To marry someone with the same religion is better

This site has been accuse of not giving good guidance, and accused for a right reason. This site does not decide for you but the approach is to lay all information in front of you to make your own “informed” decision. However, we do agree to below commentators that there are many advantages marrying within your own faith.

Mohammad Mujtaba says: May 13, 2012 at 4:07 am

Dear Ashok, I feel Admin of this forum, is not a very good guiding person, What i suggest below the same suggestion i have given to all my friends of different religions.

There is nothing in this world you cannot live without, you are born alone and you die alone.There is no pain in this world that does not heal with time.

Marry a girl from your own religion and cast, in the begining you may not like her or love her at all, but with time wound will heal and you will be happy. As their will be no difference of opnion in religion, value, tradition and any sort of contradiction of opinion.

Because it will difficult for you as well as her to accept and pratice any religion full hearted. Your children will be more confused in life whats right and whats wrong.

There is nothing in this world you can not live without. Your new wife will equallty love you, and once seening her love and care for you, you will be attracted to her and with time fall in love with her.

I have suggest this and encourged to many of my friends, in the begining, they thought i was wrong, but today they are very happy in their life.

Inter region marriage will always create problem and confusions in life and you wil live a life in distress, tension and confused about your decision. Children will be asking all sort of mixed up question.

Your parents will appreciate your decision, and her parents will aprreciate hers.

Both families will love you and encourge you to move on in life and support you both to over come the pain of separation.

Hope you live long and happy married life. – Your brother Mujtaba

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Sasha says: I wasn’t ready to incorporate another faith that I didn’t grow up with or believe in (Sasha dated a Hindu but married a Muslim, read full details here).

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Nadia says: September 24, 2012 at 12:35 pm

i used to be at ur situation sasha, in love with hindu guy, then he got married to his hindu wife…and now i’m committed with my muslim boyfriend.

i’m so glad that i found him, he can teach me namaz, how to recite quran. my hindu ex bf is from south india, and my muslim bf also from south india i’m a very naughty girl during my college time, but i after i met my muslim bf, i changed a lot..he teach me a lot of things abt islam culture, i like hearing him recite quran. Trust me, to marry someone with the same religion is better. I thanks to Allah because everything is fine, his mum and his dad can accept me a girl from different country. I hope Fathima also can find a muslim guy and marry him. Always put Allah first, then everything will be fine. -Nadia

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5 Comments

  • Nawas
    December 6, 2012 11:02 am

    i’m here for my girl. that she is a Hindu and I’m in love with her since last february. we both studied in same class for 3 years. last year after a tour we both started loving. I was not prepared at all first but that was the last beautiful moment in my college life that …..i got a girl alas……that she is wid me for 3 years…..neither I proposed her nor she…..but our friends proposed for us…..

    • December 6, 2012 11:48 pm

      Nawas,
      Congratulations. It is always a good feeling to finally have a girl.

      Now you have to know that it is easy to love someone but very difficult (especially interfaith) to transform it into a happy married life. If you are honest, ask her to read Hindu girl article and you read the Muslim boy article. Then sit down together and discuss all potential issues. Best wishes.

  • Prithvi
    October 7, 2012 7:10 am

    hindus should not mix with muslims for healthy life , dr Ali Sina , Wafa Sultan , Imran Firasat are the intellectual ex-muslims who have esposed islam not a religion but threat to humanity.

  • Amir
    September 25, 2012 2:53 am

    To love is natural, but it doesn’t always require physical relation.
    Seeing your love happy, socially accepted, is true love.

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