Jazz says: May 23, 2014 at 12:28 pm
I am a Hindu girl, I luv a Muslim boy. We r totally committed n we do respect to each other’s religion too. His ammi abbu r easy going BT my papa is a very traditional strict man. There family r not even want me 2 convert. I can live with my faiths. In fact he used 2 go temple long b’fore. I don’t understand what can we do for saying yes by my papa!!! We can’t even think a single moment without each other. We do understand each other very well. -Jazz
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From the Hadith:
Muslim (8:3309) – Muhammad consummated his marriage to Aisha when she was only nine. (See also Bukhari 58:234 and many other places). No where in the reliable Hadith or Sira is there any other age given.
Bukhari (62:18) – Aisha’s father, Abu Bakr, wasn’t on board at first, but Muhammad explained how the rules of their religion made it possible. This is similar to the way that present-day cult leaders manipulate their followers into similar concessions.
Muslim (8:3311) – The girl took her dolls with her to Muhammad’s house (something to play with when the “prophet” was not having sex with her).
Bukhari (6:298) – Muhammad would take a bath with the little girl and fondle her.
Muslim (8:3460) – “Why didn’t you marry a young girl so that you could sport with her and she sport with you, or you could amuse with her and she could amuse with you?” Muhammad posed this question to one of his followers who had married an “older woman” instead of opting to fondle a child.
Bukhari (4:232) – Muhammad’s wives would wash semen stains out of his clothes, which were still wet from the spot-cleaning even when he went to the mosque for prayers. Between copulation and prayer, it’s a wonder he found the time to slay pagans.
Bukhari (6:300) – Muhammad’s wives had to be available for the prophet’s fondling even when they were having their menstrual period.
Bukhari (93:639) – The Prophet of Islam would recite the ‘Holy Qur’an’ with his head in Aisha’s lap, when she was menstruating.
Bukhari (62:6) – “The Prophet used to go round (have sexual relations with) all his wives in one night, and he had nine wives.” Muhammad also said that it was impossible to treat all wives equally – and it isn’t hard to guess why.
Bukhari (5:268) – “The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number.” I asked Anas, ‘Had the Prophet the strength for it?’ Anas replied, ‘We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty men.’ ”
Bukhari (60:311) – “I feel that your Lord hastens in fulfilling your wishes and desires.” These words were spoken by Aisha within the context of her husband having been given ‘Allah’s permission’ to fulfill his sexual desires with a large number of women in whatever order he chooses. (It has been suggested that Aisha may have been speaking somewhat wryly).
Muslim (8:3424) – One of several narrations in which a leering Muhammad orders a clearly startled woman to suckle a grown man with her breast so that he will become “unlawful” to her – meaning that they can live under the same roof together.
Tabari IX:137 – “Allah granted Rayhana of the Qurayza to Muhammad as booty.” Muhammad considered the women that he captured and enslaved to be God’s gift to him.
Tabari VIII:117 – “Dihyah had asked the Messenger for Safiyah when the Prophet chose her for himself… the Apostle traded for Safiyah by giving Dihyah her two cousins. The women of Khaybar were distributed among the Muslims.” He sometimes pulled rank to reserve the most beautiful captured women for himself.
Tabari IX:139 – “You are a self-respecting girl, but the prophet is a womanizer.” Words spoken by the disappointed parents of a girl who had ‘offered’ herself to Muhammad (he accepted).
I am a hindu girl and I love a muslim boy for 5 years. We really love each other a lot. we were like true soulmates, we were compatible to each other and we would never fight. Since his parents does not agree to our relationship he said he want to end our relationship as soon as possible. He does not want to go against his parents wishes and marry me. He broke up with me 2 weeks back, since then he did not even try to contact me. what shall I do in this case I really love him and I just can’t live without him at all.
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Hi every body,
Mac and Haque are the same and posting blogs under different names.
Mac is a mutta product, being her mother under mutta for a week and then shaikh left her.
Mac is trying to conceal the practices of islam against humanity.
Almost all the religions have changed customs but islam is making new evil practices prevalent like sex with dead wife.
Will all the mutta husbands of your mother will have sex with your mother after death?
