gautam says: September 24, 2017 at 3:28 pm
i understand what iqbal is saying…im from a hindu family and 2 years ago my mother divorced my father and got married to a close friend of mine from college who is muslim !! The day my mother told me this , i cant deny i was very shocked and couldn’t say anything but she also me that she was pregnant with his baby and that they love each other and want to raise baby together…it was horrifying for me and my family but even after trying to persuade my mother so hard to get away from him , she did not listen …she said that she cannot imagine life without my friend and wanted me to support her so that she could marry navid…after few months of fighting and all the chaos that happened in my family ,i finally agreed to give in to my mother’s happiness…my mother separated from my father , gave birth to his baby and married him after delivering the baby…now although i live with my father and miss my mother being with us..im satisfied that she is happy with navid and their baby…and yeah i dont call him “dad” but the sitation is obviously very tricky and i get embarassed whenever we meet..its natural…afterall he got my mother pregnant behind my back and that shocker is not going to normalise any sooner !! -Gautham
gautam says: September 24, 2017 at 6:33 pm
Even i respect all my friends mothers but apparently this is not the case with all people…some may see it through very lusty outlook and navid did exactly that….he was a trustworthy friend until it happened and the way in which it all happened was devastating !! Neither islam nor does this society allows this behaviour but i guess some muslims think otherwise…the end result is that i lost my faith in close friendships and i now especially stay away from muslim guys who i think are very perversely lusty and don’t bother about boundaries and limits and emotions of others !! I also equally blame my mother who brought immense grief and sorrow for the family….apparently he used to meet my mother outside the house and used to take her to one of his friend’s rental house for sex …they both engaged in sexual activities very regularly and that was the time when my mother conceived…i didn’t know about his reality otherwise who would make a friend like that ?? As soon as we realise somebody is a snake, the damage is done… -Gautam.
admin says: September 24, 2017 at 8:46 pm
This must be very painful situation to go through. Thanks for speaking out and educating others.
On “Neither islam nor does this society allows this behavior”, this is not true. For Muslims, Muhammad is their role model. At age 25, Muhammad wed his wealthy employer, the 40-year-old merchant Khadijah. The majority of traditional sources state that Aisha was betrothed to Muhammad (age 53) at the age of six or seven, but she stayed in her parents’ home until the age of nine when the marriage was consummated with Muhammad. So, Muhammad had 15 years older and 47 younger wives. Mohammad has some 30 girls (11 wives at a time) in his life. Your friend is following their leader’s footsteps. -Admin
Satyen says: October 6, 2017 at 1:03 pm
Not only mothers of friends but also daughters of friends are on the Muslims’ agenda! Not many Non-Muslims know that Aisha was the daughter of Muhammad’s friend! Moreover, it is more attractive exercise to go for friend’s daughter than his mother due to obvious reasons. In recent past, Muhammad Ali Jinna snatched his friend, Dinshaw Petit’ s only daughter named Rattanbai who was 24 years younger than him. Moreover, Jinnah was already married and Rattanbai was his second wife. So, the Muslim culture is very different from that of the Hindu culture. Though the Hindus might have shocked initially when they came in contact to the Muslims and that generation of Hindus might be forgiven. But who is to be blamed for the recurrence of such incidences even after hundreds of years?
The way Hindus look at the Muslims is grossly self defeating. Any average Hindu who has tried to make bridges with the Muslim men without converting them, has suffered losses. Almost all the Hindus especially of younger generations are under deep slumber and sitting ducks. The best bet for an average Hindu is not to socialize with the Muslims at family level. Never invite them at your home. Most importantly, tell the truth about Islam to your family members and relatives. Both first learn the Islam from the sites such as faith freedom.org or wiki Islam etc that expose the true Islam. If you learn from a Muslim, you are bound to fail miserably. The reason is the concept of Taqia that allows the Muslim instructors to mislead the non-Muslims so that they may not come in the way of spread of Islam.
