akash says: December 2, 2014 at 11:52 pm
hi prateek,
me here in same situation, my name is akash, my girlfriend is muslim, i am computer engineer and working, she is also computer engineer, she loves me and i love her too, but parents are the problem, my parents are ready to accept her as a muslim but her parents are not ready to accept me as hindu, she says her parents will only allow our marriage if i convert to muslim religion, i don`t know much about muslim religion, all i want is our marriage without any problem and without hurting any one’s feelings, i want blessings from all side, but she is only telling me that she can marry me only if i convert to muslim which is impossible, now what to do, she is also not ready to leave muslim which i said ok but only problem is from her side.
Please no hate comment, here i see only hate comments, i want a good advise -Akash
Admin says:
Akash,
First we agree to you that there are many hate comments. If you find one, “reply” as “Hate comment” and we will adjust it.
We know you are smart to make your own decision in life and here you wish good education, that’s all.
This is a fundamental truth and no one will deny that a Muslim will want Hindu to convert to Islam before Islamic Nikaah wedding. Nikaah is only for two Muslims only. Read what Muhammed wrote: “ZINA is an unlawful sexual relations between Muslims who are not married to one another through a Nikah. it includes extramarital sex and premarital sex , such as adultery (consensual sexual relations outside marriage), fornication (consensual sexual intercourse between two unmarried persons), and homosexuality”.
Further, in most cases, a Muslim will want 100% Islam and 0% Hindu while raising children. A Muslim cannot sit in a Hindu wedding where multiple Gods and Goddess are being invoked, this is considered “idol-worshiping” and is sin.
Best is go and ask 10 imams if above statement are right or wrong to confirm it.
You said, “my parents are ready to accept her as a muslim”, that is a beautiful pluralistic thought but that is not practical if she is a fundamentalist.
If you are asking us if a Hindu-Muslim marriage with equality is possible or not? We would answer .. it depends. If you both are fundamentalist, it is NO. If both are open minded and progressive thinkers, YES, it is possible. Read these cases: Shamim, Salman, Seema, Saif, SRK. Talk with the girl with open mind over next 2-3 years to educate each others. Later, go get married by the Special Marriage Act 1954. Let your love rule and not your religions.
Only one request we have for you is … please don’t fake-convert for Nikaah.
You do what ever you wish and we do not have any problem with it, after all it is your life. Best wishes. -Admin
Avira says: December 21, 2014 at 4:31 am
Hi Akash,
You are an educated and working guy. My applause to your belief in Inter-faith marriage and immense respect for your parents to allow you a Muslim wife. Its spectacular that the HINDU society is evolving real fast with respect to time. But my heart aches here at the stubbornness of the Girl and her parents who are not concerned with the nature of the Guy and instead on his faith. This proves the gory fact of the ‘expansionist’ strategy that Islam preaches and practices to spread its tentacles. Why can’t the Muslims accept their son-in-law as a HINDU if the Hindus can accept their daughter-in-law as a Muslim. This is horrific and sad.
At this juncture Akash, its advisable that both of you make it very clear that is it love or religion that holds importance?? The holy books of HINDUism believe in all faiths unlike the Islamic Quran that preaches hatred against non-muslims. HINDUism is about humanity. Hence, in the interest of future generations, your sweetheart and yourself both should accept HINDUism as the way of life. Be very open to what’s happening in society, in bollywood, around the world today. My final take is ‘Do not become a hate-monger and not let not your GF coax or bemoan by any means to leave HINDUism and become a HINDU-hater to sanctify your marriage. She would be happy in a more liberal religion as HINDUism that treats Women as ‘Devi Shakti’ instead of Islam that packs them in black robe and commands a hell of restrictions for the feminine gender. If she obeys, well and good. If not, get along with your life and marry instead a girl who is not a religious fanatic as this one. -Avira
akash says: January 8, 2015 at 12:01 am
Thank you everyone for your replies, as i said yesterday that there is only way left for me is to convert to islam.first i thought i will convince them but now i have realized that they will never marry their daughter with me until i accept muslim religion. -Akash
Akash says: August 9, 2015 at 2:13 am
I converted to islam, today is sunday, next sunday is our marriage day. Thanku every1 for ur cmnts. -Akash
Akash says: August 19, 2015 at 10:49 am
Reactions of my parents were negative, my father was very angry n my mother was very sad bt nw my father had given up on cnvrsion issue as we had lil debate abt rlgn hinduism n islam n he came to learn many things abt both d rlgn which he was earlier unaware of, n nw he don’t hv ny issues wid my cnvrsn to islam, he helped me in my marriage, bt my mother is very upset, she is happy that i got married bt she is nt happy abt the fact that i m no longer a hindu, she is hoping that i vl 1day return 2 hinduism, she thinks i cnvrtd for my gf just like u think abt me, bt i clrly told her that i bcm muslim as i likd islam n nt bcz of my muslim gf .
