Samir says: January 21, 2019
Hi I’m in desperate need of assistance.. I’m in love with my Hindu gf and I am Muslim .. we have have been together for 5 years and we are in our late 20’s her side of her family accepted me but my mom will not accept her and my dad is is going to stand with my mom but he is not as strict as my mom what do I do? -Shak
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Hi Samir,
(we have change your name for your privacy, we hope that is okay)
Ideally you should have known your parents before falling in love. Your mother would want a girl that she picks for you. Is that acceptable to you? Are you willing to dump your lover for your mother? If not, it is time to educate your mother. List her most 3 critical concerns that your mother has for the girl. We will tell you how to explain her on these points. So get back, thanks.
It’s hard to give up on love my parents knew about her but didn’t know I was actually serious with her please do give me these critical points to help me out
It’s very hard to give up on the person you’ve been with for 5 years and I do love my mother a lot.
In life, sometime you have to cut your umbilical cord. Even you marry to a girl of your mother’s choice, there will be many instances where your mother may not like many things that your wife will be doing. Sometimes, as a man, you have to evaluate the situation and tell one or the other (or both), enough is enough.
Religious conversion could be one of the most sticking point. Do you want your wife to be a Muslim only? Alternatively, are you willing to respect her for what she is (a Hindu) and not going to change a rose to carnation? Is she willing to be a true Muslim or she wishes to remain what ever she is? When you said “her family accepted me”, do they know your wish for religion of your wife and children? This is a good starting point, so lets discuss on this. Thanks.