Gauhar says: at 27 September 2012 at 11:00 am
Hi Husna,
Nice to know about your life story. All is well that ends well.
I am from Sialkot Pakistan and now settled in Canada with my Hindu husband, who met me in UK, while pursuing my MS in computer science. Since compatible match was not availble in muslim community, and Vikas, my husband was very intelligent, smart, loving, caring, decent in behaviour, I could not stop myself to marry him. In fact, it was a good decision. My other friend, who was also Pakistan, married to a businessmen of muslim community, despite her professional competence, is not happy. Her husband is cruel, rude and short temper, always talking about money matters even through unethical means.
Go ahead dear. Religion barriers are nothing but created by society. God is one, in different forms worshipped. There are thousands of girls who have married Hindu guys, as per their professional competencies.
God bless. -Gauhar.
Gauhar added: 28 September 2012 at 9:59 am
We did civil court wedding, then visited temple and dargah too.
We have deep respect in the method of worship of both the religions.
Hindu religion is a vast, which believes presence of God in all living and non living things in different manner. We both study each other’s religion. It is almost 3 years now, with a son of 1 year old. -Gauhar.
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I (Muslim) am in love with a Hindu boy
‘firaq’Gorakhpuri wrote, Nara-e-anal haq main ab nanin koi khatara.Nara-e-anal bashr hai payame daro rasan…….
DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE BOTHERED BY INCONSEQUENTIAL.ONE HAS SO MUCH TIME IN THIS WORLD,SO DEVOTE IT TO THE WORK AND THE PEOPLE MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU,TO THOSE YOU LOVE AND THINGS THAT MATTERS.ONE CAN WASTE HALF A LIFE TIME WITH PEPLE WHOM ONE REALLY DOES NOT LIKE OR DOING THINGS WHEN ONE WOULD BE BETTEROFF SOMEWHERE ELSE. ‘LOUIS LAMOUR’
Dosto mai naa Hindu hu naa musalmaan mai to bas ek insaan hu mera pehla kaam dusro ke religion ki izaat karnaa hai hosakta hai bhagwaan mujhe agle janm mai muslmaan bana de
Now some idiots cm here nd show islam teachings…….these foolish won’t say anythng if a hindu gal marries a muslim guy…means u need a girl of kaafir….allah won’t say anythng to u….bt if a muslim gal marries a hindu guy….den allah z got angry.. Hahaha wht a stupidity…..if em not wrong ur so called allah if tht much gr8 den he must not be partial….vit hijabs muslim gals nd dominant muslim mens….mail me if u want to talk on my id…… Vaibhav11mar@gmail.com
Muslim or Hindu you have the same blood
Both have red blood
There was no Pakistan earlier
Pakistan was produced from india
So who is the father
No matter how big the balls become
They hang below
And women like gauhar do not want to stay hanging below
She want to rise up and have a better life
And get all the respect from her husband and human dignity
hello i am muslim love with everyone ok
muslim men can accept a hindu girl and if a muslim man and woman share a story about a hindu girl married muslim man and/or convesion of a hindu girl into islam.. they always belive that is a true story.. but i don’t understand when a musilim girl say about her sucessfull marrige life with a hindu man and conversion into hinduism.. muslim men thinks that that is a fake story only written to provoke and encourage muslim woman to get married with hindu man…. i was ayesha from pak occupied kashmir and now i am wife of major Arun Banarjee.. indian army a loving and caring man just like my father … i was in love with him during kargil war he saved my brother from pakistani army…
i found hindu men are much more caring and loving than muslims.
i have no tension to be a mother of 8-10 children
i have no tension about my dress type..
i have no tension to job after marrige.. and fulfil of all my wishes. .
.i think these are the things a woman want in her life after marrige …..
i only share my life story with a hindu man… i am not provoking and encouraging anyone
Wah! What a made up story just like the original story of gauhar, you rss paid workers, don’t you feel shame when you lie against islam using muslim name, though not denying that many many muslim girls are married with unbelieving hindu men and are getting prepared from Jahannum/hell fire.
mac,
In America, as per our research 45% of Muslims girls marry outside Islam, many without conversion of their spouse. It is possible that they just don’t believe in your “Judgment Day” theory. This “Jahannum/hell fire” is your belief/faith and not truth. As more and more Muslim* girls get educated (* actually true for all faiths) and become financially independent, more and more will elect to marry interfaith. Interfaith marriages are not going to decrease, but increase over years. Further, less and less number of people will believe in this Jahannum/hell fire “theory” as days go by.
