NC says: September 4, 2017 at 11:34 pm
hello…
i need some advices thats why i decided to write today…you can call me NC
i am a christian girl and i am black i met a guy he’s indian for about few months now nd everythin is goin fine so far nd now hes talkin bout marriage and all
and i told him first we cant get married cause we r not in the same religion one of us must be converted and he said this is not a problem cause he knows i dont want to be converted and he loves me so much he’s willing to get converted into my religion but will keep doin wat he does in his religion and i told him thats wont be possible cause u cant serve two Gods at once
and second of all i am black and we all know that indians people dont like black people even if some of them have a darker skin and he was like my family are not like that they dont see colors even if they r not racist ur country figure on th top 5 of the most racist country so i cant never go live there, if ur family first accept my skin and fr the religion i doubt that ur family will allow you to get converted for me but he doesnt listen to a word am saying…sure i love him but am not willing to hurt him and his family and i dont want to upset God
i am willing to let him go cause this is troubles we will have in our future but he’s not ready to let me go and i dont know what to do… -NC
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Hi NC,
You are on track raising good questions. Keep your mind open before you fall in love and be blind. He may be blind in love with you or a con-artist out having good time with you. What ever you do, keep at a foot distance from him till all dust settle down.
It is nice that he is willing to ignore religion and race, but how much is he a realist? Ask him that you want to talk to his parents (in India, we assume) on Skype! Talk to them and his close family on a routine basis. If you find out that they are open minded and willing to accept you as is, then it is safer for you to proceed.
Lets discuss on religion after you settle for the race issue. We would recommend not to get stuck with–mine and your God–game. Lets talk it later. Hang on with us!
ok…
will definitely do and keep you posted
thank you