Daksh Purohit says: February 14, 2015 at 9:04 am
hi Sameera,
i am daksh read your blog and i am also facing problem to marry in muslim religion because i belong to hindu family also its a best religion in world where lots of freedom but i like muslim girl who always becomes simple and true and faith in love so please tell me the way to get marry with muslim girl while being hindu. my cell no. is +91 9795893768/9702376705 boath on whatsapp also. waiting reply soon. -Daksh
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I am from Malaysia, My BF is a Muslim from UK
Dear Rakesh ,
thanks dear to make me aware of all the bullshit of muslim religion which is not good which is not allowed by humanity as well as scientifically. really Muslim religion is religion of devils and animals who sex with their sister n reap to animal. really they are very cruel. never would change my religion at any cost. may be love is ready with me or go to on my foot. dear Rakesh I really thankful to you. can contact me on +919702376705
Dear brother daksh, have you read whole Quran, do you have 100% knowledge about Islam, you say you love muslim girls whereas making abusing remarks towards muslim, what is this? and by doing this you want respect from your muslim gf`s family?
You said ” but i like muslim girl who always becomes simple and true and faith in love so please tell me the way to get marry with muslim girl”
Now you don`t like a hindu girl who is brought up in a hindu household under the banner of Hinduism but you like muslim girl who are brought up and influenced by teachings of Islam. This is hypocrisy. Muslim girls who are in relationship with hindu boys must notice this, that their hindu bf`s hatred towards beautiful religion islam, but am I making a generalization of all hindu boys, of course not, i am only talking about people like Daksh, but I personally believe Daksh has little knowledge about islam and making comments on islam out of ignorance, i hope Allah gives him hidaya and courage and hope he one day finds right path.
Few teachings of Prophet Muhammad:
“A Muslim who plants a tree or sows a field, from which man, birds and animals can eat, is committing an act of charity.” (Muslim)
“There is a polish for everything that takes away rust; and the polish for the heart is the remembrance of Allah.” (Bukhari)
“What actions are most excellent? To gladden the heart of human beings, to feed the hungry, to help the afflicted, to lighten the sorrow of the sorrowful, and to remove the sufferings of the injured.” (Bukhari)
“The most excellent Jihad is that for the conquest of self.” (Bukhari)
“If you put your whole trust in Allah, as you ought, He most certainly will satisfy your needs, as He satisfies those of the birds. They come out hungry in the morning, but return full to their nests.” (Tirmidhi)
“Allah will not give mercy to anyone, except those who give mercy to other creatures.” (Abdullah b. Amr: Abu Dawud & Tirmidhi)
“Say what is true, although it may be bitter and displeasing to people.” (Baihaqi)
“Kindness is a mark of faith, and whoever is not kind has no faith.” (Muslim)
“When you see a person who has been given more than you in money and beauty, look to those, who have been given less.” (Muslim)
“If you do not feel ashamed of anything, then you can do whatever you like.” (Abu-Masud: Bukhari)
“It is better to sit alone than in company with the bad; and it is better still to sit with the good than alone. It is better to speak to a seeker of knowledge than to remain silent; but silence is better than idle words.” (Bukhari)
“Verily, a man teaching his child manners is better than giving one bushel of grain in alms.” (Muslim)
“Whoever is kind, Allah will be kind to him; therefore be kind to man on the earth. He who is in heaven will show mercy on you.” (Abu Dawud: Tirmidhi)
“It is difficult for a man laden with riches to climb the steep path, that leads to bliss.” (Muslim)
“The best of you are those who are best to the women.” (Tirmidhi)
“Whoever loveth to meet God, God loveth to meet him” (Bukhari)
“Once a man, who was passing through a road, found a branch of a tree with thorns obstructing it. The man removed the thorns from the way. Allah thanked him and forgave his sins.” (Bukhari)
“Who are the learned? Those who practice what they know.” (Bukhari)
