Vaibhav says: March 12, 2015 at 3:09 am
My dear friends,
I have been read all the above conversations, i would like to ask from admin, where in Islam or any religions its written in all holy books that we can’t marry in other religion? And as far as India or Hindus are concern, please search Shah Rukh Khan weds to Gauri and Sunil Dutta weds to Nargis without religion conversion any of them. And we have many examples where people marry in the other religion without religion conversion. Please search on the search engine. And please don’t misguide any one that Islam said this or that religion said that. I am a Hindu male but i am reading all holy books with the honour. So can you please tell me where its written in Holy Quran that Muslims can’t marry into the other religion? -Vaibhav
Mohammed says: March 12, 2015 at 11:05 am
bro,
It is not permissible for believing men and women to marry non… for reason you want to go deeply…
For beliving men: “And do not marry Al-Mushrikaat (idolatresses) till they believe (worship Allaah Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress), even though she pleases you” [al-Baqarah 2:221]
For believing women: “And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al‑Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater), even though he pleases you. Those (Al- Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allaah invites (you) to Paradise and forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember” [al-Baqarah 2:221] -Mohammed.
mac says: March 14, 2015 at 5:52 am
Dear brother Vaibhav,
Islam clearly tells muslim men/women to not to marry outside religion.
You said Shah Rukh Khan, Sunil Dutta married outside religion without converting, brother it doesn`t mean that Islam allows marriage outside religion, it is they who went against their region, like terrorist go against the teachings of religion and then people looking at them thinks this is what religion teaches, same applies here. Quran in Chapter 2 Verse 221 clearly says a muslim men/women are not to marry outside religion, so if any muslim marries outside religion until his lover converts to islam by heart then it is going against Quran and going against Quran means going against Allah`s commandment which means going against Allah.
Here is the verse from Quran:
“And do not marry polytheistic women (idolatresses) until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men(idolater) [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.“
Polytheist are Hindus, Christians (except few) and idolators are Hindus (except some like communist type people), Christians (Catholic, Protestant)….etc..etc -mac
Admin says:
Let’s there be no confusion. Hindu and Muslims can marry but the Hindu must convert to Islam before Islamic Nikaah wedding. There is no imam in this world who will perform Islamic Nikaah without conversion of the Hindu. After conversion there will be a marriage of Muslim-Muslim (not Hindu-Muslim). Yes, there are very rare examples of exception to this rule but a Hindu lover should not count on it. For this reason, before getting in love with a Muslim, decide if are you willing to convert? Simple! -Admin
Also read:
Hindu-Muslim Marriage-video,
Hindu-Muslim marriages,
No imam will perform Nikaah without conversion,
VIDEO: Interfaith Marriage with Equality,
Love-Jihad,
Don’t fake-convert,
Polygamy and talaak,
Akansha unwillingly converted to Nusrat,
Zakir Naik.
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In my opinion, hindu Muslim marriages can succeed in few situations only..For eg, if one or both partners are not so serious in their faith or they are atheist then it can..Hindus and Muslims have EXTREMELY different belief systems..For eg , hinduism believes in idol worship which islam is strictly forbidden..hinduism promotes vegetarian food but having meat(as long as it’s halal) is almost sunnah in Islam(meaning a very desirable thing)..For this reason, a devout Muslim and a devout hindu mostly may not be able to make it work..They will constantly clash..The problem will become 100 fold when they have kids..even if they teach the kid both religions, it will become contradictory to the child..ultimately the kid might not be interested in either faith for which both the partners will blame each other..also hindu culture and Muslim culture is very different..i know that idol worship is not allowed in hinduism and meat is allowed…but try explaining that to 90% of the Hindus! !even non vegetarian Hindus say that meat is not allowed in hinduism..If 1 partner is a non practising Muslim/hindu and the other is practising then it can work..or of course if 1 partner converts to islam/hinduism..However, again in this forced conversion doesn’t work..You can force a person to become muslim/hindu on paper , but you can’t change their heart..The person who got forced into his partners faith and lifestyle will ultimately end up hating it and blame the religion..which ultimately hurts the religion..so such relationship must be entered into preferably only if one or both partners are non practicing. .or if the other is willing to convert FROM their heart..
