booxoo says: February 9, 2019 at 10:30 pm
Iam christian women and my bf [real father non muslim] is muslim follow his step father religion. If we want married and i dont wan to convert to muslim what shud i do. shud i let go and dont wan be with him? -Booxoo
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I am Indian muslim wanna get to marriage usa christian woman in india but we wanna marriage in church. Help where should I go to get marriage in church in india.should I convert myself muslim to Christian first.
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Dear Booxoo,
In Malaysia, if you wish to marry a Muslim, you MUST convert to Islam. Read all laws and references that we have provided. Not only you have to convert, but your all future generations has to be Muslims by law, there is no option. For this reason, think 10 times before conversion.
Instead of believing Jesus as a Son, now you have to give up your Christian belief and start believing in Muhammad’s messages. Are you ready to teach your children that believing Jesus as a Son of God is a monstrous false hood? As a Christian, is that acceptable to you? It is very obvious, if you don’t want to be a true Muslim, you should forget this Muslim guy.
Then i think this religion didnt teach about love just teach about how selfish it is . tq
Dear Booxoo,
Yes, when comes to the interest of Islam, there is no negotiation. The other faith spouse must submit to Islam. Interfaith marriage is a good tool to expand Islam, so you have to decide first is you wish to be a true Muslim first and then this if about your love.. View more at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiWLGEKusIg
Dear Booxoo,
You have summarised it all in one line. We have written a book on Interfaith marriage and this one chapter you should read…
Section 8.8: Malaysian Muslim: I Follow Christianity
Interfaith love with a Malay is one of the most popular themes at InterfaithShaadi. Readers are advised to read unfair interfaith marriage laws in Malaysia (Section 2.15).
Syed says:
I’m a Malay (Malaysian Muslim) man married to a Catholic girl. She had a Muslim name after (Islamic marriage) registration but she remains Catholic. So are my children, they are all raised Catholic. I too don’t practice Muslim faith and follow my wife’s faith. I live in an area that is mostly non-Muslim to avoid problem. —Syed
Admin says:
Hi Syed,
We are sympathetic to your situation. Ideally, one should have freedom of religion. Unfortunately this is not possible in Muslim majority countries like Malaysia. Lets us explain issues that you will face.
Your wife converted to Islam for your nikaah and was given a new Muslim name for your marriage registration. That name is (probably) in her Malaysian MyKad ID card and passport. Further, her ID card (probably) says her faith as “Islam.”
Your children will also have Muslim names and their ID will ultimately have “Islam” on it. This will go on for your grand children and great grandchildren; even if none of you wish to follow Islam. Now any time any one of you tries to change the Muslim name to a Catholic name, Malay government will not allow and will punish you.
Any time your children and great grand children marry to any one other than a Muslim, the non-Muslim party will have to convert to Islam. When any of you die, the Malay Sharia police may come and take away the dead body from your Catholic family and give a Muslim final rite. So, in your after life, you may wish to meet Jesus but you will go with Mohammad.
Any time if any one reports to the Sharia police that you (or your great grandchildren) are practicing a non-Muslim faith, you will be in deep trouble for apostasy.
Bottom line, you think you are fooling the Malay government but in reality you and your all future generations are in a trap, you can’t escape (unless you move out of Malaysia). You can run, but not hide. It is only a matter of time. As far we are concerned, people should not follow your footsteps.
It is notable that refugees and immigrant Muslims in Christian majority nations demand religious equality but most Muslim majority nations have created laws to marginalize Christians and non-Muslim minorities.
Syed, it is certainly sad that your liberty to express your faith is taken away by the government. This is not fair. We wish you the best. —Admin