henry says: January 22, 2015 at 8:06 am
I am Christian man and i have a Muslim girlfriend that i love so much but she told me i have to convert (change to Muslim) before we can talk of getting married
am worried because i don’t want to let go of her and at don’t want to change because she ask me to… i don’t know what to do… can i get some advise plz.. -Henry
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(Muslim) has given up on me because of my (Hindu) religion
Hi,
You need to look deeper at her life and determine yourself whether this is a woman just trying to conform to the requirements of others or whether she is a hard line muslim. Look at her immediate family, are they devout and “over the top”, or are they just living life normally and living under the label of “muslim”.
Islam is a religion of submission, and has a lot of “judgmental” baggage attached to it. There are usually a few nut-job relatives in the extended families who will be ultra religious and judgmental of others. If her immediate family is relatively benign and you can deal with her “nut-job” relatives, maintaining your own faith in Christ then give it some more time and see how it develops.
Dear Henry,
Forget that muslim GF, who is not true to love you. It is just to convert you to expand muslim population. Muslims who believe koran, as a godly words, but in fact an evil book against mankind.
The errors in Quran disqualify the Quran as the word of God, who is perfect and does not make errors.
Many of the errors in Quran are self-contradictions that naskh tries to cover up. But the Quran also has archaeological errors, historical errors, errors in logic and even elementary mathematics.
For example, the Quran claims that one night, God took Muhammad to the “al-Aqsa” mosque is in Jerusalem:
“Exalted is He who took His Servant by night from al-Masjid al-Haram to al-Masjid al-Aqsa, whose surroundings We have blessed, to show him of Our signs. Indeed, He is the Hearing, the Seeing.” – Quran 17:1
The Muslim army conquered Jerusalem in 637 AD and the al-Aqsa mosque was completed in 705 AD. The problem with the above passage in the Quran is that Muhammad died in 632 AD, which was 5 years before the Muslim army reached Jerusalem and 73 years before the al-Aqsa mosque was built.
Or consider Quran 20:92-95, which claims that Moses confronted “Aaron” and a “Samaritan” for having made the golden calf for the Israelites while he (Moses) was on Mount Sinai:
“[Moses] said, “O Aaron, what prevented you, when you saw them going astray, from following me? Then have you disobeyed my order?” [Aaron] said, “O son of my mother, do not seize [me] by my beard or by my head. Indeed, I feared that you would say, ‘You caused division among the Children of Israel, and you did not observe [or await] my word.'” [Moses] said, “And what is your case, O Samaritan?” – Quran 20:92-95
Assyria conquered the Jewish northern kingdom in 722 BC, exiled its upper class and brought in conquered people from other lands, who intermarried with the lower class Jews who had been allowed to stay. Their offspring were called “Samaritans” because they occupied the region of “Samaria”, which was named after its original owner, “Shemer” (see 1 Kings 16:24 in the Bible). The Jews despised the Samaritans both for being a mixed race and for setting up their own temple to compete against the temple in Jerusalem.
But the golden calf incident near Mount Sinai mentioned in Quran 20:92-95 above took place in 1446 BC, which was 725 years before the first Samaritan was born in 721 BC.
Islam is a religion of hatred, violence,kidnapping and terrorism.
Massey, it is time you re-read your man-made Bible full of hatred and violence, expansionism and genocide of humanity.
If Bible is man-made, who wrote Koran?
Hi Henry,
It must be painful. On one side you love her dearly and the other side you do not want to fake-convert to Islam.
There are a lot you could do. There is no one answer for all. Before we provide you tips, can you give us a few details?
1) How long are you in love with her?
2) Is she very religious or is she a moderate Muslim but wishes to convert you just to please her community and parents?
3) You said you are a Christian, how religious are you? If someone says Jesus is an apostle and not “Son of God”, will it bother you?
4) What is your concern converting to Islam?
We are not asking you to convert or not, but wish to know where you stand. Based on your answers, we will provide tips on how to steer through your current issue.