Roma Says:
Hi Zoya..
I was going through your message, i would like to share my personal experience with you..i got married to a muslim guy 8 months back, left my family n everything for him…I also thought he n his family are very free for all things..he n his family members loved me very much before getting married, but after marriage it was very different n they have a very harsh n rude nature…i could not live with him, it was impossible..
No hindu girl can live or spend her life with a Muslim boy…
Pls Pls dont go against your family members….I went against them n today i m suffering a lot..I have just applied for Divorce n now i m staying with my family n very happy with them…
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Why can’t these intercast relations be taken into an arranged marriage when both person’s parents are well educated??
TO PRIYABRATA BHOI
YOU THE LAST PERSON TO SAY THERE IS NO HUMANITY IN ISLAM WHEN 100 YEARS
BACK YOU BURNT YOUR WOMAN IN THE NAME OF SATEE AND YOUR HARIJAN
BROTHER’S CANNOT EVEN ENTER A TEMPLE TO PRAY. THIS IS INHUMANE.
LOOK AT YOUR HISTORY AND HOW YOU TREATED YOUR WOMAN AND BABY GIRLS BORN A CENTURY BACK. READ YOUR HISTORY INSTEAD ARGUING LIKE A UNEDUCATED PERSON. MAY GOD HAVE SOME PEACE ON YOU TOO.
looks like you are completely uneducated person. This is not your fault, this is your fake religion Quran fault. A hypnotism religion called Blue Whale Game. Entry is there but there is no exit way. Dont teach others.
Hey I’m a Hindu girl n I’m in deeply love with a Muslim guy…but d problem is dat my family n his family will never us…. And I’m so mad after him that even d thought of leaving him makes me dead from inside… What should I do? And we both love our parents that we don’t want to hurt them to…… Plzzz help
U have no mind…. Ur mother and father love is inferior than that muslim suar ka aulad. Mother loves is first love of all human and pls dn’t live your first love… And u should understand ur parent and ur religion is first ur religion is ur mother u should respect ur religion…. Why ur falling down ur value Hinduism in front of a muslim u have many option in ur cast u think About and search love in ur own cast so family and religion all let’s be happy and honoured
YOU ARE SUAR KA AULAD WHO BLOODY WORSHIPS ANYTHING THAT WALKS AROUND.
YOUEVEN BEAT YOUR GOD DURING BISARJAN AND RAPE YOUR WOMAN.
chi tujhe kharab nahi lagta hai hindu ho kar v ek muslim ko pyar karti hai.
Hey there…u see I also like a Muslim boy & so does he,I even know him & his family for a long time…..
but it’s like one unspoken law that we won’t cross the line.so we r just friends..
in ur case I understand very well that u can’t decide whom to love , still don’t go against ur parents.adjusting to a new culture is a whole different thing. If u r out of ur comfy zone,u won’t even know when the love will evaporate.plz make a difficult decision this time & do as ur parents say,cuz they only mean the best for you.
Lastly I want to say when you are clouded with emotions,u fail to see the hard reality.so think with a rational mind( no matter how hard it is).
Also I don’t want to offend anyone cuz I equally respect both religions & what I said may not seem a very liberal minded thought. But I tried to speak the reality in our society ( yes u can’t forget the great society despite how much u want to)..…..
Hi Brishti,
We are glad you decided not to cross that line and believe in making sure your parents are with you. One question to you, assuming both parents agreed, how will you get married? HIndu Vivaha, Islamic Nikaah, the Special Marriage Act 1954 or all?
I know three people who marries Muslim guy
In the first case the guy treats her like a queen. He even has his MIL live with him, his daughters have hindu names. Awesome guy
One couple are in US. No one converted, the guy loves her deeply. Have a son with a Jewsih name. The girl did not like the idea of circumcision but went ahead anyways.
The third girl is obese and yet a Muslim man who is a devout married her. We think she has converted but dont know. Who cares? She is educated and she loves him but the guy it seems is not still seious. He maroied as he slept with ehr.
So it depends. Men come in all shades. Maybe the guy you love witll stand up like a son for your family, respect your faith and kids are both faiths.
Good luck.
sorry but u all are just wasting time by talking on this issue those who ever girl wanna marry a muslim guy use ur sense I mean dimag chalao I mean use some plans I can guide u quite easily as its a easy task ask my contact if needed I will provide the solution in which ur family as well as ur muslim guy will be together
Radha ji…..I need your help and your contact ji
Can we help, are you in love with a Muslim boy?
Need to talk to u can u please give me your contact number
Admin…u seem to be like to be of a narrow minded… I can guarantee you one thing… Uttering Mohammad will not let u small and not Uttering Mohammad will not hurt Mohammad… As he doesn’t needs cruel devotees like u
Why Muhammad is so important for Muslims? We wish to learn more about Muhammad. We asked mac to compare for us good gestures by Muhammad verses Jesus to non-Muslims. There are many great men born on this earth, what is so special about Muhammad, explain us.
Mohammad S.A.W.S. 1 nabi the or vo makka madhina mai deen ki dawat dete the us samai mai hamare nabi ko bahot logo ne taklif de fir bhi hamare nabi deen ki dawat dete the fir kuch logo ne islam kabul kiya.
1din nabi 1 raste se roz jate the waha pe 1 budhi reti thi vo roz nabi ke ang pe kachra phek ti thi fir bhi hamare nabi unko kuch nhi bolte the fir kuch din se vo budhi nhi hamare nabi ko tho nabi ne 1admi se pucha ki vo budhi maa kidar hai tho vo bola ki vo bimar hai fir hamare nabi us budhi maa ke ghar jare maaji aap ki tabhiya kaisi hai tho boli beta mai tho roz tumare ang pe kachra phekti thi fir bhi aap meri tabhiyat kaisi hai puch ne ko aaye or abhi tak koi bhi nhi aaya lekin tum aaye tho budhi maa ne wahi pe islam kabul kiya.
Or hamare nabi ka inthekal hora tab bhi hamare nabi 1hi dua mangre the ye Allah meri ummat meri ummat .
Mohammad S.A.W.S. Ne Allah se bolo ki jo bhi taklif deni hai vo mujhe do meri ummat ko taklif mat or har dua mai srif 1 hi cheez mangte the meri ummat meri ummat.
Hum har dua mai apne kitna kuch mangte hai lekin dusro ke itna kuch nhi mangte lekin hamare nabi srif 1 hi cheez mangte the meri ummat meri ummat.
Ye hai hamare nabi jo hum ko jaan se jazda payre hai.
Aare hum musalman Hamare nabi ke vaste jaan bhi hazir hai
Priyabrata is absolutely right!!! No Hindu girl should ever marry a muslim boy. Never. Their religion clearly says that non believer (kaafir) should be killed. So if the muslim boy and his family say that they are ok with not converting after marriage, they are lying. In fact, converting someone to islam is considered a good thing so the entire family will make the Hindu girl’s life hell unless she converts. We all know that muslims are the only people that have problems with others everywhere they go. As I said, quran clearly spells out to either convert or kill the non islam (non believer). In Hindu religion, the females are given great respect and we even have female Gods while in islam they are kept in stupid masks like their possession. And by the way, enough of “islam is for peace”. I have read quran and it CLEARLY says that kill the kaafir or non-muslim so don’t listen to any crap from anyone.
Prem, when did Hindu women get the right to inherit property? Please quote all this knowledge to the females dying in haryana at the hands of their own mothers and fathers because they happened to be born female…
Rabia.. This incident you said in haryana is not related to Hinduism..Not happening other parts of India, but Islam is such a religion is that converting is the main purpose. Islam is CURSE for EARTH..
See dilip,
You cannot say that Islam is a curse on earth, it is religion which is 2nd most followed on earth after Christianity and is following a rapid growth also…
Devil… you are WRONG and blank mind. Islam is a fastest dying religion in the world. Around 80% of 56 islamic countries are almost died. Terrorism, genocide, abuse, hardcore muslim etc etc and more over the fake faith causing them to destroyed them selves. Tell me which muslim country is safe for live?
Regarding Christianity, 40% Christians are atheist in western and UK because they came to know the truth of their religion. You can google and find more answer. Many church are now 5 star hotel due to lack of devotee coming to church.
Coming to Hinduism… 30% western are now following Hinduism because thuth is truth and sooner or later Hinduism will be main religion in the world.
An extremely wishful and laughing statement by Krish here.Regardless of Christians being atheist or Islam dying fast, “30% Western follows hindusim”?It would be better to believe Tom and Jerry exists better than believing what is being stated in this statement. I believe senor Krish here has some neutral source( not swarajya or shankynaad of course :-p ) to prove his fact.I have already stated all facts to dilip amin sir , i hope krish will do same to counterfeit mine. I would very much love to learn some new things.
As an avid observer,traveler and being from a a family background that is professionally very diverse,i have quite a good grip on world situation.
Statement : “Around 80% of 56 islamic countries are almost died. Terrorism, genocide, abuse, hardcore muslim etc etc and more over the fake faith causing them to destroyed them selves.”
ummm, what? Countries almost died?
Actually those countries have some of the highest birth rate in the world. So what is happening is that,more babies are born than the people leave islam + people get killed combined. As western world slowly loosing grip on communication and information technologies,they are loosing the power to control flow of information(Western world has used this information technology to control flow of information in their favor and censored those which was against them). So higher number babies born to conservative parents will actually grow up in more conservative world.
And with China taking it’s place in global politics, western influnce in MENA region will be reduced(You can already see that happening). As US did against Soviet Union,China is allying up with islamic world against westerns. Despite being staunch atheistic country, you can see China wooing islamic countries,building mosques and stuffs in their countries. US is having a taste of their own medicine. As soon as china can get Saudi agrees to stop import/export crudes in Dollar, US is dead anyway. :-p
“Terrorism, genocide, abuse, hardcore muslim”. Actually it is having a reverse effect .Now Europe is having kind of cultural islamic invasion.(Thanks to America for that). Even their fashion and clothing sense is being influenced by those. America has over used their power with telecommunication and tried to do more than what it could take. As a result it has open a flood gate to europe for muslims and jihadis,even previous conquerors of islamic empires could not do that.
“Every action has a equal and opposite reaction” . What you did not realize is, this is a chain recursive process.
Statement : “40% Christians are atheist in western and UK because they came to know the truth of their religion. You can google and find more answer.”
umm,i guess senor Krish here is having another nationalist fever.
–> Firstly, actually europe has biggest atheist base.But amazingly 70% of them still associates with some form of Christianity.
–> Secondly, Even if you count out the europe america,almost half of christians lives in africa. In china, Christianity is having a party time. Which nullify net impact. I believe senor Krish here messed up the difference between Atheist and non-practicing.
Statement : “30% western are now following Hinduism because thuth is truth and sooner or later Hinduism will be main religion in the world.”
Ow dear, here is senor Krish leaving reality of earth and reaching three headed hydra made utopia.Actually overwhelming number(almost 95%) of dharmics(except buddhism) disassociate themselves from any ritual or practice that is of dharmic religion. Not only religion,what is more concerning is that, they also dis-associate from any kind of desi culture and very fast( little bit too fast) to give into western culture. Except Buddhism other dharmic religions have close to zero impact,and whatever the other impact is,that is also mere ceremonial.
Another fact is, If you are trying to give me the numbers of how many people do yoga and meditation in western countries. Then hold your breath.
1. Meditation is not yoga, yoga has 2 particular form and has some specific techniques,meditation is fairly different from what you are preaching here. 😀
You really need to stop fooling yourself.
2. Yoga was not developed by hindus, it was from jainism basically. Now you can say jain are actually hindu. Religion wise jain will beg to differ(In fact according to jains,hinduism is a copy paste of jainism.Jainism was the religion of indus civilization and oldest religion). Why do not you ask them? 😀
3. An overwhelming majority of whom practices dharmic rituals, associate them with buddhism. Buddhism has kind of impact on new generation. Now tell me ,Buddhism is part of hinduism. Buddhists beg to differ 😀
Dilip amin sir, i asked you some questions regarding hinduism in my first post. I can not find the link. Can you please give it here so i can know what is his opinion regarding my queries.
It is extremely laughable a religion trying to dis-credit another religion in kind of d-k measuring contest .
Almost like two dumb fighting each other over who is more intelligent when the fight should has been over who is actually more dumb.
By the way, Dilip sir, this also reveals another insecure mindset of dharmics(specially hindus) i want to ask you about.
–> First, he said “30% of westerners follow hinduism” . Here he is setting example of westerners who has no previous culture(specially america which is barely 200 years old). Are you really saying the “truthfulness” of hinduism is determined by the westerners?
–> Secondly, I mentioned it before, normally human behavior pattern is that he is oppose to what is truth and that is not truth always attracts him.It is in his DNA.
If that is true, then if people start to follow hinduism, then do not you agree that,hindusim is actually giving in to populism? In other words, hindusm is simply another marketing stunt whose profit depends on how many customer it can attracts rather than truth itself? Well,in that case, you have to worry big.
Last but not least,in one of my previous post i have stated, hinduism will not survive if it ever tries to transform from “culture based” into “religious base”. It does not have that base to withstand critical inquiries. The very reason hinduism is still surviving is on 2 theory.
1. Hinduism is not religion,it is way of life.
2. Hinduism incorporates all other faith becasue it does not have particular fundamental base.
Which is direct contradiction to Krish’s statement here “Hinduism will be main religion in the world.”
How come a “religion” that is not religion becomes main religion of the world?
Another fun fact is, Hinduism escapes critical criticism based on the theory you do not need specific book or believe to be hindu. But senor krish here is doing exactly opposite to what we have been told by “godman”s of hinduism. Are you sure hindus themselves are in line what they are trying to say?
An overwhelmingly overwhelming majority of hindus( that includes politically right wing hindus) never read their own holy book before making comments and they pretend to be expert on other religion’s book which is a very worrying and disturbing trend to say least.Hindu people normally say hinduism has survived thousand of years so it must be good. A total garbage statement. Taking all of the invasions in account, no invasion was ever actually pin pointed to destroy hinduism,becuase i do not think they ever took a interest into it.
If hinduism was targeted deliberately like christianity was targeted in europe during revolution or islam was targeted aftermath of 9/11(specially 2000-2015),hinduism would have cease to exist within the first strike. Destroying libraries and prayer house was more of a “cultural invasion” rather than an attempt to destroy religion.
As alexandar did when he burned libraries in iraq and other places he conquered.
Hindus really need to come out of their bubble mind of hindu rashtra and face the reality.I would say hinduism is standing on a very thin ice. The real “Reality”.
