Someone who cares says: June 22, 2014 at 9:24 am (Edit)
Ok I’m just reading this and your cry is just…. “I am a 32 year old single man and I say single for a reason.”
I dated a young Christian woman who I love very much. We went to dinner, shows, I taught her how to ride horses. We went all over the world. She said she loved me and wanted to marry me. I said but we speak two different tongues. I said I love you and we should speak the same tongue.
I spoke to my parents as they have led me my whole life and I know they won’t stir me wrong. At first they were absolutely upset. My father ordered me to leave the house and I was no part of the family (an outcast). I told him I love her and she is good, they looked at each other and said if she converts then we will be happy and bless this wedding and again he told me to leave.
I called back to America and told her what my father and mother said. I went further into our religion /culture and she was very upset with me and my family. I told her Allah would not have brought us together if it was no so. We stopped talking for a month and I got a call on my phone I was in Washington DC and she was in New Jersey. She told me she loved me and her heart was empty without me and no one ever treated her the way I did with respect and honor and she said she would walk with me for the rest of her life. We both cried and made a date to see each other.
She converted and learned our culture and long story short we have been together 12 year have 5 kids very happy and I love her so much. I said this only for you to say “communication” your heart never leads wrong you have to. Get through it. Make time speak to him about converting see where is mind is and who knows.
We (Muslims) have a culture a way of life far before any American came to this world. Not being mean but how would he feel if he had you for a Christian wedding. This is serious. Think ask Allah to guide you and fill everyone heart with understanding. It will work I know it can! -Someone who cares
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Dear readers,
I left islam long back and married with a nepali boy in Kathmandu.
I would like to narrate how dangerous is the islam for the humanity?
SUICIDE KILLING: DYING AS MARTYR FOR GOD
Muslim:C31B20N4645
“The Prophet said: ‘Whoever cheerfully accepts Allah as his Lord, Islam as his Religion and Muhammad as his Apostle is necessarily entitled to enter Paradise.’ Abu wondered at it and said: ‘Messenger of Allah, repeat that for me.’ He did that and said: ‘There is another act which elevates the position of a man in Paradise to a grade one hundred (higher), and the elevation between one grade and the other is equal to the height of the heaven from the earth.’ Abu said: ‘What is that act?’ He replied: ‘Jihad in the Way of Allah! Jihad in Allah’s Cause!'”
Bukhari:V4B52N53
“The Prophet said, ‘Nobody who dies and finds Paradise would wish to come back to this life even if he were given the whole world and whatever is in it, except the martyr who, on seeing the superiority of martyrdom, would like to come back to get killed again in Allah’s Cause.'”
Bukhari:V4B52N54
“The Prophet said, ‘Were it not for the believers who do not want me to leave them, I would certainly and always go forth in army units setting out in Allah’s Cause. I would love to be martyred in Allah’s Cause and then get resurrected and then get martyred, and then get resurrected again and then get martyred and then get resurrected again and then get martyred.'”
Qur’an:33:22
“The Believers said: ‘This is what Allah and his Messenger promised us.’ It added to their faith, obedience, and submission. Among the Believers are men who have been true to their covenant with Allah and have gone out for Jihad (holy fighting). Some have completed their vow to extreme (and have been martyred) fighting and dying in His Cause, and some are waiting, prepared for death in battle.”
Bukhari:V4B53N386
“Our Prophet has informed us that our Lord says: ‘Whoever amongst us is killed as a martyr shall go to Paradise to lead such a luxurious life as he has never seen, and whoever survives shall become your master.”
Bukhari V4B52N46
“I heard Allah’s Apostle saying, ‘Allah guarantees that He will admit the Muslim fighter into Paradise if he is killed, otherwise He will return him to his home safely with rewards and booty.'”
