Mohammed asked: January 28, 2015
mad admin, You are saying muslim boy story which he wants his girl friend to convert but not forcely . .what about those muslim girls who are forcely converting to hindus. .and what u have told love jihad. Do you know what is meant by jihad admin? Could you quote and tell in the islamic scriptures which says about love jihad? if you didnt found then here after you didnot want to use love jihad in this site. . . I want exact reply not any other turning off reply which you have did before. -Mohammed.
Admin says:
Dear Mohammed,
Scriptures are always complex and difficult to interpret. Instead, let us explain what is love proselytism or love Jihad in a street language.
Koran (24:30) says Muslim men are not supposed to look at women. If they (Muslim boys) see other (Hindu) girl, they are supposed to lower their gaze (according to Zakir Niak).
Now tell us how come many “Muslim” boys are getting in love relationship, start lies and deceptions (taqiyya) for 3-10 years with Hindu/Sikh girls, and in the end ask for religious conversion for marriage. If this is not achieved, they end the relationship.
Is this fair?
Is this not cheating?
Is this not sin?
Is this not taqiyya?
Is this not love-proselytism?
Is this not love-Jihad? Please tell us what other appropriate word is in Islam for such acts.
Yes, if a Hindu boy does this to a Muslim girl and in the end asks for religious conversion, that is equally wrong.
Boy and girl of any faith should disclose expectation of religious conversion as soon as they get close to each other, but before they actually fall in love.
Muslims like Salman, Seema, SRK, Shamim are true lover and not love-Jihadis. This shows that not all Muslims are bad.
Other readers, please read below cases and let us know if you agree with our definition of love-Jihad. We wish to hear from you. -Admin
| Name | True Love? or Love Jihad? | Your view |
|---|---|---|
| Rena | I am a hindu girl who has been dating a muslim guy for 4 and a half years now. He was never bothered by my religion, i was never forced into doing anything religiously. ….All of a sudden he has become the religious type….but now he doesn’t unless i become a muslim. | Love Jihad? |
| Smita | In the beginning of our relationship he was in love with me but he was not ready for commitment. He never forced me to convert. But now suddenly we are into a discussion of changing the religion. Now he is more a Muslim man than my lover. | Love Jihad? |
| Hindu woman | He was perfect before marriage for 4 years but after marriage, a totally different person. I was beaten, starved, forced to pray namaz. I didn’t even get basic respect. Now waiting to get divorce. | |
| Akanska/Nusrat | …married in court but within 3 months had to convert to Islam, quit job, gave up Facebook account, sent to Islamic school for education, made to wear hijab, visited Hindu parents only once in 9 months of marriage and her Hindu identity is erased. | Love Jihad? |
| H Kaur | im a sikh woman in love with a muslim boy since 8 years. we love each other a lot. we started having clashes when v decided to get married. i did not want to convert. He told me that the children will be Muslim. | Love Jihad? |
| Kajol | I have been seeing a Muslim Egyptian man for the past 5 years. He has been good to me and now says he wants to marry me. … he expects me to convert to Islam. | Love Jihad? |
| A flyer | “We need to send our boys to bring Sikh girls into the umma or community of Islam. This task is getting easier since Sikh and Hindu girls are not taught much about their religion at all. They have more Westernized upbringing and school, college and university campus is the ideal place for our youth to carry out their duties easily this way.” | Love Jihad? |
| Cookiee | Brahmin girl with Kuwaiti Arab Sunni Muslim …. “He is coming to India very soon and we are going to break the news to my family and inshaallah everything will workout ☺☺:) Ultimately Allah knows best.” -Cookiee. Lets see where this story goes. Stay tuned! | Love Jihad? |
| Shiva devotee | Brahmin girl…met a muslim guy …got married as per HINDU rights in the presence of a pandit.. this marriage meant nothing to him and may be it was just a way to get me into his bed… he wanted me to cover my head 24×7… I converted at the jama mazjid and tried every bit to make him happy… | Love Jihad? |
| Adi | He told me, ““he doesnt want me to do idol worship. no celebrating festivals at home once we marry. ….he outrightly refused the idea of making our children as hindus and muslims. he wants all of them to follow his religion, his name. …he is adamant about the fact the children are his right and only his.” | Love Jihad? |
| Laxmi | He directly said to me that he will not marry to me if i will not accept the islam. | Love Jihad? |
| YOU?? | Love Jihad? | |
| YOU?? | Love Jihad? | |
| YOU?? | Love Jihad? |
Madhuka says: June 25, 2016 at 7:57 am
Let me share Sri Lankan experience.I am from Sri Lanka and a professsional. When ever a muslim guy admits to a University, he he is advised by the Imam on two points.
1. Try to catch a Sinhalese Buddhist girl in the University and convert to Islam. B,cs they are very kind hearted. Always try to catch a family where she is the only child. Then all her property will becme a Muslim propery.
2. You are NOT allowed to marry a Muslim girl. Use your capacity and talents to convert a Buddhist girl to Islam for the expansion of Islam.
In this way Muslims in Sri Lanka have converted thousands of Buddhist girls in toIslam and aquired their property too.
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I think in the perspective of Tripple Talak, Muslim girls should marry Hindu guys and should embrace Hinduism.
Let me share Sri Lankan experience.I am from Sri Lanka and a professsional. When ever a muslim guy admits to a University, he he is advised by the Imam on two points.
1. Try to catch a Sinhalese Buddhist girl in the University and convert to Islam. B,cs they are very kind hearted.Always try to catch a family where she is the only child.Then all her property will becme a Muslim propery.