(All numbers i have associated here is from university research papers,independent research facilities. All the necessary documents have been attached to previous post. I beg pardon could not do it because of lack of time. I am requesting Dilip sir to help me out here and give the link of my post he famously declared as “thesis” 😀 )
Ruchika,
Here is your thesis… https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=13656&cpage=1#comment-418560
forget property is getting divorce and having multiple wives justice? look around how many educated muslim women are there ? and no they are not dumb they are strong women but confined as baby producing machines.
Does Haryana represent all Hindus?
That measn all terrorists represent Islam, trple talq represents all muslims?
Please dont misguide.
I m in luv wid a Muslim guy his family used to talk wid me very nicely but I m in confusion so wat to do now …??
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Suchi, is his family conservative? Will they accept you as a Hindu or would you have to convert to Islam?
I am a Muslim myself and my observation is that Indian Muslims tend to be quite religious and conservative (most of them). Love is great but dont let your love And feelings for this boy blind you.
I wan to b Hindu after marrige as well he is also agree to do so but he was saying that his family is not going to accept me as a Hindu after marrige n he was saying that I have to accept Islam after marrige I m very confused what to do now after all this thing will going to effect my future
This is just a trick, “he is also agree to do so but he was saying that his family is not going to accept,” every one uses this trick (it’s not me but because of XYZ). How many more things he is going to ask from you for his family?
There is no way you can remain Hindu in Muslim home. Even Rabia also converted her husband, even there was no pressure from others. This is Islam, know it well.
Suchi, Admin is right. If you do not believe in Islam wholeheartedly, you should not convert. And being a Hindu in a Muslim home will only work if your inlaws are open minded and liberal people. It’s best to leave this boy before more problems come in the future.
Please dont. He will convert you eventually and above all your kids will be muslims. Why are you risking your everything for just a man that too a man who even before marriage is so in control of his family? Please dont make your beautiful life hell. Hugs sister.
Sister,
Dont marry to muslim. You know how muslims are doing in India. if they crossed population, then they will try to kill and impose sharia law. Marriage is a temporary and you should live with freedom if and only if you DONOT marry a muslim
They might ask you to convert after marriage or might not, but be prepared. Do you work at Deloitte Hyderabad??
Try to leave him as much as possible dear its not like we don’t want u together ,,,,but kissing someone who just eat some domestic but guiltless animal ,,,,touching to that who used to touch his/her sis with same feelings is quite awkward try to stay away from him u will definitely gonna get an better option ,,,,all u need to do is wait
Hey I’m maharashtrian girl…I love a Muslim guy very much…I can’t leave him…and he loves me too…But the main problem is…My family naver accepted to other religions…Kuch time phle Meri life m ESI situation aagyi thi…Jisse mne Meri family ko bhut hurt kia h…But now the condition me family n mere pyar ko bhi khona nhi chahti.. What can I do…
Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=12493
if a hindu girl intends to marry a kashmiri muslim boy , can they solemnize their marriage through the special marriage act
Yes, why not (we are not legal expert but correct us if we are wrong)?
Seema, the main question is–after marriage, how will you (a Hindu) will manage your life in Kashmir with all Muslims surrounding you? Have you visited his home in Kashmir and met his parents? What will you teach your Hindu-Muslim children about God? Lets talk more, get back to us.
but they say special marriage act is not applicable in the state of jammu and kashmir so is it applicable to the muslim boy belonging to kashmir?
being a kashmiri muslim if the marriage is solemnised in another state in india, let us say in the hometown of the girl under the special marriage act, is the marriage valid.
Seema,
As we said we are no a legal entity and not from India. We assume it should be applicable as far one is not planning to settle in Kashmir; however do consult to a legal expert (sorry we do not know one).
More important question is: Are you planning to ever go and live in Kashmir? Will his parents/society accept a “Hindu” in their family as a daughter-in-law? What you have decided to raise children as (as much as you don’t care about this now, it is very critical to discuss now).
The reality is that after marriage a girl has to adjust with the guys family, her in laws. He might be very modern but are you? I know many Hindu guys who date many white girls here but when it comes to marriage are totally mama’s boys. Above all for them you are someone who loved a man more than her upbringing. You will notice how blatantly they will tell that had their been a girl like you in their community she would be an outcast or they wish she would have died? Are you ready for this and above all your kids will be muslims.
I am a nepali Hindu girl but I love a Muslim guy very much…I can’t leave him n he loves me too but the main prblm is dat our families are not accepting our relationship due to our different religion…but I am ready to change my religion for him …what should I do plzzz hlp me out…??I am very confused …
I love him a lot n can’t leave him n he loves me too a lot….. what should we do???plzzz help us by suggesting me something
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hi i love a muslim bot he is too good person with loving heart. he come with me and my family to temples our pujas. he wants to marry me anxiously.. we both are from middle class family. i dont want to convert. and he said me that dont convert. i want you as ur. but his parentswants me to convert. he consisting me to say his parents lie that i changed as islamic. but we both only are life partners. i suport you. just for his parents happiness u say them lie. is it right?. i am confused. please help me.
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Look maya islam is clear so compulsion in religion if u would like to know about islam first recite and understand then obey r not ur wish
You r right zameer I’m a Hindu kerela girl and I’m loving a Muslim boy I love his character and his attitude I want to be his life partner but my parents are not willing to what is the solution I luv him very much I will change my religion for him I believe that Muslim pure than hindu
Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=12409
I feel bad for you already. This is how we raise our girls. i want to ask you how can anyone trust you when you cant trust your own faith and parents. A girl who leaves what she was born with never gets respect anywhere. God bless you. Even if he harasses you in anyway after marriage you are a Hindu and we Hindus will welcome you will all our hearts and all the freedom that you ever had.
what does it mean by pure? do u know muslims marry cousins? it has abnormalities how come they are puer than us? we dont even marry in same gotra? he also loves you so why doesnt he cpmvert to hinduism? love is both ways right?
I’m in a relationship with a Muslim guy. We were like best friends for years, and recently he had proposed me. I had feelings for him before too,but the inter-religion thing pushed me from having such thoughts.But he was my best friend,I loved him—and it was like the best thing to know that he loves me too.So I accepted his proposal and we’re together for about 3 months.But even my friends say that u guys know each othr so much,doesnt seem its only few months long relationship.We are greatly compatible with each other,and I want to spend my entire life with him.He is the only one I trust so much.And he also said me,he wants to stay with me–and he is also ready for court marriage for future( I don’t need to convert). So,is it okay to be with him? Cause I really love him. Our mother tongue is also same, family backgrounds,food habits are quite similar and we both are academically good.
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Tum apni dharm ki value giraogi bolo apni maa father sbka value khud ka value gira kr jo Hmari gau mata ko mar kr khate hi uske saath relation bnaogi kitna giri hui ho gyi ho shame to say ur pure Hindu just shame yrr
these are new brand of feminist..they got this much freedom only due to hindus,have they ever seen so much freedom among muslim girls & women in india for that matter any muslim girl being allowed to go out with Hindus..let them do what ever they like, b***s will come crying when s**t hits the fan.we should never accept these pea nut size brain back into our religion.
Idk what to do. My bf is muslim I’m hindu. We plan to get married but my parents are not very easy with it.my relatives say that after marriage he’ll grow to a devil. Plz somebody say what to do. He told me that marriage will be on basis of special marriage act nd I don’t need to convert. But yet I don’t understand what I should do. Please help.
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can someone explain what is wrong in getting married to muslim guy being hindu like is there even a problem ? if yes what is it ?
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you will be converted as his family would want a daughter in law who is like them. Its a pressure and always a girl has to succumb. and it gets stricter day by day as he would want you o be a perfect muslimah so please save yourself before it gets too late. Incase ur marriage fails as most celeb inter faith marriages also broke so be financially secure IT MATTERS A LOT.
I have a muslim botfrnd i will love him a lot bt i m a hindu i wnt to marry him in public we r facing lot of problem do u help me any body plzzzzzzz i want like to be muslim
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Hay jst move out of this fke wrld fool
Hindu aur maa se bda koi nhi apni dharm ki value Mt girao pls pls pls ek hmari gau mata ko mar kar khane wake se sadi krogi kitna girogi chhi chhi shame on you yrr apne cast me ldke dekho and bhul jao wo galti tha tumhara bss
Brother ……you and your unique thought both are unworthy
Firstly u increase your knowledge regarding Islam
If u ARE HINDU GO & read your Vedas
If u r Christian go & search that point which says in Bible LOUDLY
ISLAM IS THE BEST
Islam is that religion which provides lots of Respect to females. Islam May not be wrong but its some believers r wrong
You are saying about America & other countries
In America about 70-80 % parents are treated as bad asses and females are treated as use and throw (( do u know worthless))
U prove me which religion is better than Islam ?
Hi Chand,
We like simplicity and many good messages in Islam, however we don’t like glorifying Muhammad too much. Can we follow Allah and ignore Muhammad?
Admin, there is a growing number of Muslims who are questioning the knowledge which is known as “Sunnah” a the teachings and sayings of Muhammad as passed down from people around him. Even though most Sunni muslims do believe that Quran and Sunnah are to be followed together if you are to be a true Muslim, Shias, for example, have their own narrations and do not accept the sunnah that Sunnis do.
The reason I am saying this is because even though both sects follow Muhammad, and consider him their prophet, Islam and belief in God is the central and focal point of the Islamic belief. When Muhammad had just died, his best friend and the first caliph after him – Abu Bakr – came out of Muhammad’s house and told his followers:
“Whoever believed in Muhammad, know that he is dead. Whoever believes in God almighty, know that He is Ever Lasting.”
You can double check this if you don’t believe me, the information is out there.
Muhammad’s teachings are supposed to guide Muslims but it’s wrong to idolize any human being.
Two questions:
1) Are you Shia or Sunni? Don’t evert this question by saying I am Muslim!!
2) We wish to be a Muslim today. We will follow allah 100% as per Koran. We will perform namaz five times a day in the direction of Saudi Arabia. Only our small wish is–we will never utter “Muhammad” word. Tell us how to proceed being a Muslim. Thanks.
1) why do you have a problem with the answer “I am Muslim” instead of forcing someone to classify themselves as Sunni or Shia? What if they are neither?
What if they truly don’t believe in any distinction, are not sectarian in any way? I simply follow what my heart tells me is right.
If you really want to get into facts, my family comes from a Shia background (they didn’t know any specifics of this as religion was suppressed and not allowed while they were growing up, I never ever heard my grandparents or parents say “we are Shia and we believe in this…) Like I said, I don’t even think they knew what the difference was as they weren’t informed about religion at all. I was only taught that there is a power out there called God and I should pray to him in bed every night so that he makes my wishes come true.
I was raised in a Sunni country so my upbringing and knowledge of Islam came from Sunni sources. It makes more
Sense to me but that doesn’t mean I think the Shia/Ismailis are doing it wrong or going to hell
(Many sunnis will tell you that they believe the Shia are very sinful – I don’t believe this as I think only God can judge us)
2) By praying 5 times namaz, you would already be following Muhammad 🙂 namaz as Muslims do it today is a sunnah (practice of Muhammad): in the Quran it only mentions 3 specific times in a day when a Muslim should pray. Muhammad was the one who showed people how and how many times to do it, how to wash up before a prayer etc.
The short answer is no, you cannot not be a Muslim without accepting Muhammad as the shahada (declaration of faith) includes accepting him as you ever messenger.
BUT you can still be a Muslim and question nonsensical things that entered the religion and are now attributed to Muhammad years after his death by people claiming he said or did them… See my answer at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=11940#comment-405193
Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10981&cpage=1#comment-405221
Admin..
See below response..
1) Are you Shia or Sunni? Don’t evert this question by saying I am Muslim!! Does not make any difference if you are a Sunni or a Shia both are Muslims..
2) We wish to be a Muslim today. We will follow allah 100% as per Koran. We will perform namaz five times a day in the direction of Saudi Arabia. Only our small wish is–we will never utter “Muhammad” word. Tell us how to proceed being a Muslim. Thanks. — You cannot be a Muslim with uttering our beloved Prophet’s name Muhammed (PBUH), forget it!!
On “Sunni or a Shia both are Muslims”, then why Middle East is burning? Then why there are bombing in Mosque in Pakistan by other Muslims?
On “You cannot be a Muslim with uttering our beloved Prophet’s name Muhammed (PBUH), forget it!!” why idolizing a human being when one is ready to accept Allah? Accepting Allah is important or accepting Muhammad?
Bro recite about prophet Mohammed pbuh then comment
Thanks Chand for saying this. This is the problem with Islam. ISLAM IS THE BEST. Hinduism is the oldest yet we will never say this.
hello chand alam,I know who you are very well. your Allah is perfect demigod.there is parellel to your Allah and demigod allah can be surpassed by some one else.
Allah himself telling he is not supreme.
your Allah is god for male muslims.
Allah is unfit to be THE UNIVERSAL LORD.
Hai buddy this is my question for you.
If your Allah is more powerful than Iblis then why could he could not able to control him?
If creator of a saitan not able to control his creation then how can I believe him as almighty?
Neither I am nor this universe was created by your Allah .
This universe is truly created by THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE UNIVERSAL LORD CALLED VISHNU.
no other lord is created this universe except vishnu.
you go and read rig veda.
Incase of your Allah created this universe ,give me the refernces from quran. As how does it work?
i have a boyfriend par wo muslim but i really love her plzz can uu help meri story bhot alag hai
Hi Anu,
We have deleted your last name. Do not disclose names and city where you live on any public forum. We care for your security and privacy.
Apparently you are a Brahmin girl. Read these and tell us how your story is different? Explain us “meri story bhot alag hai.”
Hi anu,
You love him that’s great, ask him to marry you without nikah, if you both live separately from your parents than its fine, otherwise believe me your family will face million problems, trust me its a personal experience
Hi Gujju,
Can you tell us what happened in your case? Why?
A young Pakistani Mother of two, Arifa Bibi was sentenced to death by a Tribal Court in Pakistan for simply owning a cell-phone.
She was waist-deep buried, for a slow painful death, her uncles, cousins, other family members and top villagers stood around, and pelted stones at her until she died, only because she possessed a mobile phone.
This is the nature of islam.
Girls dont marry muslims.islam beleives in inhumanity.They have no mercy they will do what they want to do.They brain washed ZOMBIES.
Shutup
why? you cant handle the truth? Malala was shot for just going to school. Ask the guy one question: can he convert to hinduism for you? If he loves you so much then why not?
This is the true face of religion of peace-
Parliamentarians in Iran have passed a bill to protect the rights of children which includes a clause that allows a man to marry his adopted daughter and while she is as young as 13 years.
Activists have expressed alarm that the bill, approved by parliament on Sunday, opens the door for the caretaker of a family to marry his or her adopted child if a court rules it is in the interests of the individual child.
Iran’s Guardian Council, a body of clerics and jurists which vets all parliamentary bills before the constitution and the Islamic law, has yet to issue its verdict on the controversial legislation.
