Sam says: August 14, 2015 at 1:11 pm
hi,
me and my bf we both are muslims but I am Ansari and he is KHAN, his parents are not accepting me and scolds him everytime he whenever he tries to speak about our marriage.. though my parents have no problem with him.. he is trying to convince them from last 2 yrs but everytime they give some or the other excuse(looks ,stars,education etc)
being the eldest son and the only earnibg memver of his family its impossible for him to go against them.
even they had warn him strictly to stop talking to me as well and should get seprated but we both love each other alot.
kindly tell me how should we convince his parents…? -Sam
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Namaste Pakhi Begum, is it possible or allowed for u to return back to Hinduism. May be one generation later, if u wish? You will obviously tell kids that their mom was once a Hindu. What’s this Pasmanda vs Asraf debate in Indian Muslims.
Sam
Same thing happens wid me also.. i am khan and he is ansari.. his parents are not accepting me..hwevr my parents are ready to meet him and his family. . Bt as they are not ready to meet.. my parents are also want me to marry someone else. . Bt we live each other alot.. can’t leave each other. . His parents main issue is i m from middle class family and he is very rich. . They want a girl who is doc, engineers.. etc.. i does not fits in all dis.. bt he loves me d way i m . He want a religious girl.. just like me . He is ready to do court marriage. . Bt in Islam dis kind of nikah without wali is batil.. so what i should do.. pls help me out. . I really need your help. .
if It’s not written in Quran that we are going wrong to marry without wali & batil…so yuo should take ur life to yuor lover. we know parents is everything first of all but we are not wrong front of Quran aayat ..a day will come then ur patents will accept yuo both..allah bless yuo
Pakhi,
Why do you support islamic evil practices? have you also entered with mutta marriages several times?if so how it was possible to prove your virginity on the wedding night?
Massey the opportunist and frustrated christian,
I know it is quite natural for you people to be frustrated. Your forefathers were under the impression that India would never get independence from wretched Britishers(Christians) But Muslims and Hindus fought jointly and kicked out christians britishes from India. Perhaps you forefathers,after being kicked by Muslims and Hindus,had gone under ground and took shelter in a jungle where you were born surrounded by animals.
I once again make it clear that I was born in a Hindu family but reverted to Islam the Religion of peace. Well massey, if India is at war with England in coming days (ALLAH forbids if you are alive) then whom will you support?
Pakhi Begum,
Sam,
There is no caste and creed in Islam. Ask the parents of that boy to prove from Holy Quran and Hadish Sharif. These are all created by the some illiterate and ignorant persons. Except the family of Holy Prophet Muhammed (S.W.A) through HIS DAUGHTER all are same in ISLAM.You won’t find Ansari or Khan in any country other than India, Pakistan and Bangladesh.
Hi Sam,
There is a turf war. Parents think they own the child and have full rights on how he/she should talk, walk and marry to. They will let go little only when they realize that it is out of their control. One best way is to be financially independent and take then a bold step on your own. If that is not possible, then tell us what are their main issues? What are differences between Ansari and Khan? Is the boy there to stand with you like a lion or will become a goat next to his parents?