Admin, you are absolutely right that day by day people will become unbeliever. Btw interfaith marriage was there in all days, it is just because of technology we are able to know such cases from different parts of the world. Even prophet muhammad peace be upon him, had many interfaithmarriage though non-muslim wife converted to islam. Also there is no direct relationship with education with increase in interfaith marriage, i know many uneducated muslim girl becoming kafir just to become slave(read wife) of non-muslim husband especially hindu husband.
Even Islam mentioned it 1400 years ago that people will become arrogant of their existence and increasingly will show their lack of belief in god, and judgement day will come when most of people become unbeliever, and judgement day is not just a theory, it’s a truth, you don’t believe in judgement day because you don’t want to get judged by god for your deeds. Also, i know many educated hindu men converted to islam who has their wife as muslim and many educated girl both hindu/christan converted to islam before marriage with muslim men.
About Judgment Day, we agree that that is what Muhammad told us. But who to believe? Krishna said there will be reincarnation, Jesus said he will come back with Allah, Jews have their own theory and Muhammad has his story.
Be very clear that the J-Day is your faith NOT truth! If you wish to believe in it, we don’t have problem with it but don’t use it against us as a proven truth.
Did Jesus peace be upon him denied judgement day? Did any of jewish prophet denied judgement day?
Can you post some verses from Gita where Krishnaji talks about reincarnation?
He Quit,
He will reply unneccary but he will not answer to our Question.. Asusual U – Turn
lol…
Lord Krishna on reincarnation:
“Many, many births both you and I have passed. I can remember all of them, but you cannot, O subduer of the enemy!” (BG 4.5)
“As the embodied soul continually passes, in this body, from boyhood to youth to old age, the soul similarly passes into another body at death. The self-realized soul is not bewildered by such a change.” (BG 2.13)
But those who worship Me, giving up all their activities unto Me and being devoted to Me without deviation, engaged in devotional service and always meditating upon Me, having fixed their minds upon Me, O so of Partha – for them I am the swift deliverer from the ocean of birth and death. (BG 12:6-7).
More at http://krishnasmercy.com/2009/04/14/reincarnation/
Ha ha ha. .
your veda and upanishad (ie, your word of God) says only on rebirth not on reincardination. . here it is
Rigved Book no. 10, Hymn no. 16 verse no. 4
“The unborn portion, burn that, AGNI,with thy heat; let thy flame, thy splendour, consume it; with those glorious members which thou hast given him, JATAVEDAS, bear him to the world (of the virtuous)”
(Rigved 10:16:4)
The Sanskrit word ‘ Sukritam u Lokam’ means ‘ the word of the virtuous or region of the pious, referring to the hereafter.
The next verse i.e.
b. Rigveda Book 10 hymn 16 verse 5
says:
“… Putting on (Celestial) life, let the remains (of bodily like) depart: let him, JATAVEDAS be associated with a body.”
(Rigveda 10:16:5)
This verse too refers to a second life
i.e. life after death.
The Doctrine of Re-birth is also described in Brihadaranyaka Upanishad:
“As a Caterpillar which has wriggled to the top of a blade of grass draws itself over to a new blade, so does the soul, after it has put aside its body draws itself over to a new existence.
(Brihadaranyaka Upanishad 4:4:3)
If you still belive on reincardination let us examine wheather it is right or wrong
According to hindu mythology. All are brotherhood, wheather it will be animal or human being. .The most higher is human being, If some one does wrong thing or do sin he will be born as a cockroach or rat on next birth.. like this 7 times
Suppose we belive the logic life death 7 times
now iam asking a question
1. does population increasing/decreasing?
2. does sin is increasing/decreasing?
Asusual !! no reply from admin !!!
I asked a question about judgement day on hindu mythology yet he didnt answer, because of ignorant
Hahaha…oh you foolish…look at the west in America per year 1,00,000 peoples convert to Islam..and each of every 5 there is 4 women and 1 man…in France per year 70,000 peoples convert to Islam,and majority are women,,and also Jewish women are becoming Muslim in Israel…Islam is first growing relegion in the world in 234 countries in the world..recently Albania country was become Muslim majority country in 1992…and British women loves Muslim men and Hindu girls also…Hindu girls goes in Europe and married with Muslim boys freedomly..Allah gived us something special..this is secret,, actually that is not secret ,,they marriage us for physical capability..Christians and Hindu men are same by physical
well everyone taking about books upnishads and words of saints but where are yu minds actually i appreciate all of your thoughts but still i want all are taking about bookish knowledge its all crap!
