gerald says: September 7, 2015 at 7:43 am
i am a catholic man with two big kids and my friend who is a muslim girl with 3 big kids.i am interested to marry her.i acnt convert because i promise my mum and if will be confusing for my kids.i would love to marry her. we both respect each other religion and we not planning to have kids.pls advise.it is not fair to have religion to be the obstacle. -Gerald
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I am a catholic man and my girlfriend is a muslim. We both come from south India. We both are doctors pursuing our residency training in two different parts of India.We have been seeing each other for about four years now.Both our families do not agree with us getting married.Lately there has been a lot of threats coming from both sides.We both are very liberal in our ideologies,i believe its this profession that has a greater part to do in it.
Yes there is a pressure of conversion from both the parties but we find it rather silly.Both of us love and respect each others faith.We do not intend to convert.
I would love to get the opinion of the more experienced bloggers on this issue.
Gerald,
Which country you are from? Note we have removed your last name for your privacy.
Christians don’t have to convert because they are from “book”. Who told you that you have to convert? If you are in the West, go get married in court, simple!
if he is male ..he must convert ……….if female she can stay on her religion
but you can see the way of his thinking :
-i acnt convert because i promise my mum and if will be confusing for my kids (considering himself only)
-we both respect each other religion
-it is not fair to have religion to be the obstacle
if you can not convert why did you insist to marry her and you know her religion very well…that means you exploit her
you respect her religion and kicked out her religion Legislation!!!!!!!!
and who are to decide if it is fair or unfair to have religion to be the obstacle