In the Purunas(Hindu Gods Rape Gautama’s wife)Formerly the gods lusted for Gautama’s wife and raped her, for their wits were destroyed by lust. Then they were terrified and went to the sage Durvasas [an incarnation of Siva], who said, ‘I will remove all your defilements with the Satarudriya Mantra [an ancient Saiva prayer].’ Then he gave them ashes which they smeared upon their bodies, and their sins were shaken off. — Padma Purana 4:101:174-9.
In the Vedas:”Lord Indra himself has said, ‘The mind of woman cannot be disciplined; she has very little intelligence.’ — Rig Veda 8:33:17.
Living an entire lifetime as a walking, talking 100-gallon black garbage bag is suppose to represent some kind of ‘honor’ and piety. But none of these enormous sacrifices has helped Muslim women.
Islam, Muhammad, mosques, five prayers per day, rigid control of their religious duties hasn’t done one thing to transform the Muslim male to a normal human being or a normal man. On the contrary, the Muslim male according to statistics is the most violent, oppressive, forceful and deranged human beast on earth. They also rule the world’s highest rape incidents – which seem to coordinate with rape statistics in the West that are dominated by Muslims.
All these facts and statistics according to collected studies on crimes against women around the world in collaboration with various non-profit organizations that deal with these issues on a daily basis. Other studies have shown that Muslim majority nations are afflicted with amongst the highest drug rate, homosexuality rate, murder rate, and sodomy rate.
Prophet Mohammed must be proud..
Refugees in Jordan are offering their daughters for early marriage in the hope of protecting them. In the bridal boutique, the average age of brides wearing the rented dresses is 13.
Children have witnessed massacres, mothers seen their sons killed, families watched their homes looted and burned. But there is one act of violence that refugees from the Syrian crisis will not discuss.
The conflict has been distinguished by a brutal targeting of women. The United Nations has gathered evidence of systematic sexual assault of women and girls by combatants in Syria, and describes rape as “a weapon of war”. Outside the conflict, in sprawling camps and overloaded host communities, aid workers report a soaring number of incidents of domestic violence and rampant sexual exploitation.
But this is a deeply conservative society. The endemic violence suffered by Syrian women and girls is hidden under a cultural blanket of fear, shame and silence that even international aid workers are loth to lift.
Dr Manal Tahtamouni is the director of the Institute for Family Health, a local NGO funded by the European commission that was among the first to open a women’s clinic in Zaatari refugee camp. When asked, she says, most women will not admit to being raped. They will say they have seen others being raped.
“This is a conservative area. If you have been raped, you wouldn’t talk openly about it because you would be stigmatised for your entire life. The phenomenon is massively under-reported,” Tahtamouni says. Only after a long process of building trust through one-on-one counselling sessions might a rape survivor talk. Of the 300 to 400 cases her clinics receive in a day, 100 are female victims of violence, mostly domestic.
In the day, the camp bristles with the economic and social buzz of a resilient society attempting to reclaim normality. Under the broad blue skies of the Jordanian desert, groups of women in full black veils peaked with sun visors shop in a makeshift high street of UN tents. At night, when gun battles raging at home can be heard across the border, the atmosphere darkens.
Even “Abu Hussein”, a local boss of Zaatari’s brothel and bar district, has requested that UN officials launch patrols to control gangs of young men wreaking havoc in the camp and harassing women. Groping and lewd name-calling during food distributions and in the public latrines are common. Rapes have been reported.”There is a tendency to think that once [women] have crossed the border, they are safe,” says Melanie Megevand, a specialist in gender-based violence at International Rescue Committee charity. “But they just face a different violence once they become refugees.”
In a reversal of the cultural norm, many families here are headed by women. Fathers and husbands have either been killed or gone to fight. At least three-quarters of these families don’t live in Za’atari camp but in nearby towns, where they quickly disappear beyond the reach of aid workers and their resources. With no means to support themselves, they are vulnerable.
Um Firas has lived in Mafraq, near Zaatari, for more than a year since escaping Homs. She rarely leaves her home. Her husband disappeared years before the war so she is alone, accumulating an enormous debt to cover her rent. She still believes her family is better off in debt than inside the camp.
She is particularly concerned for her teenage daughter, who took to sunbathing until her skin burned in Syria. “She told me, ‘If I turn black, the Shabiha [pro-government militia] might not want to rape me,” she says. “They were targeting women. Iranian and Hezbollah fighters came into our neighbourhood with their swords drawn. The women they found, they raped. They burned our homes,” she adds, too exhausted by grief to stop crying.