To the dismay of rights campaigners, girls in the Islamic republic can marry as young as 13 provided they have the permission of their father. Boys can marry after the age of 15.
In Iran, a girl under the age of 13 can still marry, but needs the permission of a judge. At present, however, marrying stepchildren is forbidden under any circumstances.
As many as 42,000 children aged between 10 and 14 were married in 2010, according to the Iranian news website Tabnak. At least 75 children under the age of 10 were wed in Tehran alone.
Shadi Sadr, a human rights lawyer with the London-based group Justice for Iran, told the Guardian she feared the council would feel safe to put its stamp of approval on the bill while Iran’s moderate president, Hassan Rouhani, draws the attention of the press during his UN visit to New York.
“This bill is legalising paedophilia,” she warned. “It’s not part of the Iranian culture to marry your adopted child. Obviously incest exists in Iran more or less as it happens in other countries across the world, but this bill is legalising paedophilia and is endangering our children and normalising this crime in our culture.”
She added: “You should not be able to marry your adopted children, full stop. If a father marries his adopted daughter who is a minor and has sex, that’s rape.”
According to Sadr, officials in Iran have tried to play down the sexual part of such marriages, saying it is in the bill to solve the issue of hijab [head scarf] complications when a child is adopted.
An adopted daughter is expected to wear the hijab in front of her father, and a mother should wear it in front of her adopted son if he is old enough, Sadr said.
“With this bill, you can be a paedophile and get your bait in the pretext of adopting children,” Sadr said. Some experts believe the new bill is contradictory to Islamic beliefs and would not pass the Guardian Council.
An initial draft of the bill, which had completely banned marriage with adopted children, was not approved by the council and it is feared that MPs introduced the condition for marriage to satisfy the jurists and clergymen. This is why Sadr fears it can pass the council this time.
The bill has prompted backlash in Iran with the reformist newspaper, Shargh, publishing an article warning about its consequences. “How can someone be looking after you and at the same time be your husband?” the article asked.
Shiva Dolatabadi, head of Iran’s society for protecting children’s rights, has also warned that the bill implies that the parliament is legalising incest. “You cannot open a way in which the role of a father or a mother can be mixed with that of an spouse,” she said, according to Shargh. “Children can’t be safe in such a family.”
Execution of juvenile offenders in Iran has also been in spotlight in recent years amid confusion between the age of majority – when minors cease to be legally considered children – and the minimum age of criminal responsibility, which is 15 for boys and nine for girls under Iranian law.
PlZ hindu girls dont marry muslims better you marry from a christian a sikh a hindu or any religion.islam is the only barbarian religion left in the world.I think some countris are thinking to ban muslim from entering their country.some country have already done like african nation angola and japan.myamar doesnt give citizenship to it’s muslim.our problem is we live in secular democratic country which is creating more priblem to us.they are destroying our culture.and we cant do anything to save.slowly this world is becoming a muslim world.If the govt dont think about muslim they will turn our democratic secular country to a barabarian islamic country.
Dear pratiba, dont say islam is inhumanity. In u dont know anything about Allah and islam. U r not the judger. Muslims may misbehave. For them hell may b waiting. Respect islam. Follow ur religion, but never tell wrong about islam. May Allah guide u to the right path. Peace be upon u.
When any muslim starts comment, then start with peace upon you.. But which religion is breaking peace in the world
A muslim can live peacefully in Hindu dominated area but a Hindu can’t live peacefully in muslim domintaed area. Example is WB, Kerala, J&K, some parts in UP and Hyderabad etc..
So islam is not a religion of peace. (fully-stop)
YOU CANNOT GO BY PEOPLE WHO ARE ABUSING RELIGION TO ACHIEVE WHAT THAY WAN’T. THAT IS NOT THE TRUE RELIGION. USE YOUR GREY MATTER AND GET
SOME KNOWLEDGE BEFORE YOU TALK ABOUT ANY RELIGION.
hey,hindu girls plz don’t marry muslims.here some muslims say about love. But what about the muslim girls who fall love with a non muslim.Absolutly no muslim will agry with her ma4raige. Even they can kill that girl in the name of religion.they will marry non muslim girls in the name of love but wont go their girl with a non muslim guy.the muslims hates non muslims.they call them kafirs.their koran is full of hatred towards non muslims .If he loves u before marraige as a hindu then he can love u same after marraige.But
Simply this doesn’t happen.Muslim are there where they have been 1000 year before.With conservative short mentality.they have a strict sharia law by which tjey can throw out any woman from their life in hell.they will force u to wear burka and read koran 5 times a day.
The main reason why you should not marry a muslim is it is not a religion it is a culture Arabian culture. It’s not an indian culture.they want to islamaize our country.After your marraige you have to keep an ARABIAN NAME ,wear arabian dress style and many more which makes u an arabian culture not indian culture.after marraige u will be a muslim the family will force you to live like a muslim.they will give no mercy to you unlike hindu family which can accept a girl which is a muslim.If muslims are so liberal to another faith why they dont let their girls to marry in another faith.I am seeing a large no of muslim boys with non muslim girls but why cant be vice versa.If those muslim doesn’t respect another religion why they are marrying non muslims girls.plz girls I have read many hindu girl’s story marrised to a muslim in quora that how muslim turtures girl after marraige.It makes me very sad.if u dont believe me read quora.there life becomes horrible.I pity those girls who married to muslims and suffered a bad life.The muslim targets hindu girl to marry.plz dont fall in their love.it will make u tealize after marraige how a big mistake you have done.Simply a hindu girl cannot be comfortable in a muslim family.
Their way of life is has large differences from us.after being muslim you can not convert to hinduism .if u do so u may be killed by muslims.they can do anything in the name of religion.
Pirya sun tere ko kay lagra tu jo bolri vo sahi hai bilkul bhi nhi ye sab galat hai mai bhi musalman hu
Name : sohail urf fakt Tipu
7378415884 ye mera no. Hai
Mai bhi 1 Hindu se pyar karta hu or vo bhi mujhse pyar karti hai or vo meri jaan Islam kabul karne wali hai kay or meri jaan ko kuch nhi chahiye srif mai or mera islam chahiye kay samjhi kay.
Aare musalman vo jo apne islam ke or Hindustan ke vaste jaan bhi de sakta hai
Jese Islam ka kaam karte karte hamare nabi Mohammad S.A.W.S. chale gaye
Or dusre hamare Hindustan ki shaan H.Z. Tipu Sultan R.A.
Hi,
I am in love with a muslim boy…and I believe that I can’t live without him. His parents are very nice even I know all the family members. At present he is my only friend, he forces me to go mandir and celebrate all the festivals in return he just wants me to not hate muslims, he always justifies the fact islam is peacefull religion. Till now he is the only person to whom I can trust. My family is scritly against this inter religion marriage…what should I do…
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Hello Shruti please I beg u please please leave that Muslim guy as much as possible if you want to have a very good life partner then love and marry a well Hindu boy u will be safe and very Happy but if you marry a Muslim u will have to face many problems one day after marriage he will surely force u to convert into Islam and sacrifice our hinduism and after that the new born baby will also be given a Islamic name and thus the chain continues so I request u to please once think on this serious issue of LOVE JIHAD and please think of ur future I hope u do so thank u
dear.
cant we live peacefully,,I hv a muslim bf but he never forced me to convert ,our parents were strictly against us nd we are still fighting for our love,stop criticising each other religion..GOD is one so why to fight
Bonita,
Assuming both parents agree, how are you going to get married? Hindu wedding, Islamic Nikaah or Civil wedding?
Hi everyone,
I am in love with a muslim guy from 5 years,initially he is very good and now also he is good only,but day by day slowly he is trying to show my love towards muslim side.starting itself we discussed that caste or religion should never come between us and in love.He is very much love pet to his mom.I already told to my parents about our love ,as usual they rejected..me and my lover are in fight now he said he will change and as per my wish,but i am fearing to take risk.my problem is that if i go with him for sure i have to leave my family which will kill my parents accordingly.DO i need to risk my parents life by going with a risky guy?he is not at all getting convinced to what I say.I gave many chances to him again and again whenever we get fight he abuse me and family lot.I dont know what step i have to take.He never feel my problem.for him always his family only importance.I do accept for it but there is a limit for all right?please suggest me wat step do i need to take now
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Marriages between two individuals is due to attraction of the bodies which is mistaken for love. Love can be only between souls but in material world nobody is bothered to discover soul. Infact , Very few know its meaning. Attachment to bodies is temporary when attraction fades the so called love fades and gradually becomes zero or converts to kindness compassion respect duty etc in best case scenerio. If a person can marry 4 bodies his attachement is expected to fade faster and vice-versa. So marry to produce only god conscious children and not because of so called love which is a illusion in this dream world.
I think you should not getting married unless he is willing to convert into your religious coz muslim can never be trusted I also suffered from this problem alot n trust me 99% of them are jerks after marriage
Can you give us more details. What was his problem? Did he ask you to convert? Was religion any issue in your relationship?
NO and never. Muslims aim at converting Hindu girls to Islam as apart of love jihad. Islam a Violent religion. See the Past history Muslims and stolen, forced Hindu girls/birds of Pakistan.
Hi ..please don’t marry this guy…marriage is for lifetime ..initially his family may like but it will be very difficult for you to forget ur entire identity just because of a guy..and we won’t be ever able to give Islamic values nor Hindu values to ur children. Not only u will be suffering but also ur children and ur old parents.
I am a Indian muslim guy. according to my point of view, Islam don’t allow to marry with a non-muslim.you should not fall in love with muslim guy, if you fell in love, just give up your relationship. Because, islam is a monothiestic religion, it prohitbits idol worship etc.So, Most of the muslim family will not accept you.If you can’t give up him and the last option is to conversion.
we agree that islam doesnt allow to marry with non muslim but what u said is wrong. . how a non muslim would know that islam prohibit on interfaith. .
Muslim brother want to think before getting into love.. If he has low faith in islam then what is the fault of this sister
Totally agree with you sir but some i had an bf who was muslim and he never treated me properly why to blame islam for everything
its not about hindu and muslim its just about faith and love if you do not have faith in Allah please do not revert
no one can force you to believe in Allah if you do not have ..it is entirely wrong .
if you have faith then Allah will always protect you.. and well again it is not about hindu and muslim
first try to be a good person then speak about any religion
Zoya ji… Apne shaadi se pehle kya uss insaan ko Jana nhi tha… Shaadi jld baji m.ki thi kya apne….. Ye apke sath hua kyuki aap inn sab btaaon ko chor kr age badhi… Agar soch smjhkr chlti toh shyd aap aaj apne partner ke sath bhuut khush rhti kyuki..
Dear Hindu Brothers and Sisters,
If love is everything, then why are Hindu Girls expected and forced to convert to Islam if they marry a Muslim Guy ?
Why is it always expected from a Hindu Guy to convert to Islam, if he wants to marry a Muslim Girl just because he has fallen in love with her ?
If you say that Love is Love, then why are the above things happening only to Hindu Girls and Hindu Boys ?
Why are only Hindu Boys and Girls forced to convert to Islam ?
Have you come across any example when a Muslim Boy or a Muslim Girl have fought with their family and relatives for converting into Hinduism after marriage ?
Have you ever come across any Muslim Boy or Muslim Girl who would oppose their family and relatives and fight with them if required to save their spouse from getting tortured or harrassed in order to prevent them from getting forcefully converted into Islam ?
Talking about tolerance, selflessness, love and peace to Hindus is so very much easy. Can you teach those Muslims these lesons of love and peace to those Muslims who just target Hindu boys and girls to ultimately get them forcefully converted to Islam ?
Love, Friendship, Tolerance and Peace can never be one-sided.
Dearie , you cannot convert into a Hindu. In Hindu religion , there cannot be conversion. If you aren’t a Hindu then you aren’t.
Islam allows conversion , thus , every time the boy or girl has to convert.
But I agree that if love is everything then one can stick to one’s religion and also ,at the same time ,be with a person of a different religion
Aishika,
This is myth that one cannot convert to Hinduism. Actress Julia Robert converted to Hinduism. There are many White Hare Krishna devotees convert. There is no law that will prevent one from converting to HInduism.
Dear Hindu Sisters and Brothers,
Please think.
Hindu Girls should never fall in for a Muslim boy. They are hated and tortured in the family if they continue to follow Hinduism and do pooja and traditional Hindu rituals. Such things will never be tolerated in a Muslim family.
Muslim family into which a Hindu girl will marry and go, will only be good to them if they convert to Islam, which ultimately is their goal. (To get as many Hindu girls married and converted and produce as many children from them as much possible, which will eventually lead to increase the numbers of Muslims in this society – As much more as possible) – HINDU GIRLS SHOULD TRY TO REALISE THE ABOVE FACTS AND THEN ‘THINK’ AND DECIDE UPON THIS
And what’s more, even if a Hindu Boy marries a Muslim girl, it is allowed only on one and only one condition – HE SHOULD CONVERT TO ISLAM
Muslim families are much more conservative than Hindu families. Hinduism is much more liberal than Islam.
THEREFORE MY DEAR HINDU FRIENDS, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE THINK BEFORE TAKING SUCH DISASTROUS DECISIONS IN LIFE, LIKE MARRYING A MUSLIM JUST BECAUSE YOU ‘THINK’ YOU ARE IN LOVE.
Dear Vatsala Tamhane
To get answer to your query, you have to study the theology of Islam and Hinduism deeply. You have to first know what Quran and Vedas says about God.
Then you have to study what Muslims do and don`t do and what Hindus do and don`t do.
You said Hinduism is far more liberal than Islam. I don`t know whether you are confusing Hindu as people with the religion Hinduism. Yes a person Hindu might be far liberal than a practicing Muslim and the opposite is also possible i.e. a Muslim can be far liberal than a practicing Hindu.
If you say Hinduism is liberal than Islam, then you have to produce your proof, you have to provide reasons, you just cannot say hindusim is liberal than islam.
In Islam every one is equal, while hindusim has caste system, is caste system a liberal practice? Probably not, is equality a liberal practice, yes it is, then how come you say Hinduism is liberal than Islam when we all know Islam promotes equality.
Hinduism even doesn`t allow marriage of Brahmins with Dalits, though both dalit and Brahmins are considered as Hindus.
Does Hinduism has any punishment for rapist?
Islam has.
Does Hinduism gives right to inheritance for women?
Islam gives.
Does Hinduism gives right to women to divorce their husband?
Islam gives.
Does Hinduism discourages female feticide?
Islam does.
Still Islam is less liberal then Hinduism just because you don`t like it, right?
ISLAM also has Shia and suuny difference and it never give justice to women because Muslim can marry four wives while Hinduism just give one single permission think before u speak
Srinivas And Shyam… U both rock in the debate!
