Nargis says: October 29, 2012 at 10:07 am
Hi dear, Fa
Here in this site, so many muslim girls, highly educated, have married their Hindu BFs, like Sabana, Chand Osmani, Shamim, Fauzia, Mumtaz etc. and more likely Husna going to marry Ashok. In fact, as a adult you are at liberty to choose your professionally compatible, like minded, loyal and caring soul mate, in the modern age. God is one, known by different names by different communities.
I am also in love with a Hindu boy, he is a doctor (medicines) and myself also Dr. Radiology. In muslim community no professionally qualified and like minded match is not available and so I have decided to marry my Hindu BF, who is very caring, loyal and committed. Religion is a man made system of belief whereas the love is the creation of God. -Nargis
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Why they are against the pure love?
No slavery (gulami) anymore to the outdated barbaric customes such as circumcision. All educated womenfolk should think that circumcision is just an oppressive custom on Muslim babies/children as many practices on the women. You all should be determined to no to circumcise your children unless they attain the age of maturity, preferably after marriage. This is an issue that affects the wife of your child. Hence, it should be decided by the married couple. So, must stop this oppression of your child and don’t allow it where ever you can as it’s nowhere mentioned in Quraan. It has imported and thrust upon to the civilized world and though it has lost its ground in the whole non-Islamic world, it still exists among the Muslims/Jews.
Breath in fresh air. It’s time to say no to burqa/Niqab altogether to save yourself from suffocation. Raise your voice where ever you can – in your/relative’s family, in schools, hospitals, buses/trains, marriage parties or other gatherings.
Be your own Maulavi/Mullah. Allah has given intellect to everybody including Muslim women. Then why this dependence on Male Mullahs and Maulavis? You can have female Maulavis/Mullahs who don’t need to be certified by the Male Maulvis. Believe in Allah, but never in Muhammad’s words. Accept the good things of Quraan but not everything of it. The irrational things must be discarded.
Hi Chand,
OMG, what a great collection of attrocities on the poor and helpless women by fundamentalists. This is a great sin against the mankind.
Where is the judgement day for such cruels? In fact such butchers should be chopped into the pieces?
They are the real shaitans like prophet Muhammad
Satinam wahe guru,
I am from Toronto and in love with a muslim girl. I am running agriculture business and dairy products. Almost same business her
parents are doing. She is Sabia Qureshi and ready to marry me even if my parents insist her to covert to sikhism.
She is very helpful in business and accommodative too.
Sat sri akal
Respected Satyen,
You are great to attempt all educated muslim women to fight against attrocities. Amir like persons are the greatest enemy of the muslim women. He will realize mental agony, only when his own nearest and dearest like sister, daughter are made victim of operessive rules of Quran and criminal type of mullas and maulvies, who are committing crimes against humanity.
Respected Gazala,
Thank you so much. Once you womenfolk along with like minded people in all the religions are woken up, no body can harm you. I see a sleeping giant waking up and they will make their own path irrespective of who likes it or not. Please spread the message I have mentioned in my previous post. You all can brain storm and come up with additional innovative ideas to achieve you goal to make this world paradise which will by no means be less that so called Jannat with Hoors and streams of wine!
Keep up this good work and Allah will guide you.
Respected all Educated Muslim Women,
Now it’s time for the Women in general and the Educated Muslim Women in particular to lead from the front. Spreading the information regarding the anti-women practices in Islam to the whole world is the key for the success to remove the atrocities afflicted on the Muslim women. Your words will be more reliable than any non-Muslims who will be termed as Islam bashers. Converting to other faiths is not the only solution but to reform Islam from within is the need of the hour. The Muslimas can do a lot. I suggest the following:
1. Muslimas should join various Women’s organisations at every levels
such as local, district, provincial/state, national and
international level.
2. Join Human rights bodies at every levels as mentioned above.
3. Join Islamic bodies responsible for making decisions with respect
to Sharia laws. Make sure, every issues involving women must be
decided by the arbitrators having at least 50% women arbitrators.
Make a list of key issues pertaining to Muslim women and take up
just 2-3 most imporatant ones at a time.
Spread similar suggestions to all the social networking sites to enlighten the women power.
All the educated people including Hindus, Muslims and Christians who don’t believe in these religious barriers and consider every human being as a family member, are with you.
It’s time to abolish the anti women practices in Islam.
My suggestions above should not be misconstrued as anti Muslim. In fact I consider it as Pro Islam. When the Muslim women will be happy with Islamic practices, Islam will atract more and more women in its fold. So, the Islamic Mullas and Maulvis experts in Dawa activities (whose presence has been noted by the Muslim women at this site) should think about it.
Now is the time to start demolishing the male dominance in Islam, created by Muhammad, definitely not by the compassionate Allah. So, shun Muhammad and worship Allah to avoid shirk.