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My wife is now pregnant, waiting for the arrival of new member to our family, need your prayers for my wife and new baby`s sound health.
MashAllah brother, nice to hear that. Our prayers are with you. Best of Luck.
Dear Akash,
Salaam/Namaste 🙂 I am new to this forum and came across your story while browsing. I am currently writing a book which will be tentatively called “An Infidel’s Diary – Memoirs of a Muslim Girl” and your story with your girlfriend (now wife) is very inspiring. Can I, with your permission, use it for a part of my book? I want to do this ethically and my idea is to change everyone’s real names so that their privacy & identities will not be revealed, as they may face backlash in their family or communities. (You know how many crazy Muslims, Hindus and Sikhs we have out there who cannot tolerate intermarriage 🙂 Thanks a lot for your reply, wishing you & your family health. – Rabia
Good luck!
Also read this http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/how-9-couples-brought-their-faiths-together-on-their-wedding-day_us_56aa5609e4b05e4e370393e2
Read Akash’s mother here.
Congratulations to Shakira (now Nandini) and Akash for your wedding on August 16, 2015.
It is interesting that both change their birth faith for the marriage. A Pakistani model and born-Muslim Shakira decided to adapt Hinduism and, contrary to that, Akash decided to become a Muslim. We wish them the best. Please keep us posted for your life development, thanks.
Interfaithshaadi does not encourage religious conversion for marriage, unless it is done by their own wishes and not because they have to.
Thanks admin bt i didn’t cnvrt to islam 4 marriage, i cnvrtd bcz i studied islam n likd it frm bottom of my heart.
Akash sir i need help
Can we help? Can you share what information you would like to get?
Thank you everyone for your replies, as i said yesterday that there is only way left for me is to convert to islam.first i thought i will convince them but now i have realized that they will never marry their daughter with me until i accept muslim religion
So Akash, what is next?
I cnvrted to islam, today is sunday, next sunday is our marriage day. Thanku every1 for ur cmnts.
Akash,
Can you detail us the procedure of your Shahadah in your country? Please detail the procedure and documentation for others to know, thanks.
It’s your choice for conversion. This is a case of love-proselytism. If she was a Christian (or jew), you would have converted to Christianity(or Judaism). So you have not picked a religion based on its merit, but based on pressure from gf’s parents.
Now after conversion, have you got a new Muslim name?
Are you going to live in your parents home, as a Muslim?
Now are you not going to be any part of Holi and Diwali holidays?
Are you not going to enter any Hindu temple to pray Hindu God(s)?
When you die, you wish to be buried in grave?
In case your children get in love with a Hindu, are you going to ask their lovers to convert to Islam?
Dear admin, i didn’t fake convert to islam, i really converted to islam, it was change of my heart.
I don’t knw d procedure of shahada, i hv cnvrtd to islam nly bt nt legalised it in court, is legalisation must? Also i hv nt changed my name, chaning of name is nt required.
Admin, i generally live seperately frm my parents bcz of my work, i very rarely live with my parents as i work in another city.
Abt diwali n holi, i don’t knw, lets see hw it turns out in future.
Abt our kids, they will b brought up in islam rlgn n don’t think upto that stage where they vl b in relationship, it vl b upto them what they want, bt i vl want them to marry within faith,
i m nt hindu anymore, so going to temple n praying to false god is out of my life. I knw don’t care much abt temple. So temples r nt d issue anymore.
And if i were with christian or other girl, what would i hv decided, u r ri8, may b i would hv taken christianity, bt the thing is i would hv studied christianity b4 converting it, if it had made sense to me, then i would hv bcm christian, if nt i would hv remained hindu, in this case, i studied both my rlgn n islam, n i found islam to b really true rlgn so i bcame muslim. Hope i answered what u askd me.
