I am Hindu guy and love a Muslim

ashim786 says: May 4, 2013 at 1:57 am

Hi my dear i am hindu guy and m fall in love muslim girl..she is ready to merry me and me also..but i am taking tense with her parents..i dont know what to do..please help me out..i am in very big deep blue sheet..and i cant live without her.. -Ashim

Admin says:

Ashim,

You have to give us little more information. What do you mean by “tense with her parents”? Are you willing to convert to Islam for Islamic Nikaah, have circumcision, change your name to some Arabic name and raise Muslim children? How are you planning to get married by? If you have to go live in her community, are you comfortable doing that? Please read all recommended articles and get back to us with more details. -Admin


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20 Comments

  • January 27, 2018 6:22 am

    How about all of us just follow humanity which I believe is the core of every religion and let the Special Marriage Act do the talking? I love a muslim girl and Im going to marry her, not in mandir not in masjid but in court of law. If any of thw family member cant accept this simple truth thats their loss.Regarding hell and heaven how many of you have seen it with your eyes? So you are ready to regret all your life for something you have not seen actually? And society and neighbours and those uncles and aunties and dadas and dadis? 20 years down the line they will die! Open up your eyes people, love itself is a religion. Believe in it and you need nothing else. Religion never was the problem to any marriage, I am a lawyer, have not seen a divorce due to “cultural” differences ever.

    Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=13236

  • Rahul
    September 4, 2016 8:41 am

    I am Hindu boy, been dating Muslim girl, named Nagma. I love her very much, and she does too as much I do, even possibly more than I do.
    She almost has been ready to elope away but she is afraid of the religious and society problem. My parents and family members know about relationship and they are totally disagree with it if I am gonna run away. If I do it .. I’m gonna lose everyone, and that is main problem!

    I can’t live without her.. That’s the truth and my family knows it.
    But they don’t let me do my things.
    I’m hiding my relations with her but family spy on me.

    I can’t lose neither her nor family…
    Then what am I up to do?

    I will stay Unmarried or marry her..
    That’s I have planned..
    But I’m very confused..
    So confused.

    I know that her parents will also show indignation.

    What should I do?

    Suggest please.

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=11519

  • Santhosh
    April 8, 2016 11:51 am

    Hi!! I am Santhosh (Hyderabad). I am a Hindu. I am in love with a Muslim girl. Her name is Thasneem (Kerala). I really love and would like to marry her but don’t want to convert. I respect her faith. She is absolutely free to profess her religious faith after marriage. I would like to marry her with the consent of her parents. How could I make her parents agree to our marriage?

    • Mohammed
      April 8, 2016 5:45 pm

      Dear sonthosh bro,

      The only thing you would marry a muslim when you accept the true way of life(i.e, Islam), then only you can marry her..otherwise islam prohibits on interfaith..

      A good responce of a muslim husband/wife to take their spouse into the jannah(paradise)

      The best example for interfaith marriage is A truck , If one wheel of a truck is of car and another wheel of a truck do you think a truck will run?
      No brother. truck wont run,
      similarly.. if one person is some belive and other person is some other belive do you think life can manage, no brother..

  • Rahul
    June 29, 2015 9:10 am

    Hi everyone…
    I am a hindu boy and i am in love with a muslim girl who is older than me. I am deeply in love with her. I want to spend each second of my life with her. But I don’t think our families will allow this.
    i am ready to face any circumstance. So what will i do??? In india can we marriage legally???

  • i am prem age26
    February 18, 2015 9:00 am

    i am working my gf is working along with me we are good friend s I am Hindu she is Muslim i really love her from my heart
    how to tell her I am love with her

  • muthu kumaresan.s
    March 15, 2014 7:21 am

    NAAN ORU HINDU PAYAN.ENNODA CLG LA NAAN ORU MUSLIM PONNA REMPA SERIUS AHH LOVE PANRAN AVA ILLATHA LIFE ENNALA NINAICHU KUDA PAKKA MUDIYALA….NAAN ORU NAAL AVAKITTA SONNAN ATHUKU AVA ONNUMEY SOLLA LA…MARUBADIUM AVAKITTA POI SONNAPA AVA ONNU SONNA NEE HINDU PAYAN NAAN MUSLIM PONNU ..ENGA VEETLA ITHUKALAM UTTHUKA MATANKA …….PLZ VERA HINDU PONNA MARRIGE PANNAIKO NU SOLLITA….BUT NAAN INNUM AVA MELA UYIR AHH IRUKAN …AVALKUM LOVE IRUKUTHU BUT AVANGA PARENTSAH NINAICHATHAN PAYAMA IRUKU….INNUM ONE MONTHLA CLG MUDIYA POGUTHU…ENAKU ENNA PANRATHUNEY PURIYALA AVA ILLATHA LIFE ENAKU PIDIKALA …PLZ ANSWER PLZ SIR/MADEM….SHE IS MY SOUL

    • March 15, 2014 8:52 am

      We would love to help but we have difficult understanding. Can some one help translation?

      Are you a Hindu guy in love with a Muslim girl? If your question is related to Hindu-Muslim love, you have to decide if you are willing to convert to Islam and be a true Muslim, no more Hindu?

