Hari says: January 15, 2015 at 10:51 pm
Hi admin,
I am a final year college student.I had got placed in TCS. For the past 3 years I loved a girl who belongs to Muslim religion. I am hindu. I decided to marry her after one year by having a good salary per month. In my home all accept her but she didn’t tell to her parents till now. I can’t live without her and she too. She asking me to become a muslim but i am not interested in that. She also not wish to become hindu girl. Please tell me solution by replying to mail id. I am waiting for your reply. -Hari
Nusrat khan says: January 17, 2015 at 5:08 am
Keep a big stone on your heart and forget her …..its difficult and hurting but will save you from getting more hurt . its a practical solution –Nusrat (read details here)
Mary Hicks says: January 17, 2015 at 8:48 pm
Hari, the only way that you can marry her is to convert to Islam. That’s because as a Hindu male, your beliefs would have dominance over hers, and that is not acceptable to Islam.
“Imam al-Kasani said: “It is not permissible to marry a Muslim woman to an infidel, due to the saying of the Most High: “…and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe…” [Qur’an 2:221]. This is because if a Muslim woman is given in marriage to an infidel, there is fear that the Muslim woman might fall into unbelief, for the husband will invite her to his religion. Women generally follow men; they are influenced by them in their actions, and follow their authority in matters of religion…
… “Wed not idolatresses till they believe; for you a believing bond-woman is better than an idolatress though she please you; and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe, for you a believing slave is better than an idolater though he please you. These invite unto the Fire, and Allah invite th unto the Garden, and unto forgiveness by His grace, and expoundeth His revelations to mankind that haply they may remember” [Qur’an 2:221].
This noble verse indicates that it is forbidden for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim man. There is no disagreement on this from any Qur’anic commentators, and it is agreed to by all scholars. The meaning of non-Muslim here includes any infidel or polytheist, whether he is an idolater, Magi, or one of the People of the Book.
The following are a few statements from scholars (on the topic):
Imam al-Qurtubi said: “The Muslim woman may not be married to a polytheist. The ummah is in agreement that the polytheist may in no way have sexual relations with a Muslim woman, for that would be a shame for Islam.”
Imam al-Razi said: “There is no disagreement here that the meaning here is all–or rather, all non-Muslims. (It means) that the believing woman is not permitted to be married to the infidel under any circumstance, and this includes all different types of infidels.” …
http://www.translatingjihad.com/2011/04/fatwa-wife-must-obey-her-husband-and-if.html
Admin says:
Hari and all non-Muslim youths in love with a Muslim. Here, the Muslim is in love with Hari for 3 years and such romantic relationship is sin in Islam to start with. However, this Muslim is out to convert Hindus, and thing else. There is no true love for Hari, it is only love of conversion and expanding Islam, that’s all.
“Only Islam is truth, rest of religions are fake. All non-Muslims must be converted to Islam. Currently only 1.6 billion Muslims in this world, think how beautiful this world will be when all of this world will become Muslim 100%. So peaceful, so loving!!” (that is what Muslims think, not admin).
There is no Imam in the world who will perform Islamic Nikaah without conversion of the Hindu (read). Conversion, conversion and conversion, that all. There is no humanity, there is no love, there is no respect for what you are, but conversion. If conversion is not achieved before marriage, then conversion after the marriage (read Nusrat). Have no doubt about conversion. What a shameful society we live in! Cheating by love….. this is love-Jihad.
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I Love Muslim Girl but not Going to Convert
Don’t manipulate translations of Vedas you ignorants
Dear Hari,
Your situation has some difficulties but there is much hope for you. In fact I am quite optimistic that you can find happiness with your beloved.
Firstly, you have said that you have been in love with this girl for 3 years. This means that it must be known around the place that you two are an item. This means that it will be cruel to just abandon the girl, as it may be hard for her to find someone else, after having had a long relationship with you. Therefore, you should consider yourself to have some obligation toward her and not just abandon her like some of the posters have suggested. In addition to the fact that you are in love.