“I saw maybe 100 women stripped naked and used as human shields, forced to walk on all sides of the army tanks during the fighting. When their tanks rolled back into the Alawite neighbourhood, the women disappeared with them.”
In Mafraq, her landlord wants to evict her. He had offered to let the family stay only if Um Firas allowed his 28-year-old son to marry her 16-year-old daughter. Beautiful young Syrian women are in high demand. She refused.
The Rev Nour Sahawneh leads the community effort to help refugee families in Mafraq. He has noticed with alarm a growing number of men flying in from the Gulf states to take Syrian girls from their desperate families.
“Their pale skin, the way they talk, cook – it’s a fantasy for them, even if she is only 14,” Sahawneh says.
“Yesterday I heard a man I know accepted 9,000 dinars [£8,420] from a Saudi guy for his 15-year-old daughter. He will take his ‘wife’ to a flat and stay with her for a few months then go home without her. It’s illegal to marry women under 18 in Jordan. Saudi men cannot marry non-Saudis without permission. She is not a wife but for sex only.”
In the past three months, a bridal boutique has sprung up in a small tent in what residents ironically call Zaatari’s Champs Élysées. It offers a choice of six elaborate, bedazzled bridal gowns to rent for 2,500 Syrian pounds (£15.80). The average age of the wearer is 15.
Rihab, 19, is marrying her 27-year-old camp neighbour tomorrow. Five months ago she met his sister, who made the match. Surrounded by the groom’s female relatives and shaking with nervy excitement, Rihab strips out of her niqab to try on the strappy dress only her husband will see her in.
Her family had refused the marriage initially, the boutique owner explains under her breath. It’s going ahead now only because the groom’s family have arranged for the new couple to be “bailed out” of Zaatari to start a new life in Jordan. Jamilla, Rihab’s future mother-in-law, looks on, pleased. She married her 15-year-old daughter to a man in Amman last year and already has a one-year-old grandchild.
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Women are deficient in mind and religion.
Mohammed asked some women, “Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half that of a man?” The women said, “yes,” He said, “This is because of the deficiency of the woman’s mind. ” Vol. 3:826
Mohammed to women: “I have not seen any one more deficient in intelligence and religion than you.” Vol. 2:541
The majority of people in hell are women.
Mohammed said, “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers are women. ” Vol. 1:28, 301; Vol. 2:161; Vol. 7:124
Women are a bad omen.
Mohammed said, ” Bad omen is in the woman, the house and the horse.” Vol. 7:30
Women are harmful to men.
Mohammed said, “After me I have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women.” Vol. 7:33
Women may not wear wigs.
Mohammed said, ” Don’t wear false hair for Allah sends His curse upon such ladies who lengthen their hair artificially.” Vol. 7:133
SEX AND MARRIAGE
Mohammed’s sexual strength is equal to 30 men.
Anas said, “The prophet used to visit all his wives in an hour round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number.” I asked Anas, “Had the prophet the strength for it?” Anas replied, “We used to say that the prophet was given the strength of thirty (men). ” Vol. 1:268
Mohammed married a 9 year old girl.
“Narrated Aisha that the prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old.”Vol. 7:64
Allah hurries to please Mohammed’s sexual desires.
When the Quranic verse that allows Mohammed to postpone the turn of any wife was revealed, and when Mohammed said that Allah allowed him to marry his adopted son’s wife, Aisha (one of his wives) told him, “O Allah’s Apostle I do not see but that your Lord hurries in pleasing you. ” Vol. 7:48
When a woman is divorced irrevocably, she can not return to her husband until she marries (including having sexual intercourse) with another man.
“Narrated Aisha: The wife of Rifaa Al-Qurazi came to Allah’s Apostle and said, ‘O Allah’s Apostle, Rifaa divorced me irrevocably. After him I married Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent.’ Allah’s Apostle said to her, ‘Perhaps you want to return to Rifaa? Nay (You cannot return to Rifaa) until you and Abdur-Rahman (the impotent man) engage in sexual intercourse!” Vol. 7:186
HUMAN RIGHTS
Islam is to be imposed by force.
Mohammed said, “I have been ordered to fight with the people till they say, “None has the right to be worshipped but Allah, and whoever says, ” None has the right to be worshipped but Allah , his life and property will be saved by me.” (otherwise it will not). Vol. 4:196
Apostasy is punishable by death.