      • Gauthami
        January 9, 2017 1:20 am

        Dear Admin Here am Translating Mr.Muthu Kumar’s Comment

        He is loving one of the Muslim Girl in his College and he have proposed her but the Muslim girl ignored by saying ” am a Muslim girl i couldn’t able to marry a Hindu guy” so better u choose to marry a Hindu girl the… Muslim girl have respond him. But he thinks, she is also loving him because of her family she is ignoring him. Only one month is left for him to complete his college so he need support towards this.

        • January 10, 2017 8:08 pm

          If she does not want, why bother? Respect her wishes. There are plenty of other girls around, go for the one who cares for you.

  • shekhar
    November 19, 2013 4:31 am

    hey, i am Hindu boy and fall in Muslim girl love one side but hesitate to propose her because she is Muslim, please tell me what i do?

    • November 19, 2013 7:23 am

      Shekhar,
      First she has to live her. Instead of love feeling/relationship, just try to be her friend. How do you know that she is not already married? ..or may have another boy friend? ..or has no interest in this love-business?

      Now come to religious differences, are you ready to convert to Islam for the Islamic wedding? Read https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=2643

  • July 21, 2013 1:41 am

    I am Hindu and i want to marry Muslim girl as we r in love from past 2 years. so how can i marry her?
    I am Hindu from Bangalore. I am in love with a Muslim girl from past 2 years. I can’t live without her and even she can’t live without me. We can’t marry as we are of different religions. I know that Islam never accepts Non-Muslim (Idol worshipers) to marry Muslim until he/she accept Islam by heart.
    Please read this completely and help me…

    I believe that there is only one god. Even Vedas says that there is only one god. He is neither having shape nor have comparison. So I have no problem with accepting Islam. But I have 2 main problems which r hurting me so much. I can’t even decide what to do and what not to do. They are……

    1. My parents (they are sentimental and emotional) have all hopes on us (on me n my brothers n i am the youngest). My mom is very sensitive. So if I accept Islam and converted to Muslim (by heart and for marriage) what will b the condition of my parents and elder brothers?? What kind of torture they may receive from society (neighbors, relatives and others)?? Will they live happily?? What will b my condition and status in society after converting to Islam??? Will I get a job opportunity?? will i live happily n am i able to follow all Islamic culture n rules as i born n grown up as Hindu??

    2. I can’t live without her and can’t even imagine myself with someone else. At the worst case I may remain unmarried but can’t marry someone else. So If I remain unmarried, who will take care of me in my old age?? With whom should I share all my feelings, worries and problems???

    Hinduism believes rebirth but Islam never accepts this.

    According to Islam, on judgment day god will decide whether to send us to heaven or hell. If so can we choose our companion there???

    According to Hinduism can we become together in our next birth???
    I can’t even die or I can’t even live. I am experiencing the hell now only and it’s like a battle life and death… Please help me… Thanking you in advance

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=6100

  • May 7, 2013 3:39 am

    Ashim,

    Why did you not give feed back, as requested by learned sisters to suggest you various options.

    You just appeared in the first text, then no feed back?
    VM

  • May 4, 2013 12:23 pm

    Hi Admn.

    Im a Muslim girl(24 yrs) and ive been going out with this christian guy for a year and a half. I slept with him but now i regret sometimes that i did that because of my curosity to enjoy comapny of other sex. He says that he loves me all the time, my parents will kill me if they find out! help me please!!! Im a proper muslim from a strict family ( i do love my family alot though) and he is a black christian boy. Im not ready to lose everything for him yet but he said he is ready for anything. He is my first love and i am his. He has never said he loved anyone else apart from me (not even his parents that much) – I know that because we’ve known eachother for a long time,

    My parents wants me to marry a muslim guy (25 years old), working as a mechanic in a workshop, where myself a teacher in the same school of my black christian BF. I am afraid, how to prove my virginity on wedding night with muslim husband. Some time thinking to use artificial hymen kit, if married with him. Professionally black christian guy is competent to me.

    Please suggest what should I do.

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=5333

  • May 4, 2013 10:17 am

    Hi Ashim,

    If your muslim GF really loves you, please dont leave her in muslim community, she will never be happy there.

    Hindus being liberal, educative and submissive, normally keep their wives happy and respect them in all matters including decisions of vital nature.

  • May 4, 2013 4:01 am

    Hi Ashim,

    Where there is a will, there is a way? If you both love each other from core of hearts, no problem can deter your ambition, as husband and wife.
    Good wishes,

    • May 4, 2013 7:33 pm

      To the point, “Where there is a will, there is a way?”, yes, but there are always many ways. Important is not to get married, but to make a ever lasting happy married life.

      If they way is to BBS (here Shahadah conversion), sorry we do not endorse it. Probably the Special Marriage Act non-religious marriage is the best option.

  • May 4, 2013 3:22 am

    Ashim in which country are you now?
    If in India, and you both have attained age of maturity, you are financially independent, there is no problem to marry through special marriage act.

    Please give more insight so that suitable advice could be rendered.
    Good day.

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