Ishaq:518
“Masud was one of those who found martyrdom at Khaybar. Muhammad said, ‘He has with him now his two dark-eyed virgins. When a martyr is slain, his two virgins pet him, wiping the dust from his face. They say, “May Allah throw dust on the face of the man who did this to you, and slay him who slew you!”‘”
Tabari VIII:153
Ishaq:533
“Abdallah Rawahah encouraged the men, saying, ‘By Allah, what you loathe is the very thing you came out to seek – martyrdom. We are not fighting the enemy with number, strength, or multitude, but we are fighting them with this religion with which Allah has honored us. So come on! Both prospects are fine: victory or martyrdom.'”
Qur’an:9:111
“Allah has purchased the believers, their lives and their goods. For them (in return) is the Garden (of Paradise). They fight in Allah’s Cause, and slay others and are slain, they kill and are killed. It is a promise binding on Him in the Taurat (Torah), the Injeel (Gospel), and the Qur’an. And who is more faithful to his covenant than Allah? Then rejoice in the bargain which you have concluded. It is the achievement supreme.”
Qur’an:4:74
“Let those who fight in the Cause of Allah sell the life of this world for the hereafter. To him who fights in the Cause of Allah, whether he is slain or gets victory – soon shall We give him a great reward.”
Muslim:C29B20N4634
“The Messenger of Allah said, ‘Nobody who dies and has something good for him with Allah will (like to) return even though he were offered the whole world and all that is in it (as an inducement), except the martyr who desires to return and be killed for the merit of martyrdom.'”
Muslim:C29B20N4635
“The Prophet said: ‘Nobody who enters Paradise wants return even if he were offered everything on the surface of the earth except the martyr who will desire to return and be killed ten times for the sake of the great honor that has been bestowed upon him.'”
Bukhari:V8B76N550
“I heard Allah’s Apostle saying, ‘From my followers there will be a crowd of 70,000 in number who will enter Paradise all together.'”
Muslim:C33B20N4651
“We asked Abdallah about the Qur’anic Verse: ‘Think not of those who are slain in Allah’s way as dead. Nay, they are alive, finding their sustenance in the presence of their Lord.’ (Qur’an 3:169) He said: ‘We asked the Holy Prophet the meaning of the verse and he said: “The souls of martyrs live in the bodies of green birds who have their nests in chandeliers hung from the throne of the Almighty. They eat the fruits of Paradise from wherever they like and then nestle in these chandeliers. Once their Lord cast a glance at them and said: ‘Do you want anything?’ They said: ‘What more shall we desire? We eat the fruit of Paradise from wherever we like.’ Their Lord asked them the same question thrice. When they saw that they would continue to be asked and not left, they said: ‘O Lord, we wish that Thou mayest return our souls to our bodies so that we may be slain in Thy Way once again.’ When He (Allah) saw that they had no need, they were left (to their joy).”‘”
Ishaq:400
“One whom I do not suspect told me that he was asked about these verses and he said, ‘We asked Muhammad about them and we were told that when our brethren were slain at Uhud Allah put their spirits in the crops of green birds which come down to the rivers of the Garden and eat of its fruits. They say, “We should like our spirits to return to our bodies and then return to the earth and fight for You until we are killed again.'”
Muslim:C41B20N4678
“Proof Of The Martyr’s Attaining Paradise: Jabir said that a man said, ‘Messenger of Allah, where shall I be if I am killed?’ He replied: ‘In Paradise.’ The man threw away the dates he had in his hand and fought until he was killed.”
Muslim:C41B20N4681
“Abdallah heard it from his father who, while facing the enemy, reported that the Messenger said: ‘Surely, the gates of Paradise are under the shadows of the swords.’ A man in a shabby condition got up and said: ‘Abu, did you hear the Prophet say this?’ He said: ‘Yes.’ He returned to his friends and said: ‘I greet you (a farewell greeting).’ Then he broke the sheath of his sword, threw it away, advanced with his (naked) sword towards the enemy and fought with it until he was slain.”