Mohammed said, “Whoever changes his Islamic religion, kill him.” Vol. 9:57
A Muslim must not be killed if he kills a non-Muslim.
Mohammed said, ” No Muslim should be killed for killing a Kafir” (infidel). Vol. 9:50
Ethnic cleansing is practiced.
Mohammed said to the Jews, “You should know that the earth belongs to Allah and His Apostle (Mohammed) and I want to expel you from this land (The Arabian Peninsula), so, if anyone owns property, he is permitted to sell it.” Vol. 4:392
Mohammed’s last words at his deathbed were: “Turn the pagans (non-Muslims) out of the Arabian Peninsula.” Vol. 5:716
MUSLIMS ARE ALLOWED NORMAL SEX WITH DEAD WOMEN AND ANIMALS
Muhammad had sex with a dead woman to qualify her for the perks of a prophetic wife.
According to Hadiths and Sayings of Prophet on issues of women in “Al-Jami Al-Saghir” written by Jalal ul-Din Al-Suyuti.
Narrated by Ibn Abbas: “I (Muhammad) put on her my shirt that she may wear the clothes of heaven, and SLEPT with her in her coffin.”
The prophet was referring to Fatima, the mother of Ali, his son-in-law. Commentators have offered differing views about the significance of Muhammad’s sleeping with the dead-body of Fatimah in her coffin, some emphasizing that it had no sexual side. But Arabic scholar Demetrius explains that to express Muhammad sleeping inside Fatima’s coffin with her dead-body, “The Arabic word used here is “Id’tajat”, which literally means “lay down to have sex.”
Muhammad is also understood to have said that because he slept with her, she has become like a wife to his; so she will be considered like “mother of the believers”.
After Muhammad slept with her and “consummated”, Medina women routinely offered themselves to Mohammad for sex so that the holy fluid of the prophet released into them will qualify them for paradise. Here is a hadith.
MUSLIM ARE ALLOWED “ANAL” SEX EVEN WITH DEAD WOMEN AND ANIMALS
Sahih Muslim, Book of Menstruation, Hadith 525:
“Our companions have said if a penile head has penetrated a woman’s anus or penile anus, or an animal’s vagina or its anus, then it is necessary to wash…”
Watch this video for more detailed discussion on this topic.
NOW IT MAY AN EGYPTIAN LAW TOO
Egyptian husbands may be legally allowed to have sex with their dead wives – for up to six hours after their death (sex performed after six hours will be considered adultery and the husband will be beheaded and buried with the wife)
This law is part of measures being introduced by the Islamist-dominated parliament under ‘religious interpretations’. The subject of a husband having sex with his dead wife arose in May 2011 when Moroccan cleric Zamzami Abdul Bari said marriage remains valid even after death (Al Arabiya News)
Mac
In Pakistan, the mullahs are notorious for child abuse and molestation. Every day, we hear news about a mullah sodomizing his beardless student. It is very common in Pakistan. Almost every one knows what happens in madrassas. Even one of my friends narrowly escaped from being sodomized by his Quranic teacher when he was taking the Quran memorizing lessons.
But why do these mullahs commit such a thing, allegedly condemned in Islam? Muslims are most vocal in commending sodomy, homosexuality in words? They are known to attack homosexuals in Europe.
Answer is that, according to them, masturbation is haram. Seeing any na mehram girl is also prohibited. The only way left to satisfy their lusty desires is to sodomize one of their pupils. While reading from a shia Website, http://www.answering-ansar.org, I came across the fact that the root of sodomy lies in the Islamic text and history. Here are some examples of the gems from the history and authentic books of Sunni Islam.
Umar indulged in sodomy and Allah was forced to legitimize this practise in the Qur’an
For evidence you can consult the following texts:
Jami al Tirmidhi, Bab al Tafseer Volume 2, page 382, ‘Ayat Hars’
Fathul Bari Volume 8 page 191 Kitab Tafseer Ayat Hars
Gharab al Qur’an Volume 3 page 249 Ayat Hars
Tafseer al Ibn Katheer Volume 1 page 261
Fayl ai Lawathar Volume 6 page 229
Tafseer Qurtubi Volume 1 page 92 Ayat Hars
Lets quote verbatim from Jami al Tirmidhi [Bab al Tafseer Vol. 2, p. 382, ‘Ayat Hars’]:
“Ibn Abbas narrates that Hadhrath Umar went before Rasulullah (s) and “Master I am destroyed!’. Rasulullah (s) asked ‘what thing has destroyed you?’. Umar replied last night I had anal sex. Rasulullah (s) did not give a reply to Umar, then Allah (swt) sent down this revelation “Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; the words ‘kabool wa Dhabar’ (the anus is accepted)”
Abdullah Ibn Umar deemed sodomy to Halaal, like his old man.