Also, you have said that your parents and family accept her. This is also good news because one’s own family is often one of the main obstacles to marrying a woman of another religion and that obstacle doesn’t exist for you.
You have also got a job which means that you can take care of your wife, so you are better off than many many people and you are also a good catch for her, which means that she will appreciate you.
Therefore, you can easily marry her and take care of her, even if other people object.
In fact you are a lucky man, with a girl you love, a job and a supportive family. Life is really good for you man. I really envy you.
So far so good.
You have stated that you are not interested in becoming a Muslim. Islam has some bad aspects to it, and in many ways it is not a philosophically attractive religion to a thinking Hindu. Also Islam is an all or nothing religion in which you are in or out (unlike Hinduism). Therefore, you cannot become a Muslim and the idea should be discarded.
Your love interest has said that she doesn’t want to become a Hindu. This may be solely because of her parents or because of her own beliefs. Either way, you should reassure her that you will not force her to convert against her will, as it is unfair and impractical to do this to another human being. Therefore, you can have a marriage on the basis that you will mutually respect each others religious beliefs.Many many marriages aruond the World and in India are on this basis and they work well.
This leaves two issues to consider:
1.Her parents
2.Your eventual children
1.It may seem that her parents will be dissappointed that their daughter is marrying a Hindu. But there is a chance that she will not marry anyone, which is much worse. in fact, in many Muslim countries and communities, like Saudi Arabia, the Muslim community in England,and in parts of India also, there are many unmarried women who are left over. This is not so much the case for Hindus among whom there is a shortage of women. Therefore, you are not doing harm to her parents by marrying their daughter. You will have done them more harm if you abandon the girl, after having been in love with her for 3 years. You have already done the harm of dissappointing them by being involved with their daughter, so it is too late. Dont make it worse by not marrying her at this late stage. Also, parents tend to become more accepting as time passes. They have only just found out so they will need some time to get adjusted.
2. You also need to decide on how you will bring up your children, whether as Hindus, Muslims or somewhere in between.
I would recommend that, in the interests of your children’s future, that they be brought up so that they can interact and belong in Hindu society and are completely included in your extended family and relations. This will mean participating in Hindu ceremonies and religious practices.
You should also allow them to have a good relationship with your wife’s parents. If they want to teach them Islam, that is up to them. They will have to establish a relationship with the children and that will be up to them.
Therefore, your children will grow up as comfortable normal Hindus and will not have any trouble finding Hindu marriage partners if they want to. They will have an understanding and an appreciation of Islam and have a good relationship with their Muslim relatives. When they are old enough they can decide what they really believe in.
So go for it.
Arjuna
Arjuna,
SUPERB MESSAGE!! Very well balanced and good analytical way of presenting options. Please do come to educate other youths, keep in touch!
Admin, everything you like become superb message, when the guy arjuna clearly said things against islam, it doesn`t bother you, when i say, you take those and make a blog on it while when Hindus does, you appreciate them by saying superb message!!!.
What if i cut and paste arjuna`s these comment else where as tag him anti-muslim, it will be terribly unfair but you do same with us. //Islam has some bad aspects to it//// ///and in many ways it is not a philosophically attractive religion/// ///Therefore, you cannot become a Muslim and the idea should be discarded.///
Dear Readers,
Hindus have become very
enthusiastic in finding science in
their holy books after they learnt
that other religious texts have
scientific facts. They are
reinterpreting it, they are not
aware of the fact that the writers
of the Vedas were ignorant of
science, as a result the Vedas
contain several scientific errors.
Ishwar should have studied
kindergarten books, I am sure
Vedas would have been scientific if
he did that.
EARTH IS IMMOVABLE/FIXED
Atharva Veda 6.77.1 Firm stands
the heaven, firm stands the earth ,
firm stands this universal world…
Atharva Veda 6.44.1 Firm stood
the heaven, firm stood the earth,
firm stood this universal world.
Firm stood the trees that sleep
erect: let this thy malady be still.