There is nature is god for all of us which is good then you feel its heaven if its bad like tsunami its hell .
why all of you following life after death-2 blah blah,why don’t you follow life before death.
do some good for humanity and feel that god is you or inside you!Its nothing apart your positive energy or negative energy.
Try to understand books are prepared by humans(although by saints,gurus,great persons) to create a rules and regulations for society maintenance according to their time and for future aspect so that every one get in society.
if you always feel that your books are right,then i think you are a frog of well please explore yourself!
and finally conversions are every where hindu to muslim,muslim ti hindu,muslim to Christians dont go about ratios ,these ratios are fluctuated about and accouding time to time and situationlly.
I love a pakistani muslim girl & she also loves me. We both are settled in abroad.She worships hindu gods & enjoying her life as a free female.She loves India as her home & wants her sisters to marry Indian hindu men for freedom & wearing fashionable dress.
To All the people who visit this website, consider that
ALL THE STORIES AND POSTS ON THIS SITE ARE FAKE
Moral of the “made up story” E ncourage Pakistani girls to date Hindu men…
tut tut how petty can you peple get.
Amazed at the PROPAGANDA against Islam and Muslim.
Shows how much of a coward you Idnians really are and your hidden agenda to defame Islam.
The best and most amusing is how you Indians take on Muslim names to posts to give more weight to your response.
Very shallow and deceitful people and a reflection that something is missing in your petty life.
Why Islam will always prevail, what you do today and how you defame Islam and Muslims is no diffrent to the idol worshipping pagan Arabs.
They got no where and people realised the truth.
When they do they will appreciate Islam.
You people are sad, cowardly, deceitful and shameful.
Its a prize for you to post a Hindu boy marries a Muslim in India because thats the extent of hate you have towards Muslims and based on centuries and centuries of inveriority complex.
I pity you people, truly do.
Hi, when i was reading gahur story i was laughing that she could not find best match for her self,that was the reason to marry non muslim.this was lazy excuse i have heared in my life.may b zana is more fun for her.
Hello every body.
According to latest reports, the condition of Malala is satisfactory, her all vital parts are functioning perfectly well, but another 12 hours or so, are critical. It appears that in case she is needed to be flown to abroad, Govt. is ready to do so.
Its a great satisfaction. She is an asset for female community.
May God bless her speedy recovery.
The shooting of Malala Yousufzai along with two classmates while they were on their way home from school Tuesday horrified people in Pakistan and internationally. It has been followed by an outpouring of support for a girl who earned the enmity of the Taliban for publicizing their acts and speaking about the importance of education for girls.
The Taliban have claimed responsibility for the shooting, saying that the girl was promoting “Western thinking.” Late on Thursday, a spokesman for one of the group’s branches in the country’s north said the top leadership of the Taliban’s Swat Valley chapter decided two months ago to kill Yousufzai in a carefully planned attack after her family ignored repeated warnings.
Hi sisters,
Malala an innocent 14 years old school girl in pakistan is under critical condition, hit by talibani bullets, who raised voice against their attrocties. Please pray for her survival and speedy recovery.
Amir,
According to Islam, women must provide at least two male witnesses if they are to take any case to court. Should a woman in the Muslim countries which judge according to Sharia thus have the guts to report a rape, it would be impossible to win the case, as any possible male witnesses to the rape would most likely have been involved in the assault themselves.
In reality, a large part of the world’s almost 700 million Muslim women are thus without any real source of protection against sexual assaults by family members or other men in the surrounding environment. Only too often, this is exploited by Muslim men. When it comes to considering the actual wishes and desires of the women, the fact that a woman has any desire at all is frowned upon in many Muslim countries, even to the point of cutting off the erogenous parts of the female genitals preferably before puberty is reached. The New York Times thus related in the article ‘A cutting Tradition’ on the 20th of January, that 96 percent of all girls in the world’s most heavily populated Muslim country, Indonesia, are circumcised before they turn 14. Disgusting!
So much cruelty with facts have been described, still you favour the evils of Prophet,a rapist, murderer,who did not spare 9year old innocent girl.Really your close female relatives of 9 years need to meet same sexual assault.