For evidence, please consult the following authentic Sunni texts:
Tafseer Durre Manthur Volume 1 page 264 Ayat Hars
Tafseer Qasmi Volume 2 page 220, by Jamaladeen Qasmi
Tafseer Qurtubi page 92 Ayat Hars
Here is the direct quote from Tafseer Durre Manthur:
“Traditions wherein Abdullah ibn Umar believed sodomy with women are well known and Sahih”.
Ulema of Madina believed that sodomy was halaal.
Please see the following Sunni sources:
Fayl al Lawathar Volume 6 page 154 Kitab Nikah, Bab Mut’ah
Tafseer Qasmi Volume 2 page 223 Ayat Hars
Tafseer Ibn Katheer Volume 1 page 262 Ayat Hars
Fathul Bari Volume 8 page 191 Ayat Hars
Tafseer Mazhari, Volume 3, Page 19
Quoting directly from Fayl al Lawathar:
“Imam Auzai stated of the Fatwas from Hijaaz that are famous, one fatwa is from the people of Makka is that is that they deemed Mut’ah with women to be permissible, the other from the people of Madina, that sodomy with women is permissible”.
Ibn Kathir in his Tafseer also stated:
“Statements on the permissibility of sodomy with women have come from the jurists of Madina”.
Companions of mohammed deemed sodomy with women to be permissible
We read in Tafseer Qurtubi Volume 3 page 93 Ayat Hars:
“Fatwas on the permissibility of sodomy with women Saeed bin Maseeb Nafi, ibn Umar, Muhammad bin Kab, Abdul Malik, Imam Malik, a large group amongst the Sahaba and Tabaeen deemed sodomy to be permissible”.
Imam Sha’afi deemed sodomy to be permissible!
Please see the following Sunni texts:
Tafseer Durre Manthur Volume 1 page 266, Ayat Hars
Tafseer Ruh al Ma’ani page 125, Ayat Hars
Tafseer Ahkam al Qur’an Volume 1 page 265
Tafseer Qasmi Volume 2 page 228 Baqarah Verse 223
Al Mahzoorath page 268
We read in Tafseer Durre Manthur:
“On sodomy with women, Imam Sha’afi no Sahih narration’s have reached us from Rasulullah (s) as to whether it is halaal or haraam and logic suggests that this halaal”.
Imam of Ahl’ul Sunnah Abu Maleeka suggested ‘in times of trouble’ use a stick!’
We read in Tafseer Durre Manthur Ayat Hars:
“Abu Maleeka was asked whether it was permissible to practise sodomy with women. He replied ‘Last night I practised sodomy with my servant, penetration became difficult hence I sought the assistance of a stick”.
Imam Malik believed sodomy with women was halaal
We read in the following Sunni sources:
Ahkam al Qur’an Volume 1 page 352 Ayat Hars
Tafseer Gharab al Qur’an Volume 2 page 249 Ayat Hars
Tafseer Durre Manthur Volume 1 page 111, Ayat Hars
Fathul Bari Volume 8 page 190 Kitab Tafseer Ayat Hars
Quoting verbatim from Ahkam al Qur’an:
“Sahil asked Imam Malik ‘is sodomy with women permissible? Imam Malik replied ‘I just did this act and have just washed by sexual organs”.
Imam Abu Hanifa’s esteemed student Ibn Mubarak was also a homosexual
We also read in ‘Muhadarat al-‘udaba’, p. 199, Chapter 1, “Al hada al Saani” that:
“Hakim Tabaristan made Abdullah bin Mubarak a Judge, who was addicted to the anus (Homosexual) he asked the Hakim ‘Sir I need some men who can help you” Hakim said I was aware of your need before this”.
The Salaf deem it permissible to pray Salat behind a homosexual Imam
We read in Sahih al Bukhari, p. 96, Kitab Bab ul Salaat, narrates a tradition from Zuhri [Sahih al-Bukhari, p. 96, 1375 AH print]:
“The Imamate of a mukhanath at a time of necessity is Sahih”.