Above is Damodar’s Hindi
translation and below is
Kshemkarandas’ translation,
The above two verses can also be
translated as,
”the earth is standing still”
Rig Veda 10.149.1 Savitar has
fixed the earth with supports ;
Savitar has fastened heaven in
unsupported space…
Nirukta 10.32 Savitar caused the
earth to be fastened with supports.
In the supportless atmosphere
Savitar has made the heaven firm…
Atharva Veda 13.1.6 …Rohita with
his might hath established Earth
and Heaven.
Rig Veda 10.89.4, Sam Veda
4.1.5.8 Indra hath fixed [Stopped]
the earth and heaven as with an
axle…
Yajur Veda 5.16 pastures, fair to
do men service. Both these worlds,
Vishnu, hast thou stayed asunder,
and firmly fixed the earth with
pegs around it.
Yajur Veda 32.6 By whom the
heavens are strong and earth
stands firmly …
Rig Veda 3.30.4 …the heaven and
earth and the mountains stands
immoveable .
Shri Ram Acharya’s translation
[This verse is translated into
English from Hindi Bhasya.]
An Indian scientist named
Bhaskaracharya (1114-1185)
wrote,
‘’As heat is an inherent property of
the Sun and of Fire, as cold of the
Moon, fluidity of water, and
hardness of stones, and as the air
is volatile, so the earth is naturally
immovable. For oh! the properties
existing on things are wonderful.”-
Siddhanta Shiromani Goladhyaaya
of Bhaskaracharya, Bhuvankosh,
Shloka 5
Rig Veda 8.78.5; 10.173.4;
Atharva Veda 6.88.1, 20.34.2,
19.32.9, 13.1.6-7 and Yajur Veda
1.17 Says the Earth is Fixed. The
Atharva Veda 6.77.1 and 6.44.1
explicitly states that Earth is
standing still (not moving),
moreover Rig Veda 10.173.4
commentary also says that earth is
fixed. But still Hindus will argue
that it doesn’t mean what it says.
Then what was the logic behind
Ishwar revealing so many verses
on Earth’s ‘Stability’? It’s plain
and clear, the earth is fixed
according to the Vedas. Even if we
accept their claim, then why does
Vedas talk about Earth along with
Heaven that the earth and heaven
are firmly fixed? As per the Vedas
both heaven and earth are
immovable.
HOW DO SKY/HEAVEN LOOKS
LIKE
Rig Veda 1.59.2 The forehead of
the sky , earth’s centre, Agni
became the messenger of earth
and heaven.
Rig Veda 1.115.5 In the sky’s lap
the Sun this form assumeth that
Varuna
Yajur Veda 33.38 In the sky’s lap
the Sun this form assumeth that
Varuna and Mitra may behold it…
Yajur Veda 15.64 On the sky’s
back may Parameshthin set thee…
Atharva Veda 1.7.32 Be reverence
paid to him, that highest…Brahma
who made the sky to be his head .
Vedas also says the Sky has a
Daughter
Rig Veda 1.48. 9 Shine on us with
thy radiant light, O Usas, Daughter
of the Sky,
Rig Veda 4.30.9 Thou, Indra,
Mighty One, didst crush Usas,
though Daughter of the Sky. When
lifting up herself in pride.
The pagan Vedic religion consists
of many deities, one of them is
Usha who is considered to be
daughter of the Sky.
Earth is supported by Pillar
”In his successive functions, he
emits his bright rays (during day)
or turns them dark (during the
night). He measures out the
eternal abode, and supports with
the pillar of the firmament, both
heaven and the earth. May all our
adversities vanish”. Rig Veda
8.41.5, Tr. SatyaPrakash
Saraswati, Vol 10, p.3189.
Bull is holding up the Earth
Atharva Veda 4.11.1 The Bull
supports the wide-spread earth
and heaven, the Bull supports the
spacious air between them. The
Bull supports the sky’s six
spacious regions: the universal
world hath he pervaded.
The Term Vushab is literally
translated as Bull, Shri Ram
Sharma Acharya says the same
thing in the header of Athara Veda
Kanda 9, Sukta 4. But Hindus
prefer to translate Vushab as Sun.
