes and/or on other persons.
•Sterilization is seldom known nor performed by these traditional operators.
The Sutures
•Regular surgical Catgut, Silk or Cotton thread.
•Domestic sewing thread.
•Vegetable or nylon fiber pre-selected by the operator.
The Needles
•Regular surgical suturing needles
•(round bodied or sharp and any size)
•Domestic sewing needle.
Approximating the Wound
In some cases, instead of suturing together the raw edges of the wound, these are held together with thorns that are inserted on opposite sides of the wound and then laced together with thread and left in place for seven days or until the tissues of the wound have had time to fuse together. This type of infibulation is often practiced by nomads and agro–pastoralists.
Condition of Hands
•No gloves are worn during the operation.
•Hands may or may not be washed and in any case wet fingers are slippery and should the operator have difficulty in pinching the skin being removed, it is not unlikely for the operator to wipe his/her hands on the thighs of the child or even on the sand on the ground in order to dry them and thus improve dexterity!
•The operator allows his/her nails to grow as they are used as pincers during operations. Rings, amulets and other hand ornaments are rarely removed, as these items are not recognized by the traditional healer as likely sources of contamination.
Clothes and Bedding
Since bleeding will occur and since there will be some secretions for some days, the family usually finds an old mat or floor covering that can later be discarded.
Sometimes sand is placed on the mat under the buttocks of the child in order to absorb blood and other secretions.
In the case of more affluent or educated families, they may be more likely to be aware of the risks of infection and usually such families would have clean sheets and also gauze pads to absorb any blood or secretions from the wound.
The Operation Itself
The child is made to squat on a stool or mat facing the operator at a convenient height that offers the operator a good view of the parts to be handled. This is important for the operator is often an elderly person whose sight may be impaired and who may find bending over difficult.
Understandably, it is vital for the child to be held as still as possible in order to avoid inflicting cuts other than those intentionally being carried out for the purpose of Infibulation. For this, adult helpers grab and pull apart the legs of the little girl. Usually, two persons grab one leg each and also hold down her hips; a third person holds back the head and torso. To prevent kicks, the child’s legs are held back by tying a rope to each of her ankles which is then tied to her thighs thus keeping each leg in a tightly flexed position in what can roughly be described as a modified and forced Trendenlenberg.If available, this is the stage at which a local anesthetic would be used.
The element of speed and surprise is vital and the operator immediately grabs the clitoris by pinching it between her nails aiming to amputate it with a slash. The organ is then shown to the senior female relatives of the child who will decide whether the amount that has been removed is satisfactory or whether more is to be cut off. After the Clitoris has been ‘satisfactorily’ amputated, and also after the female relatives have ‘ululated’ to let those outside know that the business at hand is progressing well, the operator can then proceed with the total removal of the labia minora and the paring of the inner walls of the labia majora . Since the entire skin on the inner walls of the Labia Majora has to be removed all the way down to the perineum, this becomes a very messy business as the child who is by now screaming and struggling is also bleeding profusely making it difficult for the operator to hold with bare fingers and nails the slippery skin and the parts that are to be cut or sutured together.
It needs to be stressed here that it is important for the wound to heal by first intention not only to protect the child from a repeat operation, but also mainly to preserve the popularity of the operator who would otherwise acquire a bad reputation and also would lose future potential clients if the wounds that she handles do not heal well. Having made sure that sufficient tissue has been removed to permit the desired fusion of the skin, the operator pulls together the opposite sides of the labia majora, ensuring that the raw edges where the skin had been removed are well approximated. The wound is now ready to be stitched or for thorns to be applied.
If a needle and thread are being used, close tight sutures will be placed to ensure that a flap of skin covers the vulva and extends from the Mons Veneris to the Perineum and which, after the wound heals, will form a bridge of scar tissue that will totally occlude the vaginal entroitus. A small hole having the diameter of a matchstick will be left un-stitched in order to permit the flow of urine and vaginal secretions. If thorns are being used, an equal number would have been inserted into each side of the labia majora, and a string would then be used to pull the thorns together and thus bring the raw edges of the labia majora together. The string would be wound in the same way that sports shoes with hooks are laced. If the female genital cutting is being done by a person who has some knowledge of dressing wounds, they would apply regular medical disinfectants.
After the stitching, a raw egg is broken over the wound, which is then sprinkled, with whatever herbs, sugar or concoction that were prepared according to the dictates of the local custom, or the practice of the ‘operator’. This concoction, consisting of egg, herbs, sugar, and the blood of the child, would all clog together and form a crust over the sutures or the strips of cloth holding the thorns together. One can only wonder why more girls do not develop infections after this rich culture medium for bacteria has been placed between the legs of these little girls. In order to prevent leg movement, the child’s legs are bound together from the hips down to her toes and the child is then made to lie on her side.