Muslim:C44B20N4690
“The Messenger said, ‘A troop of soldiers who fight in Allah’s Cause and get their share of the booty receive in advance two-thirds of their reward, and in the Hereafter one-third will remain (to their credit). If they do not receive any booty, they will get their full reward.'”
Muslim:C44B20N4691
“Muhammad said: ‘A troop of soldiers, large or small, who fight get their share of the booty and return safe and sound, receive in advance two-thirds of their reward; and a troop of soldiers who return empty-handed and are afflicted or wounded will receive their full reward.'”
Muslim:51B20N4706
“Allah’s Messenger said: ‘Whom do you consider to be a martyr among you?’ The Companions said: ‘One who is slain in Allah’s Cause is a martyr.’ He said: ‘Then (if this is the definition of a martyr) the martyrs of my Umma [Islamic community] will be small in number.’ They asked: ‘Prophet, who are martyrs then?’ He said: ‘One who is slain in Allah’s Cause is a martyr; one who dies in the Way of Allah is a martyr; one who dies of plague is a martyr; one who dies of cholera is a martyr.'”
Bukhari:V4B52N282
“Allah’s Apostle said, ‘Five are regarded as martyrs: They are those who die because of plague, abdominal disease, drowning, a falling building, and the martyrs in Allah’s Cause.'”
Ishaq:208
“Uhud commanded the Apostles archers. He was killed in the battle of Yemen as a martyr. Abu was present at all of the Apostle’s battles and died in Byzantine territory as a martyr. Mu’adh was present at every raid. He was killed at Badr as a martyr. Mu’awwidh, his brother, shared the same glory. Umara was at every battle and died a martyr in Yemen. As’ad died before Badr when the Prophet’s mosque was being built. The Apostle put Amr in command of the rearguard. He died at Uhud as a martyr. Abdallah led many raids and was slain as a martyr at Muta. He was one of Muhammad’s commanders. Khallad fought at Badr, Uhud, and Khandaq. He was martyred fighting the [Jewish] Qurayza. The Apostle said that he would have the reward of two martyrs.”
Bukhari: V5B59N377
“A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘Can you tell me where I will go if I get martyred?’ The Prophet replied, ‘To Paradise.’ The man fought till he was martyred.”
Tabari VII:55
“Allah’s Messenger went out to his men and incited them to fight. He promised, ‘Every man may keep all the booty he takes.’ Then Muhammad said, ‘By Allah, if any man fights today and is killed fighting aggressively, going forward and not retreating, Allah will cause him to enter Paradise.’ Umayr said, ‘Fine, fine. This is excellent! Nothing stands between me and my entering Paradise except to be killed by these people!’ He seized his sword, and fought until he was slain.”
Ishaq:306
“When the Allah’s Apostle said, ‘70,000 of my followers shall enter Paradise like the full moon,’ Ukkasha asked if he could be one of them. Then a lesser Ansari asked to be included, but the Prophet replied, ‘Ukkasha beat you to it and my prayer is now cold.'”
Bukhari:V5B59N379
“When we wrote the Qur’an, I missed one of the verses I used to hear Allah’s Apostle reciting. Then we searched for it and found it. The verse was: ‘Among the Believers are men who have been true to their Covenant with Allah. Of them, some have fulfilled their obligations to Allah (i.e. they have been killed in Allah’s Cause), and some of them are (still) waiting to be killed.’ (Qur’an 33.23) So we wrote this in its place in the Qur’an.”
Qur’an:61:10
“Believers, shall I lead you to a bargain or trade that will save you from a painful torment? That you believe in Allah and His Messenger (Muhammad), and that you strive and fight in Allah’s Cause with your property and your lives: That will be best for you!”
Qur’an:61:12
“He will forgive you your sins, and admit you to Gardens under which rivers flow, and to beautiful mansions in Eden: that is indeed the Supreme Achievement. And another (favor) which you love: help from Allah for a speedy victory over your enemies.”