Note: Arabic word “Mukhanath” means homosexual. This hadith has been removed from the English version of Bukhari, but exists in old copies of Arabic version. E.g. this 1375 Hijri print.
So I think that the mullahs sodomizing little girls and boys are not wrong at all they are just following the Sunnah of the prophet and his companions.
so you visited SHIA website and we(SUNNI) do not consider SHIA as true MUSLIMS. ANAL is is banned in islam so how can one be a muslim if he practicses sodomy. What about rapes in ASHRAMS and MANDIRS.
admin ur comment “Are you saying Pakistani Hindus are not animals but Pakistani Muslims are? Why are you anti-Muslim?”- i am not anti muslim but i am pseudo-anti muslim. and why ur targetting me personally when there is so many comments agains entire muslim community, why why why why????????????????????
Dear readers,
The story of stonning to death is very common in islamic countries. In madarsas while teaching koran, innocent boys and girls are sodomized and raped by maulvies and any one raising voice against these maulvies, is trapped in blashphemy and fatwa, including stonning to death. These maulvies and mullas have links with terrorists and police authorities through sexual favours arranged by them. Severall maulvies and mullas have links with arabian shaikhs who visit pakistan and India on travel trips and they arrange poor girls on mutta marriages for a week or a fortnight for legalized prostitution on a fixed amount of money, of which major share is grabbed by mullas and maulvies and little amount is given to the parents. Mullas and maulvies are so clear that they even provide artificial hymen kit so that bleeding occurs when sexual encounter with an intention of fetching more money in the name virgin girl. There are several centers working in Pakistan for hymen repair or artificial hymen repair, though openly denied and opposed but from back door this profession by gynacologists is flourshing in all major towns in muslim countries.
shagufta, sodomy means anal sex and anal sex is banned in islam. forget about others even if husband does anal sex with his wife allah will not pardon him on judgement coz anal sex is extremely painful and allah knows that thats why allah said in kuran that if any one does anal sex then i will even don`t look at him on judgement day, so how a moulivy ca do anal sex and sex before marraige is also banned in islam, id if any one does that then he is not muslim and he is then disbelievers coz he is doing what allh has forbidden to do and that means he doesnot believe in allah so how can they be muslims. first study islam and then comment anything about muslims.
Dear readers,
Here is a sensational news of islamic evils in Pakistan.
A pregnant woman was stoned to death Tuesday by her own family outside a courthouse in the Pakistani city of Lahore for marrying the man she loved.
The woman was killed while on her way to court to contest an abduction case her family had filed against her husband. Her father was promptly arrested on murder charges, police investigator Rana Mujahid said, adding that police were working to apprehend all those who participated in this “heinous crime.”
Arranged marriages are the norm among conservative Pakistanis, and hundreds of women are murdered every year in so-called honor killings carried out by husbands or relatives as a punishment for alleged adultery or other illicit sexual behavior.
Stonings in public settings, however, are extremely rare. Tuesday’s attack took place in front of a crowd of onlookers in broad daylight. The courthouse is located on a main downtown thoroughfare.
A police officer, Naseem Butt, identified the slain woman as Farzana Parveen, 25, and said she had married Mohammad Iqbal, 45, against her family’s wishes after being engaged to him for years.
Her father, Mohammad Azeem, had filed an abduction case against Iqbal, which the couple was contesting, said her lawyer, Mustafa Kharal. He said she was three months pregnant.
Nearly 20 members of Parveen’s extended family, including her father and brothers, had waited outside the building that houses the high court of Lahore. As the couple walked up to the main gate, the relatives fired shots in the air and tried to snatch her from Iqbal, her lawyer said.
When she resisted, her father, brothers and other relatives started beating her, eventually pelting her with bricks from a nearby construction site, according to Mujahid and Iqbal, the slain woman’s husband.
Iqbal said he started seeing Parveen after the death of his first wife, with whom he had five children.
“We were in love,” he told The Associated Press. He alleged that the woman’s family wanted to fleece money from him before marrying her off.
“I simply took her to court and registered a marriage,” infuriating the family, he said.
Parveen’s father surrendered after the attack and called his daughter’s murder an “honor killing,” Butt said.