No dressing is used and the legs are kept together for a week after which the leg bindings are slightly loosened and the child allowed taking small steps. The leg bindings will be removed altogether after a further week. To ascertain that the urethra has not been accidentally closed, either by a blood clot or suture, the child is encouraged to urinate a few hours after the operation. Whether sutures or thorns were inserted, these will be removed on the seventh day but only after the operator is satisfied that the two sides of the labia majora have fused together and that the remaining hole for urination is not wider than three to five millimeters in diameter.
De–infibulation at the Time of Marriage
The closure of the introitus must be reopened at the time of marriage so that the woman is able to have sexual intercourse. The opening up of the infibulation occurs as part of a ceremony and in the presence of female members from the bride and groom’s families to verify that the bride is a virgin at the time of marriage. The opening of the infibulation is performed by a senior female member of the community, a TBA, or in a hospital by medical staff. Occasionally, the husband forcibly performs penetration and bursts through the scar of the infibulation.
The Dangers of FGM
FGM puts children at risk of life threatening complications at the time of the procedure as well as health problems that remain with her for life. They may suffer bleeding at the time of the procedure or develop severe infection, both of which can lead to death if not treated promptly. Those who do not develop life-threatening complications will still suffer from severe pain and trauma.
The procedure also permits the transmission of viral infections such as hepatitis which can lead to chronic liver diseases and even HIV. The women may suffer complications such as recurrent infections, pain and obstruction associated with urination and they are at higher risk of painful menstruation and intercourse, pelvic infection and difficulties in becoming pregnant. Retention of urine and recurrent infections often require repeated hospital admissions and some women carry a risk of developing nephritis. The development of cysts and keloids at the site of the scar are very common, often causing embarrassment and marital problems, and usually require surgery for removal.
During pregnancy there are many further complications that may occur as a direct result of the FGM. Labour may become obstructed and if early medical intervention is not provided this may lead to the death of both baby and mother. WHO estimates that many women giving birth die in the process, simply as a result of FGM 19. If the mother and baby survive there is the risk of damage to the vagina leading to the formation of fistulas into the bladder or bowel, which cause constant incontinence as a result of a vessico-vaginal fistula or recto-vaginal fistula. Women in this condition are often rejected by their family and become social outcasts. During the seven years that the Edna Adan Hospital has been functional, the fistulae of over 100 women have been surgically repaired. Apart from the many physical complications, the girls and women experience considerable psychological problems including depression, anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder. These psychological problems are exacerbated at the time of marriage and often lead to increased distress and fear of intercourse. If de-infibulation is performed the woman is again exposed to the life threatening complications of sepsis and bleeding, and the transmission of chronic infections such as HIV and Hepatitis and also damage to the urethra if, as is common, the operator makes an error when performing the cut.
Complications
Considering the clumsy and un-hygienic conditions under which female genital mutilation is usually performed, complications are frequent and numerous and can be classified in the order in which they are likely to occur.
Immediate
•Shock
•Fear
•Pain
•Hemorrhaging
•Other lacerations: in addition to the intentional cuts on the clitoris, labia minora and majora, there may be accidental lacerations inflicted on the child as a result of her struggles.
These cuts may involve the vagina, urethra, anus and thighs.
As a result, quite a few children are taken to hospitals for the control of hemorrhage, or for the repair of severe lacerations.
Within the first 10 days
•Infection: infection to the wound and septicaemia are often encountered and tetanus is not uncommon.
•Retention of Urine: (5 possible causes) 1.Post-Traumatic Oedema of the vulva resulting from the damages inflicted on the clitoris and labia impedes or obstructs the passage
of urine through the swollen urethra
2.Obstruction of the urethra by a blood clot or by the thorns that were inserted to hold the sides of the labia majora together.
3.Accidental suturing of the Urethra itself
4.Over-tight application of the binds that were used to keep the thighs and legs together
5.Psychosomatic urine retention out of fear and pain
•Failure to Infibulate: when the two sides of the labia majora fail to fuse, it necessitates that the child undergoes a repeat operation at
a later date.
At the onset of menstruation
•Dysmeorrhoea: when the post-infibulation vaginal whole is too small there is a constant stagnation of menstrual blood and other vaginal secretions, causing bacteria to spread into the vaginal and uterine cavities. This is likely to increase the risk of chronic pelvic inflammation that might cause the severe abdominal cramps experienced by infibulated females during menstruation
•Recurrent Urinary Tract Infection: because of the flap of skin obstructing the urethra after infibulation, urine does not jet out during micturition. Instead, it hits the flap of skin obstructing the vulva and is then sprayed back into the vagina and then trickles out in drops. This obstruction also prevents proper vaginal hygiene and drainage and causes urinary stasis which is likely to cause recurrent urinary tract infection
•Possible Second FGM: because the small artificial opening that had previously permitted the passage of urine becomes insufficient to permit the drainage of the more viscous consistency of menstrual bleeding, doctors often have to convince the parents of these girls that the small vaginal opening be enlarged to permit the flow of menstrual blood.
