nandinee says: June 7, 2014 at 8:39 am
I am a hindu girl and I love a muslim boy for 5 years. We really love each other a lot. we were like true soulmates, we were compatible to each other and we would never fight. Since his parents does not agree to our relationship he said he want to end our relationship as soon as possible. He does not want to go against his parents wishes and marry me. He broke up with me 2 weeks back, since then he did not even try to contact me. what shall I do in this case I really love him and I just can’t live without him at all. -Nandinee
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Muslim: Should I convert to Hinduism to marry him?
Good that Nandini did not marry this muslim cheat. Not all muslim boys are like this, and those who really love you, will give up islam for you. Next time, test for true love, ask if he will promise to give up islam for love. If not, it is not love, and you’ll have unhappy or unsuccessful marraige.
Massey and William are same person in the different name, actually he is a RSS paid guy spreading lies about islam and he gets paid by RSS for this, i have see such RSS bullis every where. HA HA HH HA caught again. click this link you posted same comment here https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8015
Reality of Prophet,
From the Hadith:
Muslim (8:3309) – Muhammad consummated his marriage to Aisha when she was only nine. (See also Bukhari 58:234 and many other places). No where in the reliable Hadith or Sira is there any other age given.
Bukhari (62:18) – Aisha’s father, Abu Bakr, wasn’t on board at first, but Muhammad explained how the rules of their religion made it possible. This is similar to the way that present-day cult leaders manipulate their followers into similar concessions.
Muslim (8:3311) – The girl took her dolls with her to Muhammad’s house (something to play with when the “prophet” was not having sex with her).
Bukhari (6:298) – Muhammad would take a bath with the little girl and fondle her.
Muslim (8:3460) – “Why didn’t you marry a young girl so that you could sport with her and she sport with you, or you could amuse with her and she could amuse with you?” Muhammad posed this question to one of his followers who had married an “older woman” instead of opting to fondle a child.
Bukhari (4:232) – Muhammad’s wives would wash semen stains out of his clothes, which were still wet from the spot-cleaning even when he went to the mosque for prayers. Between copulation and prayer, it’s a wonder he found the time to slay pagans.
Bukhari (6:300) – Muhammad’s wives had to be available for the prophet’s fondling even when they were having their menstrual period.
Bukhari (93:639) – The Prophet of Islam would recite the ‘Holy Qur’an’ with his head in Aisha’s lap, when she was menstruating.
Bukhari (62:6) – “The Prophet used to go round (have sexual relations with) all his wives in one night, and he had nine wives.” Muhammad also said that it was impossible to treat all wives equally – and it isn’t hard to guess why.
Bukhari (5:268) – “The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number.” I asked Anas, ‘Had the Prophet the strength for it?’ Anas replied, ‘We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty men.’ ”
Bukhari (60:311) – “I feel that your Lord hastens in fulfilling your wishes and desires.” These words were spoken by Aisha within the context of her husband having been given ‘Allah’s permission’ to fulfill his sexual desires with a large number of women in whatever order he chooses. (It has been suggested that Aisha may have been speaking somewhat wryly).
Muslim (8:3424) – One of several narrations in which a leering Muhammad orders a clearly startled woman to suckle a grown man with her breast so that he will become “unlawful” to her – meaning that they can live under the same roof together.
Tabari IX:137 – “Allah granted Rayhana of the Qurayza to Muhammad as booty.” Muhammad considered the women that he captured and enslaved to be God’s gift to him.
Tabari VIII:117 – “Dihyah had asked the Messenger for Safiyah when the Prophet chose her for himself… the Apostle traded for Safiyah by giving Dihyah her two cousins. The women of Khaybar were distributed among the Muslims.” He sometimes pulled rank to reserve the most beautiful captured women for himself.
Tabari IX:139 – “You are a self-respecting girl, but the prophet is a womanizer.” Words spoken by the disappointed parents of a girl who had ‘offered’ herself to Muhammad (he accepted).
In Dharmasastra(women need to be kept under control)Men must make their women dependent day and night, and keep under their own control those who are attached to sensory objects. Her father guards her in childhood, her husband guards her in youth, and her sons guard her in old age. A woman is not fit for independence. — Manusmrti 9:2-4.
Dear Hamida sister,
Glad to see your comments. My best wishes to you and your BF to raise your family togegther. It is better to get rid of evil religion like islam, as early as possible.