Hi Akash,
You must have taken the oath shahadah LA ILAHA ILLALLAH Muhammadur Rasulullah, did you? See Islam is not all about God, but you will see that Muhammad will be in every step of your life, including in Shahadah. Shahadah is a legally binding oath and will be documented by the imam. Apostasy is punishable by up to death.
What do you think of Muhammad having some 13 or up to 30 (including cucumbines; one 6/54 years) wives. Tell us how you see him holy?
Are your parents going to join for your Nikaah this Sunday? What was their reactions when they learned that now you are a Muslim?
Hi admin,
my parents did join our marriage ceremony, bt my mom was lil bit unhappy as i bcme muslim leaving hinduism. U askd me abt wives of our nabi mohammad bt u should knw that in those days multiple marriage was need of that time, krishnaji in hinduism had over thousand wives, i think sixteen thousand or so, ram had multiple wives n married 5 yrs old sita which i came to knw through a cmnt made by mac or mohammed bhai. So i don’t like to cmnt much on personal life of these rlgs figures.
Reactions of my parents were negative, my father was very angry n my mother was very sad bt nw my father had given up on cnvrsion issue as we had lil debate abt rlgn hinduism n islam n he came to learn many things abt both d rlgn which he was earlier unaware of, n nw he don’t hv ny issues wid my cnvrsn to islam, he helped me in my marriage, bt my mother is very upset, she is happy that i got married bt she is nt happy abt the fact that i m no longer a hindu, she is hoping that i vl 1day return 2 hinduism, she thinks i cnvrtd for my gf just like u think abt me, bt i clrly told her that i bcm muslim as i likd islam n nt bcz of my muslim gf .
Akash,
On “need of that time, krishnaji in hinduism had over thousand wives, i think sixteen thousand or so, ram had multiple wives n married 5 yrs old sita”. Krishna being God, created 16000 look-alike him and one man married to one woman (not a case of polygamy). We do not know details but Sita had a swayamvar (meaning picking her own husband) and thus cannot be only 5. Even Sita may be 5 (we don’t know) but Rama was not 53 (like Muhammad), this is not a case of pedophile.
Jesus was also there about 500 years before Muhammad and there were many other apostles. However, to our best knowledge, there is no other case of pedophile or sex with up to 30 girls (wives, divorcees and girls for sex only). Please correct us with details for your justifications. Thanks.
Akash,
On “my mother was very sad”. Now as a Muslim, your mother (and father) is a Kafir and will get Hell Fire on the Judgment Day. So let her feel Hell right now!!! That Kafir deserves all pain from this new Muslim Akash.
Mahatma Gandhi said, “Your religion is like your mother. Just because your mother is less attractive than your friend’s mother you can’t abandon your mother and adopt a new one.” Well, now enjoy your NEW mother (mother-in-law)!!
Hi Akash,
You are an educated and working guy. My applause to your belief in Inter-faith marriage and immense respect for your parents to allow you a Muslim wife. Its spectacular that the HINDU society is evolving real fast with respect to time. But my heart aches here at the stubbornness of the Girl and her parents who are not concerned with the nature of the Guy and instead on his faith. This proves the gory fact of the ‘expansionist’ strategy that Islam preaches and practices to spread its tentacles. Why can’t the Muslims accept their son-in-law as a HINDU if the Hindus can accept their daughter-in-law as a Muslim. This is horrific and sad.
At this juncture Akash, its advisable that both of you make it very clear that is it love or religion that holds importance?? The holy books of HINDUism believe in all faiths unlike the Islamic Quran that preaches hatred against non-muslims. HINDUism is about humanity. Hence, in the interest of future generations, your sweetheart and yourself both should accept HINDUism as the way of life. Be very open to what’s happening in society, in bollywood, around the world today. My final take is ‘Do not become a hate-monger and not let not your GF coax or bemoan by any means to leave HINDUism and become a HINDU-hater to sanctify your marriage. She would be happy in a more liberal religion as HINDUism that treats Women as ‘Devi Shakti’ instead of Islam that packs them in black robe and commands a hell of restrictions for the feminine gender. If she obeys, well and good. If not, get along with your life and marry instead a girl who is not a religious fanatic as this one.
Avira,
What would you say to “mac” on this site who is defending and supporting polygamy practice allowed in India TODAY?