“I killed my daughter as she had insulted all of our family by marrying a man without our consent, and I have no regret over it,” Mujahid, the police investigator, quoted the father as saying.
Mujahid said the woman’s body was handed over to her husband for burial.
The Human Rights Commission of Pakistan, a private group, said in a report last month that some 869 women were murdered in honor killings in 2013.
But even Pakistanis who have tracked violence against women expressed shock at the brutal and public nature of Tuesday’s slaying.
“I have not heard of any such case in which a woman was stoned to death, and the most shameful and worrying thing is that this woman was killed outside a courthouse,” said Zia Awan, a prominent lawyer and human rights activist.
He said Pakistanis who commit violence against women are often acquitted or handed light sentences because of poor police work and faulty prosecutions.
“Either the family does not pursue such cases or police don’t properly investigate. As a result, the courts either award light sentences to the attackers, or they are acquitted,” he said.
Very sad, as she married a muslim so honor killing doesn’t apply for her. Her all family members will go to hell. Animals are even better than pakistanis. But what is the need of saying this here it is an interfaith marriage site not an women right. For that girl all i can say is AMEEN. She is shahid now and will be guranted heaven.
mac,
Why are you saying, “Animals are even better than Pakistanis“? Do you mean ALL atheists, Shias, Sunnis, Hindus and Christians in Pakistan are like animals?
How are you different?
And who judged that you are from a superior race?
This is not Koranic teachings. Tell us from where did you learned this type of mentality?
We thought that only Allah will make the Judgment when is the time is right. When did Allah gave you authority to start giving Judgments today by saying, “She is shahid now and will be guaranteed heaven“. Wow! We are impressed for your Judgment power given by the Allah!!
yes pakistanis(not hindu pakistanis,sikh pakistanis,true practising pakistanis,etc) are animals becoz most of them are pseudo muslims and they actually don`t know what islam is. She is shahid coz she was killed and in islam if any one kills an innocent people then he/she is shahid (notshahid for contry/not shahid for religion but for huminity)and all her evil works will be imposed on them who killed her becoz. This is by islamic law, thats why i always tell you(admin) that learn islam.
yes i shouldn`t have said that animals are better than pakistanis but after reading that story i got so anxious coz no pakistanis are protesting and also no mullas(pseudo) are giving any kind of statement. mullas should have given a fatwa that her family had killed entire huminity coz in islam if any one kills an innocent people then consider that he/she has killed entire huminity.
Mac, grow up for what you are saying. Think twice before writing. Write in another word document, think twice before posting here. It is a matter of your credibility here.
Your statements, “Animals are even better than Pakistanis” and “yes pakistanis (not hindu pakistanis, sikh pakistanis, true practising pakistanis, etc) are animals” does not make any sense. Are you saying Pakistani Hindus are not animals but Pakistani Muslims are? Why are you anti-Muslim?
Yes marry him bcoz:-
1. In Islam dowry is completely banned and it is haram so they can’t force you for dowry or turture you. You know what today in india most of the hindu bride death is becoz of this dowry, girls are being tortured by husband n his family,forcing her to commit suicide and all these kind of things, so marrying a muslim you are officially free this.
2. The second biggest threat a hindu girl faces after her marriage is when she become pregnant, hindu wealthy family will test the sex of foetus and if the sex is female then they will pressurise to abort it else they will start all kind of torture with u even most of that time husband also take part in this, and if u r not that much wealthy then after ur delivery if the infant is girl then they will kill it or force you to leave it in garbages,streets,railway stations and thats what actually is happening in india every day we get such type of news from newspapers. But in islam it is strictly banned coz in kur’an it is said that man and women are equal but difference is physical structure and it is also mentioned in kur’an that man are responsible for sex of child not female and modern science has proved that in 20th century but kur’an said it in 7th century thats why in islam killing of female foetus is striclty banned. So again you will free from this problem.
And do you know what above mentioned two points are responsible for torture of women in india and see how islam has fixed that, so if they are true muslim then you will 100%free from these problems in ur life and you will be lucky hindu girl then coz ur hindu sisters and friends would be facing that problem and you would be free from that, you ask any hindu married women how difficult it is to handle the above mentioned problems.
