Vasu says: January 2, 2016 at 11:21 pm
I’m 19 and a Hindu in love with a Pakistani Muslim guy,my uncles are against this even my mum at times but she supports us …they are afraid he is a Muslim and he might marry even after me…and we’re together for abt 1 year but he wants me to convert …what should I do ? I feel it’s impossible leaving him as I’m still young..he is only 21…any feedback?he always tells me he swears he loves me and will do so till the end
I’m a Malaysian Hindu and my boyfren is frm pakistan he wants me to convert to Muslim but to me if possible I do not want to convert so is there any possible ways to go to the overseas marrying him without converting..? I heard there r possible ways but what r the requirements and how to do so? Much appreciated-Vasu
Admin says:
Dear Vasu,
You are only 19 and thus have to learn many reality of this life. First, on any public forum life this, do not disclose your real name, we have modified your name here to protect you. Second, in real life, promises made in blind love has very limited value. For example, go ask all married people how much of their today’s life is running by promises made during their premarital period.
He is a typical Muslim. He already asked you for religious conversion, that should be a warning sign. He does not love you (a Hindu girl) but wish you to be a Muslim (that you are not). If he wants carnation, why he is looking for a rose? Can a rose be converted to carnation? Can you be a true Muslim? Do you know what means to be a Muslim wife? Yes, as a Muslim, he could marry up to 4 wives legally (even in India). Further he could lightly beat his wife as allowed in their scripture. Divorce are as easy as talk, talk, talaak, done deal! After your divorce, you MUST marry another Muslim, not to a Hindu or Christian. Are you ready for all these?
For all these reasons listed above, you start learning on Islam and see if you wish to be a true Muslim. Read all recommended videos and articles above and also read from Google on your own. So, the first question for you is are you ready to be a true Muslim wife?
You are stuck because you live in Malaysia. The government will not allow you to marry a Muslim and settle for good in Malaysia. You could always go to Singapore and marry him and come back to Malaysia as a visitor, however you will have difficulty settling and raising children in Malaysia as a Hindu-Muslim couple.
We understand you do not want to convert but is he ready for it? Please ask him and his Pakistani parents for it. This should be your first step. Best wishes. -Admin
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6 Responses
Never convert to Islam just for marriage, one should only become a Muslim if their heart loves Islam
Dear Vasu,
You are just 19 yrs. and does not know the realities of life particularly with a muslim guy from pakistan, which is a country of terrorists. You are emotionally attached with him.
Dont get trapped, whole life you will repent. Get yourself dissassociated from that guy, who may be showing very good manners, politeness, submissive, but lateron, his real personality will come out with dreaded evil practices against you.
hope you will realize your emotional mistake.
Here it is ..
http://www.timesofisrael.com/egyptian-cleric-advises-men-beat-your-wife-so-she-will-mend-her-ways/
Koran 4:34: Man have authority over women because God has made the one superior to the other, and because they spend their wealth to maintain them. Good women are obedient. They guard their unseen parts because God has guarded them. As for those from whom you fear disobedience, admonish them, forsake them in beds apart, and beat them. Then if they obey you, take no further action against them. Surely God is high, supreme (The Koran, N.J. Dawood)
This is not a clean proof that i can agree you…
There are millions of wrong informations which has been quoted from the Quran with out of context from the jews websites if you google them..
if you want to understand Quran.. read the authentic source rather than any other jew member like N.J Dawood etc,
i will give the detail on the verse which you have misunderstand from the
quran
check this site to understand properly
http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/dv-4-34-shafaat.html
Admin
your translation is unfair ..you said ….As for those from whom you fear disobedience ….
it is not for just disobedience that give permission for hasband to beat his wife ..it is more than disobedience ..
may be you try to show that islam is a religion of unfairness
the verse talks about you fear (nshooz) thia arabic word mean misbehaving with husband ie. keep him out side and refuse to open door
or lock the room on him or do not allow him for sexual relation or dealing with him as alower level guy all these you just jumped over and simply said …disobedience…only ..this is not fair admin
one more point ..
we have hadees welldocumented not to beat hard ,not to slap face and finally not to use bad words
you want to deal with islam ..come to all details..please
bro…
we have given answers for several times to the same questions which he comments on against islam but still he is keep on asking the same questions
this shows that how he is ignorance or else acting smart to show the people that he is justify to peoples by against islam but actually unjust leave it .. Allah cares them for being unjust