Hey Admin
I just want to know if each and every story published here is a true one to help promote inter-faith marriage or some cooked up tales to burn the ass of our minority folks. I just wish that each and every story here is true to help the Hindu guys marry the girls of other communities without any discrimination or lust creed. Kindly convince me on the authenticity of the stories here. Coz the incosistency in english language usage in subsequent posts of the same person raise the doubt on the duplicity Don’t get me wrong. I am a Nationalist(pun intended) 😉
Dear Avira,
First, thanks for your great comments. Keep coming.
Now if these stories are true or not? As far InterfaithShaadi is concern, we try hard to make sure stories are true. We have certain ways of verifying information. However, just like any open forum, we have limitations.
Now for an interfaith dating person, he/she could read all stories and decided what is applicable to him/her or not. All types of information is provided here, it is up to him/her to decide what is applicable in own situation.
Mac will never accept evils of Islam being MP.Basically he is an associate of ISIS group.
I like your frustration. keep going
admin says:
December 18, 2014 at 6:42 am
Should secular government now act on talaak and polygamy? Laws should be same for all, not favoring one over the other!
should secular state interfere on one another religion, will you please learn the meaning of secular
Are you saying Polygamy is a fundamental part of Islam and you wish to proudly preserve it? We don’t have problem with it, only Hindu girl considering marrying a Muslim should know it.
No, its not fundamental part of Islam.
Activists working ‘secretly’ out of Iraq have leaked a ‘price list’ of the ISIS slave markets, from where men can buy Yazidi and Christian women as ‘sex slaves.’
According to a report published by Iraqi News, ISIS has imposed these ‘price controls’ over the sale of women and spoils of war, including cattle as the market lately has experienced a down-turn.
It also stated that those disobeying the diktat ‘would be executed.’
On the price list, the youngest is a mere one-year-old girl, while the oldest is 50.
The price for the girls between one- and nine-years is the highest, followed by Yazidi or Christian girls between the ages of 10 and 20, priced at $130.
Mac,
Hindu religion has removed evil practices and still in the process.
But in Islam, new evil practices like sex with dead wife, FMG, auctioning girls, kidnapping, murder, are on the large scale every where in the world.
Auctioning girls is a very old practice being slave girls.
In Sydney a day before, islamic terrorist made hostages several people and wanted IS flag.
Shariat is a text of barbarian practices against females.
Some one,
It appears Mac, Mohammad and you are the same person,giving comments on the same pattern under different names.
About terrorist activities, islamic countries are themselves most sufferer. What is the pathetic condition of women, girls in these war torn countries? What types of sufferings they are facing, have you ever imaged. Even in muslim countries terrorists are selling and auctioning girls to the highest bidder openly and no body opposing. If your own sister or daughter is raped and sold like this, what would you feel.
We don’t doubt (about three being different). Human, focus on your messages to youths in interfaith love; not attacking each other.
It appears Human, massey, golnar , admin and more faked names are same person. .its seems they commenting is same. .
mac bro has proved…
but u can prove three of them is same..
we are not like u fraud..which same person comes with different name. . .
India’s Devdaasi: Sex, Death & Gods?
Mad Dogs of the Society: #ISIS enslaved more than 5000 Young Girls, #Indian Unslaved more than 2.5 Lacs Minors, age carry 4 to 14 years, Auctions #Price range carry 500 to 30,000 INR Per Devdaasi. So Who is more danger & evil for the Indian Society?
India’s devadasi system, which ‘dedicates’ girls to a life of sex work in the name of #religion, #continues despite being made illegal in 1988, The study revealed that girls from poor Hindu families were sold after puberty at private #auctions to a #master who initially paid a sum of #money to the families ranging from 500 to Rs. 30,000.
Quoting the National Commission for Women, the authority says there are 2.5 lakh “Devadasi” girls who have been dedicated to Yellamma and Khandoba temples on Maharastra-Karnataka border.
http://www.thehindu.com/…/t…/tp-karnataka/article3246913.ece
Mac and some one, both are the same, trying to mislead by their cock and bull stories and comments.
Learned writers have quoted the evil verses of Koran with exact number of verses against females and non muslims.
Every country is facing islamic terrorism threats. Islam is criminal and cruel mind set.
I honestly don’t believe Golnar is a Muslim at all or was ever one. She is a copy paste person of anti-Muslim propoganda and I learnt from the paste that such people aren’t able to discuss and post long-winding propaganda to convince the reader and it’s a waste of time to answer them……
Anyway, my answer to you Akash. This is coming from me a practicing Muslim. Islam is a religion that’s not merely a practice but before this a belief. Faith is belief in heart, words by mouth and work of organs. You have to know that Islam prevents a girl from marrying a non-Muslim and also prevents a Muslim man from marrying a non-Abrahamic faith girl such as Hinduism. So even if you converted to Islam for her, you really didn’t convert but pretended to be. Also, I believe love is the misguidance of mankind and the thing that leads to all problems. When you’re in love you are doing things that you will regret afterwards once you come to your sense.