“Allah has revealed to me, that you must be humble. No one should boast over one another, and no one should oppress another.” (Iyad b. Hinar al-Mujashi: Muslim)
“A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity.” (Muslim)
“A Muslim who meets with others and shares their burdens is better than one who lives a life of seclusion and contemplation.” (Muslim)
“Serve Allah, as you would if you could see Him; although you cannot see Him, He can see you.” (Umar: Muslim)
“Allah does not look at your appearance or your possessions; but He looks at your heart and your deeds.” (Abu Huraira: Muslim)
“The best richness is the richness of the soul.” (Bukhari)
“Keep yourselves far from envy; because it eats up and takes away good actions, like a fire eats up and burns wood.” (Abu Dawud)
“Much silence and a good disposition, there are no two things better than these.” (Bukhari)
“Verily, Allah is mild and is fond of mildness, and He gives to the mild what He does not give to the harsh.” (Muslim)
“Once the Prophet was asked: “Tell us, which action is dearest to Allah?” He answered: “To say your prayer at its proper time.” Again he was asked: “What comes next?” Mohammad said: “To show kindness to parents.” “Then what?” he was asked, “To strive for the cause of Allah!” (Ibn Masad: Bukhari)
“When two persons are together, two of them must not whisper to each other, without letting the third hear; because it would hurt him.” (Bukhari & Muslim)
“Verily, it is one of the respects to Allah to honor an old man.” (Bukhari)
“I command you to treat women kindly…” (Bukhari)
“All Muslims are like a foundation, each strengthening the other; in such a way they do support each other.” (Abu Musa: Bukhari & Muslim)
“Strive always to excel in virtue and truth.” (Bukhari)
“You will not enter paradise until you have faith; and you will not complete your faith till you love one another.” (Muslim)
“He, who wishes to enter paradise at the best gate, must please his father and mother.” (Bukhari & Muslim)
“I am leaving two things among you, and if you cling to them firmly you will never go astray; one is the Book of Allah and the other is my way of life.” (Last Sermon on the Mount)
“Allah is One and likes Unity.” (Muslim)
“The best of alms is that, which the right hand gives and the left hand knows not of.” (Bukhari)
“The perfect Muslim is not a perfect Muslim, who eats till he is full and leaves his neighbors hungry.” (Ibn Abbas: Baihaqi)
“He is not of us who is not affectionate to the little ones, and does not respect the old; and he is not of us, who does not order which is lawful, and prohibits that which is unlawful.” (Ibn Abbas: Tirmidhi)
“No man is a true believer unless he desires for his brother that, what he desires for himself.” (Abu Hamza Anas: Bukhari & Muslim)
“To strive for the cause of Allah from daybreak to noon and sunset is better than the goods and enjoyment of the whole worldly life.” (Bukhari)
“Be not like the hypocrite who, when he talks, tells lies; when he gives a promise, he breaks it; and when he is trusted, he proves dishonest.” (Bukhari & Muslim)
“The proof of a Muslim’s sincerity is, that he pays no heed to that, which is not his business.” (Abu Hureira: Tirmidhi)
“Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind.” (Muslims & Bukhari)
“Conduct yourself in this world, as if you are here to stay forever; prepare for eternity as if you have to die tomorrow.” (Bukhari)
“The human being does not fill up any vessel worse than his stomach.” (Tirmidhi)
“The worldly comforts are not for me. I am like a traveler, who takes a rest under a tree in the shade and then goes on his way.” (Tirmidhi)
“Women are the twin halves of men.” (Tirmidhi)
“A father gives his child nothing better than a good education.” (Tirmidhi)
“The strong person is not the one who can wrestle someone else down. The strong person is the one who can control himself when he is angry.” (Bukhari & Muslim)
“The seeking of knowledge is obligatory for every Muslim.” (Tirmidhi)
You can contact me here to learn about islam and help on interfaith marriage with muslim boys/girls.
Dear Daksh…
U r really facing some psycological havock within u….man….one momejt u say u like hinduism the most…and hate muslims coz of their practices…the next moment u dnt want a hindu girl bt want a muslim girl as ur gf….
