Aryan says: October 28, 2012 at 10:07 pm
I know you have seen truth about muslims thats why you wrote like that. But that’s not going to change anything, I would say channelise you quest to throw those Muslims out who disrupt human life.
I have seen there true colors, very closely. My wife is a Muslim and she used to teach Qur’an to children in the locality. She is educated thats how she could marry me, despite death threats from- local muslim goondas, compotators, and others, but her family had comparatively less anger on her decisions. All i want you follow is- tit for tat makes world a safer place, mark my words- this works! -Aryan.
Aryan added:
All you need is love and be part of each others rituals, customs festivals and most importantly always re assure to her that you will be there. That’s all i do, i can tell you there is no clashes on religion, even minor, coz she does not worry about my gods and she prays with me, i do the same, i dont do namaz, but certainly pray with folded hands to Allah, ask him to maintain the love she has and i have. She is very sensitive and i totally understand her.
Child is too far yet , but neither do i or her has any “rules” for it. Whenever i think i will have any problem, i m not going ask 10 people i will use my brain then. Absolutely no clashes between her and me, she know me better than myself, coz i was absolutely open to her. After so much fighting to get each other we understand each other better than before. -Aryan.
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How can I convince my Muslim parents that this is not going against Islam?
All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not remain muslims and will go to hell forever life after death tell them you are not muslims. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam
god is one for all religions and diff languages. when we came on earth we do not have any religion and when we go back the same . we have to leave all here for what we are and what we have .so better beleive in love and peace to leave in harmony.
Krishna never intended sex as is clear from the fact that he never proposed any girl in his life. Always, it were the women who implored him as their husbands. He is said to be extremely handsome and that’s why he is called Mohan (he who charms). He just fulfilled the legitimate desires of others who asked for it. In fact he observed a period of strict celibacy for 12 years (before his first son Pradyumna). Also he abstained from sex all his life after the age of 50. Ideally, Hindus believing in the Vedic philosophy are supposed to abstain from sex before marriage and after 50 years of age. In fact only moderate sex is recommended during the youth period (loosely between the ages 25 to 50).
The lifestyles of the incarnations of God is not easy to understand as it is divine. They take incarnations to destroy the demons and protect the saintly people from time to time so that the whole world order is maintainded.
This site is meant for other purposes, not for lengthy philosphical discussions. Therefore, those who are really interested/curious, should read the Geeta, a small book of about 200 pages (including the translation)that has influenced the most prolific minds of the world including the scientists.
God has got no gender, So he/she/it does not matter. I use He, u use whatever u like.
I believe God created world in 6 periods. Duration of a period is unknown. It is not necessarily 24 hours.
Yes i agree Adam was the first person on this earth and that Darwin’s theory that human developed from monkey is wrong.
I believe Quran to be perfect. Quran 9:5 was commanded in the situation of battle. Polythiest signed a treaty with muslims that they broke and started killing muslims. So it was commanded to fight and kill them.
It is perfect rule, if somebody is in war with you , you have to fight. But Quran is far superior which says further in 9:5 –
“But if they should repent, establish prayer, and give zakah, let them [go] on their way. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.”
Why u did not write complete verse???
and in 9:6 it is ordered – “If one amongst the Pagans ask thee for asylum, grant it to him, so that he may hear the word of Allah; and then escort him to where he can be secure. That is because they are men without knowledge.”
Yes Kaaba is a focus point. Why in a classroom all students are headed to certain direction? For better attention. Being ordered is better than being unordered.
So krishna is just a focus point. Let it be. i don’t mind. what i feel wrong is taking a man as God. When you make idol, you give shape to God. which is wrong. Now answer me –
1. what is pluralism??? as you were looking very proud to be pluralist.
2. So God is like man. He do sex ??? do you agree??
3. Are you developed from monkey??
4. Do you think hindu reformers like Dayanand to be true?? as They were monothiest and condemned idol-worship.
Amir,
Here, we are talking about interfaith marriage with equality. This is only possible if both are pluralist and both respect each other’s faith. Two exclusivists’ marriage will create hell married life ending in divorce and hell for extended families.
Amir, we truly respect you for being honest and expressing your view as is. We wish all other Muslim boys and girls in love relationships with Hindus, Christians and Sikhs are honest just like you and tell their lover all facts as is. Unfortunately, most other Muslim in love relationships with non-Muslims keep hiding facts and later expect “fake” religious conversion to please their parents and Imams. We believe this will bring only hell later in this life. Do you agree?
