Anita says: on September 2, 2012 at 10:11 pm
hi Nirmla,
this is Anita, ur story is so similar to mine and i wish we could talk to each other in person. see if u send me an email on my id. life is so sad for me and has been for years for 12 plus years. i dont know what is the end going to be once the kids grow up. would like to talk to u just for a shoulder to cry on. bye
Anita says: September 2, 2012 at 10:20 pm
hi Dee,
we have the same lifestory except u r a man and i am a woman. yeah the hatred is sooooo hurtful. i just feel once my kids grow up, i can gather the courage to leave this life of pain, isolation and torture!!
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Why you want to marry a converted girl and not someone is born and a true Muslim?
Here Anita is married to a Muslim and is regretting, what you have to say to her?
ha ha ha i am also in ur way too many in the same line
What do you mean? Can you elaborate more?
Anita,
you are not alone.
please go ahead and talk on this web openly without inhibitions but at the sametime hiding the personal details like names of people and towns and other identifying information. The social media is an universal education tool, which is important for the development of Indians and others as well. Tell your story how you were convinced that your path you chose was correct and how it all fell apart later to everyone that is reading now and to those who read it in future. Thank you
Anita
My willingness to be cooperative with my husbands teachings have neared the end. By my husband’s behavior I know he too realizes this; he now intentionally separates the children from me and teaches them that the people who try to question Islam are filled with evil and that they should hate and feel superior to all Non-Muslims; including their Non-moslem mother. I see the difference in their behavior: When a child hurts himself or feels hungry, won’t he instinctively run to his mother who is in the home with him? Of late, the children phone my husband at work for their daily needs rather than come to me. They are also afraid to show affection to me in front of him -startle in the middle of a smile or a hug if they hear my husband’s voice.
I hurt deeply when I ask myself – who are emotionally affected by all this manipulation? My husband believes he is one of many crusaders responsible to spread the belief of Islam and will continue to pivot his life around that for the rest of his life…with the intent of propagating the same to his children.
Anita, if I stay, aren’t I harming my children? This is why I say that my days of tolerance are ending.
I would love to talk to talk to you, if you can reach me by my private E-mail
Nirmala
Reply to Nirmla at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=1618
Nirmala,
Please continue to give your real love to your children. They know it, even they may not be able to express in front of their dominating father. One day will come when you children, like Madiha, will come to your rescue.
You may have to put up this hell-life till your children are out to college. The day they are out, you also end this hell-life and be FREE. Meantime, please prepare yourself to be independent and ready to support yourself financially. Better life is waiting for you.
Please keep us posted for how your life progresses. Best wishes.
Anita,
Really sorry to hear one more similar story here. We will not say we feel your pain, because it is only people like Nirmla and Dee who have to breath and live every day the life of pain and torture, know what you are going through. This is certainly making us sad, very very sad. When will this end???
We do not know when Nirmla or Dee will get back to you, but we would like to hear your full story. We cannot give you our shoulder to cry on, but you have our ears to hear your full story here.
Unfortunately there are so many innocent youths, right now, out dating a wrong person, lets hope your message will reach to a few of them. Lets hope we could help them make an informed decision.
Lets hope you will have a daughter like Madiha who will rescue you one day.