Your incidence is heart breaking and killing of a Muslim is not the answer. Converting the Muslims to Hinduism and protecting the Hindus by educating regarding the real face of Islam are the required duties of every Hindu. There is ample scope of converting Muslim women who are leading the miserable life due to the teachings of Islam. Only, you have to approach right person with right message of women emancipation. By doing this, you will be content to have brought light to somebody’s life. -Satyen
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| Iqbal | Sexual Relationship with My Friends Mom |
| Deepx | Pakistani Muslim Student with My Sikh Mom |
| Raj | My Hindu Mother Wants to Marry a Muslim |
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Had similar experience, I used to socialize with my muslim boss and his family on family level. My wife and his sister, his wife were good friends. He also used to be happy with my work, my promotions and hikes were bit better compared to other colleagues. But little did I know that he had been dating my wife the entire time. I found this out when I noticed personality change in my wife. She used to be reserved and shy and slowly started becoming confident and she joined gym, learned swimming and I was like chakkar kya h ? Then I discovered their secret affair after I installed spy apps on her phone. Turns out he was grooming her for conversion and marriage, using her as side chick. They had sex many times over span of 3 years. Now the situation is bit better as I forced my wife and confronted her. And switched job and cities.
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I really don’t know how to say but I have experienced the same . When I was 18 and my mom was 39 ( she was married early ) . Mom was a widow 3 yrs old . A muslim friend of mine used to come my home often . He was 20 yrs age . One day I returned home early nd had the shock of my life . I heard their laughter and talk from the room . I saw my mom and him in a very close situation in bed . That shocked me most . Behind me he had made sexual relation with my mom . Later when I told him why he betrayed me like this he told me that he always lusted for my mom and now she was his . I was really shocked to hear this . Later I also talked to mom about this but mom seemed too possessed by his charm and physical relation . And then my mom and he started an open relationship . He even told me he was willing to marry my mom . I tried to make my mom understand but it did not help . Two months later they married and I moved to my uncle’s house and since then I kept no relation with my mom .
jain what is your present situation now and how you are dealing with your mom and your friend?
Help please.
How? Tell us more about your situation.
Yassss
DEAR
Gautam you must know Dia jab Bujhta hai to lau tez ho jata hai?matlab samajh jao tumare maa ki jawani ab jane wala hai.just wait for 3-5 year and see what will happen .i think your mothers marriage life will spoiled.or tumarhi maa ki kia ki saza milna bahut dur nahi hai. mare baat dhyan se suno .find out a reliable partner for your father. or phir apni maa ki muh pe ek lath mar ke aao. himmat koro,mard ho yeah hizra? 1 week ki ander jao or apni maa ki muh pe ek lath mar ke aao.keu ki tumarhe maa ne jo kia oh sirf galath nahi kamina pan ki ek haat par kar dia.kaya hum dosto se nahi milanga,agar nahi milanga to hum pagal ho jayanga.kitna paisa lake gaye oh kamine kutti aurat?agar jayda paisa lake gayee to dono ko maar dalo keu ki tumarhe pith pe chora bhok ke gayee hai ohh kamine.kamine kutti aurat apni bate ko bhi istamal kiya.jo paise se tumarhe life bhi acha ho sakth ta tha.lake in nahi hua. agar tumarhe maa tumarhe papa ki sath khus nahi thi to itne din tumarhe papa ki sath nahi rahathi.lake in is kutti aurat ko to nahi sawad chahia tha.isi lia aisa kia. is kutti aurat ko kaya tumarhe bara main koi fikar hai?main to kahunga nahi.ohh sirf tumhe ek khilona ki tarha istamal kiya.or phir phek diya.jitna paisa lake gaye itni tukra kar dalo. keu ki tum abhi bhi dono ki contact main ho.tumarhe lia yeah karna asan hai.agar tumarhe jaga main hota to kaya karte malum hai?rape karke mar date.yeah kutti aurat isi saza ki layek hai.ek kahabat hai poisoneus snake ki sar kuchal do .mare ek friend bhi ek bar aisa kiya apni maa ki umar ki aurat se sadhi kiya.4 sal baad ohh aurat suicide kiya. last of all i am saying you.tumarhe maa tumarhe dost ki sath maza le rahi hai.tum ghut ghut ke je rahi ho. apni sawrth ki lia kisi ko dukh dena achi