All in all…u want ur girl to be submissive bt u dnt want ur girl to have freedoms just like urs…..Bhai …..seedhe shabdo me bolu toh…u r a sexist…..simple krke batau toh yahi mtlb nikal raha hai ki tujhe sirf apni khushi dikhti hai….saale tu lihkh k le le…koi ladki itni bewakuf nahi hogi jo tere jaise mentality wale se shadee kr le…..
Thora soch k dekh…..jiske saath ghar basaane ka khwaab dekh raha…usi ko gaali de raha hai tu…..ajeeb log hai yaar…….
Peace brother….
Nothing personal…
ONE HUNDRED ADVICE FROM NOBLE QUR’AN:
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1. Do not mix the truth with falsehood (2:42)
2. Order righteousness to people only after
practicing it yourself (2:44)
3. Do not commit abuse on the earth (2:60)
4. Do not prevent people from mosques (2:114)
5. Do not follow anyone blindly (2:170)
6. Do not break the promise (2:177)
7. Do not engage in bribery (2:188)
8. Fight only with those who fight you (2:190)
9. Keep the etiquette of war (2:191)
10. Protect orphans (2:220)
11. Do not have sexual intercourse during
menstrual period (2:222)
12. Breast feed your children for two complete years (2:233)
13. Choose rulers by their merit (2:247)
14. No compulsion in religion (2:256)
15. Do not invalidate charity with reminders (2:264)
16. Help those in need by finding them (2:273)
17. Don’t consume interest (2:275)
18. Grant more time to repay if the debtor is in hard time (2:280)
19. Write down the debt (2:282)
20. Keep the trust (2:283)
21. Do not spy and backbite (2:283)
22. Believe in all prophets (2:285)
23. Do not burden a person beyond his scope (2:286)
24. Do not become divided (3:103)
25. Restrain Anger (3:134)
26. Do not be rude in speech (3:159)
27. Think deeply about the wonders and creation of this universe (3:191)
28. Men and Women have equal rewards for their
deeds (3:195)
29. Wealth of the dead should be distributed among
his family members (4:7)
30. Women also have the right for inheritance (4:7)
31. Do not devour the property of orphans (4:10)
32. Do not marry those in your blood relation (4:23)
33. Do not consume one another’s wealth unjustly
(4:29)
34. Family should be led by men (4:34)
35. Be good to others (4:36)
36. Do not be miserly (4:37) 37.Do not keep envy (4:54)
38. Judge with justice between people (4:58)
39. Do not kill each other (4:92)
40. Do not be an advocate for deceit (4:105)
41. Stand out firmly for justice (4:135)
42. Cooperate in righteousness (5:2)
43. Do not cooperate in sin and aggression (5:2)
44. Dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine are
prohibited (5:3)
45. Be just (5:8)
46. Punish for crimes in an exemplary way (5:38)
47. Strive against sinful and unlawful acts (5:63)
48. Avoid intoxicants and alcohol (5:90)
49. Do not gamble (5:90)
50. Do not insult others’ deities (6:108)
51. ’Having majority’ is not a criterion of truth
(6:116)
52. Don’t reduce weight or measure to cheat people (6:152)
53. Do not be arrogant (7:13)
54. Eat and Drink, But Be Not Excessive (7:31)
55. Wear good cloths during prayer times (7:31)
56. Forgive others for their mistakes (7:199)
57. Do not turn back in battle (8:15)
58. protect and help those who seek protection (9:6)
59. Keep Purity (9:108)
60. Never give up hope of Allah’s Mercy (12:87)
61. Allah will forgive those who have done wrong out of ignorance (16:119)
62. Invitation to God should be with wisdom and good instruction (16:125)
63. No one will bear others’ sins (17:15)
64. Be dutiful to parents(17:23)
65. Do not say a word of disrespect to parents (17:23)
66. Do not spend money extravagantly (17:29)
67. Do not kill your children for fear of poverty (17:31)
68. Do not even approach unlawful sexual intercourse (17:32)
69. Do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge (17:36)
70. Speak to people mildly (20:44)
71. Keep aloof from what is vain (23:3)
72. Do not enter others’ houses without seeking
permission (24:27)
73. Allah will provide security for those who believe only in Allah (24:55)
