Mohan says:
i am a muslim. my girlfriend is hindu. her family want that our marriage occurs by hindu ritual. i m okay with that. but, do i need to convert to hinduism for that?
Admin says:
Mohan,
Simple answer is ..NO. You do not have to convert to Hinduism to have a Hindu wedding ceremony. These days, so many Christians have Hindu ceremonies in the West for their marriage with their Hindu lover, but they remain Christians.
Please read legal guidance here. If you want to double make sure, first have a civil court marriage followed by the Hindu ceremony.
The most important question you have to address is …who are you?
…Are you a Muslim?
…believer in Koran?
…believe in ONE God Allah who is in (the direction of) Saudi Arabia?
…believer in Mohammed?
…believer that Hindus are kafir?
…believe in the Judgment Day?
…believe that children by your marriage will only be Muslims?
…an exclusivist like Aamir Khan?
…you cannot enter a Hindu temple because they worship idols?
…you cannot let your children touch Geeta but only the Koran?
…children’s names should be Muslim only…etc.
If any of above is YES, stop right here and tell your HIndu lover that you (a Muslim) cannot be a part of Hindu ceremony where multiple Gods will be invoked from the heaven, earth and water. Don’t start your married life in a wrong direction, because this wedding will set a tone for your life.
Talk to your parents and tell them what you wish to do and get their blessings. Same way, talk to the girl’s parents and openly discuss all your concerns. Read the Muslim Boy article. After a month, let us know what you have decided to do. Best wishes.
Also read: Hindu girl, Muslim girl, Hindu boy,
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Marriage between a boy and a girls tight up in fact 2 family members relationship . One from bride and other from groom . If one side is from Muslim and other side is from Hindu or any other religion this creates difficulty in family to family for culture , rules of religion and specially about the children that to which religion’s rules they will follow and also in which environment they will grow up . Islam or any other ?
Since I am a Muslim from that point of view I will say that when nika is being signed between bride and groom some words are being used from Holy Koran and these are being read at that time and thus it is completed with full ceremony as directed by the Holy Koran but in case a Muslim boy gets married with a non Muslim girl without converting her to Islam by court then this kind of marriage may not be acceptable according to the rules of Islam.
Regards
Imtiaz
So how could a Hindu and Muslim marry with interfaith marriage with equality? Do religion has to always stay superior to the other?
Have you read the book “LAJJA”. I think no writer other than Tasleema could exposed the torture of Muslims on Hindus in Bangladesh, like her.
In 1947 Hindu population in Bangladesh was about 30% and now it is about 9%. In the world history, there is no such example where an ethnic population is migrating from one part of the World to another part like Bangladesh from where from 1947 to till today Hindus are migrating to India leaving behind their ancestral home. Why? It is Tasleema Nasreen who thought of it.We think about Palestine but not about measurries of Hindus in Bangladesh. I salute Tasleema Nasreen for her courage.
Dear All,
Look first of all religion does not allow or advise their fellow to do sexual activity or any other bad activity with other. So why the name of Islam or any other religion will be taken for unfair works done by the people.
Just think about it.
Regards
Imtiaz
Dear All,
At the time of partition of India to Pakistan and India , the minority people did not repatriate them self just because of sexual reasons. Many of them were afraid that what will happen to them after partition. In India those Muslim family members were involved in riot in 1946 thought that the Hindus will kill them after India is declared independence and some of them of them thought that a new Muslim estate Pakistan has been created and so they came to Pakistan from different parts of India to live in west and east Pakistan. Some of the Muslim people living in Indian side had their business and relatives in East or West Pakistan and so they had repatriated them self to Pakistan and started to live there. Same case was with Hindus in both East and west Pakistan too.
So if you think that because of sexual issue only the minority had repatriated from Pakistan to India or from India to Pakistan is wrong.
Regards
Imtiaz
DEAR FRIEND
IF ONE SIDE GUN AND SECOND SIDE RELIGION SO SOME CHOSE LIFE AND SOME CHOSE RELIGION.
SO I BELIEVE ISLAM IS INCREASE ONLY FOR FORCE OF CONVERSION.
IF NT SO NO BODY LIKE TO CONVERT IN ISLAM .
ISLAM IS GOOD RELIGION BUT SOME FAULT ALSO THERE.
SO IF U LIKE TO LIVE PEACE FULLY SO IT IS GOOD IN HINDUSIM,BUDDHIST,AND CHRISTIANITY.
HERE IN ISLAM TELL U TAKE REVENGE SO IN 21 CENTURY MAN LIKE LIVE PEACEFULLY BUT SOME PEOPLE DONT LIKE IT AND UNFORCHUNATILEY MOST OF FOLLOW 5 TO 6 CENTURY RULE THEY BCOSM ISLAM CURL.
MAN LIKE LIVE HAPPILEY WITH FAMILEY AND RELATIVE BUT IF ALL IS FALLOW ISLAM THEN ALWAYS FIGHTING WITH EACH OTHER
Dear DEELIP,
Do you think these 20,000 americans every year are forcibly converted
NBC NEWS: 20000 Americans Convert To ISLAM Each Year !