PANKAJ says: April 9, 2014 at 1:59 am
HI m an Hindu guy in love with Muslim girl like all others but the same thing. Why family don’t wanted to get convinced the time has changed and even after 5 to 10 yrs it will be totally different.
i m a hotelier working outside India my girlfriend is working in india. Wanted to marry the only thing which is stopping is religion.
Why people make (Hindu-Muslim) love so critical? Why we r being told in school every one is equal why every body reads kabir dohas that we all are same.
Please help me we really love each other and just because of religion we dont want to loose each other. Tell something so that our parents gets convinced. -Pankaj
Admin says:
Dear Pankaj,
India is a secular country and schools and Bollywood teaches we are same and equal. However, religious books teaches exactly opposite and cannot not be changed now. Go read Koran and Bible and find out how much intolerance being written into them for people of other faiths.
The Bible teaches to kill EVERY thing that breath after Christians concur an idol worshippers land. Christians believe all Hindus and Muslims will not be saved (get hell).
Qur’an says in Surah Nisa Ch. 4, Verse 56, that… ‘As to those who reject Our signs, We shall cast them into the hell fire, and as often as their skins are roasted, We shall give them fresh skin, so that they shall feel the pain’ (read Muhammad and My Cat). Muslims are taught today that all Christians and Hindus will get Hell Fire on the Judgment Day, including Gandhi and Mother Teresa.
If you cannot change religious books now, only option you have left is to find a person who is not following these books. A simple way to find out who really is your girl friend is to ask if she is willing to marry by the Special Marriage Act and raise children by 50-50% in TWO faiths? Is she willing to take children to Mandir and Mosque for education and meet God? Is she willing to wear Sari and Burka as needed?
If she is expecting you to convert to Islam for their Nikaah wedding, then you will know that she has not learned “every one is equal why every body reads kabir dohas that we all are same”. You should find out if she is out to expand the Muslim population by converting you.
Please read all recommended articles below for what you are looking for. First you have to know who is she? If she open her mouth for Nikaah, dump her! Considering you both are working, rest could worked out and ultimately parents will get around. Best wishes.
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Hindu: Finally I have to unwillingly revert to Islam
Hi every one,
The girl, from Qaseem province east of Riyadh, was married last September in return for a dowry of $22,600 (£14,174) paid to her father.
She and her mother had asked a court to annul the marriage on the grounds the girl had been raped.
But now the girl has withdrawn her petition, saying she wants to respect her father’s wishes.
“I agree to the marriage. I have no objection. This is in filial respect to my father and obedience to his wish,” she was quoted as telling the court by the Okaz newspaper.
The girl’s situation was made public in January when a journalist from the Al-Riyadh newspaper encountered the girl, and she begged the reporter to save her.
The lawyer appointed to help the girl said her mother had not informed him of her child’s change of heart, it was reported.
‘Right to childhood’
Saudi Arabia has no law against child marriage, but in April last year the Justice Minister said there should be increased regulation to prevent parents “selling off” their children.
The minister was speaking after the marriage of an eight-year-old to a 60-year-old man.
This latest case has attracted the attention of the Saudi royal family.
Princess Adela bint Abdullah, the daughter of King Abdullah bin Saud, said the marriage violated the child’s rights.
Dear readers.
In muslim countries child brides are married to older people, a great blot in the name of islam against humanity.
A gala event has occurred in Gaza recently.
Hamas sponsored a mass wedding for four hundred and fifty couples. Most of the grooms were in their mid to late twenties; most of brides were under ten.
Muslim dignitaries including Mahmud Zahar, a leader of Hamas, were on hand to congratulate the couples who took part in the carefully staged celebration.
We are saying to the world and to America that you cannot deny us joy and happiness, Zahar told the grooms, all of whom were dressed in identical black suits and hailed from the nearby Jabalia refugee camp.
Each groom received a gift of 500 dollars from Hamas.
The pre-pubescent girls, dressed in white gowns and adorned with garish make-up, received bridal bouquets.
“We are presenting this wedding as a gift to our people who stood firm in the face of the siege and the war,” Local Hamas strongman Ibrahim Salaf said in a speech.
The wedding photos tell the rest of the sordid tale.
The International Center for Research on Women now estimates that there are 51 million child brides now living on planet Earth and almost all in Muslim countries.
Twenty-nine percent of these child brides are regularly beaten and molested by their husbands in Egypt; twenty six percent receive similar abuse in Jordan.
Every year, three million Muslim girls are subjected to genital mutilation, according to UNICEF. This practice has not been outlawed in many parts of America.
The Islamic practice of pedophilia dates back to the prophet Muhammad, who amassed eleven wives and many concubines after the death of his first wife Khadijah in 619 A.D.
Hi readers,
The marriages in islam and other religion cannot be compared at all.
In islam, female is just a sex toy, at the pleasure of male. Muslim girls of 8 years are married to 45 years old, like the so called prophet married years old.Several child brides of 8 years die of serious injuries as a result of cruel husbands of older age.
Similar story is appended below.
“The girl was just 8 years old and everybody understands the fact that she knows nothing about sex or wedding or making love or virginity or sexual related topics; not even at a basic level for two reasons, one being that she’s just a child – not even a teenager and that in that part of the country, nobody knows anything about these things nor they are given trainings or education about a healthy sexual life.
Naturally, she started to bleed in a very bad amount, but the mullah was too annoyed for not being able to have sex with her, to care for what he did or her bleeding or her wounds that he gave her.
The girl had her scarf stuffed in her mouth, crying and trying to not raise her voice because others were there in the room adjacent to or outside.
The girl was bleeding and there was nobody to help her, neither could the Mullah ask for help as it was a shame for him. Poor 8-year-old bride bled and went into traumatic shock from blood loss and early in the morning around 5 when the sun was about to rise, she passed away.”
AT LEAST IN OTHER RELIGION SIMILAR CRUELTY IS NOT SEEN IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE.
Hi!!! I wish u wud b get able to marry ur beloved. U r very optimist. I jst wanna say one thing if u feel that ur beloved is perfect match for u then marry her . Its really difficult to hve a nyc partner with whom u gonna spend ur whole life. If u truly love her then marry her, stop thinking about religions, everything will b get manage. Trust in god and in ur love, and take a fantastic step 🙂
Hi Pankaj,
I am in a similar situation only thing is that I am still completing my graduation. First of all, its great to hear that you too think rationally. As you said you are living outside India, you must be getting a handsome salary to support both of you. Convince your parents about her, make them meet her, it really makes a difference. As far as her parents are concerned they will not get convinced.
Get married in court by Special Marriage Act, go and live happily together outside India. If you fear the ruckus that her family members are gonna create(that is for sure), don’t worry take legal help and police’s help too, first get married asap.
Also provide some background details eg since when you two are together, do her family know about your relationship etc..
Good luck!!
More on Prateek at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=866
Hii Prateek,
i read your story good we people need to bring change in this country.Still people are in old age, dont know why, if you do something different then they says u er doing wrong, we need to tell everyone its not wrong. Need to change with the time other wise we will be far behind in this world.So, are u geeting married or facing difficulties…