Bukhari:V4B52N72
“The Prophet said, ‘Nobody who enters Paradise likes to go back to the world even if he got everything on the earth, except a Mujahid [Islamic fighter] who wishes to return so that he may be martyred ten times because of the dignity he receives.’ Our Prophet told us about the message of Allah: ‘Whoever among us is killed will go to Paradise.’ Umar asked the Prophet, ‘Is it not true that our men who are killed will go to Paradise and those of the Pagan’s will go to Hell?’ The Prophet said, ‘Yes.'”
Bukhari:V4B52N63
“A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘Shall I fight or embrace Islam first?’ The Prophet said, ‘Embrace Islam and then fight.’ He became a Muslim and was martyred. The Prophet said, ‘A little work, but a great reward.”
Ishaq:388
“Abu Qasim [Muhammad] said, ‘I testify concerning these that all wounded for Allah’s sake will be raised with his wounds bleeding, the color of blood, the smell of musk. Look for the one who has remembered the most surahs and put him in front of his Companions in one mass grave.'”
Qur’an:3:140
“If you have received a blow and have been wounded, be sure a similar wound has hurt others. Such days We give to men and men by turns: that Allah may know those who believe, and that He may take to Himself from your ranks Martyrs.”
Qur’an:3:156
“If you are slain, or die, in Allah’s Cause [as a martyr], pardon from Allah and mercy are far better than all they could amass.”
Ishaq:397
“There is no escape from death, so death for Allah’s sake in battle is better than all one can amass in life while holding back from fighting in fear of death. Let not the world deceive you and be not deceived by it. Let fighting and the reward which Allah holds out to you be the most important thing.”
Qur’an:3:169
“Think not of those who are slain in Allah’s Cause as dead. Nay, they live, finding their provision from their Lord. Jubilant in the bounty provided by Allah: and with regard to those left behind, who have not yet joined them (in their bliss), the Martyrs glory in the fact that on them is no fear, nor have they cause to grieve. Allah will not waste the reward of the believers.”
Qur’an:3:172
“Of those who answered the call of Allah and the Messenger, even after being wounded (in the fight), those who do right and ward off have a great reward.”
Ishaq:400
“‘If our fellow Muslims knew what Allah has done for us they would not dislike fighting or shrink from war!’ And Allah said, ‘I will tell them of you,’ so He sent down to His Apostle these verses.”
Ishaq:400
“The Apostle swore that there was no believer who had parted from the world and wanted to return to it for a single hour even if he could possess it with all it has except the martyr who would like to return and fight for Allah and be killed a second time.”
Bukhari:V8B75N417
“Allah’s Messenger said, ‘Allah has some angels who look for those who think about Allah while they’re out [fighting] and they encircle them with their wings. Allah [who hears all] asks these angels, ‘What do my slaves say?’ The angels reply, ‘Allahu Akbar!’ Allah [who sees all] asks, ‘Can they see Me?’ The angels answer, ‘No. They can’t see you.’ Allah [who knows all] says, ‘How would it have been if they had seen Me?’ ‘If they had seen You [one spirit said to another] they would have worshiped you more.’ Allah [who created a brothel] asks, ‘What do they desire?’ ‘They ask for your Paradise.’ ‘Have they seen it?’ ‘No. But if they had they would covet it all the more.’ ‘What do they fear?’ ‘Hell Fire.’ ‘Have they seen it?’ ‘No. If they had seen it they would flee it with extreme fear.’ Allah said, ‘I will not reduce every Companion to misery.'”
Ishaq:468
“Then Allah said, ‘Some of you have fulfilled your vow to Me by dying; you have finished your work and returned to Me like those who sought martyrdom in prior battles. And some are still waiting to capitalize on Allah’s promise of martyrdom. You do not hesitate in your religion and never doubt.'”
Ishaq:469
“On the day the Qurayza Jews were slain, one Muslim was martyred. A stone was thrown on him and it inflicted a shattering wound. The Apostle said, ‘He will have the reward of two martyrs.'”