My sincere suggestion to all Hindu girls, please do not fall for muslim boys, they will eventually make you convert to islam. If you are not allowed to continue practicing your own religion, then it is not true Love. True love means “sacrifice” which they will never make, and you will have to make(convert). There are many suitable Hindu boys around, go ahead and choose one of them for your life partner.
Dito for Hindu boys, Hindu girls are the most beautiful girls on earth, they are capable of great sacrifice (true love). Choose them ASAP and be happy for the rest of your life. Peace!
Is this why one of my best friends wants to marry a Muslim girl? Because he always tells me that he thinks Muslim girls are the prettiest? If you ask me, Sikh girls are the prettiest – lol!
ALL women who love their men are ready for sacrifice, it’s just that us Muslim girls will not become slaves after marriage (even though sadly many of us do, because that’s what is expected from us culturally) because Prophet Muhammad warned us in a hadith that “Marriage is equivalent to slavery, so be careful who you give your daughters in marriage to.”
Dear I really want to know which hadith ur talking about or u made it yourself.
The Original hadith is
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 628
The Prophet (saws) said: Among the Muslims the most perfect, as regards his faith, is the one whose character is excellent, and the best among you are those who treat their wives best.
Just show some guts and use ur real Id…
Rafat, I read this hadith online on an Islamic website. Maybe it is a wrong hadith, maybe it is a weak hadith. What about it has offended you? As for guts, I wouldn’t dare show guts because you sound like a scary man. Why the confrontation & the inquisitiveness? If you disagree, simply say you disagree, and quote your scholars. And I will realise my mistake and apologise – simple!
PS: I also know the beautiful hadith that you just quoted. May all Muslim men read it & apply it in their lives, inshAllah!
Hi everyone aap Sab apni jgah pay shi ho lekin may nhi manti ki muslim boys asa hota he mere bhi ek frend he wo asa nhi he or ye hindu muslim kuch nhi hota agar pyar kiya he to himat kro or age aavo warna wo pyar pyar nhi muslim hindu kuch nhi hota wo sab ek galt bat he…
Madhuri,
If you are in love with a Muslim, how will you marry> By Hindu vivaha or Islamic Nikaah? The Nikaah requires your conversion to Islam and expects you to be 100% Muslim and 0% Hindu, are you ready?
Dear admin,
There is a legal special marriage act. Any hindu or muslim girl or boy marry without changing a religion. And ur not a god..
Is this possible to get married with Muslim boy without changing religion…bcoz I love a boy how is Muslim. .. He is very NYC guy.. Plz help me out
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I am also a hindu grl..i lv a muslm boy fr 2 yrs…he is forcing me to convert into muslim.i hv insulted our god..out caste..so i hv rejected his love..bt now also i lv him..from my heart..muslm hv a goal.they want..hindu will convrt in to muslim
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Hi Monika,
Not sure how life would be without conversion, you will have many conflicts between both faiths, it will be difficult to raise your kids with confusion. I am a hindu by birth, happily married to a muslim. Got converted, got new name zara, my kid is named muslim name imaad. Both families are happy without confusion. I am happy because i beleive what my husband beleives in and his faith. If you dont convert you are inviting confusions and problems. If you are not willing to convert, it is better to break the relationship. Love relation is only between you both but marriage is differnt, its involves families.
Regards,
Zara
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U r right
I’m in love with a Muslim guy. we’re just 16 but we immensely love each other.
we’ve even planned of our future and every stuff.
be the guy be Muslim or of any other religion, love is necessarily to be present between them! 🙂 <3
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hehehe .. lolz its a dicussion , help Or Abusing to each others religion…
Its Feels good to You.. Guys .. I will Advice you.. Shaadi apne religion me he karo.. Aur agr Kisi se Pyar krte ho aur uske bina jia nhi ja rha.. to fir Usey completly accpt krlo.. chahey uske liye mazhab badlna pade..
Bcz…
to all muslim boyzz..
dekho yaaro tm haram kaam to kar he chuke ksi ladki k sath pyar mohabbat kr k.. to uske baad zyada deen daari na dikhaya karo..
you have to first control your nafs..
evey thing will b fine..
jazakallah khair.. 🙂
Abdur don’t justify ur muslim mindset, I know muslims inside out. you are the double faced morons who can’t be trusted wheather in friendship or relations. Thats why u people are thrown out of all the countries, be india, myanmar or EU.
marrying a non muslim girl is a propangada of love Jihad.
bhai teri id se hi saabit hota hai ki ter maanseekta rss vhp ki hai hindu larki kisi mushlim se pyar kare ye love jihad aur koi mushlim larki hindu larka ho to ghar waapsi double face tum tum jaise logo ka hota hai history dekh le paagal eik hindu larki ko mallika – e hindustaan mushlimo ne hi banaya thha akbar yaad aaya tujhe chal chhor aaj kisi bhi mushlim ko dekh (Bollywood) sabhi ke gharo me hindu wife hai kyaa woh log eik sukhi zeevan nahi gujaar rahe hai kyu nafrat ki roti jhooth ke chulhe per sek raha hai bhai koun hindu koun mushlim ye unka madla hai unki soch hai tu kyu paraye dukh dubla raha hai tu hindu hone per proud kare mushlim kre to katr panthi wah re dogle chehre ke bajrbattu plz nafrat mat faila jis din islam ke bare me jaanega to malum hoga ki mohabat shanti ka dusra naam islam hai woh baat alag hai ki rss vhp hindu sena shiv sena bajrang dal ki tarah islam ko banaam karne wale log bi hai jaise talibaan isis ye sab to har dharm mei haikyaa hindu rapist nahi murderer nahi aatnki nahi bhai kuchh logo ki vajay se pure samaaj ko mat jodo
Akbar Ki shadi jodha se nahi hui thi ek Muslim harkha khan se hui thi jodha koi Hindu nahi thi wo ek Persian muslim thi jise jodhpur ke raja ne adopt kiya tha aur Akbar Ki gaand nhi maharana pratap ne Mari thi????
salim khan bhai
you are saying the absolute truth
jisney bhi islam ko sahi dhang se jana hai,usey ye pata pad jayega k islam hum sabko aman or shanti me rehna sikhata hai,na ki nafrat karna.Agar kuch log galat raastein pe chal rahey hai toh iska matlab ye nahi k sab log galat hain.Galat insaan har religion ne milengey..fundamentalist policies se kisi ka koi bhala nahi hone wala.ye sab politics gimmicks hote hain..bechaire log ye samajh hi nahi paatey
kya koi aisey paanch bhi examples de sakta hai jahan pe fundamentalist leader marta hai,nahi,martey toh bechaire teens hai,jinko koi bhi easily manipulate kar leta hai..kyun fundamentalist leader aaram se har processions se bach nikalte hain,kyun har baar hum bechaire common man ki hi marney ki khabar padtey hain..please mere sabhi bhai or behno,aap yeh samjhein,koi bhi religion galat nahi hai,galat hai fundamentalist policies jo khud politicians apney faaidey k liye banate hai..
the coroupt politicians have made these policies for their own benefits..and the main sufferer is comman man’WE’
kush raho,aabad raho,hamesha khushiya failao,na ki nafrat..
One min dear,
As per I know ke in Muslim agar koe Hindu khudko Muslim he convert krta ya krte hi to use saway mana jata hi
Ye Muslims me hi le kha hi not in Hindu .
To convert krna is sawab and pyar krna hi haram???actiually m confused now…..fir may be app me jo le kha hi wo galat hi or ur right? Pls clear me once…..
An just want to share u ke mi bhe 6sal se affair me hu with Muslim guy…even m ready to marry with him an ready to convert my self too….bt it doesn’t mean that I didn’t respect to my religion bt I love a person who created by God or allah….than eny religion .
Hum log khudkohe Allaha ya Bhagwan samzne lage hi…..
see frends dnt fight as hindu nd muslim… kyuki isme kisiki galti nhi hai.. muslim following thr own ritual wid her wife or hindu wife bt grl shud thnk about thr culture before getting marry. mostly…..she would marry a muslim boy aftr married if she couldnt follow means she would blame d religious. nd if muslim boy/girl love/marry hindu girl/boy dan dey r both responsible for each othr y dey didnt dicusd before marry….or if dey supposed married nd fightng it means she/he responsible for her/his lyf bcz wo parents ki baat nhi mane..so y he/she blame religous for one person….so plz dnt blame any othr religious… bcz we all r also following our own religious.. bt god is not religious he is same for all…thnk as human being
Your right mahi.. bcz they want there happy and free life as they spent before marraige.. aur sahi k baad unko rules follw krne padte h bcz they r in family.. aur culture and values adopt nhi kr pate.. then they blame s each others family and each other relign..
Abdur…. Actually right… Yr shaadi krne se pehle partners me bich sab decided hota h ki kya krna h kya nhi… Agar aap itne mature nhi ho ki.aap ye accept kr sako ki apke liye kya sahi h kya nhi toh shaadi kr bare m sochna bachpana h… Kyuki humme bachpan se har religion me bare thoda bhuut toh pta Hi hota h…. Parents se frnds se teachers… Usme according hum apne partner se baat kr skte h… Jb shaadi krni h toh commit krne se pehle jaan lo ki wat is right aur wrong…. Dude … Shaadi bhuut bada decision hota h toh agar love marriege kro dusre religion m toh usse pehle jaan ko ki actul m h kya… Kyuki every religion have there own rules…. Yaha koi revange nhi h ki population badhne ke liye Muslim boy Hindu girl se shaadi krta h… Even aaj ki date h log quantity se Jada quality pe believe krte h… Bhuut Muslim families m 1 aur 2 bache hote h. . it doesn’t mean they want to make India an Islamic place…. Muslim families m baby drop krna allow nhi hota … Hindu family m allow h bs… Iss liye hindu family m kam baby hote h…. Guyz be mature yr…. I don’t think so ki suraj Muslim pe dhoop nhi deta Hindu pe deta h… Ya hawa sirf Hindu ko mehsus hoti h Muslims ko nhi… Yr sab god ek h … Bs insano ne isse ladai ki wajah bna rkhi h… Hum ishwar ke hath h… Har ungli barabar nhi hoti.. So believe in urself that’s it…. Believe in soul… U will diffinatly find god in ur soul… Be happy with whom u r… First price ur self .. What u r.. Den belaim others 🙂
Islam teaches violence, Jihad,ritual violence, killing and conversions of non Muslims. Please read the verses of Kuran and you will realize the fact. To be blind in love and and ignoring oldest and pure way of life, Sanatan Dharma will be your big mistake of life. No doubt universe is one, but it is teachings and ideology of violent and jihadic religion which makes man good or bad.
Mahi,
If that is so, then why are Hindu Girls expected and forced to convert to Islam if they marry a Muslim Guy ?
Why is it always expected from a Hindu Guy to convert to Islam, if he wants to marry a Muslim Girl just because he has fallen in love with her ?
If you say that Love is Love, then why are the above things happening only to Hindu Girls and Hindu Boys ?
Why are only Hindu Boys and Girls forced to convert to Islam ?
Have you come across any example when a Muslim Boy or a Muslim Girl have fought with their family and relatives for converting into Hinduism after marriage ?
Have you ever come across any Muslim Boy or Muslim Girl who would oppose their family and relatives and fight with them if required to save their spouse from getting tortured or harrassed in order to prevent them from getting forcefully converted into Islam ?
Talking about tolerance, selflessness, love and peace to Hindus is so very much easy. Can you teach those Muslims these lesons of love and peace to those Muslims who just target Hindu boys and girls to ultimately get them forcefully converted to Islam ?
Love, Friendship, Tolerance and Peace can never be one-sided.
Hi Friends…
After reading all the comments and posts i also like to share my experience I am 32 year old married to 37yr muslim guy, we got married two year back after a 13 years long relationship. Me and my husband were always had a very good and strong relations. Our marriage was done according to special marriage act and my hubby always said both of us will respect each other as we are no one is going to change for anyone. After marriage my family accepted our relation afterall they are girls parents they always have to do the sacrifices but my hubby family didnt accepted us.
After a long 2 years now my husband family are in picture they wanted us to be the part of their soceity and reveal our relationship in front of them. But How???????
Simply by converting me to muslim……..
I can say one thing very clearly whenever hindu girl gets married to muslim boy she is already half way to muslim community now its totally depends on girl how she take up and how her husband supporting her.
In my case I am totally confused as my husband is now completely under pressure of his Sister RANI… she is the one who always tried that we should seperate and go for divorce but when she understood since last two years there brother never turned up and continue his relation with me they played a new game CONVERSION…
My hubby also now in there pressure and he also wanted me to convert or go for seperation….
And I think every hindu person will agree in our religion or culture we wheather boy or girl always try to stay connected in the relationship not go for divorce till we reach at the worst condition.
So I also decided I will totally go with my hubby whatever he will say i will do. but he also have to respect my religon and my family and give respect to me first than his family and thats too i will gets signed in stamp paper by all the family members and stamped by there maulvi then i will say kabul for this nikah so that they will never be problem for me in future.
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Dear hindu girl, very sorry to know your situation, what your in laws are doing is wrong and if your husband is not supporting you, then he is also wrong, that is why islam says NO to such marriages, islam says NO not just for betterment of muslim, but for non-muslim also.
Also Islam doesn`t support force conversion.
Also as per Islam, your husband did wrong.
What I suggest is since your are already in this situation, so you try to learn what islam really is all about, if you like it, then you can accept it from free will and solve your problem easily.
Dear Hindu Girl,
Now you are stuck and thus you are being FORCED at gun point to “so you try to learn what islam really is all about, if you like it, then you can accept it”. This is a strategy to make India 100% Muslims, you are a victim.
Admin…. Apko lgta h Jo ladki shaadi ke liye haa kr skti h wo itni mature na ho ki wo sahi glt na smjh sake…. Agar hume koi darata h toh hume ye pta chl jata h ki wo person glt h… Kabhi kisi ko chup nhi rhna chahiye aise mamle m…. Aur ye sb nhi hota bhuut Hi km hota h jaha daraya jata h…..
Hi
I’m in love with a malayali muslim guy.
he all love me.
I have no such issues changing religion, because i belief that all god are one (HINDU-CHRISTIAN-MUSLIM).