Muslim culture is a paradise for horny men
According to the Quran, Muslim men who die for Islam in battle will be rewarded 72 virgins, who are seemingly restored to virginity every time a martyr has penetrated her. Seen from the perspective of Western psychology, it is quite embarrassing and immature that a world religion promises sex – fair and square – and this, in addition, with sexually un-experienced women, as the highest prize. Most people who have already grown out of the hormonal waves of the teenage years, and have gained just a pinch of human maturity, will probably agree that such a goal is built on, and directed at, a very crude type of man.
This is not to say that the Islamic paradise is first and foremost meant for horny and callous men, who are too insecure to deal with experienced women’s free view on sexuality. However, the widespread glorification of this paradise within the Islamic environment indicates that the Muslim culture has succeeded in producing not so few of this type of man.
This sexual paradise, where one can just take a woman and do with her what one wants without asking, is unfortunately also existent among living Muslim men who have not martyred themselves for their religion. In many cases, Muslim men can rape Muslim women without consequences, because the women do not dare tell the family or the police. In fact, the view on women in the Muslim culture is often that it is the women themselves, who are to blame for the rape.
Hello readers,
The UK international amnesty depicts horrible crimes being committed aainst women in Iraq, as under:-
Women in detention have also frequently reported sexual insults and threats of rape being used against them. Zahra Kamali, a student arrested in July 2009, told Amnesty International that her interrogators taunted her with wanting to sleep with other men, and touched her breasts. She said that her then cellmate, a women’s rights activist held with her was treated the worst: “She told us that her interrogators had attached cables to her nipples and given her electric shocks. She was so ill she would sometimes faint in the cell.”
It is women who remain discriminated against more generally in Iranian law – a woman’s testimony in court is worth half that of a man’s, for example. Women’s rights campaigners continue to be harassed, intimidated and arrested. Amnesty is campaigning for Ronak Safazadeh, a women’s rights campaigner jailed in 2009 for five years on what appear to be trumped-up charges.
All acts of rape are grave abuses of human rights. But the abuse takes on an added significance when the rapist is a public official. The UN’s Special Rapporteur on torture states that rape constitutes torture when it is carried out by public officials or happens at their instigation. International and regional human rights bodies have ruled that rape by officials always amounts to torture, and cannot be considered to be simply a common criminal act.
The use of rape as a form of torture (or as a weapon of war) is certainly not unique to Iran. But that does not mean these reports can be ignored. Greater international scrutiny of Iran’s human rights has been rebuffed by the government: it has not allowed some eight UN human rights rapporteurs to visit the country and has used UN meetings to deny reports of human rights violations.
The human rights situation in Iran has become so dire that Amnesty International, Human Rights Watch and other organisations last week called on the UN Secretary General to appoint his own special envoy to investigate and report on the situation in the country, and to issue a more comprehensive report on human rights in Iran.
All this will be of little comfort to those like Leyla, Ebrahim and Zahra mentioned above. But the international community must ensure, for their sake and for those of countless other Iranians, that the focus on Iran is not restricted solely to its nuclear plans but also to the human rights of its people.
Hello, every one. I have been reading this site, various comments far and against religions of different communities..Several times thought to write, but today ultimately attempting to give some insights of my life, passed through various ups and downs, since childhood.
Amir and others, supporting Islam and its rules as enumerated in Quran, repeatedly indicating equal rights, respects, honour, claims, regards etc. to all muslim women. But the reality is total against those rules. There are millions of untold and unfold stories of attrocities, cruelty against females, never treated them human, just for sex requiremnt, discriminatory behaviour, putting all sorts of restrictions on those who were financially good enough, independent and leaving them in lurch ultimately to prostitutions/ hell during life time itself.
I was born in a poor muslim family, mother was treated very badly beaten, humiliated by my father, he was really inhuman. He was not happy with my birth as first child, mother had to face inhuman treatment, abusive comments. I remember those days when I was about 4 years or so, mother working as a maid in a Hindu rich family, also taking with me there. I used to see children of that family playing with toys, getting well treatment, whereas I was treated as unwanted child and always frightened to see my father. Soon growing, also started working with mother in that family, small jobs, like dusting, cleaning,watering plants and our land lord kind hearted used to give me clothes, food, and old books to see. There was an another servant family, working as driver with wife and son, living in their servant quarter. One day my father married his cousin sister and brought her in the house. From that day our miseries started manifold and one horrible night mother was beaten badly,bleeding from legs and hands,I cried for help, I was also slapped many time and pushed on the ground and then both us thrown outside the home and door was shut. No body helded us and we passed whole night outside the house and in the morning we went to the land lord house for work. Seeing our miserable condition, our landlord and his wife gave,first aid treatment to the injuries we had suffered, and gave food and said that they should live in another servant qurter, in fact it was garrage. We started living there, mother working whole day in that house and I also supporting her as per my capability and knowledge.