“La ilaha ilallaha”- this shahada is enough to be a Muslim. Adding anything further will make you culprit of Shirk (gravest sin).
Satyen, why don’t you teach this to Hindu women that
“La Ilaha Illallah” is true and sufficient.
Why there is polythiesm?
Why there is Idol worshipping?
You teach this part and InshaAllah you will soon realize the second part
“Muhammadur Rasoolallah”
to be true and complimentary.
I follow only Allah’s servant and want to propagate his message which has been defiled by many selfish and hypocrites who are influenced by Shaitan. So, I am in my humble way trying to spread the Allah’s message first to those who need it most. Many of the Muslim men especially the Mullah and Maulvis are there who have een propagating Muhammad’s message instead of Allah’s. They believe that Allah need help of Muhammad to propagate his/her message! Allah has already encoded his/her message in everybody’s heart/mind and all around. You just need to read it with devotion and love. Shun hatred for others and you have your paradise here and for ever without 72 hoors. Allah has made heaven everywhere but it’s not visible to those who hate others. For them, this world is the worst place as they see what they think. To me all are same, be they Hindu women or Muslim women as I have not drawn this line in my mind.
The first line in the above message should be read, “I am only Allah’s servant”.
“Satyen, why don’t you teach this to Hindu women that
“La Ilaha Illallah” is true and sufficient.”
– lol you just showed that people like you target women for conversion, you are so sick and brainwashed beyound doubt. Dude again you dont read and answer anything that comes to your mind, are you facing some sort of mental problem or obsession to your islam? First your “True” statement is for your muslim girls not for secular hindu and Christian girls and boys. 2nd you think its true because you will be killed if you dont agree to that as per your religion you cant question anything. So i would say you teach your hindu girls humanity and secularism and gayatri mantra, which even purer than your quran, so the world will be better place.
“Wht there is polythiesm?” – Amir- do you have a problem with hindus, because we follow multiple gods, whats your problem with that, infact why NOT to follow polytheism? You must convert to Hinduismto see the beauty of world, because of this narrow mindedness, prople like your attract, bad deeds and voilence.
” Why there is Idol worshipping?”- you are not a hindu, you are hindu hater plus Buddhist,zain and Christian hater too, whats your problem with idol, its our way and there are many ways, why you have a problem with our religion, we did not ask for justification from your religion rituals, custom etc. This is nothing more than ignorance of yours, you will reap as you sow.
Aryan,
Your last line sums up for the person like Amir. His key characteristic is ignorance of Hindu belief system. For him, killing a kafir is no sin compared to shirk! This is utter ignorance. For him, God can have only names mentioned in the Muhammad’s book! This closed mentality is of course a mental sickness and a breeding ground to fundamentalism. That’s why such people consider the whole world as a dangerous place. It’s very hard to cure such people. These people are easily made cadres of Al Qaida or the Talibans who laugh behind these people. The CEO’s of Taliban or Al Qaida corporations run their businesses by employing such people. I have sympathy with these people.
May Allah show them light of truth (Satyarth Prakash).
muslims ISLAM are most intollerent and cruel religion in the world. in the name of islam lot of atrocities , coerce , crime , inhumane treatment , and harm is done to muslim womens. pakististan is eg where rape and kidnaping to non muslim women is commen , they even not allow 2 live them. why only non muslim even muslim women suffer burkha , fatwa, brutal and cruel behaviour by muslims men. does ISLAM TEACH RAPE WITH NON MUSLIMS WOMEN, FATWA, ATTACK ON world trade centre….. is this is teaching of islam. then why muslims dothis. killing innocent jews in israel does this is islam. god is one. in the name of god and misinterpretation of islam why molvis mullas, denounsing such a GREAT RELIGION ISLAM for their self interest and politics. muslims are illeterate therefore they become fundamentalist easily.
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Hello every one. Some more inputs against women:
Muhammad’s Own Words
Prophet of Doom was written to expose what Islam’s founder had to say about himself, his ambition, religion, and god. Before you use or criticize these quotes, please read this overview from the author. For those who are serious about the study of Islam, be sure to read the source material appendix, entitled Islam’s Dark Past.
Women
Tabari IX:113 “Allah permits you to shut them in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing. Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Qur’an.”
Tabari I:280 “Allah said, ‘It is My obligation to make Eve bleed once every month as she made this tree bleed. I must also make Eve stupid, although I created her intelligent.’ Because Allah afflicted Eve, all of the women of this world menstruate and are stupid.”
Qur’an 4:3 “If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with orphans, marry women of your choice who seem good to you, two or three or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to do justice (to so many), then only one, or (a slave) that you possess, that will be more suitable. And give the women their dower as a free gift; but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, eat it with enjoyment, take it with right good cheer and absorb it (in your wealth).”