Let’s see some verses which
makes unscientific claim about
Vushab,
Sun Rises from the sea
Rig Veda 7.55.7, Atharva Veda
4.5.1 The Bull [Vushab/Sun] who
hath a thousand horns, who rises
up from out the sea…
These verses are supported by the
Brahmana which states,
स वा एषोsअपः प्रविशय
वरुणो भवति
Kaushitaki Brahmana 18.9 The Sun
enters the water and thus becomes
Varuna.
HEAVEN IS NEAR THE EARTH
Atharva Veda 4.14.3 From earth’s
high ridge to middle air I mounted,
and from mid-air ascended up to
heaven
If one can mount up to space from
the mountain, then the Heaven
must be somewhere in
stratosphere although it is
supported by pillars, the Atharva
Veda says that the distance
between earth and heaven is only
1000 days,
Atharva Veda 10.8.18This gold-
hued Haiisa’s wings, flying to
heaven, spread o’er a thousand
days’ continued journey.
Supporting all the Gods upon his
bosom, he goes his way beholding
every creature.
THREE ATMOSPHERES
Atharva Veda 19.27.3-4 Three are
the earths , they say, and three the
heavens, three are the
atmospheres. Three vaults of
heaven, and three seas, three
bright, three stationary ones
SUN MOVES AROUND THE EARTH
[Maurice] Atharva Veda 6.8.3 As
the sun day by day goes about this
heaven and earth…
[Griffith] Atharva Veda 6.8.3 As in
his rapid course the Sun
encompasses the heaven and the
earth…
The Sanskrit text is given below
यथा [Yatha] = As the, Like the.
सूर्य [Surya] = Sun .
एति [Yeti] = goes.
परि [Pari] = around.
घावा [Ghava] = Heaven.
पृथ्वी [Puthvi] = Earth.
[Griffith] Atharva Veda 6.12.1 As
the Sun goes round the heaven,
have travelled round the Serpents’
race…
[Maurice] As the sun (goes
around) the heavens I have
surrounded the race of the
serpents…
Below is the Sanskrit text
”The gold-handed, all-beholding
luminary travels between the two
regions of heaven and earth,
dispels diseases, and this, verily, is
known as the sun, and it finally
overspreads the sky, extending
from the dark interspace to the
celestial region”. Rig Veda 1.35.9,
Tr. SatyaPrakash Saraswati.
Maharshi Yaska writes,
Nirukta 7.23 The sun having first
revolved towards the northern
hemisphere , a person holds a
polished (piece of) white copper, or
crystal, focusing the sun-rays in a
place where there is some dry cow-
dung, without touching it… Now
(had VaisVauara been the sun),
there would have occurred
expressions relating to VaisVanara
in those same hymns and shares
which are assigned to celestial
deities, i.e. Savitr, [Surya], Pusan,
Visnu, and [the VisVedevas.] And
they would have praised him by
(attributing to him) the functions
of the sun, as thou risest, thou
settest, thou revolvest, &c.
We know the Sun does not revolve,
it rotates in its axis.
Rig Veda 8.7.8 They, who by their
might open a radiant path for the
sun to travel, they pervade (the
world) with lustre.
Rig Veda 6.48.21 They whose high
glory in a moment like the God,
the Sun, goes round the space of
heaven…
URINE IS A POTENT REMEDY AND
DRINK OF THE GOD
Atharva Veda 6.44.3 Thou art the
urine of Rudra, the navel of amrita
(ambrosia) …
मूत्र [Mutr] = Urine. Refer Panini’s
Ashtadhyayi Vol III, Ch 2.56. V.S.
Apte’s dictionary
[The Students English-Sanskrit
Dictionary, By V.S. Apte, p.445]
Here Mutr (Urine) is regarded as
Ras of Rudra, now let’s see what
other verses speaks about Urine
[Maurice] 2.27.6. O Rudra, whose
remedy is the urine…
[Maurice] Atharva Veda 6.57.1-2
This, verily, is a remedy, this is the
remedy of Rudra, with which one
may charm away the arrow that
has one shaft and a hundred
points. With gâlâsha (urine) do ye
wash (the tumour), with gâlâsha
(Urine)do ye sprinkle it! The gâlâsha (urine) is a potent
remedy: do thou (Rudra) with it show mercy to us, that we may live!