Slowly due to good bahaviour and our sincereity, the family of the driver mixed up with us, and our land lord was happy. One day he said that I should also go to a near by school with driver,s son. Seeing all misfortunes with my mother, I determined that I should study and should become independent in my young age.The land lady, also encouraged me. Slowly time passed, I forgot my father, which later was known to be blessed with son from his new wife but all sorts of cruelty about him still continuing with her also.
Mother was continously working in the house since morning, though I was helping her. Due to growing age and closeness with the driver son in study matters, we got attracted towards each other. He was also brillant, hardworker, sincere, sober and in the 10th exam. he secured about 90% marks and myself secured 80% in the following year, as I was one year junior to him. Time passed further,in the meantime we had cleared computer certificate course of 6 months. One day, we heard that a talent search examination was being conducted, based on general knowledge, mathematical back ground and reasoning tests of Xth level by a NGO. We applied for the same and luckily we both(myself and drivers son Mahesh) got prize leading to scholarship for our education.By scholarship, we both cleared our 12th Standard Phy.Chem. and Math. with computer science. One day Mahesh told me that we can do part time computer typing job, which gave us additional boost to our morale,confidence and public relations and monetary gains first time.
Time passed mother suffered one day heart attack and died. I was now alone. Mahesh and his family helped me. By now we had decided to become life partner. One day, we found that on contract basis a merchant shipping company needed computer savy employees for their data base entry for their shore base office. Since we were already doing similar job, we did not find any difficulty to establish our merit against other counter parts and we were first two selected out of 8 hired by them. Soon we became good performers of the company and company hired us as a regular employee after one year and soon by distance mode, we completed our graduation in computer aplication,proficient as data base administrator. Now our landlord/land lady were like parents, since day one of our earning, we used to handover our salary to them first, as deep regards to them.They used to return the same to us with their blessings.Vow, what a graceful, heavenly pleasure of moments for us. They knew every thing about our relations(mine and Mahesh) sincerity and my mother,s last wish about my marriage as part of settlement of life.
On an auspicious day I married with Mahesh, as per Hindu rituals. Mahesh said that I should not change my religion. Both shall be respecting religious rituals of both communities.
As the change is a law of nature. Our land lord shifted to Detroite USA and myself and Mahesh now working in the same company, foreign branch in Hongkong. The horrors of attrocities, abusive words against my mother still make my body shivering? One day, myself and Mahesh went around that locality but no trace of my cruel father.
Still I am unable to find out, why so cruel, barbaric and inhuman treatment is resorted against women in Islam? That dark night, when we were thrown out, bleeding, still haunts me? But all these events gave strength to me, and put me on right direction of life irrespective of hardships and inconvenience for years. God is great, I am thankful to him. I see his presence in all living and nonliving things. For me the God is our landlord, who gave us shelter, brought up to this position. I bow my head with deep sincerety to that family and shall not be able to repay his debt of generosity, kindness and humanitarian treatment to an unfortunate muslim maid and her child.
Whenever, I meet my landlord and land lady, I kiss his foot, place my head on it,getting filled my eyes with tears. I have deep faith on Hindu Gods and Allah too.He is one, known by different names by different people.
Amir and others, will say it is a fake story again, as I have seen his comments on earlier.For him it will be a fake story always, either his mother and other females perhaps have not been passed through such a dark time, full of horror and miseries or he delibrately attempting to hide evils of islam against women folk.
Always in pray. May almighty bless all unfortunate women to lead a happy life, atleast once in their lives.
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I am waiting for Indian to follow this up with ….hmmmmmm…what do I call…?
Hi i heard ur story i like it i support muslim girls who mary hindu boys i too muslim but i think muslim good looking girls must marry black hindu boys they r best but i need ur idea i want my sister to marry a poor blackish hindu in our street how can i made her mind plz help
Thanks sister for putting 10 operessive points against muslim women, I am reproducing for more reader here also.
(1) A husband has sex with his wife, as a plow goes into a field. Your women are your fields, so go into your fields whichever way you like . . ‘If a man invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels send their curses on her till morning.