Yes brother, people like Golner,Massey,Human,Chand Osmani are not interested in debates or learning anything new or clearing their misconception, every now and then they come up with a long copy paste comment, its waste of time to reply them because they are not here for reply they are here for propaganda.
I would agree with you. The reality is this is their method to just try to show themselves better. I try to be respectful to not hurt the feelings of people of other faiths because you might end up doing the same when you’re discussing the faith.
About the 72 virgins, yeah it has a basis in our secondary texts for the martyrs. However, those people try to connect terrorist extremists to this. The main reason of terrorism is the feeling of oppression. It’s ironic that most of the wars that are done nowadays against Muslims are done by non-Muslims invading Muslim countries. Yet, you find these people having the nerve to blame the weaker side. Muslim terrorists kill in hundreds or thousands while their governments exercise great powers to kill hundreds of thousands or millions. I’m not justifying either side. It’s just a hypocrisy to only look with one eye.
Admn.
Better you go through the contents of 9.111 verse of Quran as described by Golnar and find out whether this verse really illustrate 72 virgins privilege to the males or not.
I have read her life story and she is a muslim having read Quran also.Let Mac and Mohammad deny it by factual narration.
Koran is sitting right on this desk and 9:111 has no mention of 72 virgins. However details about 72 are nicely summarized here.
Mac
For your information I am submitting following text about 72 virgin concept.
You read Verse 9:111 means a Muslim who is killed or who kills fulfilling teachings 9:5, 9:29 and all the other teachings of murder, rape, terror, torture in the Quran ARE GUARANTEED ACCESSION TO AN EVIL PARADISE FILLED WITH FULL BREASTED, LUSTROUS EYED VIRGINS WHO REGENERATE AS VIRGINS AFTER EACH SEX ACT AND WHOM THESE KILLERS AND MURDERERS OF ISLAM CAN SEXUALLY MOLEST FOR ALL ETERNITY.
“As for the righteous (Muslims)…We (Allah) shall wed them to beautiful virgins with lustrous eyes” – Q 44:51-54
The righteous (Muslims) they shall triumph…Theirs shall be voluptous women” – Q 78:31-33.
Muslim men are promised 72 young virgins for perpetual enjoyment. For the sake of propriety, I won’t include the quotes, but this all is right there in the Qur’an, in Surat 37:40-48, 44:51-55, 52:17-20, 55:56-58, 70-77, 56:7-40, and 78:31. Additionally, sodomy with young boys plays a role in the Muslim paradise (Surat 52:24, 56:17, and 76:19) with these boys being described using much the same language as was employed to describe the virgins. Of course, Islam’s paradise has plenty of wine, wealth, and food for the enjoyment of those who have passed on. Muhammad was a man for whom the fulfillment of bodily pleasures was of paramount, and some would say, consuming importance.
Allah takes away from Muslims all rights and ownership of their life. Muslims will engage Allah’s stratagems of wars without any questions asked, and kill and get killed. This is the only mode of actions that will earn them Paradise. Allah is the peerless master of incitement of violence and bloodbath.
This evil Paradise for murderers is an outrageous affront and sin against God. It turns God into a pimp, the great whoremaster of the universe making a mockery of everything God stands for. Over 1400 years, upwards of 270,000,000 people have been murdered by Muslims so they could fulfill Quran teaching 9:111 and ascend to this place of obscenity. You cannot ascend to Paradise by climbing on the corpses of the murdered. Those who kill in the name of and to the greater glory of God will ascend not to Paradise but descend into the fires of hell.
On 9/11 those 19 Muslim Saudi killers who rammed the twin towers in New York City slaughtering 2900 human beings were true Muslims obeying the teachings of Allah and by killing themselves murdering infidels believed they would ascend to this sexual place of evil. These 2900 deaths were ordered by Allah in teaching Koran 9:5 “When the sacred months have passed away, THEN SLAY THE IDOLATERS WHEREVER YOU FIND THEM, AND TAKE THEM CAPTIVES AND BESIEGE THEM AND LIE IN WAIT FOR THEM IN EVERY AMBUSH, then if they repent and keep up prayer [become believers] and pay the poor-rate, leave their way free to them.” They died in the fulfillment of Allah’s command to conquer the nations of the world for Islam.
