priya says: November 17, 2016
Hi….I’m a converted Christian. I love a boy and he’s pure hindu. Now on this Christmas my parents and church pastor ask me to give myself to baptism. But my lover family is hindu. I dont know what to do. My lover says don’t give urself to baptism, and if u give means then my family didn’t accept u…. I said leave me I want to go to my jesus who loves me lifelong and after my life, but he says I want u Pls. Dont love me now Im so confused pls help me. Now what things I need to do ???
Please help me I’m so confused…I need to get the detailed information….I didn’t. tell my love.mater.to my mom I.want.to get babtism.Bt. my lover is big problem to me help me -Priya
priya says: November 18, 2016
Ya my parents also converted christian….now I want to take babtism for tis Christmas but my lover is hindu his family is pure hindu he told me to don’t give urself to babtism now I dnt know Wat to do im so confused…help me from this struggle. From tomorrow I have to attend the babtism class in my church. Suppose I skip the classes and babtism means my pastor asks wats ur problems. wat to do help me pls
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Hi..I am a Hindu and I am in love with a Christian guy.His ancestors are converted from Hindu to Christian. Initially my parents were not accepting our relationship but now somehow my parents are ready to meet his parents. His parents are good but they wanted a Christian style wedding only. Even my boyfriend wanted the same.But I wanted wedding to happen in both style as I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feeling.Is this possible? Or should I convince my parents.can you suggest me how to convince them.what will be good for us?
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hii I suggest don’t go against ur parents. if u go against them and if they deeply hurt, then the curse will hunt u and whole ur family even ur children badly. so don’t compare parents love with life parner love. parents are gift of god. don’t go against them. try to marry within ur community
Hi Admin,
Your points have the best values , to the person who has the ability to think beyond faith and see the reality and truth , but I see that converted people seem so attached than the people who already reside on a religion .. is that they think their sins gonna be washed and they will go to the heaven .. I believe that brain wash after teenage seems more powerful and they tend to hold that .
Feel bad for both of u guys .. I hope u will find happiness with god ..
Every religion uses one or the other hook to keep people in. It may be good life in next reincarnation or Judgment Day and going to hell. We observed that Hindu and Buddhist are not living their day to day life in fear of having bad next life. Contrary to that, for Christians, sin is deeply installed to church goers. Muslim are not worrying about sin as much but are more fearful of Allah’s wrath after life and will do any thing to stick to Koranic teachings out of fear.
Hello everyone. I am a hindu and I love this guy who is anglo indian. He is the most amazing person I have ever met and I love him more than anything. I am also older than him by 1.5 years. I forced him to tell his parents since my college is over and I wanted his parents to know that he has a hindu girlfriend as I would like to marry him at some point. Thats where the trouble started. His mom talked to me and it was horrible. In conclusion, she wanted me to leave him. I can understand her view point. She loves his son and thinks I wont be a good match for him. But I still love him and I hope she turns around in future. His family fights with him daily for me, asking him to leave me and it hurts me to see him in such a pain. He does not deserve this. He has stopped talking about future anymore, not because he doesnt want one, but he does not know what will happen. I cant ask him to leave his parents too. I know how much they love him. He thinks we should try our best to stick till he gets a job and try again to talk to his parents. If they agree, well enough, otherwise we will part ways. I agree with this too. Every moment spent with him is enough and I would not regret it. I just want to know how to cope when he goes through such stuff at home, all the shoutings and fights. He doesnt tell me most of it, but I know something’s up with him. Can anyone tell me what can I do to go through this ?
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dear friend I am shobhit my age 25 years old I live in lucknow India I want marriage to cristain girl and I want chenge hindu to cristain.
so I want to u but u want to me so context to me my phone number xxx thats all.
Hi Shobhit,
It is interesting you expressed two wishes: 1) Marry her and 2) convert to Christianity. First, tell us why you want to convert? What you see wrong in your own faith. Did you explored Buddhism, Islam, Judaism and many other faiths over Christianity? Further, Christianity has 36000 denominations, which one you will go for… Catholic, Protestant, Mormon, Jehovah, etc; which one of 36000 types of Christians you wish to be?
Did she asked you to convert? Did you asked her to convert to your own faith? Did you talk to her and your parents? Where will you stay after marriage, with parents? Let us know and we will help.
I mean according to bible words these days are our last days so we have to go to jesus through babtism ….. his love only pure and true love so I’m going to him I said
The Bible was written some 4 decades after Jesus left and we are still here and will be here for millions of more years. Do you know these same church imprisoned Galileo because he taught that the world is not flat and we are revolving around the sun? Do you know that these churches do not believe in Darvin’s laws of evaluation, that you learned in your school? Do you know these churches killed millions of people in the name of Jesus; more people killed by Christians compared to Muslims? Do you know the same churches teach that Mahatma Gandhi will go to hell because he was not baptized? You know now Europeans don’t follow churches blindly any more and many churches are closing down? Why you are so brain-washed to believe “these days are our last days”? This is sad!
On one side you have your lover and another side the baptism. Once you start the baptism classes, that means it will be even more difficult for you to back out later. Basically, once you start this classes, means you will be baptized soon. It is your life and your choice what you should do. However, be certain that most probably your lover will not marry you, is that okay with you? You can always find a good Christian boy friend from your church.
We generally recommend not to make any decision in rush. If you are not sure for one or the other, just ask for little more time to think through. You can always get baptized later, it does not have to be this year. You Jesus will always wait. On the other side, don’t commit anything to your boy friend till you are sure what your love for Jesus will mean to your married life to that Hindu. Can you buy sometime to make an “informed” decision?
No…I want to get babtism so I break up my love tis is my decision but I felt very sry for my x lover ….I want jesus only because this is the last days of our lives ….thanks for ur words
That is okay, you have to do that is good for your life. He will have to find his love somewhere else.
Can you explain us, “this is the last days of our lives.” We are not clear what are you saying here. What is going to happen tomorrow?
Hi Priya,
We do not understand your situation. Are your parents Christians? Do you want to get baptized? So, what is the problem? What do you mean by “my lover is big problem to me”?