Patthey kya baat boley yaro………
keep it up yar….
aur sikhao inku apney barey mei samjhao.
Q: “What do you mean by “She is very sensitive”?”
A: what i meant was , like any other girl, if i were to speak to a girl for too long she would be uncomfortable, i do understand that she did fight from her family for our marriage that I give her so much love and warmth that she feels secured.
Q: “What are concerns?”
A: – absolutely no concerns, i meant if there was, we dont have any religion related concern, ofcourse her muslim friends react differently, most of female friends are surprised to see her married to me, a hindu, but then do not say anything bad, but hide the real thing by saying “it must have been difficult” . Few male friends are so jealous that they would try to contact her via fb old cell num etc, just to shout about our marriage and if i converted etc…she is more intelligent to answer them, few of her male friends are fine etc.
So in one hand her few old friends being not there like before is a concern sometimes.
Q: “We do not mean to think negative, but will this be a concern after child birth?”
A: I would do what SRK did, give them a neutral name and both of our last name may go, she insist on my last name, like any other girl would. So religion issues will not arise, as i follow all gods plus Buddha, i m no buddist, but in my opinion buddha was right so i follow him too…i will impart both religion, of course he/she would write “others” in religion section of form. He follows both religion.
I hope your relationship stays strong! 🙂
Congratulations to you and your wife.
It’s very rare to see a couple where equality exists, and where one person does not have to give up his/ her faith.
Hi Aryan,
I appreciate your efforts to save girls from the islamic evils.
Please carry on educating girls to fight against mullas and maulvies and cruel, evil frame mind person like Amir, Anusr and so on.
Aryan u did a good job by rescuing a muslim girl from the sick religion.m sure she must be enjoying far more freedom n life than before marriage.thats y muslim girls wana marry Hindu guys.bcoz they can live a liberal life.not controlled by so called revelation of God.God said girls are cattles.then y did Goddess Durga n other goddess take birth even in heaven if girls are so bad as per Quran?its all a mental sickness.
No slavery (gulami) anymore to the outdated barbaric customes such as circumcision. All educated womenfolk should think that circumcision is just an oppressive custom on Muslim babies/children as many practices on the women. You all should be determined to no to circumcise your children unless they attain the age of maturity, preferably after marriage. This is an issue that affects the wife of your child. Hence, it should be decided by the married couple. So, must stop this oppression of your child and don’t allow it where ever you can as it’s nowhere mentioned in Quraan. It has imported and thrust upon to the civilized world and though it has lost its ground in the whole non-Islamic world, it still exists among the Muslims/Jews.
Breath in fresh air. It’s time to say no to burqa/Niqab altogether to save yourself from suffocation. Raise your voice where ever you can – in your/relative’s family, in schools, hospitals, buses/trains, marriage parties or other gatherings.
Be your own Maulavi/Mullah. Allah has given intellect to everybody including Muslim women. Then why this dependence on Male Mullahs and Maulavis? You can have female Maulavis/Mullahs who don’t need to be certified by the Male Maulvis. Believe in Allah, but never in Muhammad’s words. Accept the good things of Quraan but not everything of it. The irrational things must be discarded.
All you need is love and be part of each others rituals, customs festivals and most importantly always re assure to her that you will be there. That’s all i do, i can tell you there is no clashes on religion, even minor, coz she does not worry about my gods and she prays with me, i do the same, i dont do namaz, but certainly pray with folded hands to Allah, ask him to maintain the love she has and i have. She is very sensitive and i totally understand her. Child is too far yet , but neither do i or her has any “rules” for it. Whenever i think i will have any problem, i m not going ask 10 people i will use my brain then. Absolutely no clashes between her and me, she know me better than myself, coz i was absolutely open to her. After so much fighting to get each other we understand each other better than before.
What do you mean by “She is very sensitive”?
What are concerns?
We do not mean to think negative, but will this be a concern after child birth?
I am in love with a Muslim girl. I really respect both parents and there struggles that made us to stand here.But I dint know why they are against the pure love.Do they want to live us good happy life or something else.
We both are b tech graduates and she is placed in CTS and me in VinVish technologies
I beg them for us.
Cant forget her. If she wants me even her parents force here to marry another.. then I will not lave her for sure.
Reply to Sree at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3306
Aryan,
Can you shed more light on your pre-marital experience and how are you managing religious differences now. How did you got married, Hindu ceremony, Nikaah or court? What do you teach children about who is the God? This will certainly help other young adults in relationships, thanks. Best wishes.
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