baat nahi hai khas karke tumhe keu ki tumne nahi kahna duniya main lane ke lia.ohh apni khud ki marzi se tumhe duniya main lake aye. tu bhi keu chord doge.kuch followers ne comment kiya apki khusi sab ki adhikar hai.main kahunga nahi.tumhe kisne kahna tha sadhi karne ki lia ?kisne kahna tha tumhe paida karne ke lia? ek maa yeah baap kia lia yeah raight nahi hai?keu ki tum kabhi bhi tumarhe maa ko nahi bola ki mujhe duniya main lake aao.isilia is kutti aurat ko bhi koi right nahi hai tumarhe jindagi kharap karne ki,yeah tumarhe papa ki jindagi kharap karne ki. yeah baat sahi hai tumarhe maa tumarhe papa ki sath pahale kush the. tumare dost ane ki baat ohh kutti aurat samjha naya maal aagaya isilia tumarhe papa se dur ho gayee or tumha istamal kiya.keu ki kisi ko chicken yeah mutton acha nahi lagtha.kabhi dal roti bhi chahia. do you know about the reason of extra meritial affiare? physical satisfaction?love?care? 95% worng, every person have a attitude for strictly prohibited matter jaise ki apni bibi jitna khubsurat ho dosri ladki or dosri ki bibi acha lagta hai.or apni pati jitna bhi handsome ho dosri ladka acha lagta hai.kabhi kabhi family purana ho jane ki baad purana family ko acha nahi lagtha.kaya yeah baat sahi hai?bilkul nahi .keu ki hum kis par biswas karen ? maa par bhi nahi.jo insan apni bhabna ko kabu main nahi raktha oh insan nahi janwar hai.or janwar ki sath aisa karna chahia.
so mera dissican ahi hai ki pahale apni maa ki pass jao ,phir muh main ek lath mar ke sare rista khatam kar do. phir apni papa ke lia ek partner talash karo .pahale tum khud jake milo or phir papa ko bhi milao.or phir ek naye jindagi suru koro. agar tum apni maa ko ek bhi saza nahi dogi to sare jindagi ghut ghut ki joigi. ho sake to dono ko maar dolo. keu ki apni khusi ke lia dusri ki jindagi kharap karna kisi ko bhi hawak nahi. or ek baat tumarhe maa ki jindagi bhi kharap hona bahut dur nahi hai?keu ki usci jawani jane wali hai tab tumarhe dost ki jawani bharpur rahagi.kahna jayagi tumare maa?usci jindagi bhi narak banne wali hai jaise ohh tumarhe banaya. good night
Agree with all the comments. I have a shameful incident like this in my own household after trusting a poisonous snake. Made me lose belief in people as a whole.
What do you mean by this? What are your details? who is the “snake” are you talking about?
It was someone i invited into my family because i felt sorry for him, he ended up sleeping with my mom. fucking bastard.
AFTER KNOWING THIS YOU HAVE TI KILL YOUR MOTHER,BUT TIME IS NO GONE,NOW YOU CAN DO THIS.
Well , it was someone who was younger than me that my family knew. I let him into my house and ended really really badly.
Such cases are so disheartening. It’s too hard to share such incidents. Everyone can’t dare to share even I can’t but it shouldn’t happen
This type of incident has increased a lot since last few years.i can say it from my personal experience.
Can you share more details?
Look though it was really personal bt i think It’s ok to share here bcz others might learn frm it.in recent times in many places in bengal muslims hv infiltrated a lot and most places hv bcm muslim dominated.so we hindus in any cases hv to talk with thm as neighbours or in elsewhere..my mom was a pious lady.always stayed wth the moral values until mustaq came as a neighbour in our locality in a few days he was seen joining party and bcm quite close to the higher authorities. though it took 1-2 yrs bt it happened.he always tried to b friendly wth me though i hd no idea why..bt due to his political closeness i hv to talk wth him on few isdues and also did my father.. so he started coming to home too.though he was just few years above thn me and almost 15 yrs younger to my mom he starytef eying Her. to b fair i got some idea bcz he would talk to Her whenever he saw her outside in market or anywhere else. i asked mom to ignore bt it didnt..after almst 8-9 mnths mom suddenly wanted divorce frm dad..dad hd no idea nor did i.. she said she is in love wth mustaq and is pregnant wth his child now..it was really shocking..though dad said he will b okay wth the child bt SHOULD cut off relations wth mustaq bt she ignored it.. she wnt to stay wth him and later got divorced too..mom was 39 back thn i was 19.. its 3-4 yrs ago..now i hv no idea where she is as we shifted to other town wth my dad.
Have you tried to reach out to your mom? Why you think she got into divorce? Should not your family forgive her and accept her back? Are you willing to help your mom? For your privacy, use only your first name.
