Ajit says: Apr 23, 2012 at 6:41 am
Hey sis Zoya,
Pls don’t take such step ever………i have a reason to write over here!! i was a very open minded man till this happened to me.
I am born to a Hindu Brahmin + well educated family. My sis married to a Muslim sum 2 yrs back. We were shocked ….now we were like… how we wud be dealing with society & relatives. we kept this all secret & tried to bring didi back….during those days i remember i hadnt had food for 4 days and still it was difficult for me to have some. I fell from 90 kgs to 63 during those days. My frnd used to ask me what has happened to me….from a gyming bull to sick patient ‘s look!!
we locked us in our flat for days in a fear if some wud ask or know about didi…..the cry of my mom still echos in my ears……my dad….he was never so low ever as he was then……!! i remember a nite when no one was sleeping even when the lights were off….. all of a sudden a huge cry….. i ran to the other room..it was my papa…my hero…those tears!!
Nowadays we got her back after some time and sumhow divorced her in Delhi hi court!! when we traced that Muslim guy in UP who looked & talked so innocently had a Muslim wife and a daughter. Man…when i further traced him he was in relationship with his wife’s sister.
I am cutting short the further story……….After few months of normality he again managed to infatuate my sis and now my sis is absconding for almost 1& a half years now. My mom barely living(on bed now) and papa now a socially unaccepted person even my uncles dont speak to us anymore. But now it up to me …..to take revenge or let him enjoy and continue destroying others families.
Now i have only one aim in my mind……….i know i will succeed. I dont care for any one now as nobody dose for us. I know i will destroy my carrier but at the same time i cant let anyone go who has thrown my parents in such a condition & i swear to god i will not spare my sis as well if i get to see her again.
I read this post and it jus blew me off ….. reminds me my those days….when i read i felt very low again. I felt like ur my sis who is going to take this step….and their is still a chance of stopping this from happing n bring my those days back.
I am 23, I love my self, i love my life……but i have no other option to chose!!
Pls sis dont take such step pls. u still have time, their is a good life ahead…..but ur 1 step can lead u n ur family into hell.
i am a geniun person not a fake story maker…i may be having a opinion keeping my case in context.
But i dont why iwanna help u by suggesting n may be that why i have typed so much. Yes may be ur r not in real trouble but pls dont take this step.
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get kegal help as that guy might even sell her into flesh trade. please contact iNDIAN POLICE ASAP.
Inter-Caste marriage is the worst disease its like a parasite and leaves you with no identity.
Before marriage you can say you are a Hindu or a converted christian or converted muslim son coz all muslim and christian in India are converted and don’t really have the actual gene. They are neither here nor there and mentally confused people.
I remeber a story of a drowning person and someone was so kind to help the person out and finally drowned himself. Never lend your hand to any drowning person coz they will only pull you inside neither they will comeout nor they will let you go.
All converted people in India are drowning person. Since they didn’t have belief they got swayed to other communities. Now what good can you expect from an imbalanced person.
There is a basic difference between Hindu’s and others. Secularism means not treating others badly its to treat everyone equally it doesnot mean to hug them love them and to marry them. Say hai bye that’s it that’s what is expected. In tamil there is a saying “edatha kodutha madatha pudipanga” when we give some room to others they will take advantage that’s the message. I went to Hyderabad and went to Golconda were I found only Muslims teen girls with Muslim boy enjoying teen. So when the Muslim girl are having it with their community boys you should also have a boyfriend of your community.
There are few political parties in Tamilnadu who always marry poor girls from good Hindu communities. When they preach all are equal why they are not marrying a Christian or a Muslim or a c or t girl for the Boys.
So Parties and Film makers will preach something to others and follow what they know is right. ie. Rajini will drive only auto or taxi in films but never travels in them really. As long as fools are there they are bound to be fooled.
So what has changed in this country? Nothing. How? In India there were Kings and Princely States Many were diluted by British and few were diluted by the Indian Congress in the name of Democracy and secularism.
By the people for the people and of the people. It never read By the pople for the people from the same family and of the people from the same family. For this we could have continued with Kings rule itself.
Now coming back all those are now in India are half-baked all the good Hindu guys have gone abroad. So go abroad study well marry a Hindu guy of your community and settle abroad. Also wherever we go others follow us like Hutch dog and the evil spirit continues to haunt us in abroad also. Neither they allow us to perform in India and come abroad to spoil our names.
This country is left with nothing but incapable people occupying all Govt posts and getting the job done from poor Hindu people who had poor chances those days to go in for graduation.
you immatured dog.Go and join in mental hospital
Have faith in Bhagwaan ji-Almighty. Well, I dont agree with Inter religion marriages especially when Hindus are involved.However I would like to say not all moslems act or behave like that.Its always better to find out the family background of the groom irrespective of their religion before marrying your loved ones off. Very sorry to hear another sad story.
bhai jis bahan ne aap logo ko is halat mein pahuchaya hai use maaf mat karna…..at any how.
Ajith,
Sorry to hear your situation. Can you email me please? I am also a Brahmin. I would like to help you and your family. I will be waiting for your email.
supadhyay02@yahoo.com