Today I found that Boko Haram terrorist group in Nigeria have kidnapped aother 40 women, including 300 children already in their captivity.
This is all result of evil practices of Islam incorporated in Koran against mankind.
My best wishes always.
Dear readers,
Following are few evil teachings of Koran.
1. A husband has sex with his wife, as a plow goes into a dirt field.
The Quran in Sura (Chapter) 2:223 says:
Your women are your fields, so go into your fields whichever way you like . . . . (MAS Abdel Haleem, The Qur’an, Oxford UP, 2004)
The hadith are the reports of Muhammad’s words and actions outside of the Quran. Two reliable hadith collectors and editors are Bukhari (d. 870), Muslim (d. 875). After the Quran, the hadith come second in importance and sacredness among the vast majority of Muslims around the world.
We should have no doubt that the husband controlled their sex life. If a woman does not want to have sex, then angels curse her.
. . . “If a man invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels send their curses on her till morning.” (Bukhari)
2. Husbands are a degree above their wives.
The Quran in Sura 2:228 says:
Gender inequality shows up in a theological context. This hadith shows that the majority of the inhabitants of hell are women.
I looked at Hell and saw that the majority of its inhabitants were women.” (Bukhari, emphasis added; see also these parallel traditions here and here.)
See this article for details on women in Islamic hell.
Muhammad was also superstitious (see here for the evidence). This next hadith says that women are part of an evil omen.
I heard the Prophet saying. “Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house.” (Bukhari)
Here is the back-up article. This one is too (scroll down to the Endnotes and see the brief discussion about Muslim women in hell).
3. A male gets a double share of the inheritance over that of a female.
The Quran in Sura 4:11 says:
The share of the male shall be twice that of a female . . . . (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 311)
The generally agreed upon way of doing things among us . . . about fixed shares of inheritance (fara’id) of children from the mother or father when one or the other dies is that if they leave male and female children, the male takes the portion of two females.
4. A woman’s testimony counts half of a man’s testimony.
The Quran in Sura 2:282 says:
And let two men from among you bear witness to all such documents [contracts of loans without interest]. But if two men be not available, there should be one man and two women to bear witness so that if one of the women forgets (anything), the other may remind her. (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 205).
prophet said, “Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?” The women said, “Yes.” He said, “This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind.” (Bukhari, emphasis added)
5. A wife may remarry her ex-husband if and only if she marries another man, they have sex, and then this second man divorces her.
The Quran in Sura 2:230 says:
And if the husband divorces his wife (for the third time), she shall not remain his lawful wife after this (absolute) divorce, unless she marries another husband and the second husband divorces her. (In that case) there is no harm if they [the first couple] remarry . . . . (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 165)
6. Slave-girls are sexual property for their male owners.
The Quran in Sura 4:24 says:
And forbidden to you are wedded wives of other people except those who have fallen in your hands (as prisoners of war) . . . (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 319).
Islam allows deep immorality with women who are in their most helpless condition. This crime is reprehensible, but Allah wills it nonetheless—the Quran says so.
Hadith demonstrate that Muslim jihadists actually have sex with the captured women, whether or not they are married. In the following hadith passage, Khumus is one-fifth of the spoils of war.
Ali, Muhammad’s cousin and son-in-law, just finished a relaxing bath. Why?
The Prophet sent Ali to Khalid to bring the Khumus (of the booty) and . . . Ali had taken a bath (after a sexual act with a slave-girl from the Khumus).
7. A man may be polygamous with up to four wives.
The Quran in Sura 4:3 says:
And if you be apprehensive that you will not be able to do justice to the orphans, you may marry two or three or four women whom you choose. But if you apprehend that you might not be able to do justice to them, then marry only one wife, or marry those who have fallen in your possession. (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 305)
The clause “marry those who have fallen in your possession” means slave-girls who were captured after a war. Men may “marry” them because slaves do not incur very much expense, not as much as free women do. This means that the limit on four wives is artificial. Men could have sex with as many slave-girls as they wanted.
This hadith shows that Muhammad was intimate with his slave-girls.
This hadith says that Muhammad used to visit nine (or eleven) wives in one night. See the parallel hadith here, here, and here.
9. Husbands may hit their wives even if the husbands merely fear highhandedness in their wives (quite apart from whether they actually are highhanded—as if domestic violence in any form is acceptable).
