A Hindu boy in love with a Catholic girl

Arjun says: January 29, 2014 at 1:20 am

Hi
I am a Hindu boy and in love with a Catholic girl for over 2 years now. We both are very serious about each other and, personally speaking, have no issue with different religion. In our opinion religion is a personal point of view and don’t want to force it upon each other. I introduced her to my family about 4 months ago and as expected all hell broke lose in my family. To the point, wherein my family, parents and sis included, have given me the ultimatum to chose either between her or them. We both don’t want to break our ties with respective families as we know the importance of having parents around especially when the marriage is inter-religious. Her parents are absolutely fine with us being together and do not want anyone of us to convert.

I need guidance/advice on how to convince my parents and how to approach this issue. My parents concern is the religion and that I will convert when I get married. But I have assured them day-in day-out that it will not happen.

Thank you. -Arjun


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8 Comments

  • August 19, 2018 8:39 pm

    hello.. i am a hindu.. my boyfriend is a catholic. we truely love each other.. but my parents are not accepting because of religion and age gap… my boyfriend is thirty four and i am twenty three.. however some of my families has accepted our relationship.. but parents are not ready. what should i do ?

    Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=13791

    • Joseph serphant
      July 20, 2019 3:07 am

      Make him brother and tie him a rakhi .it will work.Shame on your part.Respect parents will and marry a person who is shown right by your parents.Quit love.

  • February 16, 2014 12:54 pm

    Hi
    Im a devoted Christian girl that is very much in love with my Hindu Brahmin boyfriend. We love each other but we think were hopeless of getting married. His family is a faithful Brahmin, they practice arranged marriage. If he marries a non-Brahmin girl, his family will disown him, and I dont want it happen to him. I dont wanna leave my religion but i want to fight for him. What do you think admin? is it time for me to move on?
    If ever i decide to convert, are Brahmins allowed to marry a convert??

    I’ll appreciate any response. thanks.

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7651

    • Joseph serphant
      July 20, 2019 3:11 am

      Premarital sex would be a better option.Try to live seperate with family.Then marry your beloved one.

      • Gokusan
        July 20, 2019 10:12 pm

        What a batant hypocrite man. Your two commnets proove that. If the girl is Hindu shame on her and if Christian have sex with the girl.

  • January 29, 2014 10:52 pm

    Arjun,
    Why you said, “I will convert when I get married”? Is it only your parent’s concern or facts?

    How are you planning to get married? In church? Church will make all sorts of demands.

    First make sure there is no fake-conversion. It is sin. It will ruin your life. If you wish to be a true Christian, then learn of Bible, start going to their church every Sunday and if you like their exclusivist thinking, then get baptized. Not other wise; not just to please their church.

    The children from your marriage must be 50% Hindu and 50% Christian. Teach them both faiths and at their age 21, they will decide their religious fate (meaning baptism or not). Is this acceptable to your gf?

    Get back to us with details and we will guide more.

    • January 30, 2014 10:36 am

      Hi,
      It is not a fact. Neither me not my girlfriend want to get converted. In regards to getting married, it will be according to bothe beliefs.
      We will want to raise our kids with both beliefs and values and then let them chose what they want.

      • February 10, 2014 8:58 pm

        As far we know, not a single Catholic church in this World will allow Hindu-Catholic marriage unless you give in writing that children by this marriage will be Baptized Christians only. Prove us wrong.
        Please check with her church for what are requirements for marriage. Let us know what they say.

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