Vaishali says: August 25, 2016
Mine was an intercaste marriage, he forced me into a court marriage by giving suicidal threats. I was frightened as he tried suicidal attempts in my prese ce,that had a huge impact on my mind n i became his puppet.a fter marriage,he was very abusive. 9 mo ths aftr marriage,my parents came to know that i was suffering from some mental disorder so they came to pick me up from thr. He din let me, infact broke me from my parents. One day i secretly called my parents n in his absence i left that home, n i was taken to psychiatrist,who said it was schizophrenia. N since then love changed a lot, i tried to make it up but din work, he din come, but i filed divorce,n again he din come. He showed his face on the day d court was going to gv decision in my favor.he jz wants to hurt me n my family, i dont knw,if he s still single or married. I cnt go bk to him. I hate tht person. I want to move on, have a family, kids. But he gvs an excuse everytime n misses court. Courtlady too is very strict . She treats me as if i m d culprit. I hate tht lady. These ppl r ruining my life. My one mistake has cost me n my family so much f pain
My life is spoiled by him n he on other hand is enjoying his life. I din file any domestic violence case as i din want to spoil anyone’s life. I myself have made a fool out of myself. Court lady gives such long dates, she ignores my applications. How will i get rid of this unwanted marriage. Kindly suggest -Vaishali
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Hi Satyen,
Nice to see your texts after a long time, which we were missing.
Thanks a lot
Sabana
Thank you Sabana. I am fortunate to have been blessed by many rational readers especially by the Muslim women on this site.
Must watch the video to the end to see how much agony the baby is undergoing due to circumcision. I could not see it till the end. You guys try and see if you can.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Lvu9hmTMyo&list=PLW_MULQ84Mu2xBttCDlqDBlIW-2VzddsO&oref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D-Lvu9hmTMyo%26list%3DPLW_MULQ84Mu2xBttCDlqDBlIW-2VzddsO&has_verified=1
The Muslim are also undergoing the nascent debate against male circumcision which is not a requirement to be a Muslim. Must read the following educative link written by a Muslim scholar:
http://www.circumstitions.com/Islam.html
The Jew are trying to be more humane towards their progeny. What’s about the Muslim? Will they learn from the Jews if not from the Christians? They should think about it with a open and compassionate mind. See the link below:
http://www.jewsagainstcircumcision.org/
Thanks admin..
Vaishali,
You did two smart things: 1) called you parents for help and 2) reached out to others (like here) for help. Sometimes, you cannot fight alone but has to get tips from others.
Your bad mistake was to marry that guy out of charity spirit but worst mistake could be to assume you have some mental problem. Be strong, be bold. Go find a job, any thing to keep you busy. Be prepared to be single, if necessary, nothing wrong in a single life if you are financially independent.
Hi Vaishali,
Sorry to hear of all this pain you have to go through because of one mistake. Now done is done and you have to look forward how to get out of this mess. Who does not make mistakes in life? Now important for you is to be strong minded to face reality of life. It will make you a stronger person after this experience.
When someone has serious problems, other people around start making up things. Prove to the world that you WILL get over all these issues and that you do not have psychological problem nor schizophrenia.
You are in worst state of life situation but remember that it is only temporary. Soon you will be out of that marriage, it is only a matter of time. Have patience. Good days are waiting for you. Best wishes.