The Quran in Sura 4:34 says:
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Why should this surprise us? After all, Muhammad was betrothed to Aisha when she was six, and he consummated their union when she was only nine.
Conclusion
The nightmare must end for women in Islamic countries.
But the political and legal hierarchies in the Islamic world do not seem ready to reform on women’s rights. Here is a 1998 interview with Shirin Ebadi, one of the first female judges in Iran. She correctly sees abuses in Iranian law, which favors men. However, what has been done about these abuses?
Zohreh Arshadi “was a practising lawyer in Iran prior to her forced exile to Europe. She is currently an advocate in France and is active in human rights and especially of the rights of women. She has been especially active in defence of the rights of women in Iran.” She reports on the inequities in Iranian law as it pertains to women:
The Islamic punishments have encouraged a culture of violence against women, especially within the family and has spilled into violence against children. This has been commented upon by many within the country . . . The fact that men receive a lighter punishment if they commit a violence against women undoubtedly encourages such violence. We saw how women could be killed with impunity during alleged adultery. Stoning to death for adultery, although technically admissible for both sexes, has also been carried out mainly against women.
dear nandinee, you officially convert to islam and then marry him coz you are infact all hindu girls who believe in huminity and equality are practising muslim, admin do you know how? If not ask me i will give you answer and sister nandinee you convert and live a happy peaceful life free devil hindu religion.
Nandinee,
Read every statements written by mac and you will realize truth. Your boy friend is also of exactly the same ideology. You are intelligent, so we don’t have to tell you more. Keep reading mac.
By the way, mac, you are doing great service on this web site. Nandinee and others are learning a lot from you about Islam. Thank you for telling all truth about Islam. Keep going!
I agree with mac he is 100% RIGHT ! and I want to comment on nadira who is a bigoted ,communal and racist person who doesn’t know how to respect any religion , now I dont know what religion or faith she or he (or in between) belong to does not know respect I do not know what kind of parent this person has or had ,must be very tough growing up, why dont this person go and tell this to her parent about their religion and also let them know what kind of bigoted person you are ,may you die in car accident or with a cancerous type of disease then you will know which religion is right.
Hi Tomo,
So, Sunni don’t get “die in car accident or with a cancerous type of disease”????? That’s an advantage to be a Sunni if Allah protect them this way. Does this also include Shia/Shiite too?
what shia sunni, it is only a political division, nothing else
admin what is the wrong in loving islam first
I don’t know if he has any regret because he did not call me even once after the break up. Earlier when we were together he used to tell me that we will separate one day because his parents don’t agree and he will not do anything to hurt them nor he would convince them for our relationship. He did not promise anything to me for marriage as such, however he used to talk about our future together.
Did he not know that you are a Hindu? Was it not his concern when he first asked you for a date?
Do you think he is pressuring you to convert to Islam and become a Muslim?
He did know that I was a hindu when he asked me for a date. But before our break up he says he was immature at that time. I don’t know if he is pressurizing me because when we were together he did not say anything as such because he know I won’t convert.
This is a common practice to lure innocent girls and have fun. Later, they walk away cold heartily, without any regret. If he asked the same to a Muslim girl, immediately it would result in marriage talk, and that he did not wanted. For this reason, non-Muslim girls were his target.
What ever happens in life, happen for good. Now you learned a lesson to watch for cheaters. You are educated and intellectuals, and will find ways around your current issue.
If he is a mommy’s boy, your life would have been very miserable after marriage. Every step of your life decision, he will look at his mother if he should or should not make a move. We feel he is still immature today. As hard it is, forget him. In 2020, you will feel that this is the best thing happened that you broke up.
A young Muslim IT engineer beaten to death by Hindu Rashtra Sena men over morphed FB posts in Pune. This is INDIA. If it had hapnd in a muslim country then ashram level IQ would have started barking like dogs.
Nandinee,
We are really sorry to hear of your story. Wow!! Is he breaking 5 years of love just in one second??!! Does he not have any guilty feelings or regrets for it?
Can you tell us what did he promised all these years to you? Did he ever give you a hint that this day might come in last 5 years?
This is too sad that he loves his Islam first, then to his parents and any left over love goes to you. Are you really willing to be a third class citizen?
Why he did not realize what his parents wishes for past 5 years? These create lots of doubt about his intentions to have romantic time with you all these years. We are truly sorry.
We hope you will speak out about it load and clear to the world to expose such cheaters. E-mail him this link https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8025 and make him feel guilty!