3. Mohammad(pbuh), our last prohphet said that ur wife is your property just like you are your wife’s property. So in married life you will have equal say on family matters(if his family is TRUE muslim only otherwise they will make ur life a hell coz there is nothing more bad then a pseudo muslim, so first confirm whether they are true muslims or not). I m ending here if you need more on islam then i m ready to help you ,do you know what my mother was brahmin before and my father is Retd. engineer and now my mom is true muslim women and by default islamic law she has more say and control on family matters then my father, and you don’t worry abt ur father the best thing will be u gift ur father a kur’an(english hindi or what language he undestand better) and life of prohpet mohammad(pbuh) but don’t say him that it is kur’an or prohpet’s life history, you level the cover of kur’an with other white paper or anything else so that he couldn’t understand tell him to read it and see the difference, this is what was advised by my father to my mom, and my mom that perfectly and that melted by mom’s father heart, so if it can melt a strong hindu brahmins heart then certainly it will do the same in ur case too, now my nana nani are practising muslims.
But again i m tellin u if he and his family are not true muslims then u will make ur life a miserable one. Allah_bhagwan will guide u.
Jazz,
Your papa is against this relation, because he knows very well end result of your innocence. You will not understand till you encounter so many cultural shocks, no liberty, no freedom, multiple restrictions.
Initially, you will be made victim of FMG, removal of your clitoris as per islamic procedure, you will be converted to islamic faith, you will be forced to act as a maid in the home and in the night satisfy sexual hunger of your husband. The moment you show displeasure see his abusive behaviour and violent attitude.
Any way, if you are so determined go ahead, within a year of marriage start repenting throughout life and lead a disgraceful and humiliating life.
He still visit temples wit his Franz n me 2. 1stly we r planing 2 get marid by my culture I.e. in any temple, after DAT by Kazi. N lawfly we need 2 go thru by special marriage act 1954. But the thing is we don’t understand how 2 make the mind of my papa !
Jazz,
Remember, the Nikaah wedding with “after DAT by Kazi” involve your religious conversion to Islam, getting a Muslim name and later following Muslim life (not Hindu). Even after the talaak (divorce), if you had nikaah, your conversion back to Hindu later could punishable by stone to death (as per Islam is concern). Further, your second marriage has to be a Muslim only. There is nothing you have to gain from the Nikaah. Are ammi abby 100% clear on this point?
Is the boy having great education and well paying job? After marriage, do you have to live in the Muslim community or you could have your own flat somewhere? Do you feel comfortable spending one hour on your own alone at 9 o’clock at night in his community? Do you feel safe there? You will have to spend your whole life there, so it is important.
Are you working outside home? To be financially in depend, even after marriage, is important for today’s independent minded ladies.
On the boy’s side, please have all facts 100% clear. This way, when your parents raises concerns, you could address it with facts.
We agree your father is your concern. What do you think he will raise issue about? Now can you talk to your mom or brother? Instead of getting into arguments and fights, you will have to make very logical and rational arguments at home, staying very cool and calm. It may take a year or more to convince them. However, we strongly recommend never to run away from home. One day you will need your parents (especially if you get talaak).
Dear Jazz
His ammi and abbu are easy going because they have trapped a Hindu girl like you to multiply their muslim population. In the case sister of your BF is in love with a Hindu guy, will they be easy going? Please ask him and see his body language.
Are you ready to lead a restricted life in burqa, right now they will not insist for it, but after marriage see their behaviour? Will you eat Beef? Right now he may not insist for conversion, but after marriage you will be forced to convert.
Choice is yours, if you want to jump into a burning fire?
1st of all his mother don’t use burkha.Only abbu have beef but outside the home. I said they r easy going I mean dey r easy going by mind by nature. They r genuine by their heart. My only problem is my papa, he n I we both want the blessings of our parents.
Jazz,
I think he is playing tricks. Be alert and cautious about his behaviour. May be submissive and polite right now, but he will not take time to change his attitude soon after marriage, putting restrictions on your life style.
Best course of option will be watch his behaviour carefully for a year or so and dont take hasty decision.
Thnx 4 or concern. But he is not playing NY trick. I know b’coz I know him as a person not only b’coz I luv him.
Jazz,
Thanks for sharing your love story. It is nice that they love you and he is open minded and visits Mandir often. Do you know why he stop going to Mandir now? Is he willing to start visiting mandir with you again?
How are you planning to get married? Hindu wedding? Islamic Nikaah or Civil court marriage? Did you confirmed with his parents? Let us know.