I will accept her if she divorce her Marthomite husband

Anonymus says: January 6, 2013 at 5:18 am

Hi ,
I am in Love with a girl and due to pure pressure from her parents this girl had to marry a Marthomite. Its just few days since the marriage.

She is willing to come back to me. My parents are also willing to accept her if she nullifies her marriage.

I want to know whats the procedure to cancel this marriage. Should a legal divorce be filed or just the cancellation of the marriage is enough. -Anonymus

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Admin says:

Dear Anonymus,

This is just too difficult. You are better of forgetting her and start your own new life.

She is already a wife of someone. If you keep relationship and keep loving someone’s wife (your former lover) is not right, not legally and not morally. If she loved you, she should not have got married.

Now, if she is not happy with her marriage, first thing she needs to do is to get divorce from her husband. It is a lengthy process and will take years. Read Indian marriage laws and contact a divorce lawyer. Best wishes.

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4 Comments

  • January 25, 2013 9:06 am

    I’m not sure why the admin is so against finding Jesus. I saw Him in a vision and anyone else who does I’m sure they fall at His feet, He is so Beautiful! People can have a ‘label’ of Christian but until they have met Him it will be only pretend or shallow. A follower & a believer of the King of Kings will not be much interested in the worldly affairs of earth anymore, & only want to marry someone who feels equally strongly. I don’t know if your Beloved has this strong friendship with God, but it would seem that her family are not obeying Him at all since He is LOVE & it is His character to give humans Freedom & not force them to marry. It’s easiest to help many others when you’re NOT married, in fact. But if marriage is the plan for you, I hope the annulment isn’t too hard for your fiancee, it was not a true marriage if she & the man weren’t Best of Friends & in Complete Agreement to spend their lives together in ALL sorts of Love! God Bless You & I hope everything works out for you in the Savior’s Love! 😀 He died to show us how He loves us & will meet you if you REALLY ask Him (not otherwise…no True Christianity is ever forced! 🙂

  • Anonymus
    January 6, 2013 11:16 am

    Hi,
    Thank you for your Reply , Well she was pressurized completely she tried to escape the previous night but luck dint favor , For now that guy is willing to give a mutual divorce
    I think i’ll go with it .
    Forgetting her i don think its an option for me ..
    And anullation of the marriage also i think cant happen as his father is a big shot in his church
    Well lets see
    Thanks Guys

    • January 6, 2013 12:07 pm

      What do you mean by “anullation of the marriage”? As per Indian laws, either she is married or not.
      The divorce process may take up to 5 years, check with a lawyer!
      If her father is a big guy in church, he will expect you (a sinner) to convert to Christianity before marriage.
      Don’t plan to be a Devdas!!

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