Qur’an 4:11 “Allah directs you in regard of your Children’s (inheritance): to the male, a portion equal to that of two females…. These are settled portions ordained by Allah.”
Bukhari:V1B22N28 “The Prophet said: ‘I was shown the Hell Fire and the majority of its dwellers were women who are disbelievers or ungrateful.’ When asked what they were ungrateful for, the Prophet answered, ‘All the favors done for them by their husbands.'”
Muslim:B1N142 “‘O womenfolk, you should ask for forgiveness for I saw you in bulk amongst the dwellers of Hell.’ A wise lady said: Why is it, Allah’s Apostle, that women comprise the bulk of the inhabitants of Hell? The Prophet observed: ‘You curse too much and are ungrateful to your spouses. You lack common sense, fail in religion and rob the wisdom of the wise.’ Upon this the woman remarked: What is wrong with our common sense? The Prophet replied, ‘Your lack of common sense can be determined from the fact that the evidence of two women is equal to one man. That is a proof.'”
Qur’an 2:282 “And get two witnesses out of your own men. And if there are not two men (available), then a man and two women [a man is worth two women, and one man is always needed], such as you agree for witnesses, so that if one of them (two women) errs, the other can remind her.”
Qur’an 4:43 “Believers, approach not prayers with a mind befogged or intoxicated until you understand what you utter. Nor when you are polluted, until after you have bathed. If you are ill, or on a journey, or come from answering the call of nature, or you have touched a woman, and you find no water, then take for yourselves clean dirt, and rub your faces and hands. Lo! Allah is Benign, Forgiving.” [The Qur’an claims women are unclean and polluted – worse than dirt.]
Bukhari:V4B55N547 “The Prophet said, ‘But for the Israelis, meat would not decay, and if it were not for Eve, wives would never betray their husbands.'”
Qur’an 33:59 “Prophet! Tell your wives and daughters and all Muslim women to draw cloaks and veils all over their bodies (screening themselves completely except for one or two eyes to see the way). That will be better.”
Qur’an 4:15 “If any of your women are guilty of lewdness, take the evidence of four witnesses from amongst you against them; if they testify, confine them to houses until death [by starvation] claims them.”
Bukhari:V4B52N143
V5B59N523 “When we reached Khaybar, Muhammad said that Allah had enabled him to conquer them. It was then that the beauty of Safiyah was described to him. Her husband had been killed, so Allah’s Apostle selected her for himself. He took her along with him till we reached a place called Sad where her menses were over and he took her for his wife, consummating his marriage to her, and forcing her to wear the veil.'”
Bukhari:V5B59N524 “The Muslims said among themselves, ‘Will Safiyah be one of the Prophet’s wives or just a lady captive and one of his possessions?'”
Ishaq:593 “From the captives of Hunayn, Allah’s Messenger gave [his son-in-law] Ali a slave girl called Baytab and he gave [future Caliph] Uthman a slave girl called Zaynab and [future Caliph] Umar another.”
Bukhari:V3B48N826 “The Prophet said, ‘Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?’ The women said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind.'”
Ishaq:584 “Tell the men with you who have wives: never trust a woman.”
Ishaq:185 “In hell I saw women hanging by their breasts. They had fathered bastards.”
Qur’an 24:31 “Say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty except what (must) appear; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display them except to their husbands…”
Qur’an 24:34 “Force not your slave-girls to whoredom (prostitution) if they desire chastity, that you may seek enjoyment of this life. [And here’s the freedom-to-pimp card:] But if anyone forces them, then after such compulsion, Allah is oft-forgiving.”
Ishaq:469 “The Apostle said, ‘Every wailing woman lies except those who wept for Sa’d.'”
Tabari VIII:62
Ishaq:496 “Ali [Muhammad’s adopted son, son-in-law, and future Caliph] said, ‘Prophet, women are plentiful. You can get a replacement, easily changing one for another.'”
Ishaq:496 “Ask the slave girl; she will tell you the truth.’ So the Apostle called Burayra to ask her. Ali got up and gave her a violent beating first, saying, ‘Tell the Apostle the truth.'”
Qur’an 24:1 “(This is) a surah which We have revealed and made obligatory and in which We have revealed clear communications that you may be mindful. For the woman and the man guilty of adultery or fornication, flog each of them with a hundred stripes. Let not compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah. And let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.”
Qur’an 24:6 “And for those who launch a charge against their wives, accusing them, but have no witnesses or evidence, except themselves; let the testimony of one of them be four testimonies, (swearing four times) by Allah that he is the one speaking the truth.”
I am wondering why there won’t be a female prophet? Why this end of sending messages to humanity for their welfare? I am pretty sure, there will be at least one female prophet to eradicate all the oppressions on women and remove the gender biasedness in the present world. So far, all the known prophets are only males though! Why this gender discrimination? Never forget, Allah is impartial and to equalise the genders, there will definitely be a female prophet if not omre than one. It’s a misinformation that there will not be any prophet in future.