74. Do not enter parents’ private room without
asking permission (24:58)
75. Walk on earth in humility (25:63)
76. Do not neglect your portion of this world (28:77)
77. Invoke not any other god along with Allah (28:88)
78. Do not engage in homosexuality (29:29)
79. Enjoin right, forbid wrong (31:17)
80. Do not walk in insolence through the earth (31:18)
81. Lower your voice (31:19)
82. Women should not display their finery (33:33)
83. Allah forgives all sins (39:53)
84. Do not despair of the mercy of Allah (39:53)
85. Repel evil by good (41:34)
86. Decide on affairs by consultation (42:38)
87. Try for settlement between people (49:9)
88. Do not ridicule others (49:11)
89. Avoid suspicion (49:12)
90. Do not spy or backbite (49:12)
91. Most noble of you is the most righteous (49:13)
92. Honor guests (51:26)
93. Spend wealth in charity (57:7)
94. No Monasticism in religion (57:27)
95. Those who have knowledge will be given a higher degree by Allah (58:11)
96. Treat non-Muslims in a kind and fair manner (60:8)
97. Save yourself from covetousness (64:16)
98. Seek forgiveness of Allah. He is Forgiving and Merciful (73:20)
99. Do not repel one who asks (93:10)
100. Encourage feeding poor (107:3)
ALHAMDULILLAH!!!
ALHAMDULILLAH!!!
ALHAMDULILLAH FOR EVERYTHING!!!
Readers, this is only half the story. These are applicable to and for benefit of Muslims only. For example, “Spend wealth in charity” means for the benefit of Muslims only.
If you wish to know what Koran says about you (a non-Muslim), read this. For example,
4:56 – “Those that deny Our revelations We will burn (them) in fire. No sooner will their skins be consumed than We shall give them other skins, so that they may truly taste the scourge.”
4:91 ..lay hold of them (unbelievers) and kill them wherever you find them. Over such men We give you absolute authority.
9:5 When the sacred months (like Muharram) are over kill the idolaters whenever you find them. Arrest them, besiege them, and lie in ambush everywhere for them.
22:19 Garments of fire have been prepared for the unbelievers. Scalding water shall be poured upon their heads, melting their skins and that which is in their bellies. They shall be lashed with rods of iron. Whenever, in their anguish, they try to escape from Hell, back they shall be dragged, and will be told: “Taste the torment of the Conflagration!”
So, are you ready? ALHAMDULILLAH FOR EVERYTHING?
The non-Muslim husband would naturally not recognize Prophet Muhammad ﷺ to be a prophet of Allah(swt) and might object to the Islamic practices of his wife. He could object to the hijab which the wife would wear. He could want the wife to dress more ‘moderately’ especially when accompanying him to a party. Moreover he could ask the wife to sit with him while he consumes alcohol. The husband could want the wife to serve alcohol for him and a couple of friends after dinner. It is a huge sin in Islam for a person to have anything to do with alcohol. Moreover the husband could want to eat pork for lunch or dinner and could ask the wife to cook it for him. Again this is something not allowed for a Muslim to do and thus would cause trouble in the family. The husband could find it okay for him to drink where his wife is offering prayers. It could be okay for the husband to keep a pet dog inside the house. This is another thing which is not allowed by Islam but the non-Muslim husband might not understand it. As it can be seen, there can be a lot of issues which can arise between the marriage of a Muslim woman and non-Muslim man.
http://www.peopleofsunnah.com/fiqh/rulings/marriage/80.html
Hi Daksh,
The answer is very simple, best option is to get married by the Special Marriage Act 1954.
If she wishes to have a Nikaah (Islamic wedding), that will be an issue for you because you will have to convert to Islam for Nikaah.
Are your two sets of parents okay and willing to support you? What other concern you have?