Could you please suggest me books or sites to know full about Muslim religion.
dear achu sister, its very good that u want to marry a Muslim guy and u want to read about their religion. let me tell u something about that religion. First of all u shud go through the “jihad” word of quran. U can see the meaning of “jihad” in their quran and also u can find that meaning of jihad in Britannica encyclopedia one of the world’s most famous book. Go through this word jihad and then tell me how much do u like this Muslim religion. One more thing for u is dat u shud go on social sites like Facebook. Waha per tum jaisi ladkiyo ki jinko hum hindu log behan banate h waha pee yahi Muslim ladke tum jaisi ladki ko randi kahte h. Agar na yakin ho to apna Facebook account kholo aur uske search option me “Muslim lund ki diwani randiya” daalo aur dekho ki waha per tum jaisi ladkiyo ki Muslims ladke kitni izzat karte h. Meri ek Muslim gf thi bahut pyar karti thi mujhse usko uske bhaiyo aur uske father ne mar dala. Mujhe bhi marne ki koshish kiye me bach gaya. Ab tum khud decide kar lo ki behtar kya h. Baaki tumhari marzi. Jyada jankari k liye meri Facebook id at49686167@gmail.com per sampark karo
Dear Achu,
Please think.
Hindu Girls should never fall in for a Muslim boy. They are hated and tortured in the family if they continue to follow Hinduism and do pooja and traditional Hindu rituals. Such things will never be tolerated in a Muslim family.
Muslim family into which a Hindu girl will marry and go, will only be good to them if they convert to Islam, which ultimately is their goal. (To get as many Hindu girls married and converted and produce as many children from them as much possible, which will eventually lead to increase the numbers of Muslims in this society – As much more as possible) – HINDU GIRLS SHOULD TRY TO REALISE THE ABOVE FACTS AND THEN ‘THINK’ AND DECIDE UPON THIS
And what’s more, even if a Hindu Boy marries a Muslim girl, it is allowed only on one and only one condition – HE SHOULD CONVERT TO ISLAM
Muslim families are much more conservative than Hindu families. Hinduism is much more liberal than Islam.
THEREFORE MY DEAR HINDU FRIENDS, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE THINK BEFORE TAKING SUCH DISASTROUS DECISIONS IN LIFE, LIKE MARRYING A MUSLIM JUST BECAUSE YOU ‘THINK’ YOU ARE IN LOVE.
Dear Vatsala Tamhane
To get answer to your query, you have to study the theology of Islam and Hinduism deeply. You have to first know what Quran and Vedas says about God.
Then you have to study what Muslims do and don`t do and what Hindus do and don`t do.
You said Hinduism is far more liberal than Islam. I don`t know whether you are confusing Hindu as people with the religion Hinduism. Yes a person Hindu might be far liberal than a practicing Muslim and the opposite is also possible i.e. a Muslim can be far liberal than a practicing Hindu.
If you say Hinduism is liberal than Islam, then you have to produce your proof, you have to provide reasons, you just cannot say hindusim is liberal than islam.
In Islam every one is equal, while hindusim has caste system, is caste system a liberal practice? Probably not, is equality a liberal practice, yes it is, then how come you say Hinduism is liberal than Islam when we all know Islam promotes equality.
Hinduism even doesn`t allow marriage of Brahmins with Dalits, though both dalit and Brahmins are considered as Hindus.
Does Hinduism has any punishment for rapist?
Islam has.
Does Hinduism gives right to inheritance for women?
Islam gives.
Does Hinduism gives right to women to divorce their husband?
Islam gives.
Does Hinduism discourages female feticide?
Islam does.
Still Islam is less liberal then Hinduism just because you don`t like it, right?
Dear Mac,
You are expressing such support to this Hindu Girl, then why are you telling her to learn about Islam ?
Why should her husband not learn about Hinduism ? Learning about Hinduism will definitely tell him what Hinduism is all about and how Islam’s intolerance towards all other faiths is wrong.
//You are expressing such support to this Hindu Girl, then why are you telling her to learn about Islam ?
why should her husband not learn about Hinduism ?
Learning about Hinduism will definitely tell him what Hinduism is all about and
how Islam’s intolerance towards all other faiths is wrong.//.
First of oll, learn hinduism by urself, u asked why that girl want to learn islam instead her bf can learn hinduism
because studying Hinduism will leads back to islam only , so no need to learn hinduism, here mac bro is correct
when you study hinduism, hinduism says
1. There is only one God
2. God has no images/idols
3. God has no parents
4. Belives in hereafter.
5. Belives in last and final messanger prophet muhammed(p.b.u.h)
dear vatsala tamhane aapki baton se rss vhp wali maansikta jhalakti hai bahen aapko islam ke bare mai jab pata nahi hai to plz dusparchar bhi na kare aaj puri duniya ke log islam ki taraf aa rahe hai me aapki tarah kisi dharm vishesh ke virudhh nahi hon aap hindu-hindu ka raag alaap rahi ho bahen hindu koun hai wioh jo anda tak nahi khate shakahari kahlate hai din me raat me daru ke saath beef tak kha jate hai ya woh hindu hai (aghori) jo murde shamshan me jalti huyi lashe chori karke unhe khate hai aap dono me hindu koun hai woh jo pure nange ghumte hai aap log unka aashirwad lete ho ya aap jo kapre pahnate ho koi hindu dharm ko pareebhashit to karo ki real koun hai mushlim 4 shadi kare to aap dahare maarti ho bhagwan krishan ki 16,108 patniya thhi aap eik shadi karne wale sahi ho ya aapke bhagwan krishan sahi thhe aap log to confuse ho sahi koun hai islm me chhote bare nahi hote raja rank sabhi eik hi kataar mei khare hote hai hindu dharm mei kyaa kisi dalit ko mandir mai brahmno ki jagah pooja archana karwate dekha hai islam mei koi bhi kisi bhi jaat /varn ka ho chahe woh khan ho a dhobi nai sabhi baraar hai eik nai dhobi ke peechhe raja badshah namaaz padhte hai kyaa hindu dharm mei aisa hai maine manusmurity pari hai uski baten to me yaha share bhi nahi kar sakta hoon to pyari bahen rss vhp ki maanseekta tyaag kar sach aur achha bolna seekho jis cheez ka gyaan na ho uske bare main na bole aapka bhai
Sir I agree with u
to all the above posts..
Muslims are not meant for love, they are very traditional and selfish. Initially they create heaven for you on the earth and when the time comes they will make it hell. So, please be aware of Muslims, get some legal paper signed by the person and his family and then if you trust.. it’s your wish to proceed.
y are u blaming all the muslims.. why admin not responding on this… is this is a website on which the peoples are free to say anything about muslims.. why u ppls hate so much form muslims.. bcz of some ppls which are doing wrong in community.. or bcz they r from others..?? why ???
i agree what is with all the hate towards Muslims on this site what is so bad about us?
Dear All.
I read the question of Sami, I get very upset because same incident has been occurred with my a relative. she has a muslim friend from her school time.At fist he told her that he loves her very much and cannot live without her she has to marry with him,we was unaware with all this, unfortunately he has kept her with him. suddenly he told her that her family is not ready to marry he cannot live without them and brooked up the relation. she was committed suicide but not succeed she is in high depression, what can we do for her is this same guy or a member of group of love jihad.
I am also facing the same situation and am scared of him the way he changed himself in a moment. I wanted him to leave me long back but after all my tries it didn’t happen, he showed as if am his world and suddenly his parents came in picture. they also played nicely…and now i got to know there are other girls also in his life…i tried to die and run away but didn’t succeed. Now my friend tells i must fight with him for all what he and his family have done to me, its been 14yrs, friend cum love, we are together… and now he is acting just piece of shit to me. he has been taking advantage of my emotions and torturing me:(
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hi friends.. im in a relationship with a muslim guy.. at first he just wanted me to convert to islam.. as I love him much and I also respect islam I said yes whole heartedly! but now he says he cant marry me.. and he is very afraid of his parents.. his father is in some high religious position.. I have never met his family.. he is so hesitant.. he wants me to be with him for few more years.. he is just getting upset whenever j talk about marriage.. the thing is I find it impossible to live without him.. he put his family’s issues in front.. I really cnt understand y dint he mention all this in the beginning.. he is crying at times too! I cnt see him crying.. I really don’t know what to do.. I cnt trust him any more.. ter r lots of complications.. can some one help me?!
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this muslim ppl is all about coversion conversion increasing their community.they dont care respect other faith.if he relly loves u he wont ask u to convert..if u r ready to sacrifice ur belief then y cant he..i advice u to find good person from ur community ..marru him ..that makes u as well as ur parent happy..eventually ull forget ur past after some times
he is just doing an acting so that you can leave him. anyone can understand that if he knows that his father is very strict about religion he will not agree for ur marriage . he want the satisfaction from u nothing else.
Hi.. I am a hindu girl.I am in a relationship with a muslim boy.He loves me alot and i too loves him.But the problem is with the families.His family wants me to convert but my family is not ready. They(my family ) have told me clearly that if I get converted they will never accept me.Never talk to me.They have issues that if I can convert than why can’t he..
Please tell me what should I do?
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dear shrey,
u dnt knw about islamic cultures, once u dnt chnge to islam, ur relatn will b not in a good cnditn , v col it as “halal”. if u really love him, then marry him as a muslim, i too had a same cnditn here, i love a hindu girl from the skool time, we bith cnt live without each other
Is she going to convert? Her parents okay her converting to Islam?
When are you going to marry her? What are you waiting for?
The day you convert yourself, you become part of a Demonic Forces destined to be perished with the passage of time, predicted by their own founder…Search Google…..Also you will be amazed to find the root of this force into Bhavisya Purana which was written around 4000+ years ago by ancient sages of India in relation to this Mlecchas, barbaric, and foreign religion…….You choice.
I am a hindu girl who has been dating a muslim guy for 4 and a half years now. He was never bothered by my religion nor me his, i was respectful when ever he had religious things to do and i was never forced into doing anything and i never forced him to do anything for me religiously. All of a sudden he has become the religious type and even though he loves me he does not want me anymore. I always knew it would be difficult. His family love me and i love them i am never disrespectful towards their religion. How can someone all of a sudden change and say they dont love you anymore because of religion, when he wasnt religious to begin with? Even his mother is hurt by what is happening, she is happy her son is practising his religion but unhappy with the fact that he has hurt me completely when i have done nothing to offend them. Although i am a hindu, i am not so religious i do what i am told as it what i was taugh as a kid and it stayed like that. I want to marry him and at one point he wanted to marry me to, but now he doesnt unless i become a muslim. I dont want to lose my religion, but i said that i will respect his religion and do what i need to as his wife by doing both as much as i can, and if we were to have kids i woukd teach them both religions as well. His mother is upset but she knows how much i love her son, she can clearly see that this is not some young love fling and that it is true love that i have for him. She is sad, but she understands that you cant ask a person to lose their religion but she has seen how much i have done for them and their religion and she knows that i would respect it as i do my own. I am willing to fight for my love but it seems as if he has given up on me and religion is the answer.
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Mostly hindu girls blindly do marriage with muslims boy at his own and never care of their parents, family, and religion.Hindu girls always cheat their parents and hide the facts. After getting marriage they known the facts of muslims boys and asked for divorce. 5 percent hindu girls doing marriage with muslims boy and 0.05 percent muslims girls with hindu boys.Muslims girls are very sensitive with their religion and hindu girls not care her religion.
Hi dps, can you tell us source of information for your statement “5 percent hindu girls doing marriage with muslims boy and 0.05 percent muslims girls”. However we do believe lots more Hindu girls marry to Muslim boys vs Muslim girls to Hindu boys.
Our survey found 45.1% of Muslim girls marry outside their faith in America but we assume this number is VERY small in India. This is because American born Muslim girls are educated, financially independent, and have more liberty and freedom.
in america muslim boys marry outside faith and convert their girls to islam, thatswhy muslim girls also had to marry outside faith.
……Another phenomenon faced by several ethnic communities is that many educated men marry outside of their community, race and religion………
http://muslimmatters.org/2013/09/27/muslim-marriage-crisis/
Muslim girls in America have lots of freedom and liberty. Generally they marry after age 25 and thus they are financially independent too. We don’t think those highly educated, liberal and open-minded Muslim girls have much interest in a guy who performs namaz five times a day at a local mosque.
45.1% Muslim girls end up marrying outside their faith, 45.1%. That also means some 60-70% of total may have dated a non-Muslim during their college days. As soon as there is a full liberty to express oneself, the religion is out the door!
you didn`t understand what i said or what that report is saying, muslim girls look for muslim guys, but as most of the educated muslim men are marrying outside faith then their becomes a hole, anyway in america most of the religious muslim women are educated, i can give you video. don`t worry
I am a Muslim boy..
I am in love with a hindu girl .
her name is helly.
I am in love with her for 3 years
she loves me too..
she is ready to marry me in to the future. .
I don’t want that she change her religion.
we wil marry in a court. .
I am really in love with can’t sleep if I don’t see her pic..
she had a really unsupportive family. .
I think her dad supportive is but not the mum.
I can’t even think my life without her …..
her parents didn’t treat her well they are very partial between their both daughters they don’t support my girl.
she is really good girl how could they do this to her..
I am very upset if their parents don’t agreed we have to runaway….
I love her ..
religion doesn’t matter for me..my parents will accept her bcoz they understand s me and my feelings. ..
what should I do ?
convince them. ?
how?
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It is not the bloody religion which determines if that person is the one for you.
For those in doubts, I think I have just the answer for you. Just note the following two things–
1) Who comes first for your person- You or d Religion/Parents/Society
2) Does your person often exhibit a ”flickering personality”?(In which case you cannot believe whatever is said anyway)
Warning: People are often two timers, deceivers or cheats or even flickering, without they themselves being aware of it. They may commit initially but eventually if the ride goes unsmooth, they might just give it up, leaving you in a predicament where you are disowned (almost, at least where I live) by your family and not welcomed by your partner either.
All you need is a committed, strong willed partner. And never ever marry in a haste. Take time, stimulate certain situations where the inner being of your partner becomes conspicuous, then observe, investigate, and then finally take a well informed decision. Some might even label that as manipulation. But it is absolutely fine if it saves your life from marrying some potato headed hypocrite loser.
And to sum it up, all I’m asking you is to see your partner whether he/she is a mental freaky fanatic who would choose to ruin that precious little 40 remaining years of your life in the name of a human created set of stupid beliefs called Religion and if in a dying situation, would he/she pull You out of the lions mouth or his/her 80 year old already ‘dead’ grandma?
I know I will be hated for this, but people if you want a happy married just go for a communist, like me. 😉
and always remember — RELIGION is POISON.
not sure about your theory ”religion is poison” but well written anyway
More appropriate if you would call that a FACT instead of a mere theory. And you see as far as I’m concerned, I’m a hindu (technically, on the birth certificate) all set to marry a muslim, provided the other person is as ‘normal’ as I am.