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Mohammad and Mac is the same person and may be Haque also.
They are manipulator, expert in hiding evil practices of Islam
which has disturbed the peace of entire world. In the name of
islam how cruelity and criminality is being propagated,is a
threat to the mankind.
Boko Haram and ISIS both claiming to be true islamist and kidnapping and killing innocents and poor girls being raped and sold openly.
Just saying that islam does not permit such things, then why such
things are happening in the world. Why the verse of koran relating to killing, murder, sex with slave girls,discrimination against females
are not cricized.
The entire world knows how criminal and evil religion is Islam. In the name of terrorist activities are being carried out even in muslim countires like Afghanistan, Pakistan, Iraq, Yemen, Syria, Libya, Lebnan,Jordan,Nigeria and now activities being spread in Australia, France, Belgium,
Germany, England, USA, Russia.
How muslim girls are being sold openly after enjoying sexual pleasures by Islamic terrorists is a known fact.How syrian, libya and yemen muslim girls are being murdered and raped, the world knows.
Boko Haram, ISIS terrorists groups are doing openly inhuman and cruel actities and uploading videos.
Basatard Mohammad are you one of these associates of these groups?
Islam teaches that if Muslims slay or are slain (kill or are killed) in the service of God, they are guaranteed accession to a deviant sexual paradise. Islam’s Paradise is filled with whorish virgins possessing voluptuous breasts and lustrous eyes. Muslims, blessed with an access to Paradise, will have 72 such virgins to engage in incessant copulation. Furthermore, Muslim’s surest way of getting a passport to Paradise, says Allah, is to get slain while trying to kill the kafirs.
Here is what the Paradise of Allah looks like:
“As for the righteous (Muslims)… We (Allah) shall wed them to beautiful virgins with lustrous eyes” [Quran 44:51-54]
“The righteous (Muslims) they shall triumph… Theirs shall be voluptuous women.” [Quran 78:31-33].
Other verses in the Quran—such as 37:40-48, 44:51-55, 52:17-20, 55:56-58, 70-77, 56:7-40 and 78:31 describe the Paradise to be an alluring whorehouse. Additionally, never-molested (virgin) young boys like pearls will be available in abundance in the Muslim paradise (Surat 52:24, 56:17, and 76:19) for the blessed Muslim men to engage in sodomy. For Muhammad who was a master of indulging in carnal pleasures with a dozen wives and at least two concubines in his harem would obviously suit such a depraved whorehouse in the afterlife. Allah (the AntiGod), in pliant servitude, provided what Muhammad wanted.
Quranic verse 9:111 is the most evil, depraved, diabolical, immoral teaching in all of Islam. Indeed in all human history.
Verse 9:111 means what it means. A Muslim who dies while trying to murder kafirs fulfilling teachings 9:5, 9:29 and all the other teachings of murder, rape, terror, torture of kafirs in the Quran are guaranteed martyrdom and accession to an evil, lewd, depraved paradise filled with eternal virgins of exquisite beauty who regenerate as virgins after each sex act and whom these killers and murderers of Islam can sexually molest in endless copulation for all eternity.
only a person who is in love can feel how much it squeezes him. it is neither religion nor a person can feel how much it is intensive. religions may have been founded few thousands of years. but, love exists since the earth originated. i don’t want to comment on any religion. but i insist the legal system to give judgement irrespective of cast or religion and should uphold and encourage inter religious marriages. Hari,you know a celebrity can marry a girl of what ever religion she is. but as a common man you cant.any how, check whether her love is true and if it is so, then either you or she should be converted.
very well said praveen…
i realised it after i posted my first comment here…n i got response from various persons….
they are some religious polticians.still.alive on this planet…..killing and suffocating.people
A single ISIS militant is suspected to be alone responsible for gunning down at least 450 women and girls, including some who were pregnant, because they refused to marry jihadists.