As the present situation is dictating, the arrival of female prophet seems imminent.
Hello,
Yes certainly one day woman prophet will come to this earth and remove all vulgarities against women in the Islam. Prophet like rapist and murders including his criminal followers like Maulvies, Mullas, talibanies, shall be crushed and vanished from this earth for ever.
VM
LOL,
someone claimimg to be veena, talks of vulgarity in Islam.
No doubt, tomorrow sunny leone puts such blame.
Hello,
What was the judgement against prophet, who murdered, raped, innocent girls of the age of his grand daughter? If there was true judgement, he should be pulling the loaded cart and being beaten mercilessly when he was not able to pull the cart in 55 Degcel.temp.
Repeating same tone again and again does not consolidate your blame.
Give valid proofs and reference.
Even i can say you are murderer and rapist. But it is not agreed until valid proof is there.
Gulnar darling, people who cover there eyes and say its night, wont see the truth. Even though this is open secret that the world is filled with proof, there are books written showing the TRUE mohammed, but i guess the answer would be as per sharia, meaning some violent, in human. Ooh i forgot muslims are not suppose to question the truth.
whr 4m ur theory of god comes if religion is man made.
I am awaiting for the day when there will be a woman prophet in Islam and will provide an alternative lifestyle to the Muslims. The new woman prophet will redefine the various concepts in Islam such as Sharia laws, Jannat, dress codes, attitude of Muslims towards other faiths and so forth. It’s lond overdue for a new path breaking female prophet. There has never been a gap of so a long duration after the Muhammad who came just after 600 years of Jesus.
So, I am waithing for the new prophet of Islam who will be for the first time a female and will enlighten the community with a new holy book and peace will prevail everywhere.
May Allah bring that day very soon!
“woman prophet in Islam”
No more messenger will come, whether be male or female. Prophet Muhammad is last messenger.
“redefine the various concepts in Islam such as Sharia laws, Jannat, dress codes, attitude of Muslims towards other faiths ”
For your questions on the above subject, muslims, the followers (male and female) are sufficient.
there will be no new prophet, it is over now there will be judgement day and every one has to be get ready.
Please…..
What is love? It is simply overrated, Ali Sina said. I say that it is animalistic too.
And religion is really man made. If the religion was invented for psychological reasons, then love is just another evolutionary function, I better call it a force or a motive.
Please understand that I am not spewing hatred against the religion of Islam.
I am just trying to tell that Islam is not a religion like every other religion. It is more than that. It is also an ideology. A political ideology. A totalitarian political ideology which aims to impose its laws on the whole world where in Non-Muslims become second class citizens.
Am I saying this? I hardly ever write my opinions here. Most of the time, I show what Muslims and their own books are telling about their religion. I provide all the references and the hyperlinks when I do this, as a proof to what I am writing.
Even now, I am just presenting what Muslims are saying about their own religion. Here, Muslim Student Association in America is itself saying ISLAM IS AN IDEOLOGY.
Want to check? Below is the hyper link:
(Islam is an ideology)
http://www.sa.niu.edu/msa/articles/ideology.htm
Some excerpts from it:
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“So Islam forbids for any legislation to be taken other than that contained in the Qur’an and Sunnah. Allah says “The ruling is for none but Allah” and “Rule between them by what Allah has revealed”. Therefore making the Shar’iah as the basis of actions by individuals and society is the practical implementation of the Shahada in life. If other than the Shariah is followed then the Shahada is neglected and the first pillar of Islam is missing from life. In this situation the way of life cannot be described as Islamic.”
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“…from looking at the famous five pillars of Islam we can see that Islam defined the obligation and also the manner of its implementation. In fact these five pillars cry out for a State to exist in order for their full establishment to be achieved. This is the nature of Islam as it is an ideology. Islam not only provides solutions for mankind’s problems but also the method to implement, propagate and protect them in life so that they become more than theoretical rules. Rather they are transformed to practical rules and make the Islamic way of life existent.”
If educated Muslims say that Islam prohibits for any legislation to be taken other than what is in Koran, I guess one understands….
excellent sisters.work towards the liberation of women.God bless u all.i know basically women folk in Islam are most affected.Have a Gr8 life ahead.May Goddess Durga bring strength and power to fight all odds and support other females of ur communtiy.
Hello Nargis,
you are right. Religion has nothing to do with a like minded and caring soul mate. In the name of religion muslim girls are tortured and crushed very badly, even fundamental rights are not allowed and other side of male, they enjoy all sorts of freedoms. Due to anti women texts in the quran, muslim women are most sufferer in the world.
The religion has been manipulated according to suitablility towards males in the islam, which is purely a fabricated attempt to deprive natural justice to the women.