(2) Husbands are a degree above their wives. The Prophet said, ‘I looked at Paradise and found poor people forming the majority of its inhabitants; and I looked at Hell and saw that the majority of its inhabitants were women.
(3) A male gets a double share of the inheritance over that of a female.
(4) A woman’s testimony counts half of a man’s testimony. ‘This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind.’
(5) A wife may remarry her ex—husband if and only if she marries another man, they have sex, and then this second man divorces her.
and if the husband divorces his wife (for the third time), she shall not remain his lawful wife after this (absolute) divorce, unless she marries another husband and the second husband divorces her. [In that case] there is no harm if they [the first couple] remarry.
(6) Slave—girls are sexual property for their male owners.
And forbidden to you are wedded wives of other people except those who have fallen in your hands [as prisoners of war).
(7) A man may be polygamous with up to four wives.
(8) A husband may simply get rid of one of his undesirable wives. Allah made it clear that the husband cannot literally keep equality between two or more wives because they themselves cannot be equal in all respects. It is too much to demand from a husband that he should mete out equal treatment to a beautiful wife and to an ugly wife, to a young wife and to an old wife, to a healthy wife and to an invalid wife, and to a good natured wife and to an ill—natured wife. These and like things naturally make a husband more inclined towards one wife than towards the other.
(9) Husbands may hit their wives even if the husbands merely fear highhandedness in their wives (quite apart from whether they actually are highhanded).If you fear highhandedness from your wives, remind them [of the teaching of God], then ignore them when you go to bed, then hit them. If they obey you, you have no right to act against them. God is most high and great.
(10) Mature men are allowed to marry prepubescent girls.
Prophet, when you [and the believers] divorce women, divorce them for their prescribed waiting—period and count the waiting—period accurately . . . 4 And if you are in doubt about those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, (you should know that) their waiting period is three months, and the same applies to those who have not menstruated as yet. As for pregnant women, their period ends when they have delivered their burden.
Maududi correctly interprets the plain meaning of verse 4, which appears in the context of divorce:
Therefore, making mention of the waiting—period for girls who have not yet menstruated, clearly proves that it is not only permissible to give away the girl at this age but it is permissible for the husband to consummate marriage with her. Now, obviously no Muslim has the right to forbid a thing which the Qur’an has held as permissible.
In the name of above quotes, innumerable attrocities are committed on females and males enjoys all sorts of freedoms irrespective of their personal demerits to be called as a human. These are known as top 10 rules to oppress female community in the islam.
This is also for the benefits of other readers of different communities who do not know, how illegimate, unlawful, discriminatory, rules have been framed in the QURAN with a mentally sick and retarded mind frame.
All civilized society should come forward for this great social evil.
read dr ali sina’s book understanding muhammad which exposes islam
and prophet’s biography
dear admin
i have seen this article and u r website is interesting love has no conditions if somebody tells to change ur religion in love then it is not a true love , dr radhashyam brahmachari has written why hindu/non-muslim girls should not marry muslim men , conversion is the creation of a new nation , hindu boys and girls should avoid muslims , in muslim countries muslim girls have no right to marry non-muslim men , if a hindu changes his/her religion for marriage with muslims then it very dangerous for india and hindus , our many hindu warriors have died and sacrificed for saving motherland and mother religion , for a person mother religion is best , after reading quran and visiting faithfreedom and other ex-muslim websites i have stopped making friends with muslims , when a hindu girl marries a muslim guy it becomes secular but vice-versa it is communal , conversion to islam means conservativeness of society , rise in radicalisation , ethnic persecution and discrimination , cattle lover becomes cattle killer ,
from the past we have seen how muslim armies captured many countries through force and deception , spain was once under the muslim rule but its soil sons fought to free their motherland and kicked out the islamic terrorists , i don,t like the hindu boys those who have converted for marriage with muslim girls.if a wife or husband converts to islam then he/she should divorce their spouses or they also convert to islam , wht type of non-sense is this a religion which destroys the relations among people as ali sina told.
dear admin i am waiting for ur reply? thnks
We fully agree to you statement “if somebody tells to change ur religion in love then it is not a true love”.
Here, Gauhar “We did civil court wedding, then visited temple and dargah too”, how beautiful!
Let the carnation be carnation, don’t convert it to rose. The “fake” conversion will bring troubles later in life.
