shreya says: March 6, 2015 at 5:44 am
Hi.. I am a Hindu girl. I am in a relationship with a Muslim boy. He loves me alot and i too loves him. But the problem is with the families. His family wants me to convert but my family is not ready. They (my family) have told me clearly that if I get converted they will never accept me. Never talk to me. They have issues that if I can convert than why can’t he..
Please tell me what should I do? -shreya
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Hi, I am a Sikh and am seeing a Muslim guy for over three months now. I love him like anything but the feeling of getting converting and leaving my faith stands out of question for me. I respect his religious sentiments and views and would never want him to leave his faith. But, his family won’t just accept me and if I still move in with him, my family would abandon me. I just can’t leave him. I love him dearly. Please suggest.
please frnd don’t convert into musalman .they are all villain they are playing with you and your emotion before marriage read quran then u will understand what bloody bustard they are they don’t know how to respect others they juat want to convert u and then others.
shreya
only obey your parent don’t care any body please
Hi Shreya, be aware don’t misguide from anybody respect your parents evil.
Dear sister Shreya, it is not about his religion or your religion, it is about accepting what is right and what is wrong for you. ok.
Shreya, accepting Allah doesn’t make you a Muslim.What makes you a Muslim is Muhammad, the prophet of Allah. People don’t realise a key fact in the Islamic conversion business. Essentially, Islam revolves around Muhammad, not Allah. Allah has no authority over Muhammad,but on the other hand Muhammad has so much clout that Allah is bound to approve the recommendations. It’s like a parliamentary democracy with a ceremonial head where actual power lies in the Prime Minister in the name of the President. In Islam, the PM is Muhammad and Allah is merely a rubber stamp in the hands of Muhammad. Do your own research and think about it. Do you still have no problem with Islam? You should have problems now if you know about Muhammad’s marital life. For example, his marriages with his daughter-in-law and with a 6 year girl when he was 54 are well known and are even acceptable in practice for a Muslim.
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What happened to non muslim girls?
Why do you get trapped from such evil practiced religion, who are
nothing but terrorist ideology criminals to increase their populations, as these terrorists are dying in Syria,Afghanistan, Libya, Nigeria, Iraq, NW Pakistan.
Do you want to become sex toy in the hands of terrorists? They are not sparing their own muslim baby girls of 9-10 years raped by terrorists of the age of 50-60 years?
Cool down Massey, not all Muslims are bad. Let Shreya express herself and make her “informed” decision.
Dear Massey/Satyen/Admin,
Non-Muslim girls are realizing truth.
We are together from 3 years.He is well educated and is an aeronautical engineer.My views on conversion.. Actually I don’t have any problem in Changing.For me,Allah god all are same but we are totally different in culture especially his family.
If i start thinking that he should also change then I willbe selfish and moreover he is the only child of his parents.
Shreya,
It is nice that he is educated. You are in love for 3 years, then why all of a sudden he is starting this conversion talk? This is not fair, do you think so?
You are wrong on this point, “Allah god all are same”. This is wrong. Read what Koran says for Hindus (you and your parents). Later, check in Google for all these verses for confirming that we have not quoted them wrong. Get back to us after reading what new learned.
Hi Shreya,
You are certainly in a very difficult situation. On one side you have your love and the other side two sets of parents.
We assume you are educated and intelligent. For this reason, we recommend to do that you feel right to do and not do to please any one. However, this step also comes with a big responsibility (meaning parents will close their door for you for ever). For this reasons, you make 100% sure that the step you take is very well thought out and that you will never regret. Education is the key. Ready for education? We will work with you for months right here, all free, OK?
To start with, can you tell us how long you have been in love with this guy? Is he well educated and having good job/career?
Also can you tell what do you think on the point raised by your parents “if I can convert than why can’t he”? Tell us what are you thinking about this point?