This the families resist because they fear that if the opening is too wide it may not be sufficient proof that their daughter is a virgin when her time comes for her to get married.
At the time of Marriage
•De-infibulation: The infibulation opening that had until then permitted the passage of urine and vaginal secretions is no longer able to permit intercourse. This will require that the husband make a forcible penetration to burst the skin obstructing the entrance to the vagina, or the opening will have to be cut open with scissors or a knife to allow the consummation of marriage
•Dyspareunia: the scar tissue that surrounds the vaginal orifice may be rigid and inelastic and can cause pain during sexual intercourse
•Infertility: because of the constant stagnation of menstrual blood and other vaginal secretions that have accumulated in the vaginal cavity, the resulting pelvic inflammation may obstruct the fallopian tubes and block the normal travel of the ovum along the tubes, preventing
it from becoming fertilized by the male spermatozoa
•Vulval keloids and dermal cysts: apart from their unaesthetic appearance, these may interfere with consummation of marriage or with childbirth during delivery
During Pregnancy
•It is not uncommon for an infibulated and pregnant woman to attend the antenatal clinic for follow up of the pregnancy or for a pregnancy related complaint and find that the opening of the infibulation will not admit the introduction of even one finger into the vagina for diagnostic and exploratory purposes. Such women will require a de-infibulation during pregnancy if complications are to be avoided at the time of delivery
During Labour and Delivery
•Caesarian: Some women arrive at the maternity hospital in labour with a very small infibulation opening. If the vagina is seen to be too rigid and scarred, and thought to be a possible cause of severe vaginal lacerations or third degree tears, it is likely that and elective caesarian section will be decided upon. If keloids have formed and are too large, a Caesarian section might be the best option to deliver this woman.
•Prolonged second stage of labour: because the vagina, perineum and the labia have all undergone mutilation that has left extensive scar
formation, the vaginal canal becomes inelastic and the pelvic floor muscles rigid. Thus preventing the normal and gradual dilation of the vagina as well as the descent of the presenting part of the child during the second stage of labour
•Foetal Complications: 1.Large caput formation
2.Excessive molding of the head
3.Intra-cranial hemorrhage
4.Hypoxia
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Muslim women should understand that apart from the Terrorists, Maulavis and Imams, the root cause of their present day situation is Muhammad and his book Quran. The Maulavis and the Terrorists are just following the footsteps of Muhammad as it serves their purpose.
Many Muslim women understand that Quran in fact venerates the Allah but it limits his powers and capability(for example Allah needs the help of a Prophet to spread His message, He works according to the recommendations of Muhammad, He is partial against women and tose who don’t follow Muhammad etc.). In fact, Muhammad has made Allah his captive. Why a non-Muslim cannot worship Allah? Who is Muhammad to stop us from asking any favour from Allah? After all everybody is His creation and Allah is impartial to see everybody with one eye.
So, Muslim women should consider themselves Imams and Maulavis and they don’t need any certificate from the male Maulavis and Imams. This will usher a new era of freedom for the Muslim women.
So, let’s worship to the Allah only, not Muhammad.
Hi readers,
Have a look on the following important facts:-
Muhammad’s 16 Wives:
1. Khadija
2. Sawda
3. Aesha
4. Omm Salama
5. Halsa
6. Zaynab (of Jahsh)
7. Jowayriyi
8. Omm Habiba
9. Safiya
10. Maymuna (of Hareth)
11. Fatema
12. Hend
13. Asma (of Saba)
14. Zaynab (of Khozayma)
15. Habla
16. Asma (of Noman)
Muhammad’s 2 concubines/slaves:
Mary (the Christian)
Rayhana
Muhammad’s 4 devoted followers who who “gave” themselves to satisfy Muhammad’s sexual desires.
Omm Sharik
Maymuna
Zaynab (a third one)
Khawla
Zaynab of Jahsh was originally Muhammad’s adopted son Zaid’s wife. The fact that Muhammad took her for himself has been problematic to many people, Muslims included. (God does not break His Own Word and He never changes His mind. Now read Sura 33:36-38).
(The vindicated prophet Moses taught under the Old Testament, that a minister could only marry a virgin or the widow of a minister (Leviticus 21:13-15). The vindicated prophet Jesus taught under the New Testament that an apostle, prophet, evangelist, pastor or teacher can marry only a virgin in the faith — because he is a type of Christ Who is uniting only with virgins to the Word.