Abu Anas Al-Libi executed the women before burying their bodies in mass graves in Fallujah in the Iraqi province of Al Anbar, the Iraqi Ministry of Human Rights said in a statement.
It is thought he killed the women, most of whom were Yazidi, because they refused to enter into sham temporary marriages with Islamic State fighters, where they would effectively be treated as sex slaves.
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In Islam, ladies are brutually treated. Even if she is raped, she has not right to claim justice. Rapist is scot free. No body dares to penalize him.
In most cases muslim clerics are involved in rape, sodomy, illegal marriages, but no body dares to speak against them. Women are murdered, stonned to death, in case of adultery, but males are not stonned to death or lashed 1000 times.
Arifa was murdered in open market in Karachi for she married a male of her choice. Just for the sake of honour, she was shot dead.
Farzana parveen was stoned to death in front of Lahore High court and even police remained just silent spectator.
According to Yalda Hakim more than 8000 girls are murdered or stoned to death for the sake of honor killing in islamic countries. The males who are involved in sexual game are not even touched.
THIS IS THE RELAITY AND CRIMINALITY OF ISLAM
Dear Angela,
In Islam women are treated as more than Queen.
You said – ” Even if she is raped, she has not right to claim justice. Rapist is scot free. No body dares to penalize him.”
Who told you if women is raped she can`t claim justice, you didn`t quoted which teachings of Islam says that, infact in Islam, a rapist is awarded with death punishment. Stop spreading lies, you people have spread enough lies against Islam, but now people are rising again, Muslims are now again going back to Qur’an to learn the truth, your lies will not be accepted any more.
I think this links are enough to expose your lies.
Saudi Arabia: Two men beheaded for raping two girls
Five Rapist Hang in Public
Can you name such single case in India or in Nepal in last 10 years or so that a rapist got death punishment, buy in Muslim countries where sharia is implemented, a rapist is given death punishment, the rapist is pardoned only if the victim girl or her family(in-case she died) pardon the rapist. This type of justice is dream in Hindu majority Indian or in Nepal, though Hindus have copied many Islamic,western laws.
You again lied here -“In most cases muslim clerics are involved in rape, sodomy, illegal marriages, but no body dares to speak against them. Women are murdered, stonned to death, in case of adultery, but males are not stonned to death or lashed 1000 times.”
seems like you are out of mind seeing the truth of Islam, some converts to Islam after finding truth and some starts behaving like a you, they start lying, now coming to your accusation on Islam, if any Muslim clerics rape ,sodomized any girl, then he will be punished, and they get punishment. In Islam there is no illegal marriage, it is this website which is promoting illegal marriage of Muslim men/women with Mushrik men and women. You said women are murdered, so…men are also murdered , what murdering got to do with Islam..don`t murder took place in India ,didn`t your god Shiva murdered his own son Ganesha by beheading. Both men and women are stoned to death or lashed 100times of they are found guilty of illegal sex or zina(fornication), who told you men are not stoned to death or lashed 1000 times, BTW its 100 lashes not 1000 , you again lied, you added 900 lashes more.
Now tell honestly me what you have gained by lying.
Dear Angela,
you said
“”Arifa was murdered in open market in Karachi for she married a male of her choice. Just for the sake of honour, she was shot dead.””
“”Farzana parveen was stoned to death in front of Lahore High court and even police remained just silent spectator.””
now tell me what this got to do with Islam. In India all most every week a girl or a boy is killed for sake of honor,and you are concerned about Pakistan, first clean your own house.
THIS IS NOT THE REALITY OF ISLAM, THIS IS THE CRIMINAL ACT OF SOME MUSLIMS
Earlier Admin, “Polygamy and talaak are part of Islam. To our knowledge, no other religion in the world has such laws or options available today.”
Mac replied, “Admin, that is why islam is the fastest growing religion.”
Admin: Explain, please.