well answer sister
I completely agree with you cookie
First of oll, i thanks to you sister that u have understand the situation that islam doesnot permits a beliving man and women cant marry..
for this i request you to read whole verse of the quran then u will be come understand. .
as for ur Question is concern :
“if Allah knows we all are his kids so from where is these all converting things coming from”
Allah says in the Quran :
Surah al imran chapter 3 verse 19
“The only acceptable religion in the sight of Allah(s.w.t) is islam”
In these verse Allah says clearly that other religion are not acceptable except islam.
what is islam?
islam means a pure submission to will of Allah(s.w.t)
I have explained you what islam is
further now read why other religion exist on this earth though Allah says only acceptable religion is islam
Allah says in the Quran :
Surah kahf chapter 18 verse 50
“And (remember) when We said to the angels: ‘Prostrate yourselves unto Adam.’ So they prostrated themselves except ‘Iblis’ (Satan). He was one of the jinn; he disobeyed the command of his Lord”
further, on surah baqrah chapter 2 verse 34
“And they prostrated except Iblis(Satan), he refused and was proud and was one of the disbelievers (disobedient to Allah)”
further Allah tells us in Quran :
Surah al araf chapter 7 verse 12
Satan said : “I am better than him (adam),You created me from fire and him you created from clay”
Iblees asks for reprieve until Day of
Judgement
When Satan refused to obey Allah’s commands, Allah asked him for the reasons of disobedience of the Lord or the worlds.
Allah says in the Quran:
(Allah) said: “O Iblees (Satan)! What is your reason for not being among the prostrators?”
(Iblees (Satan)) said: “I am not the one to prostrate myself to a human being, whom You created from sounding clay of altered black smooth mud” (Quran, al-Hijr:32 – 33).
The subsequent dialog stated in
the Quran is as follows:
(Allah) said: “Then, get out from here, for verily, you are Rajeem (an outcast or a cursed one).”
“And verily, the curse shall be upon you till the Day of Recompense (i.e. the Day of Resurrection)” (Quran, al-Hijr:
34 – 35).
Then Iblees asked for a respite until the Day of Resurrection, and Allah granted him that. Allah says:
(Iblees (Satan)) said: “O my Lord! Give me then respite till the Day they (the dead) will be resurrected.”
Allah said: “Then, verily, you are of those reprieved, “Till the Day of the time appointed” (Quran, al-Hijr: 36– 38).
When Iblees was certain that he was doomed, he resolved to mislead whomever he could from the slaves of Allah, so that they would be with him in Hell. Allah says:
(Iblees (Satan)) said: “O my Lord! Because you misled me, I shall indeed adorn the path of error for them (mankind) on the earth, and I shall mislead them all.
“Except Your chosen, (guided)
slaves among them” (Quran,
al-Hijr: 39 – 40).
Iblees’ / Satan’s ultimate goal After Allah gave him the reprieve until the Day of Judgment, he made misleading man as his primary goal. Allah told us about that in the Quran,
“(Iblees) said: ‘Because You have sent me astray, surely, I will sit in wait against them (human beings) on Your
straight path. Then I will come to
them from before them and behind them, from their right and from their left, and You will not find most of them as thankful ones (i.e. they will not be dutiful to You)’” (Quran, Al-Aaraf: 16,17).
He has such confidence in ensnaring his victims that he openly declares his strategy of approaching them from all sides and making them succumb to his temptations.
The first victims of Satan were Adam (alaihis salam) and Hawwa.
Allah says, “Then the Shaitan (Satan) made them slip there from (the Paradise), and got them out from that in which they were. We said: “Get you down, all, with enmity between yourselves. On earth will be a dwelling place for you and an enjoyment for a
time” (Quran, Al-Baqarah: 36).
“and an enjoyment for a time” is what Satan makes the most of. He has decided to make the world appear beautiful and attractive and works on ways to lure man, limit his perspective to the gains, pleasures and enjoyment of this world alone, and make him forget the path that Allah (SWT) has
chalked out for all human beings
during their stay here.
