Nikhil says: October 14, 2016
Dear Admin pls pls pls help me. I m not finding any solution on this. I m Hindu married to Catholic girl since 2009.
And fact is that she is still virgin. As she was never comfortable to have intercourse. And even I never forced her. And due to this ant many other reason we decided to have mutual divorce and filled petition in 2013. But later she changed her mind. And now when I put 1 side case she appointed lawyer. And I see this case will long yrs. Which I don’t want too. As I wanted to settled down with other girl asap. I really have no idea wht I shd do. And also she wants to keep children in her religon onl which I could never accept.
So on what ground I can fight n get divorce frm her. Pls pls pls help.
Pls contact me if u can so I can explain u more better I really want to come out of this soon as it’s spoiling Mt career health and affecting mentally too. -Nikhil
Nikhil says: October 14, 2016
Pls don’t marry to Catholic. I ruined my 7 yrs of life.
Pls Pls girls n even boys don’t get emotional Fool on the words.
I don’t hate religion but I hate this type of people who force other to this all. Infact they are bug sinners and they will only go to hell.
Nikhil says: October 14, 2016
Thanks for ur response. we did court marriage 1st as her parents Wht against and then later after 2 months we got married in church again as later her parents accepted us. And no I dint do any baptism and I guess nor I signed any agreement (will confirm soon)
Registered under : registration of marriage 1998 Act.
I really don’t want to stay with her. She he has harassed and hurted me badly. Pls show me the way.
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Thanks for ur response. we did court marriage 1st as her parents Wht against and then later after 2 months we got married in church again as later her parents accepted us. And no I dint do any baptism and I guess nor I signed any agreement (will confirm soon)
Registered under : registration of marriage 1998 Act.
I really don’t want to stay with her. She he has harassed and hurted me badly. Pls show me the way.
We will help you out step wise, don’t worry. You are in good hands.
The first marriage count for legal reasons, so you are in good shape because it was done by civil wedding. However, if you baptized or signed any agreement with the church (most likely), that will be critical to know.
For divorce, if two parties are cooperative, it could go smoothly. However, if any one party decide to play hardball, nothing much you can do. However, ultimately, you will get divorce. Rome was not built in a day, you will have to have patience.
Know saam, daam, dand and bhed (do you know what it means?). You have to play smartly to deal with her. Do not feel her that “I really want to come out of this soon as it’s spoiling Mt career health and affecting mentally too” and “As I wanted to settled down with other girl asap.” If she learn that you have another option, out of jealously, she will drag this for ever. Instead, explain her that bitter divorce means rich lawyer and poor divorcees.
Very first, work on “My career health and affecting mentally too.” This is not an end to the life. Be being depressed will not speed the process. Like Buddha said “Pain is mandatory, suffering is optional.” You MUST go through pain, but make a point of not suffering a bit. Remember, good days are ahead.
Talk to a divorce lawyer. Make a case based on non-comparability based on “Hindu, Catholic, And fact is that she is still virgin (proof?). we decided to have mutual divorce and filled petition in 2013 (do you have documents?). she wants to keep children in her religion (that was not your agreement before marriage, if true)”
Get back.
How did you got married? If in a church, did you signed any pre-nap agreement with the church? Where you baptized? How did you register your marriage with the Indian government?