Give this answer first
In todays world.. many hindus people are marring on polygamy
who? its not muslims . .
its hindus people… according to my point, there are rarely muslim
people who are marring on polygamy in india rather than hindu
people
what did u say for those
people????
i said it in context to show the greatness of Islam, when Islam 1400 years ago gave the right of divorce(in Arabic talaq), other worlds have found this concept in recent centuries. There are other things which are in the doctrine of Islam like right of inheritance, death punishment for rapist which are unique aspects of Islam.
Admin, I got a perfect example for you related to “this is why islam is the fastest growing religion”
Darkened words explain it all.
Coming from the country side in Australia, I was never exposed to Islam. I knew nothing about it. I thought of it as an oppressive religion, whenever I heard about it. It wasn’t until I went to Malaysia, that God guided me in ways I never expected, Subhan’Allah.
I learned that Muslim women also have rights, which were legally given even before the West did. Meeting impressive women like Sisters in Islam and Marina Mahathir, also inspired me to divulge into Islam more. I found that I could have a career and be a Muslim. However it wasn’t until a year later, I reverted, Alhamdulillah.
Islam is a beautiful way of life to praise and worship Allah as One God every single day. While it is not easy to explain to friends and family, I wouldn’t have it any other way. I did a lot of research and interviewed many Muslim and even non-Muslim women on why women choose to cover up. I also learned a lot from my Imam and his wife, who taught me it is for women to be recognized more for their intelligence, not be as exposed, to this sometimes, overly sexual world and to keep your beauty for your husband.
I’ve met many wonderful, intelligent women who chose to wear Hijab, which is her right. Dressing more modestly came naturally after reverting. I hope to one day wear Hijab every single day, In’sha’Allah. God truly is the Turner of Hearts – I never in my wildest dreams thought I would become a Muslim, yet, He opened my heart and has blessed me in more ways than I could ever imagine or repay Him for.
That’s why I know Allah is Love and Mercy, and I want to worship Him better every day for as long as He gives me life. My favorite quote is ‘فَاصْبِرْ صَبْرًا جَمِيلًا’ – ‘So endure patiently, with a beautiful patience.'” -Sarah (Australia)
Via – worldhijabday.com
Hari:
Stand on your head and say Ram Ram 1000 times, and then say Allah 10,000 times and then meditate on your navel and decide if you would enjoy becoming a Muslim and have three more girls like your present girl friend as your future wives totaling four. If you like this scenario then you should become a Muslim by telling your girl friend that soon you will have four wives to enjoy the privilege of an entitled Muslim and see if she agrees to that. If she does enjoy your nikka.
Religion is not a game to play with humans . .
understand the religion and follow correctly. .Islam permits to marry more than one wife if you give equal love and rights…until u didn’t have hope to manage your wife to give them equal rights Islam doesn’t permit to marry more than one. . ok
Muhammad, educate yourself. Polygamy and talaak are permitted in Islam… read
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8748
we have discussed before on polygamy. and talak. .
Firstly educate yourself on hinduism
we have clearified
Educate urself not me
check this video on polygamy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQaPBU5ppsk
Polygamy and talaak are part of Islam. To our knowledge, no other religion in the world has such laws or options available today.
Admin, that is why islam is the fastest growing religion.
i think u have not watched that video. .
if u hav watch u wont raise this question
me and mac brother has been dicussed several times on polygamy and clearified. . . still u are asking from the first.. . u didnt want to read our comments then what is the neccasity to argue. .
In todays world.. many hindus people are marring on polygamy
who? its not muslims . . its hindus people…
according to my point, there are rarely muslim people who have married on polygamy in india rather than hindu people
what did u say for those people????
Hari, the only way that you can marry her is to convert to Islam. That’s because as a Hindu male, your beliefs would have dominance over hers, and that is not acceptable to Islam.