And you know the most amusing thing is while others google ”can a hindu/muslim couple get along well” I search for ”ways to woo a muslim girl”. (Yes I’m a bit of a loser when it comes to impressing ladies 🙁 and it doesn’t hurt to take some extra help 😉 )
PS Note– my liking has nothing to do with religion, it is just that when out on streets, the no. of 10/10 girls in a muslim dominated area is overwhelmingly larger than any other area (If you know what I mean ;)). And I love those exotic names they have as well…like Ameena, Zara etc etc.
hi guys,
I m in relationship with Muslim boy from 1 yr. but I want to marry with him. is it a right decision ??? yes or not. pls help me wt I do ???
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Never Marry , Dont Ruin your Life, parents are best judge
Is it really true? Are all muslim boys like this? They beat their wives after marriage??? Im in a relationship with a muslim guy and Im a hindu…we have planned we ll marry when we grow up…Im ready to convert mah religion..but is he also going to change after marriage like others about whom I read in these posts??
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dear madz
how can u decide your future based on other people’s advice or so called sayings..
please dont.
how can other people say about a person whom you know,not they.
what I believe is that nobody else than you,can better know about the person you are in a relationship
dont ever involved a third person in your relationship..its deadly.
if you really wnt to know about him,then take some more time,question him,give him the situations,ask him how he would behave…
Hi, I would not advice marrying a Muslim guy. I married one and now waiting to get divorced. He was perfect before marriage. We discussed everything before marriage, from our life to children; so that there is nothing that is disagreeable. But after marriage, I discovered what my husband really is. It was as if I knew a totally different person before marriage. He never said a mean thing to me before n after marriage started beating me. He is educated, works in a MNC in top position. He is the funniest guy to all that know him, but all that is a mask. Inside, he disrespects women, has fanatic ideas and is so narrow minded it’s unbelievable. I have known him for 7 years and we dated for 4 yrs bfr marriage still he never took off his mask, it’s only after marriage tht he showed his true colors. They don’t think like us. Wife beating is normal, even Quran says it’s ok. Please think before u take the step of marrying a Muslim guy. Lot of people told me Muslims are this way but I never believed bfr marriage, cos I thought na he is not like this but I was wrong. And I hv suffered a lot, still suffering, I was beaten, starved, forced to pray namaz n keep rozas, and made to live in horrible living conditions. I come from a good family n I still bore it all, thinking that I married him after so much struggle to convince my parents. I also bore it because he always promised that he will not hit me again but he continued to. Today he refuses to divorce me and calls me back saying that he wouldn’t hit me. I have nothing and it hurts so much because I loved him so much. I gave up everything for him, my career, family, religion, name, friends, likes and still in return I didn’t even get basic respect.
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Hindu Girls who are cursed (Most of them with some exceptions)for SINS in their previous life only marry Muslim Guys only to repent in her life forever.
if u truly love him den go wid him but u must need his family support bcoz widout his family support all worst or it may worst of married life. its my opinion u need more suggestion from hindu-muslim married who continue dere lyf wid muslim guy. take care
yes, if you love each other as well as trust..??, ans yes
to bindast marri…
Hi Roma, I also been in same situation as been hindu married to muslim guy against my family.. But now we are divorced and happy to say my family has supported me alot.. Always listen to your parents they will always think good for their children..:)
yea i agree its difficult for a hindu girl to marry and settle down in a muslim family bt not impossible..I m an indian bt i was in relation wd a guy frm iraq who is my clgmate…we alwez debated in a topic…religion…dey ll neva accpt u if ua not changing!! dats true!! well i trust in allah…life bcms complicated!! I believe in my parents!! I dont hve any ryt to choose anyone except dem!! bt i love him and hes d only reason i hve travelled to ds site!! i wsh our parents agreee for us!!!
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I read ur messages …in the net I inspired that very
mucch bcuz I m also love a muslim guy nd I love him. Tso muc th he also loving me as like that …bt we both are so tensed about our future
bcuz how can we survive in the word. Nd i need ur help sister he is soo afraid of his father ..so how can we he permission from. His father
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Life is so short to fight for all dese…no matter we call him by any name…hes one!!! hes d only one who has lightened soul among me and u!! u wont be put to hell if u call him Allah…let me specify m a hindu..
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i am a muslim boy, i love a Hindu girl and she love me very much. We want to merry. As i am a student of a professional course it would take a little less than about 2 years.
As far as my family is concern everyone in my family is soft hearted people. Her family is also soft hearted but they are scared to merry their daughter in a muslims family as they think Muslims are not good.
I never had nor have any problem with girls religion. I even don’t want to change her religion and accept her as
i loved her first day when we met.
Our love is pious. We never did anything wrong. i always thought when i would stand on my feet they would accept me. I convinced my dear love we can convince parents. Now when her parents come to know about our love they make understand to her that’s wrong. Now she is asking me to convince her parents. She is my life and last love of this life. what should i do please help me.
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I love muslim girls becuase of their features and will be excellent wives
Gande
Gande,
What is your religion? If you are non-Muslim, will you convert to Islam for your Islamic Nikaah?
Dear Frnds,
Im a muslim guy. im n love with a hindu. v both r in true luv. planning to marry now. hw can i convert her? she also accepted for this. this is for name sake only for my parents. i want to know all the procedure.. pls help me out…
shit man, only for name sake and to please your parents, hello mr, religion is not a football that you want to play with it, listen you marry her in what ever way you like whether in mandir or in court but don`t fake convert her for nikah, it will be huge sin, if you want to convert her conveince her about islam, i will help you, my mother was also brahmin hindu, she converted to islam
allah doesn`t allow us to marry a disbeliever except jews and christians coz those are nt idol worshippers, so if your hindu gf is moderate and eduacted and doesn`t believe in idolworship and if she believes in oneness of god then you can marry her and easily convert her to islam and if she belives in idolworship then NO NO NO
Islam has given an esteemed rankto women. Allah Almighty announces in a verse, Should one of them, or both, attain old age in your lifetime, do not say”Ugh!” to them (as an indication of complaint or impatience), nor push them away, and always address them in gracious words. (Al-Isra Surah, 17:23)
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) announces, Heaven is under the feet of mothers. Let us touch briefly on the objection that some put forward saying there is o equality between men and women in Islam.
Allah Almighty has instances of wisdom in infinite numbers. He creates in whatever way He pleases. He may give some peopledifferent capabilities and talents from others. No creatures can ever interfere with this will.
Allah Almighty has not created men and women equally in all ways. To try to make these two genders equal in every way is only possible to change the nature of genders, which is impossible. The male and female natures differ from each other inmany ways. Considering the fact that judgments are made on behalf of majority, we can say that: men are superior in terms of strength, courage, and boldness whereas women are superior in compassion, tenderness, and fidelity. Both men and women may excel each other at some ways. Within family, the excelling sides of both are combined and thus the needs and happiness of the family are met.
Since men are superior in strength, Allah Almighty, in the first place, has held men responsible for the family and protecting them from any kind of danger both physically and spiritually. This truth has been clearly written in the Holy Book: Men (those who are able to carryout their responsibilities) are the protectors and maintainers of women inasmuch as God has endowed some of people (in some respects) with greater capacity than others and inasmuch as they (the men) spend of their wealth (for the familys maintenance). Good, righteous women are the devoted ones (to God) and observant (of their husbands rights), who guard the secrets (family honor and property, theirchastity, and their husbands rights, especially where there is none to see them and in the absence of men) as God guards and keeps undisclosed (what should be guarded and private). (An-Nisa Surah, 4:34)
Islam, on the one hand, wishes men to answer the needs of women, on the other hand, wishes women to be obedient totheir husbands. The verse above teaches us both the superiority of men and the virtue of women.
However, being the head of the family is one thing, being superior in the religion is quite another thing. According to the Holy Quran, the criterion of the superiority is not gender but taqwa. Taqwa in short means fearing Allah, avoiding from sins, abstaining from the behaviors, manners, and words that He disapproves.
For a family to continue its welfare and harmony it is of great importance that man be the head of the family and woman obey him. Absolute equality ruins the harmony in thefamily through when women do not obey their husbands, spoils the welfare and happiness, and mostly causes divorces.
Just as it is necessary for a woman to obey her husband, it is also necessary for a man to maintain his wifes rights. It is a fallacy that in Islam women are slaves to men. On the contrary, inIslam women have more pleasures than men do. Because in Islam men are obliged to provide alimony for women in a case of divorce, whereas womenare exempted from that. Islam has given the duty of raising a child to women, which is the most essential and pleasurable thing for a woman to do. That is why Allah Almighty has given the feeling of compassion more to women than men have.
Today what some call freedom of women has only brought about womens falling into debauchery and misery. However, Islam has protected their honor by ordering to remain chaste.
Some circles present the Islamic order of veiling as the restrictionof freedom of women.
First one need to know that veiling is not only an Islamic rule, but it is a rule of all divine religions. Nuns veiling themselvesis a clear proof to that.
Veiling is not peculiar to women; it is a natural necessity for the whole humankind. It is impossible to see naked people around in any country. The point of debate is on its limits. In Islam women are obliged to cover all their parts which could evoke men sexual feelings. In this way, they protect their honor and chastity in the world, and win eternal bliss in the hereafter. On the other hand, when women wear immodestly, they lead men into sins, and according to the Islamic rule the one who causes is like the one who does, the same sins that men commit also go to women. The Islamic order of veiling protects women from such dangers.
Islam has given an esteemed rankto women. Allah Almighty announces in a verse, Should one of them, or both, attain old age in your lifetime, do not say”Ugh!” to them (as an indication of complaint or impatience), nor push them away, and always address them in gracious words. (Al-Isra Surah, 17:23)
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) announces, Heaven is under the feet of mothers. Let us touch briefly on the objection that some put forward saying there is o equality between men and women in Islam.
Allah Almighty has instances of wisdom in infinite numbers. He creates in whatever way He pleases. He may give some peopledifferent capabilities and talents from others. No creatures can ever interfere with this will.
Allah Almighty has not created men and women equally in all ways. To try to make these two genders equal in every way is only possible to change the nature of genders, which is impossible. The male and female natures differ from each other inmany ways. Considering the fact that judgments are made on behalf of majority, we can say that: men are superior in terms of strength, courage, and boldness whereas women are superior in compassion, tenderness, and fidelity. Both men and women may excel each other at some ways. Within family, the excelling sides of both are combined and thus the needs and happiness of the family are met.
Since men are superior in strength, Allah Almighty, in the first place, has held men responsible for the family and protecting them from any kind of danger both physically and spiritually. This truth has been clearly written in the Holy Book: Men (those who are able to carryout their responsibilities) are the protectors and maintainers of women inasmuch as God has endowed some of people (in some respects) with greater capacity than others and inasmuch as they (the men) spend of their wealth (for the familys maintenance). Good, righteous women are the devoted ones (to God) and observant (of their husbands rights), who guard the secrets (family honor and property, theirchastity, and their husbands rights, especially where there is none to see them and in the absence of men) as God guards and keeps undisclosed (what should be guarded and private). (An-Nisa Surah, 4:34)
Islam, on the one hand, wishes men to answer the needs of women, on the other hand, wishes women to be obedient totheir husbands. The verse above teaches us both the superiority of men and the virtue of women.
However, being the head of the family is one thing, being superior in the religion is quite another thing. According to the Holy Quran, the criterion of the superiority is not gender but taqwa. Taqwa in short means fearing Allah, avoiding from sins, abstaining from the behaviors, manners, and words that He disapproves.
For a family to continue its welfare and harmony it is of great importance that man be the head of the family and woman obey him. Absolute equality ruins the harmony in thefamily through when women do not obey their husbands, spoils the welfare and happiness, and mostly causes divorces.
Just as it is necessary for a woman to obey her husband, it is also necessary for a man to maintain his wifes rights. It is a fallacy that in Islam women are slaves to men. On the contrary, inIslam women have more pleasures than men do. Because in Islam men are obliged to provide alimony for women in a case of divorce, whereas womenare exempted from that. Islam has given the duty of raising a child to women, which is the most essential and pleasurable thing for a woman to do. That is why Allah Almighty has given the feeling of compassion more to women than men have.
Today what some call freedom of women has only brought about womens falling into debauchery and misery. However, Islam has protected their honor by ordering to remain chaste.
Some circles present the Islamic order of veiling as the restrictionof freedom of women.
First one need to know that veiling is not only an Islamic rule, but it is a rule of all divine religions. Nuns veiling themselvesis a clear proof to that.
Veiling is not peculiar to women; it is a natural necessity for the whole humankind. It is impossible to see naked people around in any country. The point of debate is on its limits. In Islam women are obliged to cover all their parts which could evoke men sexual feelings. In this way, they protect their honor and chastity in the world, and win eternal bliss in the hereafter. On the other hand, when women wear immodestly, they lead men into sins, and according to the Islamic rule the one who causes is like the one who does, the same sins that men commit also go to women. The Islamic order of veiling protects women from such dangers.
Islam has given an esteemed rankto women. Allah Almighty announces in a verse, Should one of them, or both, attain old age in your lifetime, do not say”Ugh!” to them (as an indication of complaint or impatience), nor push them away, and always address them in gracious words. (Al-Isra Surah, 17:23)
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) announces, Heaven is under the feet of mothers. Let us touch briefly on the objection that some put forward saying there is o equality between men and women in Islam.
Allah Almighty has instances of wisdom in infinite numbers. He creates in whatever way He pleases. He may give some peopledifferent capabilities and talents from others. No creatures can ever interfere with this will.
Allah Almighty has not created men and women equally in all ways. To try to make these two genders equal in every way is only possible to change the nature of genders, which is impossible. The male and female natures differ from each other inmany ways. Considering the fact that judgments are made on behalf of majority, we can say that: men are superior in terms of strength, courage, and boldness whereas women are superior in compassion, tenderness, and fidelity. Both men and women may excel each other at some ways. Within family, the excelling sides of both are combined and thus the needs and happiness of the family are met.
Since men are superior in strength, Allah Almighty, in the first place, has held men responsible for the family and protecting them from any kind of danger both physically and spiritually. This truth has been clearly written in the Holy Book: Men (those who are able to carryout their responsibilities) are the protectors and maintainers of women inasmuch as God has endowed some of people (in some respects) with greater capacity than others and inasmuch as they (the men) spend of their wealth (for the familys maintenance). Good, righteous women are the devoted ones (to God) and observant (of their husbands rights), who guard the secrets (family honor and property, theirchastity, and their husbands rights, especially where there is none to see them and in the absence of men) as God guards and keeps undisclosed (what should be guarded and private). (An-Nisa Surah, 4:34)
Islam, on the one hand, wishes men to answer the needs of women, on the other hand, wishes women to be obedient totheir husbands. The verse above teaches us both the superiority of men and the virtue of women.
However, being the head of the family is one thing, being superior in the religion is quite another thing. According to the Holy Quran, the criterion of the superiority is not gender but taqwa. Taqwa in short means fearing Allah, avoiding from sins, abstaining from the behaviors, manners, and words that He disapproves.