Hi i can feel gautham’s pain, but what can we do??? Its already happened.
Ans in my story it little different.
I have a gf names Ayesha(muslim) but i m Hindu.
She loves me soo much that she can do anything for me, she is ready to run away from home for me and ready to convert in to hindu.
But in my home my parents are against little bit
But i have confidence that i will convince them.
Some muslim girls loves our hindu boys its also a bitter truth.
We are in relationship for 5 years. And she is happily ready to marry me.
Even my friend Rahul also have a muslim gf named Ruksar their story also same as ours.
But.. in his family his parents accepted her bcz they are open minded nd modern type family..
He fucked your mother and you kept masturbating shameless. I would have killed not just one but many Muslims if it had happened to me. I would have thrown Muslim children on floor and fire. If riots happens in your area l recommend you to kill as many Muslims as you can. Remember, good is the enemy of great. They expell Hindus from their country and you let a Muslim fucked your mother how shameless.
dear sumit
tu mard ka bacha hai yeah hijra ki aulad?abhi bhi soch raha hai kaya karna hai?tare maa ek kutti woman hai,agar mard ka bacha hai to dono ko maar dal,yeah churiya pahan ke hijra ki group main samil ho jaa
My experience is a bit different so far. My dad left us when I was very young…and my mom single handedly brought me up. She had an early marriage when she was 17…and now she is 37. She is a school teacher and gives tuition at her home. One of her students is studying in std 7 and the girl’s mom expired during childbirth. Her father comes to drop her and pick her up and my mom genuinely likes her. She told me in the past how she always craved for another kid specifically a girl. Anyway…sorry for digressing. The girls father is working in a bank and seems to be liking my mom…he is a muslim but suave not the bearded one. My mom also seems to like him because after the tuitions, she serves tea and snacks to him jot other parents. I havent been too nosey but what is concerning me that of late the man Riyaz is coming very frequently. And helps mom in her daily chores… bringing groceries taking her to malls etc. Mom never minds.
Her winter vacations are coming next week and mom asked me last Sun 08-Dec if we would want to go on a small vacation with Riyaz and his daughter Sabiha.
Genuinely, I like Sabiha…she is very sweet and a sister like but is Riyaz hitting on my mom? Do i need to be careful?
Please advise, friends…
Hi Sandeep,
They are adults and they have rights to do that they want. There is nothing wrong legally as per laws of the land. However, you have to find out if he is or not a love-Jihadi. How to know that? View @ 36:40 min on the video here…
https://youtu.be/ch9MvATwJA4
Let us know your views on this video. Ask your mom to review it. We hope to hear from you soon.
If your mother do it with your husband what would you do, these types of woman are very bloody, Sali apni khud ki bata ko bhi nahi chordega
I don’t think u should be unhappy with this. A women wants a man who care her, loves her. If she is happy then why are you crying ?
Hi Gautam
Hope all is well
can you briefly tell me
-1. How your mom’s decision affect your social life especially attitude of common friends of you and Navid
-2. How did you mother’s attitude towards you changed post her conception and marriage to your friend does she still treat you as her child? also is she giving priority to her new family over you??
Thanks
Dear Aslan,
We are wondering why you have specific interest in this case. Is there something you personal experience that you can share?
anu kaya tum ladkiya itna kamine of kutti ho?tumarhe maa ne tumarhe husband ki sath aisa kiya hota to kaya korogi?
To cut the matter short your mother is his wedded wife probably you will agree to this fact and she doesn’t have any intention to leave him or his family irrespective of being or not being under his influence… Could be she has accepted his supramacy over other things…including sex as you said so dump them off…better to save other woman and if at all possible find a way to teach your friend a lession for the life there is nothing like forgiveness… Prithviraj forgave the Ghori and lost sanyukta…if you forgive him probably Hindus would lose many more moms and wives… All the best
I know what kind of suffering someone goes through when it happens with ur family..it’s pathetic..sry to hear ur story.mine is quite same.
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i m a hindu boy from west bengal and the situation is getting bad to worse here..the muslims are impregnating hindu women and getting muslim babies out of them.some of the hindu women r leaving their family to b with a muslim man who is already married to 2 women.
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I am also suffering from the same experience but it’s ok but must look forward and save other female members of our family yet I have not forgotten that but we must move on.