Satan’s ultimate goal is to make
people go astray and eventually to turn them into disbelievers, or polytheists at a minimum. The manner in which Satan pursues that goal varies in accordance with the interests and inclinations of his victims. For example, he uses piety to attack the pious; scholarly disciplines to attack scholars; false reasoning and logic for those who take pride in being knowledgeable, and ignorance to attack the ignorant. Allah (SWT)
Has warned us in the Holy Quran:
“O Children of Adam! Let not Shaitan (Satan) deceive you, as he got your parents (Adam and Hawwa’ (Eve)) out of Paradise,” (Quran, Al-Aaraf: 27).
“. . . and follow not the footsteps of ‘Shaitan’ (Satan). Surely he is to you an open enemy” (Quran, Al- Anaam: 142).
So, Allah has made it clear to mankind that Satan is their enemy and Satan’s goal is to divert mankind from the goal that Allah established for them, which is to follow and worship Allah by obeying His commands. Satan’s goal is to make mankind disobey Allah and divert them to the hell fire in the hereafter, which will also be Satan’s abode. Allah says in the Quran:
“Surely, Shaitan (Satan) is an enemy to you, so take (treat) him as an enemy. He only invites his Hizb (followers) that they may become the dwellers of the blazing Fire” (Faatir 35:6).
Shaitan is the source of all evil
Everything that happens among
the sons of Adam of kufr (disbelief of the Truth), murder, enmity,hatred, the spread of immorality and fornication, the public wanton display of women’s beauty, drinking alcohol, worshipping idols and other major sins, is all the work of Satan to corrupt mankind and to drive people from following the way of Allah and drag them to the Fire of Hell with him.
So, let’s remember that when we find
ourselves around evil or being lured by it, Satan is engaged in his work and our task is to fend off his plans.
Allah says in the Quran:
“And if an evil whisper fromShaitan (Satan) tries to turn you away (O Muhammad) (from doing good), then seek refuge in Allah. Verily, He is the All Hearer, the All Knower” (Quran, Fussilat: 36).
Ways in which Satan approaches us
Satan approaches man through stealthy means. Allah (SWT) cautions us in the Quran with this verse:
“Verily, he and Qabiluhu (his soldiers from the jinn or his tribe)
see you from where you cannot see them” (Quran, Aal-e-Imran: 27).
In spite of all the tactics that
Satan uses to mislead mankind, he is not able to hurt those of Allah’s slaves who are aware of Satan’s tactics, and use their defenses provided them by Allah to ward off those tactics. Allah says in the Quran:
“(Iblis (Satan)) said: ‘By Your Might, then I will surely mislead them all. Except Your chosen slaves amongst them (i.e. faithful, obedient, true believers of Islamic Monotheism).’” (Quran, Saad: 82-83).
Allah said to Satan:
“Certainly, you shall have no authority over My slaves, except those who follow you of the Ghawun (Mushrikun and those who go astray, criminals, polytheists, and evil-doers)” (Quran, Al-Hijr: 42).
we are here to spread a truth message about islam and request you to dont go in a devils path, indeed satan wants to drag human kind to go hell along with him thats what Allah says in the Quran do not marry disbelivers untill they belive. .becoz Allah does not want his slave to go hell.
It is clearly written in islam that a outside relegion man or woman cannot get married to a inslam woman or man … according to the ahele kitab (people of the books)… but here I have a question as well … if Allah knows we all are his kids so from where is these all converting things coming from
Hi Shonali,
You have raised an excellent question, that if we all are Allah’s kids, why there is a need to conversion? You have to know that Islam is not only about Allah, but there is a major Muhammad factor there. That is where all issues comes. For example, Shia, Ahamadiyas, Sufis, Mujahiddins, etcs are not Muslims but only Wahhabi Sunnis only are true Muslims. If Islam was 100% about Allah only (and no mention of Muhammad), we would be the first to be a Muslim. Sadly it is not.
We are all his kids, first of all kid is not the right word to use, you can use it in a philosophical sense, anyway, we are all his kids according to you but people are not obeying their fathers, so won`t father call his children towards right path?