Tabari VIII:46
“Akhram said, ‘If you believe in Allah and know that Paradise is real and that the Fire is real, don’t stand between me and martyrdom!’ But Abd-Rahman dismounted and thrust his spear into Akhram. So I shot Abd-Rahman with an arrow, and said, ‘Take that!'”
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“Religious” Sharia Law is a contradiction in terms, as it controls not only religious practices, but every aspect of the individual’s life. Under Sharia, leaving Islam is punishable by death. Under Sharia, when a woman is raped, she receives the death penalty for adultery while virtually nothing happens to the rapist. That is why Sharia Law appeals to rapists and other criminals, and it motivates them to become radical Islamists.
1. Sharia courts do not generally employ lawyers; plaintiffs and defendants represent themselves.
2. Trials are conducted solely by the judge, and there is no jury system.
3. There is no pre-trial discovery process, no cross-examination of witnesses, and no penalty for perjury (on the assumption that no witness would thus endanger his soul) Unlike common law, the judges’ verdicts do not set binding precedents under the principle of stare decisis, and unlike civil law, Sharia does not utilize formally codified statutes (These were first introduced only in the late 19th century during the decline of the Ottoman Empire).
4. Instead of precedents and codes, Sharia relies on medieval jurists’ manuals and collections of non-binding legal opinions, or fatwas, issued by religious scholars (ulama, particularly a mufti); these can be made binding for a particular case at the sole discretion of a judge. Some of these fatwas are incredibly outrageous. For example, in May, 2007, Dr. Izat Atiyah, a religious scholar who headed the department of the teachings of the Prophet at the Foundation of Religion College in Al Azhar University issued a fatwa stating that there were instances in the time of Prophet Muhammad when adult women breast-fed adult men in order to overcome the need for women to veil in front of men.
This would allow unrelated men and women to work together in the same office cubicle. “Breast-feeding an adult puts an end to the problem of the private meeting, and does not ban marriage. A woman at work can take off the veil or reveal her hair in front of someone whom she breast-fed.”
5. The Sharia courts’ rules of evidence also maintain the distinctive custom of prioritizing oral testimony and excluding written and documentary evidence (including forensic and circumstantial evidence), on the basis that it could be tampered with or forged.
6. A confession, an oath, or the oral testimony of a witness are the only types of evidence admissible in a Sharia court. Written evidence is admissible only with the attestations of multiple witnesses deemed reliable by the judge, such as notaries.
7. Testimony must be from at least two witnesses, and preferably from free Muslim male witnesses who are not related parties and who are of sound mind and reliable character. Testimony to establish the crime of adultery, or zina, must be from four direct witnesses. (Since a woman’s testimony is worth half that of a man, it would take eight female eyewitnesses to certify that a woman was indeed raped!)
8. Forensic evidence (i.e. fingerprints, ballistics, blood samples, DNA, etc.) and other circumstantial evidence are rejected in hudud cases (crimes for which there are specific punishments in the Quran — including theft, fornication, consumption of alcohol, and apostasy) in favor of eyewitnesses, a practice which can cause severe difficulties for female plaintiffs in rape cases.
9. Testimony from women is given only half the weight of men, and testimony from non-Muslims may be excluded altogether in cases against a Muslim.
10. In lieu of written evidence, oral oaths are accorded much greater weight. Rather than being used simply to guarantee the truth of ensuing testimony, they are themselves used as evidence. (Since takiyya (dissembling) is a practice established in Quran Surah 3:28 (tuqah), the credibility of oaths against non-Muslim plaintiffs or defendants is highly questionable.)
11. Plaintiffs lacking other evidence to support their claims may demand that defendants take an oath swearing their innocence, and their refusal to do so can result in a verdict for the plaintiff.
12. The civil rights of women are denied or severely limited by Sharia Law with regard to the following family issues: consent to marriage (m3.13(1), honor murder (o1.2(4), wife beating (m10.12), marital rape (m5.1), divorce (n1.1(a), polygamy (m6.10), and child custody (m13.3 – m13.5).