According to my personal experience dominance is in Muslims blood and Hindus r submissive dts why Hindu mother’s sister’s ND daughters r accepting Islam we should tell them reality of islam.Its my personal experience to loose someone who is Respect of your family and u can’t bring that back.
i hv gone through the same experience though it was not my friend. bt i lost both my mom and masi,her elder sister. now they r converted to islam and r producing babies for muslims.
All d cases of converting from Hinduism to Islam are really painful.We must educate females of our family abt the motive of Muslims ND dnt not let Dem to come at home.Fdship with Muslims must be only till the street.For admin I would like to say you are rendering a very good job you gave the plateform to those who lost their mothers ND who went to convert.Atleast they can share their pain.Such instances are really soul breaker.But we should move on and must try to save remaining females of our family and society.
It’s really heartening to know about such instance…We must condemn it…But many times we Hindus believe in forgiving than making it current…Your situation really makes me resemble my own history…I can’t share much here but I would like to know for all here is that once upon a time myself and my mother were followers of Hinduism…But the family situations made my mom fall in love with nearby uncle named Firoz…And I had to leave my family with my mother at the age of 6…Now I am 20 years old and am able to understand all but have mostly adjusted to my new situation… Probably I would be married soon with my cousin (so called) in next six months but I feel confused and have less of the memory who I was and when I became muslim
Hi,
Can you give details of your situation as much as you know it? It will help us help others. Are you really looking forward to marry your cousin or are you sort of compelled to do it?
You started by saying “It’s really heartening”, but your mother also has gone through the same. Do you mean what went with your mother (someone took advantage of your mother’s situation) was wrong? We would love to hear more. Do get back, thanks.
Hi Admin,
Here it is my story.I am 20 years old girl who was living in Mumbai about 14 years back in a happy family.Typically a brahmin family as far as I recall…My father was working in some office not sure if Govt or private and ours was a respected brahmin family. Mom and dad used to live peacefully and with each other’s love I think so until one day Firoz uncle moved into our neighbouring flat. He was very good person or at least I thought he was at that time…But was living alone.Graduallly he and my father became very close friends…They used to spend considerable time together…As Firoz uncle was living alone…My father used to invite him for dinner occasionally…That occasional visits for dinner then became daily…And although I was just around age of 5 I could sense mom used to share every details with him. As Firoz uncle was a businessman he was going late to office could come home back at any time….Many a times I noticed that he started coming to our home for breakfast also and my father didn’t object to it…The things developed to the level where he started coming to our place in absence of my father too.
I can recall a few times when I came back from school I found uncle in our house and mom serving him lunch or insisting him to finish the food then only leave…I think that was the time when they developed feelings for each other… Although father could have sensed that too but may be he ignored it.
Once my father went on tour for 3-4 days…Firoz uncle came to our house and was in hurry…He discussed something with my mom and left…I remember on that day mom was busy with packing and a bit upset too..Same night my mom, myself and Firoz uncle left for Ajamgarh…that day started the journey of my mom and mine to be part of a Muslim family.
We reached to Ajamgarh and were received by a group of family members… Whom I never knew or had seen.we were taken to a old fashioned house and my mom was more than compliant to their orders…I spent a few days there with my mom and Firoz uncle…But never felt happy… Occasionally I used to cry to meet my father but what I used to receive was just a console that when I will grow older I would meet him…Etc etc…At that age I was not able to understand what was that occasion but was probably the second marriage of my mother…She dressed well and everybody was happy all lighting etc…I was also happy because I also got new clothes and sweets…
Then it came the process of name change for me…They had already started calling mom from Sunita to Jamila…And I was given the name of Rukaiya…i gradually started feeling that this is the life for us…I was asked to call Firoz uncle as Abbu…I can recall a few occasions where I was punished for not calling him as Abbu…And that also by none other than my own mom Jamilabanu…She started wearing hijab and burkha…I have now almost adjusted to this life now I study in delhi in a college and have blurred memories of my past..But sometimes feel desperate to know who am I…I must mention that I have 2 more sisters and 1 brother…Who all are having typical thinking for themselves …Youngest one is 11 years old…Now I am adjusted to my new Muslim self and my marriage has been planned with my cousin Amik…Who is living in Kuwait with his parents who seems to be a nice and charming guy…However I don’t have any problem with him being my husband sometimes I feel what would have been my life if my mom would not have moved in with Firoz uncle…I would like to share more if needed but only if my identity is kept secret.
