Zafana says: March 19, 2013 at 11:40 am
I am muslim girl, working in a hospital in Zambia age 27 years and in love with a Black african age 29 years, who is also working in the same hospital, by religion he is christian.
My parents wants me to marry a muslim guy, who also talked to me one day. His (Muslim guy’s) mother also met me and said that they need a virgin daughter in law. I asked what about the virginity of their son, she ignored to reply directly and said male is not needed to be virgin. I straightway refused to marry him.
I am not virgin and had been in sexual relations with my BF, who is ready to accept me as his soulmate.
We know each other and understands nature and likings of each other. -Zafana
Admin says:
Bravo! Zafana, we are proud of you. All Muslim women, virgin or not, should walk away from any one opening their dirty mouth for this bed sheet display expectations. Yes, you could have a surgery done to fix your hymen, but that is not going to change their attitude.
Zafana, check it out if that Christian is or is not a religious fanatic. This could create problems in your life later, especially after child birth. Tell him that you will not allow your children baptism. Look, this baptism as a ritual is not an issue, but the thought behind asking for it is the concern. It will set a tone for your life, in a wrong direction. So be careful. Best wishes. -Admin
Zafaba says: March 20, 2013 at 8:26 am
Thank you sir.
I shall take care about your guidance and suggestions. Shall be feeling free to consult, wherever I need. -Zafaba
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Zafana,
Great and fearless women you are. Perahps your stand shall be an example for other muslim girls against such discriminator attitude of
male community.
There is no mention in the quran that a man who will enter in paradise will get 72 virgins. It is only written in hadith which may be true or false as hadiths are written centuries after prophets death.
Thak you sir.
I shall take care about your guidance and suggestions.
Shall be feeling free to consult, wherever I need.
Please keep in touch. Don’t jump from a frying pan to fire! Islam got bad name, but these fundamentalist Christians are equally worst for you. Read all recommended articles on Christianity. We hope your bf is different.