I Have Reasons for Not Believing in My Religion

scc says: October 29, 2015 at 6:55 am

I cried reading this. Karina, I feel sorry for you. I’m almost in the same situation… we’re both trapped in this fanatic religion. and I’m also in love with someone from another.
The reality of religion, controlling every aspect of your life. Disgusting.

Thank you for sharing this, admin. -scc

scc says: October 31, 2015 at 7:27 am
I’m sorry if I sounded too condescending before. Sometimes I feel entrapped that I get a bit emotional.

In life, there are ups and downs. So down, that crying is inevitable. When that happens, I just cry. Then I get up again. I believe there is no problem without solution. We need to be strong and move forward, that’s all.

I have my reasons for not believing in my old religion anymore, but I won’t tell you to leave yours either. Everyone is entitled to their own belief. I respect yours, as long as you don’t intend to harm others. It’s all good. -scc

scc says: October 31, 2015 at 7:11 am

I’m from Malaysia. Muslim by birth, thus labelled as such. My boyfriend and I plan to get married. He is a Buddhist from another country (which I won’t mention here). We plan to live there together, focusing on being good people without following any religion.

However to get a proper visa there, we have to show proof that we’re married. In other words, I need to get the Malaysian marriage certificate.

As you know, the law here won’t allow or recognize civil marriage for muslims, and that a muslim can only marry other muslims. Normally, a non-muslim would convert to islam if they want to marry another muslim.

Just so you know, I don’t plan on forcing him to convert just so we can get married. It’s immoral, and would just lead to other problems in the future.

Therefore, I would like to know how to get the marriage certificate in Malaysia without having a muslim marriage. Can you tell me the details? I think I’ve read about that here somewhere…but it wasn’t detailed enough… -scc

Admin says:

Dear sec,
We also feel like crying with you. This is very sad that in the name of religion, your liberty and freedom is taken away. Barbaric religious leaders have made your life hell.

We 100% agree to your statements:
… “religion, controlling every aspect of your life. Disgusting”
… “I feel entrapped” … yes, you are trapped in Islam. You do not have any choice left but to cry in this life! If you make this statement “I have my reasons for not believing in my old religion anymore” in public, you will be charge for apostasy, arrested and court process will start to stone you to death (will compel you move out of Malaysia).

Can you move out of Malaysia and settle there? That is the only option left for you. We agree that Malay laws will not register your marriage unless he converts. After marriage, your children will also carry the same card labeled “Islam”. One day when they go and date someone from other faith, again, the other party has to convert to Islam. This is a TRAP set to expand Islam. You all Malay Muslim youths go out and date others and thus help bring more non-Muslim to Islam fold. Thus, YOU are the reason for expansion of Islam, even you hate that faith.

Yes, someone told on this site that they went to Singapore and got married by court marriage and illegal got Nikah certificate without conversion. With that they filed papers back in Malaysia. We do not believe such plan will go long way because 1) One day you will have to announce religion of your children. and 2) What will you do when some relative go to Sharia court and tip them that you have illegally got Nikaah from Singapure, at that time the Sharia police could arrest you? Sorry, you are trapped, simple and clear. There is no way around, unless you move out of Malaysia.

dear sec, one thing you could do and that is to write – shout load and clear about injustice to you. Express your pain and frustration on this web site and others (no none will know who are you). Expose religion(s)! Expose all dirty religious tricks you have seen being practiced. Instead of sitting in a corner and crying, use that energy and frustration on your computer and keyboard. If all suffering people like you speak out loud and clear on the web, may be someday, others may also wake up. This is a holy war and Allah has now given us internet to free you from clutches of religious leaders. -Admin

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