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What was your friends age at that time ? It is very disgusting…Really sorry for you
Gandhi: Look Jinnah, I am a Hindu, I respect all other religions and believe them to be true and why can’t we take good from all and be respectful to others helping each other to improve. [may not be exact words but summary is]
Jinnah: That’s exactly what a typical hindu is and what hinduism is. But we muslims believe only in Allah, Quran and Mohammed we can’t add and respect other’s faiths as its against our quran…
Addendum to my previous post. Hindus must clearly understand how the Muslim men interact with non Muslim world. Their primary target are the women because they fulfill their two objectives. They give them sexual pleasure and strengthen Muslims by giving birth to their children. It does not matter if the Muslim man is married or unmarried, in his teens or in his sixties, poor or rich, friend or enemy, South Indian or Bengali or African or North Indian. Similarly, to the Muslim man it doesn’t matter who is the non Muslim woman – married or unmarried, mother’s age or grand daughter’s age, She is a toddler or in her fifties. The target woman could be very much the friend’s sisters and the only wife! Don’t forget that Muhammad himself married his adopted son’s wife! So, practically all the womenfolks are at risk to be the Muslim men’s victim. Probability of occurrence may be high or low depending upon the Muslim percentage in the locality but it’s always their.
To protect the womenfolk:
teach them about the Muslim men’s behaviour in the light of Muhammad’s act towards the women and the Muslim history.
Never socialize with Muslim men at family level.
Help those who are trying to get rid of Islam and helping the Dalits in India.
Read Satyarth Prakash especially its views on Islam but don’t have to agree with everything the Swami has said.
Must watch a video of an hour based on the life Swami Shraddhanand.
Not only mothers of friends but also daughters of friends are on the Muslims’ agenda! Not many Non-Muslims know that Aisha was the daughter of Muhammad’s friend! Moreover, it is more attractive exercise to go for friend’s daughter than his mother due to obvious reasons. In recent past, Muhammad Ali Jinna snatched his friend, Dinshaw Petit’ s only daughter named Rattanbai who was 24 years younger than him. Moreover, Jinnah was already married and Rattanbai was his second wife. So, the Muslim culture is very different from that of the Hindu culture. Though the Hindus might have shocked initially when they came in contact to the Muslims and that generation of Hindus might be forgiven. But who is to be blamed for the recurrence of such incidences even after hundreds of years? The way Hindus look at the Muslims is grossly self defeating. Any average Hindu who has tried to make bridges with the Muslim men without converting them, has suffered losses. Almost all the Hindus especially of younger generations are under deep slumber and sitting ducks. The best bet for an average Hindu is not to socialize with the Muslims at family level. Never invite them at your home. Most importantly, tell the truth about Islam to your family members and relatives. Bot first learn the Islam from the sites such as faith freedom.org or wiki Islam etc that expose the true Islam. If you learn from a Muslim, you are bound to fail miserably. The reason is the concept of Taqia that allows the Muslim instructors to mislead the non-Muslims so that they may not come in the way of spread of Islam.
Your incidence is heart breaking and killing of a Muslim is not the answer. Converting the Muslims to Hinduism and protecting the Hindus by educating regarding the real face of Islam are the required duties of every Hindu. There is ample scope of converting Muslim women who are leading the miserable life due to the teachings of Islam. Only, you have to approach right person with right message of women emancipation. By doing this, you will be content to have brought light to somebody’s life.
This is a great advise, “The best bet for an average Hindu is not to socialize with the Muslims at family level. Never invite them at your home”. Unfortunately those small percent of really decent Muslims will suffer but still it is wise to be cautious.
Organized pattern of conversion to Islam by enticing young girls has been a norm throughout the world.
http://www.patheos.coms/drishtikone/2014/08/love-jihad-in-india-and-europe-its-historical-and-empirical-context-and-deniability-by-vested-interests/
Especially read the part covered by Malayala Manorama to know the depth of depravity.
Now, cases have emerged where Muslim girls have involved in converting their Hindu friends.
