Rahul says: September 4, 2016 at 8:41 am (Edit)
I am Hindu boy, been dating Muslim girl, named Nagma. I love her very much, and she does too as much I do, even possibly more than I do.
She almost has been ready to elope away but she is afraid of the religious and society problem. My parents and family members know about relationship and they are totally disagree with it if I am gonna run away. If I do it .. I’m gonna lose everyone, and that is main problem!
I can’t live without her.. That’s the truth and my family knows it.
But they don’t let me do my things.
I’m hiding my relations with her but family spy on me.
I can’t lose neither her nor family…
Then what am I up to do?
I will stay Unmarried or marry her..
That’s I have planned..
But I’m very confused..
So confused.
I know that her parents will also show indignation.
What should I do?
Suggest please. -Rahul
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c rahul if sum guy luv me a lot thn no matter wht ever he’s hindu r sikh r whtevr he is i mrd wid him i need respect n luv but in muslim no bdy respect muslim grl yes right vp said abv tht muslims live in 18th century kbhi nahi badlenge…..bs undpad gawar he ladki se shaadi krenge padhi likhi c phatti h…….even educated guys also mrd wid uneducated grls in muslim…
so i m looking any gud guy who luv me n respect my feelings
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you should to talk with your parent’s directly if they become agree then it is ok if not u should give them clearance.
Mac
Why dont you feel shame that under islamic teachings you were sodomized in childhood by imam in the mosque, is it a civilized socieity,s behaviour. Why did you not lodge complaint against imam. In fact islam is a criminal and cruel mind set and not a religion. You attempt to glorify islamic evils, which have created havoc world wide.
rahul don’t do that
parents ki badua lagati h..
and its my personal experience aaj b aaj b muslium 18th century m ji rhe h..
apne parents ko manwao..ya ladki ko bolo hindu ban jaye(101% wo convert nhi hogi).but yahi agr tm hote to tm ho jate.hum hindu k ladke yese hi h..aur yahi dar s tmhre parents use except nhi pa rhe h..dear ghar m banao.hindu muslim law k acc tumlog marriage kr skte ho.aur apne ghr m bolo ki tm kbhi muslium nhi banoge..aur agr tm nhi banoge kbhi tabhi ye bolna. parents sab s phle h..aur abhi b smjh na aaye to bhagwan h unse help mango he is the one of best. life bht complicated ho jati h jb ghar wale except nhi krte h to..aur tb tmdono m bs ladai hogi.to soch smjh k fesla lena jo tmhe thik lage
Dear vp, you said muslims live in 18th century. Really? And you guys live in BC era because it’s only you people who consider cow shit as holy and spread it on people to purify them while we don’t use animal waste product on human being to purify them. You guys are well known for killing female child in womb, that must be an act of modernity,isn’t it? Who kills human for an animal cow? Who discriminates people based on caste? Who believes in astrology?
Rahul,
If both of you are majority of age and atleast you are earning, then no problem to marry under special marriage act instead of eloping.
I’m Rahul,
Admit that you are right.
I love her since she was 8 years old.
She was unaware…
I told her it.. when I was 17.
She also used to like me but as I always preferred to study.. so she thought I’d not like to have her as lover or gf.
Later we came together and it is gonna be 2 years.
You can’t imagine .. how delighted or happy I was when we came in relationship.
We had several meeting…
We are too attached..
She loves me.. I believe.
This world is based on believing.
Trust too.
I got the happiness and it took my 10 years.
She is turning out to be 18 and I’ll be 20.
She is in dilemma n I am also.
we can’t figure out..
I .. I really don’t want to my girl and family.
If we run away.. I might get killed..
Owner killing.. from either my side or her side.
I’m not blaming my family or her..
Nobody knows what tomorrow can be.
I want to marry her n stay forever.
I afraid of 2 things..
1. Losing her.
2. Losing family.
Rahul,
It is exciting and fascinating to get into love. It is a good feeling that someone truly loves you and you do to the other side. What you feel now is something God has created, attraction for opposite sex. High sex steroids running in your blood stream are propelling you to go to the girl. Unfortunately men have made many silos (walls) to separate people. The religious institutions and leaders will survive only if people follow these man-made laws. Millions have been killed in the name of God, and you are one latest victim.
Rahul, you have to understand reality of life. As much as you may be in love with her, and if you marry to her, after 10 years, none of this today’s love will last till then. Go ask your parents or any married person–if they are running their life by their dating time love. The sex steroids in your blood will metabolized soon. We agree that your love is true one, but you also should be a realist that the love will ultimately fade (if you marry her or not).
You have to keep your overall life goal in mind. First, are you done with your education? It is most critical that you and the girl have great education. After that, both find good jobs. Continue your love during this study period, but don’t take any action now. If you are independent and mature, you will have strength and power to go against your parents, society, religious institutions, etc.
Remember, Rome was not built in a day. It takes time, especially for something good and nobel. So have patience. Meantime, understand issues Hindu-Muslim couples face in life. We have about 700 such cases on this web site, please read from it and learn.
Let us know what specific question we can answer for you, get back. Best wishes.