For a family to continue its welfare and harmony it is of great importance that man be the head of the family and woman obey him. Absolute equality ruins the harmony in thefamily through when women do not obey their husbands, spoils the welfare and happiness, and mostly causes divorces.
Just as it is necessary for a woman to obey her husband, it is also necessary for a man to maintain his wifes rights. It is a fallacy that in Islam women are slaves to men. On the contrary, inIslam women have more pleasures than men do. Because in Islam men are obliged to provide alimony for women in a case of divorce, whereas womenare exempted from that. Islam has given the duty of raising a child to women, which is the most essential and pleasurable thing for a woman to do. That is why Allah Almighty has given the feeling of compassion more to women than men have.
Today what some call freedom of women has only brought about womens falling into debauchery and misery. However, Islam has protected their honor by ordering to remain chaste.
Some circles present the Islamic order of veiling as the restrictionof freedom of women.
First one need to know that veiling is not only an Islamic rule, but it is a rule of all divine religions. Nuns veiling themselvesis a clear proof to that.
Veiling is not peculiar to women; it is a natural necessity for the whole humankind. It is impossible to see naked people around in any country. The point of debate is on its limits. In Islam women are obliged to cover all their parts which could evoke men sexual feelings. In this way, they protect their honor and chastity in the world, and win eternal bliss in the hereafter. On the other hand, when women wear immodestly, they lead men into sins, and according to the Islamic rule the one who causes is like the one who does, the same sins that men commit also go to women. The Islamic order of veiling protects women from such dangers.
Hello,
Islam is a most curel religion of the world, full of violence, rape, circumcision of males and females, Jihad, terrorism, mureder, inhuman behaviour, polygammy, anarchy, and all sorts of evils to support criminal and horny males to commit all sorts of attrocities, crimes, in the name of Prophet, was a rapist, murderer, not sparing grand daughter like child to rape in the name of marriage.
He is a blot in the name of humanity, how can a God be so cruel to nominate a rapist, loose character, murders, horny, marrying 17 wives, his messenger. It is all non sense teachings in the Koran.
u should have to beheaded without any trial or charge who say anything wrong to our Prophet!!!
so be careful else Ur life is in danger
Go to Hell, you and our Prophet Mohammad (curse be upon him)
*your
you are already in hell as a hindu…and all your gay lords (shiva,ram ganesh etc…)too
u mean we need god like a prophet mohammed, who was a great fucker and rapist! greal god!
You and your half cut Mohammed does not have guts to touch any Hindu. You life would be in even bigger danger if you touch Vijay. You katuas will be as usual idiots who know nothing but kuran, when people question Qur’an you kill them, what an idiot religion, who can’t even prove it is truth…convert to Hinduism and see the light of truth. You are following devil rakshas who has contol over you mind and body, you can’t see truth. That’s why your devil has asked to kill anyone who goes to truth. Simple and clear
bastard
Listen u piss drinking 1/2 mm dicked bastard!!! if i want i can come and cut both u motherf****s up…and since when did a coward hindu ever have the guts to stand up to Muslims…your gay lords…shiva ram and everyone were a bunch of gay pigs!!! there is no comparison between us and u and btw…there is a reason why your women prefer to be our whores than your wives!!…u ppl come from the shittiest religion in the world o just worship the animal dicks!
fuck u!! and ur allah
Hi Srinivas,
Kudos to you man. I completely support you
Hey all,
I am not here to criticize anyone/any religion.I am here to say the truth. Yeah,by bad luck if one interreligion marriage is not fruitful, then just don’t declare as every interreligion marriage is fail. Noone come to inernet and share the hatredness like this. May be you have choosen the wrong life partner. If he/she is asking to convert the religion it’s too worst. It’s the coward’s act. Anyone can stay in any religion before and after marriage. Just we should not force the partner not only religion but on most of the things. Form a good character.We should live in reality grounds. We should allow other people to live happily. We should not trouble them. If you are not considerning,respecting the partner’s feelings,then what is this love? It’s not love. why is the question of again the love and marraige between hindu and muslim girls/boys? Here the the character and mindsets of people are not proper. So no need to discuss on religions. Please stop this. Choose the right partner love and marry and live happily. All the best to all…
Hey all,
Just forgot to share some information with you all.Yes I am unmarried.I want to marry.I want to love.I will find a girl in any religion. I am muslim by birth. I will find either hindu,christian or muslim girl.Just I don’t care religions.Because I value the people.I value and love the people.I love life.I am so confident and optimistic in future.I have full dare and courage to face any kind of problem.For me what,noone can make me inferere just saying religion caste stuff.I will choose my life partner from any religion.I am living in a big secular country called INDIA.I am indian.The people who spend their time talking on religions and show the religion as cause for any problem they are just cowards.They use the history as a cause to increase the issue but not to solve the issue.They are just stupids. They live in the society just to trouble,harm other people.So why do you care these stupid people and stupid caste religion stuff? Just be brave be confident .Just don’t allow these stupid people’ comments. Happily go ahead cheerfully, confidently with brave and choose any life partner marry him/her and give value,respect and love the relationship and be loyal to the partner.Then tell me, where is the problem? I don’t see any problem.
Shyam,
Very honourable thoughts, wish you come to guide other young adults here.
You said you are a Muslim by birth, with a name Shyam? We are curious who are your parents…any one of them Hindu (and converted)?
Lets look at the practical side, if you fall in love with a Hindu girl, and you don’t believe in religious conversion, how could you have Nikaah without Shahadah? You mean you will marry by the Hindu vivaha ceremony?
Hi admin,
I am unable to post a comment here in this site.
Hi Admin/All,
I am thankful for your response.I have muslim name and my parents are muslims.Please forgive me I don’t want to disclose my details and i feel it is not that important too.The important thing is we are discussing on interreligion love,marriage topic.Hope you can respect my privacy.
All these religions in the past,in history were formed here and there on the globe to lead the mankind further in an orderly fashion and with common guidelines,customs to make them live happily.Whatever the religion whether the Islam is born in Mecca,Christianity in Jerulasem,Hinduism in Indian subcontinent,Buddism in India or Nepal(now) and was spread in east asian countries,the motto,agenda is simple.Mohammed,Jesus,Manu saint(he proposed chaturvarna system in hinduism) they individually in different places tried to lead the public in a systematic way.When this is before 4000 years or 1500 years back happened how can we judge they are accurate till to this date and to this public? Yes religions helped a lot to the mankind to procede from history to current time and to establish culture and to unite the people(atleast in individual religions).It’s okay this kind of stuff I need not say most of the people know.But just I am using this to say onething.In my personal belief,may be religions helped mankind,but they have pros and cons.No religion is having the restructuring characeristic.All religions are almost fixed without any changes in their religious stuff,guidelines from centuries.But a lot of time changed.How can we follow the same religions blindly without any question, at least it should be applicable to outdated practices,guidelines,stuff in every religion.That’s why atleast intellectuals and wise,modern people are in dilemma about outdated practices in every religion.Some people are not liking other religions.I need not explain this.Everyone knows this if they try to know.Look at the science it has restructuring characteristic.Most of the times it is accurate only.If sometimes it is wrong,again some experiments will be done for verification and to accumulate facts, truth only.So anyone can believe science,but not religion.Ofcourse human race is experiencing the fruits of science from 19th century.
So how do we think and depend on religions to live our daily life? Why should we fight each other based on religion?We are not in medieval time.We are in modern time,modern world now.We are living in civilized society. (continuation in the following post)
Hi Admin/All, (Note:This is continued to the previous post)
In a country like india 120 crores of people are living with many religions,castes etc.In our daily life we use to see,work professionally and personally in companies,markets,factories,farm fields,busstands etc everywhere with all kinds of religious people.We are eating food,but other religious people are producing.We are using medicines when sick and they are produced by other religious people.Just you think and frame any number of examples.If this is the daily life in india,even in entire world too,then how can you restrict the people in marraiges?It is not as per law.No court restricts us to marry in the same religion.Because we started living in a free, democratic, secular,Indian sovereign from 1947.Still all religious roots are working to some extent even now.Hence people are thinking still religiously.My question to all is: Don’t you ashame yourself being like this?Why are you not able to live as a human? Why are you not able to love other religious person eventhough you are being helped,benefited by other religious people directly,indirectly in many ways in daily life?I am asking some of stupid selfish political leaders still now,if they are hindu leaders why are you creating conflicts among hindu,muslim,christians and are benefiting in elections to form governments?I am asking terrorists if they are muslim or who ever terrorists why are you bombing the people to evoke religious emotions,conflicts among the people? All this stuff is related to our topic.Because of these kind of incidents,events only, people are disturbing themselves and forming religious intolerance and hatredness.In other times all Indians are good.Basically indian people are soft in nature.All religious people in india are too good.But still I don’t like indians in one way.That is eventhough Indians are well educated from freedom onwards,eventhough they are able to think on anything,any issue,eventhough they are able to create wonders in software field across the world,even though they are capable of to achieve many more things, some portion of indians are easily being disturbed religiously at the time of conflicts what i mentioned above. Even though most of the Indians are well educated they are still encouraging religious stuff.It means their education is not helping much to live as a human being.Still they are trying to live as a Hindu,as a Muslim,as a christian etc..What a shame it is?We can’t find this extreme odd behaviour in other developed countries.Indian female should not be the cause for the carriers of orthodox religious stuff to future generations.It’s too awkward.
I will find my own life partner in any religion.I will grow my chidren as good citizens who will not trouble other people religiously.
I don’t care this religious stuff.I don’t have any issue on religion as I don’t care it.I respect and love my partener and whatever the way she asks me I will marry her in that way as I love to love and respect my partner.
Shyam (Muslim),
Excellent, excellent, excellent. Superb message. Wish Times of India publishes this, try!
We wish all Indian carry the same feeling of respect and love for each other.
What other Muslims think of Shyam-Muslim’s message? Do you think he is a true Muslim?
Unfortunately the imams, priests and pundits will go out of business if every one start thinking like you. For Islamic Nikaah, a Hindu must convert by shahadah. There is no single imam will perform Nikaah without the shahadah conversion, no a single one in this world!!! Why? The Catholic church will not perform a wedding without a prenuptial agreement that children will be baptized and raised only Christians. We do not understand this CONVERSION BUSINESS IN LOVE, DO YOU?
As I am busy now a days,I will post my comments after some time
Hello all,
India is having 120 crores of population.ya,everyone has his/her own view,opinion on every matter.Here the point is:because of so many religions,castes in inia,it is declared as secular state to let the people peacefully.I don’t have any issues with any religion or caste.The core problem is with the people from all the religions.Not all,but some people seem intolerant of other people,other religions.That’s why they spend their time,effort,energy,knowledge to contradict,oppose,deny the other religions’ people.90% of people are good and they live peacefully keeping good relationships with other people.The problem is with this stupid 10% of people.They wont let other to live happily.So they inject the so stupid orthodox religion,caste stuff.These people are unnecessary and very harm to society and remaining public.What I mean to say is just live happily and let others live happily just don’t create any nuisance by this useless religion caste stuff.Any religion boy or girl can marry any religion boy or girl.Here the problem is with people but not with religions.So stupid people can be anywhere in hindu,muslim,christian ,sikh,buddist religions etc.. Love is different and religion is different.So choose a right partner whether love or arranged in the same or different religion and live life happily. Stupid partners may be in any religion.So be careful.Don’t blame any religion.People should have tolerance to other religions and other people.Love all the people.Then you will never find any problem in interreligion love marriages.I advice the people to think good and do good.Please don’t spread hatredness,but you spread love.After all we are humans not stones,rocks..So love the mankind.
I don’t know even I’m in love with a guy who’s a Muslim.And he wants me to convert after the marriage, i was ready for this until my father found out that i was dating a Muslim guy.My father has given me everything in my life even things which were not possible.He’s the most important and strongest person in my life.But one day he came to me and just sat in front of me before he could utter a word i saw tears rolling down his cheeks….trust me that was the most painful moment in my life…..i couldn’t believe that he’s talking to me like that….i cried too but went totally against him….started hating myself, my father for being such an orthodox….but soon i realized…it’s not about being an orthodox…it’s about being concerned about your own child who’s been the most precious one throughout your life….I’m not against Muslim or any other religion( i worship all the religions…but yes i am against the way society and relatives can light up the fire in anybody’s family…So after reading all the comments… keeping one thing in my mind that my parents are not so open-minded that they would ignore the heat from society so easily..and just because of this kind of behavior of society i can’t marry him…this makes me sick and tired of this sick society…this will take eternity to change the mind set of people living here….they’ll never grow and never even let others grow…
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hi,m a 23 year old woman and i am in a big dilemma.I am in a relationship with a Muslim guy for the last 6 years. We both love each other a lot n his parents have even accepted me and they too love me. But my parents are not accepting him. And another problem is that am their only daughter. I cant see them sad nor i can stay without my boyfriend. What should i do, i feel so helpless.. please help.
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I can help you pia, just ask him to become a hindu and then he can marry you. Problem solved.
Pia I have the same problem but also my boyfriend is very elder to me.If u really love him then leave your parents and come to him ( your bf) .Specially for Aryan(the next 1 to respond) first love a person truly then say how easy it is to.A girl after marriage goes to her husband’s house and get his surname how can he be converted to a Hindu.Even I m a Hindu. I read namaz for my bf I keep rozas for him and my parents don’t even know that I am doing so.For other people also( on this site) I truly believe in Allah and no 1 has any right to say anything to other religions and their gods.
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sister,
what is the definition of God?
Pia,
You have reached to a right source of information. We will guide you over years. You are 23 years YOUNG woman, do not rush to marry till you are sure what you are getting into. It is better to marry only once!!
His Muslim family loves you and have accepted you, but problem is your Hindu family. This is a common theme all times. However, you have not provided the most critical information. How are you planning to marry? Do you have to have shahadah for your Islamic Nikaah? If you say you will never convert and remain what you are, a Hindu, are they willing to accept you? Please get back to us.
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dont ever do that mistake luv ur parents, dont hurt then … dont ever marry a muslim guys … ur life will be spoiled …
i m from a orthodox brahmin family,
nd i have friend of my caste who is just 15 yrs old . She is in love with a Muslim guy who is 27 yrs old. They both love eachother sincerely.
D guy is eager to be with her forever.
Is dis possible
plz ppl tell me .
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Religions are different and love is different.In ancient times ,if they are more orthodox.But now in India,we have many religions.Each muslim have to be with hindu atleast in one way or other like friend or shop keeper ,anything..So religion is not a matter.We pray different gods but it will reach a single person.Why allah may be only god but he has name like jesus or shiva.It depends upon once nature.All religions teach us ethics.Only for teaching ethics and to make us to live good we created religion but now its the main problem…everyone are brothers and sisters.Atleast we youngsters should spread this and we should prove
Just another idealistic stuff.
