Jy says: May 26, 2017 at 7:09 pm
Hi,
I just broke up with my bf whom is a Muslim due to this conversion issues. We have been together for 3yrs and had many ups and downs together. From my dad not being able to accept me having a Malay bf to him going for CNY visiting with me for the last 2 CNY celebrations.
As much as we know that we are able to have a civil marriage in sg, he mentioned that he would still like to respect his mum and would want me to just sign the document and show his mum as a paperwork only. But my family is a strict taoist and my mum has just recently became a Chinese medium.
We knee in our hearts that this is not what we wanted.. But we just have to get break from each other as we had been fighting alot for the past 12-18months. And it all boils down to this conversion issue.
I would like to know if I’m able to pay for a “fake” conversion cert to show his parents (would you be able to advise onto where I can get it?) but then register our marriage as civil marriage? –Jy
JY says: May 27, 2017 at 10:42 pm
Hi Admin,
Thank you for your prompt response.
And thank you for sharing with me on the concept in the video. Actually I had research before on what the video had mentioned about. This is the reason why at the end of the day we decided to take a break from each other first.
However I really do love him, but I am unable to convince him to have an open mind and accept a civil marriage that is possible for us. The thing is that he typically did most of the harem things, such as drinking, smoking, wearing gold, piercing his ears, had tattoo. We even had several overseas trips together.
Yes I know that if he marries a woman that is not from the book, the day that he dies, he will be punished and be considered as a sinful man. However if were to look at his past relationships, all his muslim ex girlfriends did not motivate him to work hard and save money. Instead it was the other way round. I’m not trying to boast around but ever since we were together, his temper did simmer down and he had really became a better man.
I just do not understand why would Allah punish both of us or rather him if he had became a responsible and sensible man who knows how to then cherish and look after his family now, with just one reason that is me not being a Muslim. –Jy
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Hi Admin,
Thank you for your prompt response.
And thank you for sharing with me on the concept in the video. Actually I had research before on what the video had mentioned about. This is the reason why at the end of the day we decided to take a break from each other first.
However I really do love him, but I am unable to convince him to have an open mind and accept a civil marriage that is possible for us. The thing is that he typically did most of the harem things, such as drinking, smoking, wearing gold, piercing his ears, had tattoo. We even had several overseas trips together.
Yes I know that if he marries a woman that is not from the book, the day that he dies, he will be punished and be considered as a sinful man. However if were to look at his past relationships, all his muslim ex girlfriends did not motivate him to work hard and save money. Instead it was the other way round. I’m not trying to boast around but ever since we were together, his temper did simmer down and he had really became a better man.
I just do not understand why would Allah punish both of us or rather him if he had became a responsible and sensible man who knows how to then cherish and look after his family now, with just one reason that is me not being a Muslim.
Dear Jy,
We have seen this many times “he typically did most of the harem things, such as drinking” but if you marry him, he will make you even more Muslim that any other Muslim. His family and community will be all over you to teach you more than most Muslims will do. For this reason, what ever you decided to do, i.e. to split, is the best for you. Forget this horrible dream and start a fresh new life. Best wishes.
Dear Jy,
As much as you may be sad for your broken love relationship, you should be happy that this nightmare is over now. It is clear that a Muslim will not rest till he/she converts you. For them, this interfaith love is a platform for love proselytism. This is bullshit that “he mentioned that he would still like to respect his mum.” We are so happy that you decided not to fake-convert. This fake-conversion is a trap, view more at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiWLGEKusIg. Now come to interfaithshaadi to educate other innocent youths from getting trapped just like you did.