Nauseating cases: Akila was indoctrinated by her friends, converted, given name as Hadiya and got married off to a Muslim(with criminal background). Now her marriage has been annulled by High court and SC has ordered an NIA level enquiry.
https://swarajyamag.com/ideas/nia-probe-into-love-jihad-case-have-those-outraging-read-the-kerala-hcs-judgement
Athira, another Hindu girl was converted to Islam after being brainwashed by her friends, left her home for madrassa, hidden by Islamic groups; court intervened and sent her back with her parents. Please note that the girl agreed to go along with her parents only after they promised that they would let her practice Islam. Fortunately, in this case, the girl has come back to her original faith.
https://www.hindupost.in/news/kerala-girl-athira-converted-islam-peer-pressure-returns-hindu-dharma/
Now latest blogs in interfaithshaadi on Hindu mothers being targetted are sending shock waves. I still hope that these cases are aberrations and not part of the venomous designs of Islamic organizations, as usually is the case, involving young girls.
Hannah khan you are right about what you wrote in the last paragraph…my mother was not targeted by any islamist group or organisation..its just that my friend could’t keep his sexual attraction for my mother under control…my mother is a moden woman who wears western clothes and he might have thought of it as an invitation or opportunity or something like that !! But she wasnt targeted specifically im sure…
Islam is spreading all over the world, by what ever means it is possible. Interfaith marriages are certainly a silent holocaust for Hindus and non-Muslims.
Thank you for speaking out, now do something about it to protect other innocent mothers and their sons like you. We cannot thank you enough, even writing about it must bring pain in your bones.
If she is 42, she should not be producing babies, it is dangerous for the mother. Soon, in a few years, she will go into menopause. She will know of his true love only then.
Hi Gautam
Hope all is well
can you briefly tell me
-1. How your mom’s decision affect your social life especially attitude of common friends of you and Navid
-2. How did you mother’s attitude towards you changed post her conception and marriage to your friend does she still treat you as her child? also is she giving priority to her new family over you??
Thanks
Gautam what is your present situation and how you have takkled the trajedy of your mother
thats true
Even i respect all my friends mothers but apparently this is not the case with all people…some may see it through very lusty outlook and navid did exactly that….he was a trustworthy friend until it happened and the way in which it all happened was devastating !! Neither islam nor does this society allows this behaviour but i guess some muslims think otherwise…the end result is that i lost my faith in close friendships and i now especially sty away from muslim guys who i think are very perversely lusty and don’t bother about boundaries and limits and emotions of others !!
I also equally blame my mother who brought immense grief and sorrow for the family….apparently he used to meet my mother outside the house and used to take her to one of his friend’s rental house for sex …they both engaged in sexual activities very regularly and that was the time when my mother conceived…i didn’t know about his reality otherwise who would make a friend like that ?? As soon as we realise somebody is a snake , the damage is done…
This must be very painful situation to go through. Thanks for speaking out and educating others.
We have adjusted your name for privacy. It is not a good idea to give out too much personal specific on any public forum. Please use only the given name, thanks.
On “Neither islam nor does this society allows this behavior”, this is not true. For Muslims, Muhammad is their role model. At age 25, Muhammad wed his wealthy employer, the 40-year-old merchant Khadijah. The majority of traditional sources state that Aisha was betrothed to Muhammad (age 53) at the age of six or seven, but she stayed in her parents’ home until the age of nine when the marriage was consummated with Muhammad. So, Muhammad had 15 years older and 47 younger wives. Mohammad has some 30 girls (11 wives at a time) in his life. Your friend is following their leader’s footsteps.
In a few years, your mom may go in manopause and the guy will get a young girl(s) along with her (polygamy is allowed in India).
Muslims are used to such practices and for these reasons, Muslim parents and brothers are very protective of their ladies in their homes. In most cases, they will not let their Hindu friends mingle with their girls/ladies in their own homes (try!). We were in Morocco where all Jewish home will have balconies out side where their daughters/ladies can enjoy outside but all Muslim homes will have balcony only inside (in varanda) to keep their ladies out of reach of others. Hindus are not protective and thus paying price. Lots more to come!
So basically you are saying whatever happened is my fault because im not muslim and we dont protect our women like them ?? And they can do this because their prophet did so and that makes it justified ?? Sorry but you sound very critical of me and my faith and you are outlandishly blaming me dor this …you sound like someone who wants to spread islamic agenda…
Dear Gautam,
You are mistaken about Admin and his intentions. He is actually a Hindu and he has absolutely no Islamic agenda. In fact, he has spent a lot of time on this website trying to educate Hindu/Jain/Sikh girls about the suffocating future they may have if they end up marrying a conservative Muslim man.