The horrid reality of 9/11 is that if these Saudi holy killers had possessed nuclear weapons, they would have gladly detonated them killing 30 million infidels.
The ten commandments teach: Thou Shalt Not Kill.
The Koran teaches: Thou Shalt Kill Infidels.
In Islam, it is a holy religious duty to murder infidels. The Quran is written in the language of terrorism. It is filled with numerous verses urging the Muslims to terrorize the non Muslims, kill them, and take possession of their lands and properties. The important points to remember is that whatever Muhammad did to terrorize the infidels was actually the actions of God. Among the many verses which exhort Islamist terrorism, the following verses stand out as naked aggression of Allah/Muhammad on the unbelievers: 2:63, 3:151, 8:12, 8:60, 8:59, 9:5, 9:29, 9:55, 11:102, and 17:59 etc. These are the Eternal Laws of Allah authorizating murder and extermination as a holy duty. THIS IS THE EVIL INSANITY THAT IS ISLAM.
In Islam, deceit, torture, murder, assassination, massacre, genocide, pillage, robbery, enslavement and rape are halal (legal) acts, deserving of paradise, as long as they are perpetrated on infidels. These evil, immoral teachings are the ETERNAL Laws of Allah
These ETERNAL LAWS OF ALLAH are divine and can never BE CHANGED.
The lives of infidels are totally worthless. 2900 or 30 million or 300 million murdered infidels means a higher status in paradise with more virgins at your sexual disposal. The deaths of infidels is no more important then the deaths of cows in a slaughter house.
Estimates vary as to the number of virgins (2 to 72) per male Muslim in heaven (Sahih Bukhari 4:54:476, Al-Tirmidhi 2562). Actually the Tirmidhi Hadith states that 72 wives is the minimum, perhaps for the not so devout Muslims in the 7th heaven.
Mohammed said: “The least reward for the people of paradise is 80,000 servants and 72 wives” – Al-Tirmidhi 2562, 2687.
Prophets, suicide bombers and other Islamic martyrs in Islam’s first heaven may get up to 1000 virgins each. For maximum enjoyment of these numerous wives, Muslim men are guaranteed superb erection in heaven:
The Holy Prophet (Mohammed) said: “The believer will be given tremendous strength in Paradise for sexual intercourse”. It was questioned: “O prophet of Allah! can he do that?” He said: “He will be given the strength of one hundred persons.’” (Mishkat al-Masabih 4:42:24; Sunan al-Tirmidhi 2536).
Please site the source of information. Please give credit to the author!
First go and read whole verse of the quran , understand , ask to the scholars . .
without knowing any thing u r telling which is right and which is wrong
admin says:
December 8, 2014 at 7:11 am
So your Sikh wife will NEVER have to say Shahadah? She does not have to take any oath involving Muhammad’s name, never?
if she wishes to take shahadah then she can, but i will never tell her to do so.
Also i will allow her to go to gurudwara….
So you are saying it is okay if (hypothetical discussion) she does not take Shahadah?
If so, how you will have Nikaah without Shahadah conversion of the Sikh? Is it not zina to sleep with a “Sikh” without her Shahadah?
Are you going to marry the “Sikh” in Gurudwara? Is that not Zina?
Are you going to marry the “Sikh” by the Special Marriage Act 1954?
Mohammad,
Me not fraud but fraud you are, who is disguising as human but really associated of terrorists to resort violence and criminal activities against females and mankind. Why dont you contradict the statements quoted by me as per sharia a criminal and anti mankind practices. I have already explained my life story.
if every Muslim is a terrorist explain where sharia has told about terrorism. .
proof me.. . without proof how u can u tell sharia thoughts about terrorist..
how we all trust…
dont simply argue anything… without knowing any thing. . .
Hi fellow readers and Aakash,
Please remember according to the Sharia law:
• A Muslim who becomes a non-Muslim is punishable by death.
• A non-Muslim who leads a Muslim away from Islam is punishable by death.
• A non-Muslim man who marries a Muslim woman is punishable by death.
• A man can marry an infant girl and consummate the marriage when she is 9 years old.
• Girls’ clitoris should be cut (per Muhammad’s words in Book 41, Kitab Al-Adab, Hadith 5251).