Every prophet from Adam taught that any woman who has more than one living husband is an adulteress, and her subsequent husband is in adultery with her first husband as polygamy was legal only for the man — Genesis 3:16; Romans 7:1-3).
Aesha was only eight or nine years old when Muhammad took her to his bed. According to Hadith, she was still playing with her dolls. This facet of Muhammad’s sexual appetite is particularly distressing to Westerners.
While in Islamic countries an eight-or-nine-year-old girl can be given in marriage to an adult male, in the West, most people would shudder to think of an eight-or-nine-year-old girl being given in marriage to anyone. (Although it is condoned by the Jew’s Talmud).
This aspect of Muhammad’s personal life is something that many scholars pass over once again because they do not want to hurt the feelings of Muslims. Yet, history cannot be rewritten to avoid confronting the facts that Muhammad had unnatural desires for little girls.
Finally, Mary, the Coptic Christian, refused to marry Muhammad because she would not renounce Christianity and embrace Islam. She bravely chose to remain a slave rather than convert.
The documentation for all the women in Muhammad’s harem is so vast and has been presented so many times by able scholars that only the blind reject it
Dear readers,
I would like to emphasize the inhuman practice of female genital mutiliation(FGM) practiced in Pakistan.
In Pakistan, the act of FGM is practiced amongst all most areas and communities – one example being the Bohra Muslims. There are roughly about 100,000 Bohra Muslims in the country, mostly in the southern regions of Pakistan, such as Sindh. In recent years, due to a rise in strict sect religious compliance by the Bohra Muslims, the practice of FGM has increased. Unless the Bohra chief, known as Dai, issues a decree to forbid the act, the practice will remain firmly rooted in the people’s culture and will continue to be practiced.
Countless news reports from all over the world have provided sound proof to support the immense damage that FGM can cause.
Take, for instance, the news report about a girl who went through the traumatic ordeal of FGM at the age of six – a fact uncovered at age 12, when doctors were investigating what they thought was a cyst. However, the girl had become infertile due to years of menstrual blood being blocked, prevented from leaving her body due to the stitching of her vaginal opening.
Another report mentioned a story of a woman who went for a check-up. The midwife was examining her and suddenly ran out of the room, retching and crying after she saw the state of the patient’s genitals.
It is not just the young women of Pakistan but also British girls of Pakistani origin who are subjected to this procedure. Young British girls pack their bags with their favourite outfits, books and toys and jump with joy at the thought of six weeks of holiday with their relatives. However, many young girls are unaware that their parents are taking them to Pakistan to carry out the FGM procedure.
What clerics say
Since the State of Pakistan is an Islamic country, let’s take a look at what Islam says about the practice.
To begin with, the Holy Quran does not bear even a single mention of female circumcision. In addition to this, there is no Hadith that mandates this practice. However, some have argued that one Hadith, although not requiring it, appears to accept the practice:
“Circumcision is a commendable act for men (Sunnah) and is an honourable thing for women” (Makromah).
This Hadith is criticised on the grounds that a distinction is made between male circumcision, which is described in a stronger way, whilst a weaker explanation is offered for female circumcision, which is not required religiously.
But ask yourself: how is cutting or partially/completely removing parts of the female genitalia an honourable thing for women? What is it that makes it honourable? Is it the pain or the abnormal sight of a mutilated body?
The glaring fact is that this practice leads to a tremendous amount of pain, infections, a battle with child birth, infertility in women, and in severe cases, even death.
Sheikh Talib, Dean of the Faculty of Shariah of Al Azhar, has said:
“all practices of female circumcision and mutilation are crimes and have no relationship with Islam.”
This statement is supported by the fact that the procedure of FGM pre-dates the life of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and the beginning of Islam.
FGM is not something that “purifies” a woman or preserves their virginity. It is a practice that mutilates a woman’s body and damages her in the most appalling of ways. Parents who hold their daughters’ arms and legs down, forcing them to go through this terrible crime, are not maintaining their family’s honour. They are, in fact, severely reducing the chances of their daughter’s bearing children. They are, thus, eliminating opportunities that may bless them with future generations and eventually, they will have no trace of themselves on earth.
The message of God without any crutches of self proclaimed prophets at Times Square:
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/New-Yorks-Times-Square-becomes-yogas-Om-Sweet-Om/articleshow/20718096.cms
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Another actress of Pakistan favouring realistic steps taken by muslim girls against cruel and discriminatory behaviour.
Please ask her to share her life experience highlighting evil practices in the name of Islam. How she feels as an actress etc.
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Click on her photo above and you will know it all.