Farheen says: July 9, 2015 at 1:35 am
your story brought me to tears.. as i share the exact same one like yours.
I am a muslim girl in love with a brahmin boy.. we two are young but still in love for 4 years.. things havent worked out ever and it doesnt seem that they will. my parents will never give me to him. they also got me forcefully married to a shiia guy in america. but i still am in love with the brahmin guy.
if you have any suggestions for me i would love to hear -Farheen
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Farheen,
You are married and still you feel associated with BF? It is not fair. Either you should forget him or divorce your present muslim husband, if your BF is ready to accept you and he is compatible to your aspirations for everlasting relations.
Farheen any male female small relation any where any time any how start simple and grows up gradually day by day to deeper and deeper if let it be
the question is if both sides know very well what is the meaning of interfaith marriage why do they let this relation become bigger and bigger that they claim at the end that they cannot live apart muslim side can stop this kind of relationship up to certain limit before it convert to bollywood love story and muslim parents donot follow the personal life of their dautgher and never wake up till it reaches to marriage Dont tell me i can not cotrol my emotional feeling as we hear always anyway who loves truly must sacrifice believe me instead of putting mulim girl against her relegion and parents
So farheen ru still in america?
admin hope u remember me and my story with my Muslim gf sabah (i had posted on June 3rd)
My girlfriends cousin, who had hit me earlier has again started interfering in our relationship.
He has started threatening me through phone calls.
So should i marry her secretly b4 anything happens?
Need ur suggestions.
I have given you links, secret marriages are not acceptable in Court.
Here is the proof : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Arya-Samaj-weddings-legal-only-for-followers-Kerala-HC/articleshow/18885155.cms
Only way court will protect you is by special marriage act,1954, but it takes one month and through court, parents of both the parties get informed, court gives one month time, if there is no objection from any side, then marriage contract is signed.
Then what are the procedures for converting.
Converting to what?
Legality and reality are two different things. Yes, legally two adults could marry as they wish. Expect Muslim society to fiercely fight against you, now and also later. However, how are you planning to maintain your married life and raise children with such threats?
Reply at your post: https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9928
Admin, you again showed your bigotry towards muslims, his(kumar) father is also against this marriage. He told me his father will kill him if he marry a muslim girl.
BTW Admin, kumar started this relationship by lying, he promised her muslim gf(sabaa) that he will accept islam, and then he refused to convert to islam and now talking ill against islam. He said when the relationship became deep, he told her he will not convert and religion doesn’t between love.
It is important to point out that Sabaa wouldn’t have got into relationship with non muslim if he had not promised her to accept islam. Now he is even approaching organisation like Shiv Sena. What is this admin?
He is planning to marry her in Arya Samaj.
Bottom line is that promising her to accept islam and now planning to take her out of Islam. Admin, you know secret marriage is sin islam considered as zina.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9928&cpage=1#comment-355146
LOL, again admin made post, while ignored comments of heena yasmin hussain, you can find her comment here, https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9908
Farheen,
Sorry that your love ended like this. Hindu-Muslim love are very complex. Even you married to this guy, many more problems would have came later in life.
Now be realist. The fact is now you are married. You cannot change that. Now you will be moving to America. We hope your husband is genuinely nice guy and take care of you well when you are there. Yes, you will have sweet memories from your earlier love period, but with many new things going on in your life (hope all good), slowly you will be able to focus on your new life. Best wishes.
Meantime, please come here to guide other youths, even when you are in America.