• A woman can have 1 husband, but a man can have up to 4 wives; Muhammad can have more.
• A man can unilaterally divorce his wife but a woman needs her husband’s consent to divorce.
• A man can beat his wife for insubordination.
• Testimonies of four male witnesses are required to prove rape against a woman.
• A woman who has been raped cannot testify in court against her rapist(s).
• A woman’s testimony in court, allowed only in property cases, carries half the weight of a man’s.
• A female heir inherits half of what a male heir inherits.
• A woman cannot drive a car, as it leads to fitnah (upheaval).
• A woman cannot speak alone to a man who is not her husband or relative.
• Meat to be eaten must come from animals that have been sacrificed to Allah – i.e., be Halal.
• Muslims should engage in Taqiyya and lie to non-Muslims to advance Islam.
Be careful Aakash. Don,t convert.
hey froud u have not guts to declare ur real name u r talking about against islam. . .
Admin, don`t you see problems in above comments by golnar, let me see if you are honest or not, can you point out lies from above comment of golnar
You are Islamic expert, correct her.
I am not an Islamic expert, but i know enough of Islam to point out lies posted in this site.
Mac and Mohammad,
In every madrasa and mosque, terrorists are trained. The innocents are brain washed to indulge in bomb blasts, human bomb, fidayeen. Cruelties and criminal activities are propagated in the name of Islam.
Here in the present context, conversion is being insisted just to raise muslim populations in the world. What the different terrorist organizations are doing in the name of islamic religion, known to every body globally.
human, can you prove in In every madrasa and mosque, terrorists are trained., if not, then you are a bigot, lier, islamophobe.
Europol Report: All Terrorists are Muslims…Except the 99.6% that Aren’t http://www.loonwatch.com/2010/01/terrorism-in-europe/
Hi Akash,
Sorry for not replying to you earlier.
See, the thing is that religion, relationship and marriage are very different things. Let me put it this way, is marriage really necessary for living with somebody? Answer is no, law gives full freedom for anybody to live with anyone.
Its the society and dogmas which bother us all so much. Next, as you said you want to marry her obviously because you love her.
I want to ask you, does love has anything to do with the religion?Answer is again no.
My advice to you would be to explain all this to your beloved, talk to her rationaly, also don’t think about conversion to Islam if you are not into truly. Fake-converting is not good at all.
Talk to your partner and let us know her views.
Why does she want to get you converted? Due to family, society or because of Islam?
Thanks.
Hey Mohammad,
Why are you getting irritated? Did I say any thing wrong? I pointed out only realities of islamic traditions? You people are great threat to the mankind, every where involved in terrorist activities.
if you tell some wrong to me i will not irritated
you have told wrong about islam thats what i irritated
could u proov me where islam thoughts for terrorist. . .
if some persons do why u r going against religion?
go against who are doing silly activities……
we are also innocent indian people…. most of the muslims have also be killed in india along with the hindus…..
dont point wrongly bro
LOL, then what is your hinduism, rape rape and rape
Admin what you mean by marriage with equality
Equality is 50%-50% in most respects, especially in terms of time and money spent for religion and teaching to children about faiths. This includes true respect for each others faith.
Read Salman and other examples cites. Salman said, “I will never ask my wife to do something which I know I could not do. If I cannot change my faith, who am I to ask her to do the same? That’s hypocrisy. She is Sikh and will remain Sikh and I am still Muslim.”. He added, “I am open minded yes but so were my parents who accepted my wife how she was. My own father, despite reading Quran everyday and praying 5 times, sits with my wife whom he loves as a daughter and even takes her to the Gurdwara so that she does not feel like she is married somewhere where she is not accepted. Instead of saying Allah hafiz or something in urdu, he says things like Rab rakha because they accept my wife.”
Akash, is this not beautiful!!
islam don`t have mush conflict with sikhism
i am talking abt hinduims-islam, will any hindu husband,family allow their wife to celebrate eid-ul-azha , yes or no
so if you do marry to a Sikh, will you not ask her to take Shahadah, will take her to gurudwara and teach your children from Guru Granth Sahib and also from Koran? 50-50%?
We believe yes, but Akash has to answer it. Can you clarify what she will be doing in Hindu home for her eid-ul-azha?
yes, i will allow
So your Sikh wife will NEVER have to say Shahadah? She does not have to take any oath involving Muhammad’s name, never?