FAUZIA says: March 25, 2022
Hello Admin,
My family is conservative Muslim. I am in love with a Hindu boy who lives in my community. I am completely into him. Things between us has gone so far. I want him. He happens to be ABVP guy and has taught me his religion. I find reason in Hindu religion. I am ready to convert but my family won’t accept. What should do I? –Fauzia
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I love my college hindu(dalit) boy. We both are deep into ourselves. We are ready to accept each other as we are. But my fundamentalist family is after his life. Any way out admin? We both are adults and want to marry. We have everything sorted between us and we have arrived at this decision of marriage.
Dear Ms. Farooqui,
Are you financially independent? What is your parents don’t support you, can you manage your life? Let us know and we will discuss more later
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There is one young Muslim woman social activist named Subuhi Khan. She has her own social service organization to help fellow Muslim women. If you can some how get in touch with her, it will be helpful. May be you can contact the host organization of following YouTube channel where she talks about her vision to reform Muslim society in India.
https://youtu.be/c-z42TXH2Ig
You may also find contact info on Subuhi on following link.
https://lnkd.in/dSejqHZ
It is easier to educate and help a hindu girl marrying to a muslim about Islamic laws life and issues that she would have no idea as Hindu. On the other end, the situation is completely different when a Muslim girl is marrying to a Hindu.
Hinduism is open minded with more freedom in life style. So everything is already known or can be verified by any one very easily.
You have good knowledge about your family and society with some history on matter of girls trying to exercise their right to choose different path.
I have come across one media report in USA. A Pakistani muslim father suspected that his two marriage age girls were violating Islamic traditions, he took them out and murdered them before the girls Hadassah any idea that their father could do his own children.
Then, there is on Muslim girl presented on her YouTube channel how her parents interviewed Hindu boy and consented for the marriage of their daughter to a Hindu boy.
https://youtu.be/8C04f_5-EO8
So, you are the best judge about your own situation
Dear Fauzia,
There are so many Muslims that have left Islam and are in a group called Ex-Muslims mostly men. I see them hiding the face and identity in their social media interactions. Based on that it is better to remain secretive from your family. You are the best judge of your situation. However, you must always keep in mind about your safety.
You may go on Youtube.com and search following:
1. “Kali Dasi”
– some of herepisodes will give you internal strength. She was born and raised in Islsm faith. She left Islam after marrying and taking abuse from her Muslim husband.. Now She is Hindu with strong inner strength and happyness for leaving Islam.
2. “Amina Sardar”
– She also left Islam after marriage and is on an international advocacy against Islam.
3. ex-Muslim
This will give you many many other channels of ex-muslims who hide their faces to remain safe
These chsnnels witll give you life experiences about becoming an ex-Muslim and live safely.
Dear Fauzia,
Hindu-Muslim marriages are hard, but if you live in a metropolitan area and your parents are progressive thinker, there can be a way forward.
Before we guide you, one question, what stage of life are you? We mean, are you done with your education? If you are still in high school, we recommend waiting till you are about 22 to make a decision for your life. Meantime, just stay as friends. Even better would be if you start working and be financially independent. This way you can be in charge of your own life.
There is no need to convert now to marry a Hindu. You can always marry by the Special Marriage Act 1954. Have you considered that option?
We will be here to guide you stepwise, so do keep in touch with us over years. Best wishes.
Dear Admin,
I am graduate, looking for job. My family is too conservative. They watch zakir naik and all.
I am ready to convert but I want to marry my boyfriend. Please guide
Is your boyfriend’s family ready to accept you? Have you talk to bf’s family? Have you meet them at their home? Please make sure the other side is fully ready to accept you before you take any step in the direction of marriage. Have you considered the Special Marriage Act 1954 (civil wedding)? Is the boy well educated and able to support you after the marriage?
First make real id, u people make fake name and stories, nobody cares. U can’t marry ur bf bcz Homosexual marriage is not allowed 🤣🤣🤣as u r a fake sanghi boy hiding behind fake Muslim girl id, so go and fck with ur bf, u gay😂😂don’t know what type of fantasy u get to write fake things and replies them too, so much useless time u people have after unemployment rise