2. You are NOT allowed to marry a Muslim girl. Use your capacity and talents to convert a Buddhist girl to Islam for the expansion of Islam.
In this way Muslims in Sri Lanka have converted thousands of Buddhist girls in toIslam and aquired their property too.
This is certainly love Jihad. Thank you for sharing your experience.
This is propaganda and one of the hate agendas against muslim and obviously anti-muslim admin agreed with it without any verification, had a muslim said such thing, admin would have asked for proof.
Madhuka, if what you are saying is true, where you said “whenever a muslim guy admits to a University, he is advised by the Imam on two points.” – who are these imams? Such imams, if what you are saying is true, are a BIG disgrace to Islam if this is how they want to expand the religion.
You also said these Imams advise the Muslim boys: “2. You are NOT allowed to marry a Muslim girl. Use your capacity and talents to convert a Buddhist girl to Islam for the expansion of Islam.”
Any half-sane Muslim boy would not listen to such BS propaganda. If they are listening to it, they are stupid.
Most normal Muslims would just prefer to go and marry a Muslim girl/boy because a) Islam says to marry a Muslim and b) it is difficult to maintain interfaith marriage and nobody wants the headache, life is hard enough without it 🙂
HOWEVER, If Mac is right, and this is just propaganda against Islam, I would not be surprised. This website and the internet in general is full of stuff like this.
I don’t know whether this is true in Sri Lanka or not, I am not familiar with Sri Lanka so maybe what you are saying is true, and very sad, but I would love to see some proof, maybe a link to the article if there have been any news articles on this.
Dear Rabia,
I believe you knows the verdict of Kerala High Court just recent past. This is about lovejihad and the converted muslim women name is Hadiya. Case all reistered in SC and NIA is investigating. Primary investigation said that LoveJihad is exist and is very old tradition by mulsim community. From Moghul period this conversion is going on.
Around dozen of news channel aired such incident just 2 weeks ago. Many Hindu gilrs trapped but fortunately they escaped and all the channels were taken their interview. I have watched those news and their views.
So loveJihad is true and this is the main propaganda by muslim mullah
All the news channels are like “paltu kutta”
for achieving high TRP then can do any thing…There is no proof that they says are 100℅ right.. .so you don’t get trapped from the foolish media
Admin, if these were hindu girls instead of muslim girls and muslim boys instead of hindu boys you would have said love jihad, sex jihad, rape jihad, etc, taqiyaa, love for lust and all these type of words that you invent on islam and muslim.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g7t8MPy1Z9w
http://www.siasat.com/english/news/inter-religious-love-affair-leads-hyderabadi-muslim-girl-suicide
This site is Interfaith marriage with equality. May be wrong but our observation in general is that the Muslims will ask the Hindu to convert to Islam and have children 100% Muslims (100% my way, 0% your way). In most cases, the Hindu will not ask the Muslim to convert to Hinduism and will be happy to take children to Mosque and also mandir 50%-50% times.
Muslims have rights to ask their Hindu lovers to convert to Islam, and that is not the problem we have. However, in the initial years of love, they don’t disclose this truth. This is Love-Jihad or taqiyya (lies and deception) to expand Islam.
This site is created to expose interfaith lover’s issues (all sides: Hindu, Muslim, Jew, Sikh, Christians, etc). It is up to the readers/lovers to decide what is right for them.
How you came to conclusion of that it is muslim most of time? Any scientific evidence?
Read some 400 posts here …https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?cat=9
Admin, among your 400 posts, there are many muslim girls, i don`t know exactly how many are muslim girl- hindu boy and hindu girl- muslim boy, you have not given stats, you just gave 400 which means nothing…also you many times i have noticed do not make new blog if any muslim girl complains about hindu boy or if any hindu boy convert to islam but moment you see any hindu girl complaining against muslim you immediately make new blog.
I prefer a christian guy over a muslim guy. I love christianity cause as a Hindu and studied in convent, i was free to walk in to church and pray to Lord Jesus. No restriction at all. No christian guys have ever lured me into converting into christianity( i love it!!) And my catohlic missionary school even allowed us to perform sawaswati pooja in classroom! Christian guys are truthful much more than a Hindu guy!
Madhoo,
Are you in any interfaith love relationships? We hope you will come here to educate other youths.
There is no risk at all, both the life partners should be committed.
It is true that there is a big hue and cry against muslim girl marrying outside faith, but when a non muslim girl is trapped by a muslim guy, there is no such attitude.
marry a Muslim girl is big risk
Love Jihad is a process of trapping non muslim girls by lying, hiding real monstrous face of islamic practices for sexual purpose and conversion to islam for expansion.
Hi Shagul,
I am in love with a non-muslim girl, she is my best friend. But we both know that its impossible for us to get married or to be in a relationship.
And believe me Love just happens, you cannot stop that, at least i was unable to do so.
Unfortunately, I got shifted to new city, and its helping me to forget her, and its hard due to whatsapp,phone, and so on…….
i told her to block me, because i donno wanna hurt her, after all family is everything().
The great foundations are not built on love, but they are built on the mercy of Lies…..
The concept of love marriage doesn’t exist in islam. I can like a girl, then i have to send payam(Rishta) to her family, and then all rituals.
BTW we can marry Christian oand Jews, its acceptable.
And i have one question, what about intra-religion marriages, y u ppl are against that, i came to know from her ki u guys can only marry from ur caste and not any other hindu caste :/ i am confused.
Are Shia going to prefer to marry Sunni?