“Imam al-Kasani said: “It is not permissible to marry a Muslim woman to an infidel, due to the saying of the Most High: “…and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe…” [Qur’an 2:221]. This is because if a Muslim woman is given in marriage to an infidel, there is fear that the Muslim woman might fall into unbelief, for the husband will invite her to his religion. Women generally follow men; they are influenced by them in their actions, and follow their authority in matters of religion…
… “Wed not idolatresses till they believe; for lo! a believing bondwoman is better than an idolatress though she please you; and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe, for lo! a believing slave is better than an idolater though he please you. These invite unto the Fire, and Allah inviteth unto the Garden, and unto forgiveness by His grace, and expoundeth His revelations to mankind that haply they may remember” [Qur’an 2:221].
This noble verse indicates that it is forbidden for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim man. There is no disagreement on this from any Qur’anic commentators, and it is agreed to by all scholars. The meaning of non-Muslim here includes any infidel or polytheist, whether he is an idolater, Magi, or one of the People of the Book.
The following are a few statements from scholars (on the topic):
Imam al-Qurtubi said: “The Muslim woman may not be married to a polytheist. The ummah is in agreement that the polytheist may in no way have sexual relations with a Muslim woman, for that would be a shame for Islam.”
Imam al-Razi said: “There is no disagreement here that the meaning here is all–or rather, all non-Muslims. (It means) that the believing woman is not permitted to be married to the infidel under any circumstance, and this includes all different types of infidels.” …
http://www.translatingjihad.com/2011/04/fatwa-wife-must-obey-her-husband-and-if.html
YOU WILL NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE UNTIL YOU LEARN TO LOVE ALLAH
Points on Love and Marriage in Islam :
1. Love cannot be controlled. Stop trying to control the person you love. Love is in the Hands of Allāh.
2. The term “love” was mentioned a lotin the Qur’ān and Sunnah. It is not something to be ashamed of or to be shy to mention. In some cultures, if the wife dares to say the word “love” at home, then it is strange and impolite. Generally speaking, love was mentioned in the Sunnah and if it was considered vulgar or obscene, then the Prophet (ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam) would not have mentioned it.
3. To love your spouse is not ḥarām and not something to be ashamed of. It is not a sign of weakness. In some cultures, a man who shows his love to his spouse is showing weakness. Rasūlullāh (ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam) loved his wives and was never a weak person.
Keep calm
understand islam, convert to islam and marry her through nikaah
otherwise forget her
Keep a big stone on your heart and forget her …..its difficult and hurting but will save you from getting more hurt . its a practical solution
Nusrat,
We are glad to hear from you after a long time. How is your life rolling? Any kids?
Hehehe , not yet …when , allah knows the best
iam with my parents for last 60 days
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7828&cpage=1#comment-344786
Hari,
She does not love you truely, she is interested in your conversion.
Forget her. She is not worth for you.
Dont think over for conversion. It is part of love jihad. Conversion is a compulsion, pressure and emotional black mailing technique.
Its hindus who compling. .forcing to convert
not muslims
Sorry bro. Just forget her.
She has no interest in you.
I appreciate to the sister who wants to bring in the original and true faith that is islam. . .
Hari, actually she loves her religion first and then other things come in consideration to her. Don’t think that you are her first choice. In this case I would request you , not to marry her.Either ask her to come in your religion and culture or remain in her’s but not to insist you to leave your religion of proud ancestors.It is the question of your dignity and respect.
Hi Hari,
Congratulations for being intellectual and successful. Best wishes.
Now about your love. We understood that you wish to marry her but have no interest in marrying her. These are your options:
1) She wishes you to convert but you don’t. If you convert all will make it easy for the marriage. But before conversion, please read Koran and truly understand Islam before converting.
2) You get married by a Hindu wedding ceremony. That the girl is probably not going to agree.
3) Educate her and make her understand that your love is important and not man-made religions. Once she is educated, go get married like Kareena-Saif in court. Let us know if you are looking for how to educate her.
For the first time you presented a liberal advice without giving one sided advice.
This is coming from our heart and is our fundamental message. We do not have intention of promoting one religion over the other. It is youth’s life and they should decide, we are here to make them aware of issues.
O really? you didn`t have intention of promoting one religion over other thatswhy you posted information on bible,quran,torah but hidden vedas,gita,manu,upanishads.