NEW DELHI: A Delhi court has decided to frame rape charges against a man who married a girl after converting her to Islam without informing his marital status that led to a failed suicide attempt by his new wife.
Additional Sessions Judge T R Naval allowed framing of charges against Jamal Nasir for the offence of rape and also abetment to suicide, concealment of former marriage, fraudulent marriage and cohabitation by inducing a belief of lawful marriage.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Man-marries-after-converting-girl-to-Islam-charged-with-rape/articleshow/15362855.cms?
Game of conversion.
shivrnas is really one of them orthodox dumbass who thinks by talking shit about other religions….people will respect and like his religion/country more.
we all know muslims have done some messed up stuff….bt can you truely back up your facts that indians-hindu, christian,muslims,sikhs, bhuddist and every other religion in the world is TOTALLY PURE? n NEVER killed a fly?
grow up mayn
Rani you sound more like a typical muslim man who just says irrelevant and idiotic things without knowing what it actually means, just for.sake of saying. Please grow up a little to understand all this. To your- question hindu, christian,sikhs, bhuddist and every other religion in INDIA is TOTALLY PURE? if you compare what muslims do- Yes other religion are Totally Pure. Islam permits killing cow, goat chicken, human, all other religion people dont harm animals and never ever a human, and you ignorant is stuck with flies and insect. You are a classic ignorant, the world is for other religions too- make that clear. And we dont stick with old out dated rules, we question religion too, practices, we have that freedom without fear of death by a religious fanatic.
dEAR M rAJA ,
I think your knwolege is lacking smewhre. I think today no religion left are pure and as u told islam allows killing of animals and man then let me tell you 1 thing it is nt written in muslim hadis to kill humans or mans.
Its an biological life cycle which is going frm early frm our ancestor. science also allow killing of animals becaz its cme in a lifecycle.
bro i think u hve 2 learn humanity nt religions itz out f ur mind so dnt try it
INSHA ALLAH TUMHARE DIMAG ME YE Baat Ghusegi….LOLZ..
Ooh are you saying in quran and hadis hijacking plan and killing non Muslim is written? Then you osama was very islamic educated isnt it? But …bad news kufrs killed him in his own Islamic house and your allah did not protected him. Looks like you are following wrong religion dude, dont blow your self now..:) Be non-muslim save humanity !
@ rani,
I was called much worse.
I just want to inform you that what ever I presented here is written by pious Muslims in their own websites.
For example, when I showed how Islam tags Non-Muslims along with feces, cattle and pigs, I showed it from popular Islamic websites. You yourself can check the links, they are on this page itself.
Similarly, when I showed how hatred and enmity towards Non-Muslims is inherent to being a Muslim and Islamic faith, I simply showed it from what another 3 websites maintained by pious Muslims are saying on this.
These websites are: islamicawakening.com, islamicthinkers.com and islamqa.info.
You yourself can check these if you have strength and courage.
History does not tell a lie. It’s hard to believe that 1000 years ago the Indian subcontinent was filled with peace and tranquility by the followers of Dharmic religions. Then, Mahmoud of Ghazni, a Afghani Muslim, used the then Hindu city of Multan to stage his invasion of India. The great Hindu temple of Somnath was destroyed, the Babri Masjid was built on Rama’s birthplance, and many of Varanasi’s great temples were replaced by mosques. Mahmoud was one of the many Islamic plunderers that caused havoc to India. 1/4 of all Hindus were tortured, beaten, highly taxed, forced to convert, and/or killed. The current Muslims of Pakistan and Bangladesh were subject to those atrocities. Hindus and Muslims, we were all once brothers and sisters, but what happen???? MUSLIM PLUNDERERS FROM ARABIA!!! They believed in nothing but violence. Why couldn’t Allah and his followers have stayed in Arabia and left the Hindus of India alone??
Hello,
If a Hindu girl is in love with a muslim boy and she is asking for advice why all this shit you are giving to her?
Why all the history required in this context.Leave everything and correct your minds. To marriage and to love this so called stuff is not necessary.All religions and castes are not necessary for love.Love should not care this shit(religions and castes).Anyone can marry anyone as long as love is pure and true.The junk religions and castes are only for human beings and not for any species in this world.
Don’t care anything except true love.Give value to human beings.All are same.Forget religions and castes.All Humans are of same family.If you can’t understand this,then your minds are polluted.I dont care them.
if love is the reason of marriage with a muslim boy always ask him to convert to your religion to test his love because muslims mostly marry eomen of other religion to convert them to islam not for love…but girls please give respect to your parents and culture.
Another classic example of Ignorant, who can pass a judgment about every Muslim.
@ Indian,
Really.
Read this and then talk:
http://knowing-islamic-doctrines.blogspot.in/2012/05/hatred-of-islam-and-muslims-then-what.html
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Doctor-ends-her-life/articleshow/12843494.cms?intenttarget=no
A tragic case.
srinivas– please stop spreading hatred…noticed your anti-islam comments in almost every article. do you get some kind of satisfaction when you speak ill of islam and muslims? i believe you have lot of hatred in you. actually speaking its because of people like yourself in every religion be it hinduism christianity islam, or whatever religion you belong to, the people on earth have problem in peaceful co existence.
in your comment you talk about mutual respect.. in what way are you respecting muslims and their belief? try to see within before you point fingers at others.. grow up…you are causing damage… not a very responsible thing to do..and when you speak of mohammed s.a.w please get your facts right. you come across as an ignorant to people like me who know what the real deal is.
dont make yourself look like block!
Peace…,., your mind needs it!
@ zareen,
I am causing hatred?
It is Koran which teaches hatred and enmity towards Non-Muslims as part of their Islamic faith.
Grow up, boy/girl.
No my dear sister
Islam doesn’t spread any evil or hatred or enmity it us as people do.
Religion just gets the blame, for us as humans are ill mannered.
Islam is light noor blessing for the mankind.
However those who do wrong are wrong. It is not the religion but the people.
So you my sister grows up study the Islam properly before you judge or make statement.
I see you bigotry when you said Islam is light to mankind.
I suggest you read about your Islam and then tell others.
You want to debate me, I think you know the place.
@Zareen….you are right sister
@Srinivas…….how much do you really know about Islam…It seems that you have read some articles from Anti-Islamic websites and think you know about it.
Let me ask you about your beliefs….do you have any beliefs or it just keep changing with times.
I can proudly say that I am a muslim and will defend it…cos it is the truth and worth defending the truth.
@ Indian
How much I know about Islam?
Try me. you will find out. You can bring a scholar.
Instead of discussing whether what I said is right or wrong, why indulge in rhetoric?
I gave you a link and you could not say a single thing and or show a wrong thing.
Typical Muslim attitude.
Srinivas,
Please take a look at Shia Islam. It is all about love. Read the book “The two faces of Islam”. Read about Hazrath Ali, you will get the picture of what true islam is about.
@ Shaheen
Shia Islam !! Good. We just have to look at Iran and what it does in persecuting Christians and Parsis.
It routinely arrests Muslims who converted to Christianity. It even sentenced a Muslim to death because he converted to Christianity and became a pastor.
Shia Islam talking about love ?
Again, lets see what an Islamic website says on this love when it comes to Non-Muslims (Kafirs) ! It literally tags Non-Muslims along with feces, dogs and pigs etc.
http://www.al-islam.org/ritualandspiritual/2.htm
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“Najasat” (pl. najasat) means uncleanliness, impurity.
In Islamic laws, the najasat is of two types: inherent and acquired. To differentiate between the two, a thing which is inherently unclean is known as “`ayn najis,” whereas a thing whose uncleanliness is acquired is known as “najis”. A pure thing acquires impurity by coming into contact with one of the `ayn najis. For example: blood is considered an `ayn najis, whereas milk is considered pure. Now, if a drop of blood falls into a glass of milk, the milk will become najis because of the blood which is an `ayn najis.
The plural of `ayn najis is “a`yan najisah.”
“Taharat” is opposite of “najasat,” it means cleanliness and purity.
“Tahir” is opposite of “najis,” it means a thing which is clean and pure.
B. THE A`YAN NAJISAH
(THE INHERENTLY UNCLEAN THINGS)
According to the Islamic laws, the a`yan najisah are nine in number. The nine a`yan najisah can be divided into four groups as follows:
i. Common between Men & Animal:
1. urine;
2. stool;
3. semen;
4. blood;
5. corpses;
ii. In Animals only:
6. dogs;
7. pigs;
iii. In Man only:
8. kafir;
iv. Drinks:
9. intoxicating liquids.
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@ Shaheen
Another very prominent Shi’te scholar with respect to Non-Muslims:
http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=251364&id=48&pid=2132
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107. An infidel i.e. a person who does not believe in Allah and His Oneness, is najis. Similarly, Ghulat who believe in any of the holy twelve Imams as God, or that they are incarnations of God, and Khawarij and Nawasib who express enmity towards th e holy Imams, are also najis. And similar is the case of those who deny Prophethood, or any of the necessary laws of Islam, like, namaz and fasting, which are believed by the Muslims as a part of Islam, and which they also know as such.
As regards the people of the Book (i.e. the Jews and the Christians) who do not accept the Prophethood of Prophet Muhammad bin Abdullah (Peace be upon him and his progeny), they are commonly considered najis, but it is not improbable that they are Pak. Ho wever, it is better to avoid them.
108. The entire body of a Kafir, including his hair and nails, and all liquid substances of his body, are najis.
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So much for love, huh !! Shaheen….
Srinivas sir- a sincere thanks to you for all the time and energy for giving these retards giving taste of there on medicine. Each and every word you said is right, you have not only opened Hindus,Christians,skihs,jains etc eyes, but also showed how racist islam is, hats off to you. Fundamental truth that even I have learned about muslims in india( partially true of other muslims) is these muslim compare their religion with ours and talk nonsense just to” save the world” not realizing that they are infact ” destroying the world” by not keeping their faith to themselves. These muslims cant live happily within themselves too thats why they start to immigrate to other western countries, they deliberately do not immigrate to muslim country because they are considered 3rd grade muslims and have fear of there girls much more than western countries. Western world under the name of equality do not realize what these guys do, violent Islam crime, honor killing, demand sharia islamic law, convert innocent girls by rape, kidnap, sell drugs and what not, these muslims “own” criminal network in many country, but other muslims will not say a word on it. Finally all this till world converts to islam, i pray that day never comes, and all muslims convert to Judaism.
God save the world from islam.
u mentally retarded fellow.go to mental asyllum
Hindu girls !
I am not a Hindu.
But I can say that Hindu girls do get lot of freedom from parents. I equally accept that they do not get complete freedom in choosing their life partners. I hope it changes slowly.
Why do girls have to make such decisions? You are born in to Hindu culture. It is equally your responsibility to nurture this civilization which faced massive onslaught from Islamic imperialism.
The history we studied is sanitized. Here the point is not past but future.
As I said Islam is imperialism, this is lesser word to describe, it always wants to climb on to other cultures. It can never co-exist with others on mutual respect and equal terms. It wants to dominate. With this, every rule in Islam is designed to make this domination real.
So, I suggest to Hindu girls, know a bit about Islam before you jump. Do not be fooled by Bollywood. We all have a stake in future which should be free and secular; right now Islam has become the greatest threat to freedom and peace.
If educated girls just go away like that, I am not sure how Hindu civilization will sustain itself.
If any one wants to discuss with me on this, they are most welcome.
Srinivas,
A man who has no faith neither he is a hindu nor a muslim or any other faith. Which means that he has no belief. I would just like to ask what are you doing here…..remember this is interfaith site….people who have faith. If you dont have faith then rather join some atheist website as there are plenty available.
Wow! Well said, brother.
I was born into a practicing Hindu family and was raised in the U.S. I grew up spending mass amounts of time at the temple and found many parts of the religion beautiful. Today, I am not really a practicing Hindu but expect that I will become slightly more religious as I’m older. I have avoided dating outside of my religion my entire life due to respecting my parent’s wishes as well as what you have outlined above however after dating many Hindu guys, I was not able to find someone suited for myself. It has now been 2 years since I started seeing my best friend from H.S. who comes from a Muslim background. He himself is not religious and we share equal views (be a good person and good things shall follow). We are both, kind generous and charitable. His mother is the only practicing member of the household and his parents are very accepting of our relationship. However, I know that this news will break my father’s heart but I truly believe I am making the right decision to marry my bf and would love if they could partake in my life’s decision. I believe that my parents were raised around others who were taught everything you have outlined above and so I don’t blame them for their opinion but wish that they would realize that one GOD has created each human being, and we should all coexist. I am extremely against the Islamic definition of marriage (accepting Allah as the almighty). Marriage is a sacred union of hearts and minds. Nothing about this ceremony should be forced. I was willing to do a nikkah if his parents would like us to however Islam will not recognize it as a true marriage since I will not convert so I don’t believe this will happen. My bf agrees to do the Hindu ceremony. In terms of our children, since neither I or him attend the temple or mosque I don’t believe this will be an issue however I would like to make them aware of not just these two but ALL religions and practice as they wish. If I choose to go to the mandir later in life, I will also take them with me sometimes to give them the experience. Can you please share any unbiased opinion and advice including topics of children, marriage ceremony, etc?
Reply to Puja at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4628
Divorce happens with all faiths. Muslim men are not to marry anyone other than believing Christian, Jewish or Muslim women. That means Hindu’s are out of the picture. Obviously the parents may have been open minded but got heat from relatives or society (without you knowing) that what their son did by marrying you, (a Hindu was very wrong in Islam) and you received the brunt of this upset.
It was bad parenting from the parents and bad decision making from him as he is the leader of the home when you were married.
I think what happened with you is an example of what can happen too often when Muslims are not following the rules to the, “T” and rather follow their hearts desires and whims. Divorce is painful. Your advice is truthful and a reality of what should be well understood but as the heart is the leader rather than the mind so is the outcome.
In most societies we never hear of the Muslim marrying other faiths, but I guess with the spread of Islam in India this is the result of Islam growing rapidly in an area where it was once predominately Hindu or Buddest.
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Yeah, in Muslim societies, they just kidnap infidel girls.
Dear Roma,
“A Hindu girl cannot live with a Muslim boy” or vice versa, is a harsh statement and too generalized. A lot of my family members are married to Hindus and ironically the ones who are divorced were married to Muslims.
The upper class Indians, whether Hindus or Muslms have a similar life style. They are not entrenched in dogmatic beliefs and are accepting of others. Therefore an interfaith marriage has much higher odds of working out among them.
You have suffered, and hopefully, you will meet someone who will love you for who you are.
WELL SAID, SEEMA