Mac when your mother and sisters will face such a criminal law, then you will realize the gravity. You are in India, availing benefits of secular state, why dont you settle in Pakistan/afghanistan, then see what happens to the females members of your relatives.
Mac,
According to Veena Malik on this blog :-
The evil practice of sodomy, rape in the Madarasas by Imams and Maulvies, has become a common feature in Pakistan and Afganistan due to talibani influence in the Mosques and Madrasas.
I had a heated exchange of dialogues with Maulvies on this issues, which is also available on You tube.
In fact only a few incidents come to light otherwise thousands of incidents do not flash, either the parents do not want due to insult and shame to family, threatening from the Maulvies and Imams who have links with notorious elements, no support from Police and the Imams put counter allegations, with undue pressures and influence against which poor parents cannot open their mouths. In the name of teachings of Koran poor kids are subject to such evil practices. It is the unfortunate part of muslim community that even after so many evils, majority of the public do not condemn and oppose openly as they might be punished in the name of blashphemy, a cruel reality of the islamic religion.
Mac,
Islamaic ideology is totally criminal and cruel and anti female.
They treat females just a sex toy and enjoy.
Look Shoab Akhtar who married Sania Miraza, after divorcing his first wife Ayesha and now married to an another girl Named Rubab just half of his age.
After few months, he will be looking another 4th wife.
Mac,
Your clarification and comments are not based on realistic basis.
In real life, the females in muslim community lead a very miserable
life.
Better you ask your mother and sisters how they are tortured and misbhaved by the mails and discriminated in all walks of life.
Sister Gulnar first educate your self bcoz your this comment says that you are not educated musch “Better you ask your mother and sisters how they are tortured and misbhaved by the “mails” and discriminated in all walks of life.””” tell me what is the meaning of “mails” that you wrote , ha and my mom is a engineer and my sister is married to a doctor and my mom is Ex-Hindu Brahmin, and recently my cousin(brother) married a hindu girl and she accepted ISLAM and my another cousin(sister) married a HINDU doctor and converted him to ISLAM and then they married and that man(her husband) is better muslim than me, i have many hindu converts in my family and thats why i was looking on net about interreligious marriage and finally found this brain washing anti-islamic website which cannot tolerate real(evil) techings of hinduism
Mac Idiot,
Why do you beat around bush? I talked about evils of Islam, why are you not replying on those aspects?
Are you mad, why are talking about Hindu religion?
You claim to be specialist in islamic religion, but never discuss the main evils that blot on the humanity by evil person like Mohammad and evil book like Koran?
Islam does not respect females at all.
Female has to produce 4 witnesses to seek justice against rape and male is allowed free.
Female has to be virgin on the wedding night, male is not needed to be virgin.
Female if found in adultary, she is stonned to death, but males having sexual relations with multiple female is not blamed at all.
Male can divorce simply by orall tripple talaks, but female is not allowed to do so.
Testimony of female is just half of the male.
Female if divorced has to be opt for Halala to get married with same husband again.
Male can keep 4 wives at a time, but female cannot do so?
In islamic countries, female is not allowed ID card, driving licence, voting cards,no higher education, but male is free to get all benefits.
Worst religion of the world against mankind is ISLAM DUE TO EVIL TEACHINGS OF KORAN AND RAPIST MOHAMMAD
Admn.
I also left Islam being a criminal ideology against females.
I am happy with my Hindu husband performing rituals and pooja etc.
I am financially independent with his support and enjoy a respectable life.
and raesha sing converted after marrying a hindu is not a fault @admin
@Admin: Thanks , Admin, Now, You Understand the Evil ISLAM.That’s Why I left ISLAM.
We live in a sorry state of life. All Muslim boys will start the love posing as a pluralist and secular, however, after the non-Muslim is trapped in love, the end is very clear. The non-Muslims MUST CONVERT.
This is the reason we have created this web site to alert and educate innocent non-Muslims (and non-Christians).