I just wanted to clarify that. Sorry to hear about your case but if your mother Is happy with her new husband and baby, there isn’t much you can do except be supportive and happy for her.
Everyone makes their own choices in life, we cannot blame the results of others’ acrions on ourselves alone. My Hindu inlaws are also very protective of their daughters, but the girls of this generation (especially) make their own choices when it comes to things like choosing a life partner.
shame on you!! you fake muslim girl !! you are not even muslim
Gautam,
Please do not use the past name, we need to protect your privacy.
Sorry my message was not to you personally but to the community. Actually it is not only Hindu but Christians and Jews in the West have the same issue. When one community stay very conservative and at the same time be aggressive proselytizing others, such cases will happen. Muslims may be conservative in India but in America, as per our survey, 45% of Muslims girls also (date for years, then) marry interfaith. We have also seen “bad” elements within Hindu faiths who are trapping Muslim girls. We are discussing here changing trends of our new society.
We must appreciate you for sharing your life story. It must be very painful experience to go through at such an early age. It must hurt to even see your mom with one time (you thought) friend. We are certainly disturbed by reading this and to know how low some people go. Let work to educate others and hope others will not be in such situation. We created this web site to educate our society of a new reality of our life. Keep in touch!
Hello Gautham
You had commented on my original post here. Your situation might look similar to mine but it is fundamentally different. In my case Shonali was not married and was legally and morally free to do whatever she wants. In your case it was very different and can imagine how difficult it must have been for you.
Can I ask you a few questions? Please answer them only if you are okay with them.
– Was your mother happy before she met Navid?
– You mentioned that she used to meet Navid outside the house for indulging in sex. Does it mean that she was not sexually satisfied in her marriage?
– What emotion did you feel against Navid. Was it anger, jealousy, hatred etc
– Since your mom married Navid 2 years ago how is the marriage going on now. Are they happy? How is her son? Did they have any other children?
– How did Navids parents react to the marriage?
– This might sound like a controversial question but did your mom convert to Islam before getting married to Navid?
– Another controversial question. What is the religion of your step brother?
I dont know if she was happy before or not but everything seemed normal like always…their marriage is going on fine and they are now planning for another baby before my mother becomes unable to bear any children..she is 42 years old at the moment !! Navid’s parents really didnt have any issues since my mother was hell bent on being with him and was ready to convert and she did also…so the children are also muslim now !! As for my feelings…i dont have words for it…even if she wasn’t sexual satisfied within marriage , it was a line that nobody should have crossed !! My opinion is that there are certain lines which must not be stepped over and no amount of logical gymnastics can prove that whatever happened shouls have happened…it wasnt supposed to happen in the first place…society doesnt function that way !!
Whether my mother was satisfied or not , it was none of his business…even if for argument’s sake say my mother lead him on , then also being a responsible moral human being he should have denied the advances instead of leaping onto her like an animal !! And ofcourse i felt all sorts of things in my heart from killing him to forgiving him…but to date my heart hasnt made a clear decision…its all blurry and dark and shady…and so i avoid talking about it but im sharing here so that other people also know whats going on in the world and not be like those people who dont function under natural order
Gautam,
We feel your pain, it is even difficult to read. For them, so far the Hindu converts, they are happy. Converting others is more important for them than all moral talk you made. Others should know to keep away from such poisonous snakes. Thanks for speaking out, this message must go all over the world.
I want your Mom for sexual pleasure as you did. If your mom did this with your friend
Yeah sala Kutta aisa bolega
Dear Gautam try to understand every woman of D’s world is born with subbmissive nature and she finds a dominant man for her your friend was dominating despite of your father so she submitted to him.Thats why I am saying again ND again educate our family females about Islam motive.
dear gautam
tu mard ka bacha hai yeah hijra ki aulad?abhi bhi soch raha hai kaya karna hai?tare maa ek kutti woman hai,agar mard ka bacha hai to dono ko maar dal,yeah churiya pahan ke hijra ki group main samil ho jaa
We take friend mother as our own mother. Where is this new type of practices coming from? Is that in line with Islamic teachings?
Don’t feed a poisoneous snake milk, it can come back to bite you.