Mehwish says: October 24, 2015 at 6:33 am
I am Muslim girl i have done court marriage before 5 months my parents tell me for divorce but I don’t want divorce I want living with my husband but my parents tourcher me what can I do? -Mehwish
mac says: October 24, 2015 at 7:01 am
Dear sister Mehwish, court marriage is not allowed in Islam, for your marriage to accepted in front of Allah, you have to do technical nikah not court marriage or signing, and if you think being muslim is not a necessary thing, if you think you are namesake muslim and non-Muslim by heart, then do what ever you like.
Admin says:
Mehwish, we agree to what mac (or any Muslims) will say to you that you must convert your husband (we assume he is Hindu) to Islam and both follow Islam 100%. If this is note done, they will give you hell in THIS life (we do not know about the AFTER life so can’t talk about it). Is this logical?
Now question is how independent minded are you? Are you financially independent too? Are you happy with your husband? Do you think he could make you happy in THIS life? Does he has any problem/issue with you (the way you are today)? Do you believe in religious dogmas or life? Do you believe performing namaz five times a day and believe in following Koran literally for your life? Basically, we are saying to introspect for who are you and what do you want from THIS life? Please get back to us, thanks. -Admin
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Islam: Mac verses Momeen (Hanna Khan):
Life is so simple,either you accept or reject. You should not regret it later.
Don’t take suggestions and recommendations from others to lead your life. Make your own decisions.
Hi Mehwish,
Dont get pressurized, faced sitution boldly. If you have married as per your choice, stick to it.If you are in India, get help from police and judiciary.
Islam is a criminal religion. It does not want women to enjoy freedom and natural justice, whereas males are allowed to have 4 wives at a time, give them orally tripple talak, and get another wives, AND ALL SHOULD BE VIRGIN?
IS IT A RELIGION? IT IS CRIMINAL MIND SET OF RAPIST MOHAMMAD AND HIS FOLLOWERS.
one eye sight always cz you are not muslim ..even our crazy alqaidah never reach 1% of crimes done against muslims only during 20 th century
all these crimes done in name or religion ..ask your ..prime minister modi
who killed 2000 muslims in cojarat..
but anyway no use to talk to you if you are a converted muslim to hindu
we do not feel sorry for you
by the way have you checked ..the divorce percentage to population in muslim and nonmuslim societies before you speak about triple divorce
Ahmad, for your credibility, check facts before presenting. For Gujarat, this is reported fact: “The government told parliament that 790 Muslims and 254 Hindus were killed,…” source. So the number is 790 and ratio 3:1 being killed.
Further, the divorce statistics is not a perfect barometer for happy marriages. For example,” Only 5% Hindus are divorced or separated, followed by Mormons, Orthodox, Jews and Muslims at 9%, while the national total is 12% (in America; source)”, does this prove 95% married Hindu couples are happily married? No. Divorce rates depend on freedom to women, cultural barrier, financial independence, etc. The divorce rates in the second generation of Hindus in America will be lots higher than current (our prediction).
And the indian society day by day is impressed by western life style and the media is pushing the society towards this open life
no comparison between muslim and non muslim society if it comes to divorce rate
i am talking generally
yes may be the hindu society is much better than us and europe but this is not for long time
happiness is not only temper harmony between couples ….
it is not respecting each other only ..or even loving each other
if all these things happened between wife and husband ..on base of faith and obeying allah and prophet orders this will make relation deeper and long lasting
Mehwish i am speaking frankly to you …this repeating problem between non-muslims and muslims (relation then marriage then what to do ??) cz of muslim ignorance not cz you hate islam ..and this marriage is illegal and no court in the world or any other justification can turn it legal
Ahmad, explain us what are you trying to tell us?
You said happiness is
NOT: “not only temper harmony between couples ….
it is not respecting each other only ..or even loving each other” , but…
YES: “obeying allah and prophet orders this will make relation deeper and long lasting “
Is your statement only limited to Muslims only (and does not apply to others)?
Are you saying all Muslim couples have happy married life while non-believers in Muhammad have not?
We know many atheists having ever lasting married life. We know many Christians, Jews and Jains have superb happy married life lasting till their death. Contrary to that, we are sure there are many Muslims having horrible married life out there. So please explain us what do you mean here?
Further, you said, “no court in the world or any other justification can turn it legal”, you are wrong. Her marriage is valid as per Indian laws are concerned. If it is a matter of laws, it is legal. If it is a matter if faith, yes, it is illigal as per Sharia laws. So limit your comment to your faith and not national laws.
The answer to the 1st question is : yes …my massage is for muslims only ..cz i am a muslim talking to Mehwish
but what kind of muslims ….???
not those tens of millions of muslims in name only where secular mentality is controlling their minds..but when love and faith are the base of family relation sure nothing will break up this marriage ..never
so that dose not mean that generally muslim marriage is successful and non muslims ..not
an other thing i have causins marrying shia ..a successful marriage cz both both are seculars and both do not know any thing about their opposite religions
but this never means that religion must =0 to get good marriage
no this is not the solution
Mehwish,
Which country are you living at the moment? Is your husband non muslim?
Are you happy with your husband? What is the financial position of both of
you?
If you are happy with husband, and finacially independent, there is no need to divorce.