Hindus invoke shakti or energy through the female companion. Hindu texts affirm Durga or Kali as revered source of peace and balance, even contemporary hindus treat women saints like mata Amritananda mayi with great respect. As one can witness women have a pride of place among hindu landscape. Women are not mere instruments to procreate and attend to their domestic duties.
All religions are not same and all gods are not same, according to these belief systems themselves each one is quite different.
Hindu god Brahman has NO physical form or gender, the various murthis (idols) are mere representations or conduits just like telephones to speak to Brahman. Hindu god is not wrathful or vengeful to nonhindus. There is no distinction between hindus and others in the eyes of Brahman. One has to do the righteous duty (dharma) and thus accrue one’s own karma. Once all karma is resolved one’s atma will be liberated (moksha) from one’s rebirth cycle (punarjanma). There is NO PERMANENT hell or heaven for hindus or non hindus. Contrarily, abrahamics faiths assert, ‘those who don’t convert to Christianity or islam will land in permanent hell’. This is ridiculous, why then their god created hindus and Buddhists then, why their god waited for Hinduism and Buddhism to come first. Why not bring in abrahamics faiths from very beginning, makes no sense. According to hinduism even atheists will have to go through their karma cycle and attain moksha. NO one will end up in hell. Then whats the purpose of Hinduism one may ask, well, it gives a path and a model to cleanse up ones daily life and one’s conscience. Women are given equal place in the hindu iconography so as to warn men not to treat them as second class citizens.
Hello Zeba,
You are preaching so much to the females about islamic principles?Why dont you teach males not to keep 4 wives, not to marry cousins, not to indulge in keeping foreign wives, giving fundamental rights to the females, write against sex with a dead wife, write against not allowing females to puruse professional courses in IT/Management, as recently announced in Iran? Dont you want that every creature of God
has a right to live gracefully. Regarding idol worshipper, why the stone in Meeca is kissed? There are so many things to write, but considering the beliefs and confidence every system has a value that I donot want to criticize. THE WORST CONDITION OF FEMALE IS IN ISLAM, DO YOU KNOW , WHY DUE TO WOMEN LIKE?
Guahar,
Marrying a idol worshiper or Atheist is no- no in all religions. But life is long and everyone learns their lessons. I hope both you you believe in one unseen God, do good deeds and dont do Budh Parsti……..Allah will Judge you for your deeds and Imaan.
You Muslims always only think about how to convert other people into Muslim.
This is the thing that your evil Muhammad told you to do.
Islam is not a religion but a joke created by Muhammad may peace be not upon him.
Thanks Admin.
How only can I guide about real love etc. You are doing so much for the humanity rationally and inviting every one to share views and experience. Real love is based on human values, commitment, loyality, understanding from core of hearts, kindness on the principle of live and let live others respecting female folks who suffer so much from day one till last breath, so emotional, full of attachment etc. and they are forced to become just a sex doll, a great blot on the name of humanity. Women folk will have to fight for their just full rights, dignity and honour against all sorts of atrocities.
Scaring females in the name of hell, marrying outside their religion, nothing but an attempt of ego defence of hypocrites and fundamentalist. If marrying outside religion is a sure place of hell, why males marrying more than one wife, outside relgion also, not liable for similar treatment. This is aspect of discrimination should be an international issue of debate from all religious points of view.
Thank you admn.
We did civil court wedding, then visited temple and dargah too.
We have deep respect in the method of worship of both the religions.
Hindu religion is a vast, which believes presence of God in all living and non living things in different manner.We both study each other,s religion. It is almost 3 years now,with a son of 1 year old.
We see God into you, we bow to you.
Please join us here in educating other youths and teaching them a real religion of love and respect for all.
I would like to quote Sahir’Tu hindu banega na musalman banega.Insan ki aulad hai insan banega.Only one religion is relevent and that is Insaniyat.Science does not approve any theory unless it is proven. Scientist Mr.Stephen Hawking rightfully says ‘God is created by humans,to bring law and order in the society.Humanity comes first then the religion and other things come.I don’t believe in communism,but great urdu poets and writers who were leftists were right in their poems and stories.Firaq gorakhpuri,sahir,kishanchandar,Ashk,Adam,Premchand and many others have said same thing.WHY WASTE TIME ON SUCH ABSURD IDEAS.
Gauhar,
Congratulations!!
Just curious, how did you got married? Nikaah, Hindu Wedding or civil court wedding?